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Aaj kal ki nasal jo hai woh har cheez ko nagitive ke tor pe le rahi hai, halanke in ke paas kuch aqal bhi hoti hai jaante bhi hein ke kiya sahi hai kiya nahein magar baat wohi aati hai ke har buri cheez mein aik " attraction" hai jo insaan ko khenchti hai.Jis ka emaan kamzor ho woh shaitan ki changle mein buri tarh phans jaata hai aur result yeh niklata hai ke larka ho ya larki aik dusre ko "impress" karne ke chakar mein movies mein jo tareeqey hote hein unhein apna lete hein
Har cheez ke do rukh hote hein acha aur bura......Jo bewaqoof aur aqal se paidal hein woh burai aur dusrun ki baatun pe emaan la ke aankh band kar ke chal parte hein aur jo aqalmand ya hoshmand hein woh thora sochte hein dekhte bhaalte hein aur achi tarah har point ko mad-e-nazar rakhte huwe chalte hein yeh woh log hein jo islam ke mutabiq chalte hoon aur jo islam ke mutabiq anhein chalte woh gumrahi mein ja girte hein...
aaja kal ki nasal ka yeh haal hai ke unhein yeh nahein pata ke islam kiya? is ka kon zemedaar hai? yehi naa in ke maan baap jo khud nahein batate is liye ke inhein khud nahein pata ..in ke maan baap ko to bas apni apni masrufiyaat aziz hein ( un logun ki bata kar rahi hoon jo bohat ameer aur bigre huwe rais hote hein jo hara tarah ka fashion aur parties waghera arrange karte hein)
Phir bhi Phir Bhi yaar mein yehi kahungi ke aik laathi se ham sab ko nahein haank sakte ...kahein na kahein phir bhi achey log hote hein bas in ki tadaad aate mein namak ke barabar hoti hai ...........mere paas bohat si misaalein hein aur bhi bohat kuch hai mind mein jo kuch dekhti hoon aur mushaide se jo mein samajh paati hoon to bara afsos hota hai mein yehan apna sara gubaar nikaalna bhi chahun t to bhi pages kam par jaayin
Aaj ghusa chara huwa hai mujhye be his inssnun pe
kiyun ke aaj phir mein ne aik 12 sala bachey ko phool bechtey huwe dekh liya hai ..kiya us ka haq nahein kiya woh nahein chahata ke woh dusre bachun ke saath school jaye magar afsos mein kuch nahein kar sakti very bad..taf hai mujh par ..mujhye maut kiyun anhein aajati yeh sab dekhne se 
Sorry yaar mein kuch ziyadah hi.........leki yeh sach hai sab ko is karwi sach ko maana hoga bash
Aaj kal ki nasal jo hai woh har cheez ko nagitive ke tor pe le rahi hai, halanke in ke paas kuch aqal bhi hoti hai jaante bhi hein ke kiya sahi hai kiya nahein magar baat wohi aati hai ke har buri cheez mein aik " attraction" hai jo insaan ko khenchti hai.Jis ka emaan kamzor ho woh shaitan ki changle mein buri tarh phans jaata hai aur result yeh niklata hai ke larka ho ya larki aik dusre ko "impress" karne ke chakar mein movies mein jo tareeqey hote hein unhein apna lete hein Har cheez ke do rukh hote hein acha aur bura......Jo bewaqoof aur aqal se paidal hein woh burai aur dusrun ki baatun pe emaan la ke aankh band kar ke chal parte hein aur jo aqalmand ya hoshmand hein woh thora sochte hein dekhte bhaalte hein aur achi tarah har point ko mad-e-nazar rakhte huwe chalte hein yeh woh log hein jo islam ke mutabiq chalte hoon aur jo islam ke mutabiq anhein chalte woh gumrahi mein ja girte hein...
aaja kal ki nasal ka yeh haal hai ke unhein yeh nahein pata ke islam kiya? is ka kon zemedaar hai? yehi naa in ke maan baap jo khud nahein batate is liye ke inhein khud nahein pata ..in ke maan baap ko to bas apni apni masrufiyaat aziz hein ( un logun ki bata kar rahi hoon jo bohat ameer aur bigre huwe rais hote hein jo hara tarah ka fashion aur parties waghera arrange karte hein)
Phir bhi Phir Bhi yaar mein yehi kahungi ke aik laathi se ham sab ko nahein haank sakte ...kahein na kahein phir bhi achey log hote hein bas in ki tadaad aate mein namak ke barabar hoti hai ...........mere paas bohat si misaalein hein aur bhi bohat kuch hai mind mein jo kuch dekhti hoon aur mushaide se jo mein samajh paati hoon to bara afsos hota hai mein yehan apna sara gubaar nikaalna bhi chahun t to bhi pages kam par jaayin
Aaj ghusa chara huwa hai mujhye be his inssnun pe
kiyun ke aaj phir mein ne aik 12 sala bachey ko phool bechtey huwe dekh liya hai ..kiya us ka haq nahein kiya woh nahein chahata ke woh dusre bachun ke saath school jaye magar afsos mein kuch nahein kar sakti very bad..taf hai mujh par ..mujhye maut kiyun anhein aajati yeh sab dekhne se Sorry yaar mein kuch ziyadah hi.........leki yeh sach hai sab ko is karwi sach ko maana hoga bash
new nasal ki bay raah ravi ki aik basic reason .... generation gap hai ... aur generation gap paida hota hai late marriage say ... late marriage ki soorat maiN jab bachchay jawaan hotay hain to parents booRhay, retired ho chukay hotay haiN aur woh jismani o aqli taqat o quwwat say bharpoor new nasal ko control karnay say qasir rahtay haiN. aur 'taqat' jab bhi uncontrolled hoti hai to tabahi o barbaadi hi laati hai.
ab aap zara waqt ka pahiyya ulaT kar to dekhaiN. 18-20 baras ki omar maiN shadi honay ki soorat maiN aulaad jab jawaan, taqatwar, josh o jazbay say bharpoor hoti hai (15-20) to maaN baap zeyadah say zeyadah 40 saal k hotay haiN. jinn maiN josh o jazbah to tham chuka hota hai lekin zindagi k peak par hotay haiN. maidaanay amal maiN active hoay haiN. barsaray rozgaar hotay haiN. iqtesadi taur par mazoor naheeN hotay.... aisay taqatwe parents ki nigrani maiN kia majaal hai k bachchay apni man maani kartay howay bigaR jayaiN.... woh 'majbooran' parents ki maantya haiN.... aur jab jawaan apni salahiyyatouN, ilm, aqal, tawanayee ko parents ki advice k motabiq use karengay to nah to woh bay raah houngay balkay apnay parents say bhi zeyadah aur behtar out put dengay....
kash k waqt ka pahiyya ulaT jaye aur hum islami taleemat k ain motabiq bar waqt apnay kidz ki marriage karnay par ijtemayee taur par agree hojayaiN.
ab aap zara waqt ka pahiyya ulaT kar to dekhaiN. 18-20 baras ki omar maiN shadi honay ki soorat maiN aulaad jab jawaan, taqatwar, josh o jazbay say bharpoor hoti hai (15-20) to maaN baap zeyadah say zeyadah 40 saal k hotay haiN. jinn maiN josh o jazbah to tham chuka hota hai lekin zindagi k peak par hotay haiN. maidaanay amal maiN active hoay haiN. barsaray rozgaar hotay haiN. iqtesadi taur par mazoor naheeN hotay.... aisay taqatwe parents ki nigrani maiN kia majaal hai k bachchay apni man maani kartay howay bigaR jayaiN.... woh 'majbooran' parents ki maantya haiN.... aur jab jawaan apni salahiyyatouN, ilm, aqal, tawanayee ko parents ki advice k motabiq use karengay to nah to woh bay raah houngay balkay apnay parents say bhi zeyadah aur behtar out put dengay....
kash k waqt ka pahiyya ulaT jaye aur hum islami taleemat k ain motabiq bar waqt apnay kidz ki marriage karnay par ijtemayee taur par agree hojayaiN.
QUOTE(smartleo @ Dec 3 2006, 12:33 AM) 
Isi baat ka to rona hai
Aaj kal ki nasal jo hai woh har cheez ko nagitive ke tor pe le rahi hai, halanke in ke paas kuch aqal bhi hoti hai jaante bhi hein ke kiya sahi hai kiya nahein magar baat wohi aati hai ke har buri cheez mein aik " attraction" hai jo insaan ko khenchti hai.Jis ka emaan kamzor ho woh shaitan ki changle mein buri tarh phans jaata hai aur result yeh niklata hai ke larka ho ya larki aik dusre ko "impress" karne ke chakar mein movies mein jo tareeqey hote hein unhein apna lete hein Har cheez ke do rukh hote hein acha aur bura......Jo bewaqoof aur aqal se paidal hein woh burai aur dusrun ki baatun pe emaan la ke aankh band kar ke chal parte hein aur jo aqalmand ya hoshmand hein woh thora sochte hein dekhte bhaalte hein aur achi tarah har point ko mad-e-nazar rakhte huwe chalte hein yeh woh log hein jo islam ke mutabiq chalte hoon aur jo islam ke mutabiq anhein chalte woh gumrahi mein ja girte hein...
aaja kal ki nasal ka yeh haal hai ke unhein yeh nahein pata ke islam kiya? is ka kon zemedaar hai? yehi naa in ke maan baap jo khud nahein batate is liye ke inhein khud nahein pata ..in ke maan baap ko to bas apni apni masrufiyaat aziz hein ( un logun ki bata kar rahi hoon jo bohat ameer aur bigre huwe rais hote hein jo hara tarah ka fashion aur parties waghera arrange karte hein)
Phir bhi Phir Bhi yaar mein yehi kahungi ke aik laathi se ham sab ko nahein haank sakte ...kahein na kahein phir bhi achey log hote hein bas in ki tadaad aate mein namak ke barabar hoti hai ...........mere paas bohat si misaalein hein aur bhi bohat kuch hai mind mein jo kuch dekhti hoon aur mushaide se jo mein samajh paati hoon to bara afsos hota hai mein yehan apna sara gubaar nikaalna bhi chahun t to bhi pages kam par jaayin
Aaj ghusa chara huwa hai mujhye be his inssnun pe
kiyun ke aaj phir mein ne aik 12 sala bachey ko phool bechtey huwe dekh liya hai ..kiya us ka haq nahein kiya woh nahein chahata ke woh dusre bachun ke saath school jaye magar afsos mein kuch nahein kar sakti very bad..taf hai mujh par ..mujhye maut kiyun anhein aajati yeh sab dekhne se Sorry yaar mein kuch ziyadah hi.........leki yeh sach hai sab ko is karwi sach ko maana hoga bash
Assalam-o-Alaikum
Its nice to see u here
Haan ap ka kehna theek hai ke new generation ke aise attitude ke zimmedar parents hain ... kon maan baap chahian ge ke unki aulad ikhlaqiyat se aari ho aur is tarah ki na shaista qism ki batoon main mubtala ho .. lekin un bachon ko itni man mani ki ijazat bhi to parents hi detey hain.... toka nahi jata in baton per balkey fakhar kiya jata hai .. khush hua jata hai
Aj kal har doosrey bandey ki zaban se aise lafaz sunney ko miltey hain aur is ko apni SHAAN samjha jata hai jaise koi buhat bara kaarnaam sar anjam de diya
Mere apne mushahidey main aisi families hain jin ke bachey to kiya un ke parents bhi mazaq main hi sahi lekin yeh sab words use main laatey hain ... to phir un ke bachhon se kaisi tawaqqa ki ja sakti hai jab un ka mahol hi is tarah ka hoga to 
Thanks for sharing ur views
QUOTE(Abu Adnan @ Dec 3 2006, 07:49 AM)
new nasal ki bay raah ravi ki aik basic reason .... generation gap hai ... aur generation gap paida hota hai late marriage say ... late marriage ki soorat maiN jab bachchay jawaan hotay hain to parents booRhay, retired ho chukay hotay haiN aur woh jismani o aqli taqat o quwwat say bharpoor new nasal ko control karnay say qasir rahtay haiN. aur 'taqat' jab bhi uncontrolled hoti hai to tabahi o barbaadi hi laati hai.
ab aap zara waqt ka pahiyya ulaT kar to dekhaiN. 18-20 baras ki omar maiN shadi honay ki soorat maiN aulaad jab jawaan, taqatwar, josh o jazbay say bharpoor hoti hai (15-20) to maaN baap zeyadah say zeyadah 40 saal k hotay haiN. jinn maiN josh o jazbah to tham chuka hota hai lekin zindagi k peak par hotay haiN. maidaanay amal maiN active hoay haiN. barsaray rozgaar hotay haiN. iqtesadi taur par mazoor naheeN hotay.... aisay taqatwe parents ki nigrani maiN kia majaal hai k bachchay apni man maani kartay howay bigaR jayaiN.... woh 'majbooran' parents ki maantya haiN.... aur jab jawaan apni salahiyyatouN, ilm, aqal, tawanayee ko parents ki advice k motabiq use karengay to nah to woh bay raah houngay balkay apnay parents say bhi zeyadah aur behtar out put dengay....
kash k waqt ka pahiyya ulaT jaye aur hum islami taleemat k ain motabiq bar waqt apnay kidz ki marriage karnay par ijtemayee taur par agree hojayaiN.
Assalam-o-Alaikum
Jee yeh bhi aik important point hai aise attitude ka ..... ke agar maan baap kabhi tokain bhi to un ko yeh keh diya jata hai ap ko nahi pata kuch
Magar ab jabke yeh riwaj kam hi reh gaya hai to halaat ke mutabiq koi hal to hona chaiyye na
QUOTE(seemaf @ Dec 4 2006, 01:01 PM)
Assalam-o-Alaikum
Its nice to see u here
Haan ap ka kehna theek hai ke new generation ke aise attitude ke zimmedar parents hain ... kon maan baap chahian ge ke unki aulad ikhlaqiyat se aari ho aur is tarah ki na shaista qism ki batoon main mubtala ho .. lekin un bachon ko itni man mani ki ijazat bhi to parents hi detey hain.... toka nahi jata in baton per balkey fakhar kiya jata hai .. khush hua jata hai
Aj kal har doosrey bandey ki zaban se aise lafaz sunney ko miltey hain aur is ko apni SHAAN samjha jata hai jaise koi buhat bara kaarnaam sar anjam de diya
Mere apne mushahidey main aisi families hain jin ke bachey to kiya un ke parents bhi mazaq main hi sahi lekin yeh sab words use main laatey hain ... to phir un ke bachhon se kaisi tawaqqa ki ja sakti hai jab un ka mahol hi is tarah ka hoga to Thanks for sharing ur views
I agreed totally 100%
Mein kuch aur bhi kahena chahungi aur kaheti rahungi roz aik post kar ke so don't mind
Maan baap hoon ya bara koi buzurg....in ka koi milne wala aajaye to bohat hi personal baatein bhi discuss karte hein maslan koi bahu ki burai kar raha hai koi saas ki kar raha , falan falan ki woh baatein kahi ja rahi hein jab ke us ne mana bhi kiya ho ke nahein batana magar ....aik to is tarah gheebat ooper se apni saari naikiyan un ko de rahe hein jin ki burai kar rahe hein ..yeh sab baatein ho bhi rahi hein to koi bacha aa bhi jaaye to un se yeh seekhta hai woh wohi karta hai jo bare kar rahe hote hein bari behn, bara bhai, bare buzurg ya maan baap ..wohi sab karte hein magar aik baat vare afsos se kaheni parti hai ab kuch khawateen aik room mein apni bharaas nikal rahi hein to sochein aise mein koi 12 ya 13 14 baras ke bache aajayin chalein koi bhi umr ho magar kuch baatein aisi hoti hein jo bachun ke saamne karne waali anhein bhi hotin magar yeh log karte jaate hein aur phir yehi bachey zahir hai gali mein har kisi ke ghar to jaate hi hein kiyun ke un ke dost hote hein aur dost ki maan ho ya baap bachey se pochte aik sawal hein aur bacha poori detail se bata de ga baaz log to us ko khaane wali cheez le ke piyar se har baat ugalwa lete hein yun aik baat aik ghar se ho ke dusre ghar jaati hai yun aag ki tarah baat pehel jaati hai aur jab pehelti hai to zahir hai kisi ko ura bhi lage ga ke falan ne mere baare mein aisa waisa kaha to ji ho janyinge larne marne ko tiyaar
aur yeh ziyadah tar khawateen mein hota hai Mujhey sakhti chir hai idhar ki baat udhar karne mein haan yeh hai ke apni best freind se har baat kahe deti hoon baaqi se us ke level ke mutabiq karti hoon........jo nahein batanae wali nahein karti aur batane waali ho to bata deti hoon ..... aaj ke liye itna theek hai..
baaqi kal..tab tak is baat pe log gaur karen kiya ham khawateen theek kar rahi hein yeh sab??? 
QUOTE(smartleo @ Dec 6 2006, 07:57 PM)
I agreed totally 100%
Mein kuch aur bhi kahena chahungi aur kaheti rahungi roz aik post kar ke so don't mind
Maan baap hoon ya bara koi buzurg....in ka koi milne wala aajaye to bohat hi personal baatein bhi discuss karte hein maslan koi bahu ki burai kar raha hai koi saas ki kar raha , falan falan ki woh baatein kahi ja rahi hein jab ke us ne mana bhi kiya ho ke nahein batana magar ....aik to is tarah gheebat ooper se apni saari naikiyan un ko de rahe hein jin ki burai kar rahe hein ..yeh sab baatein ho bhi rahi hein to koi bacha aa bhi jaaye to un se yeh seekhta hai woh wohi karta hai jo bare kar rahe hote hein bari behn, bara bhai, bare buzurg ya maan baap ..wohi sab karte hein magar aik baat vare afsos se kaheni parti hai ab kuch khawateen aik room mein apni bharaas nikal rahi hein to sochein aise mein koi 12 ya 13 14 baras ke bache aajayin chalein koi bhi umr ho magar kuch baatein aisi hoti hein jo bachun ke saamne karne waali anhein bhi hotin magar yeh log karte jaate hein aur phir yehi bachey zahir hai gali mein har kisi ke ghar to jaate hi hein kiyun ke un ke dost hote hein aur dost ki maan ho ya baap bachey se pochte aik sawal hein aur bacha poori detail se bata de ga baaz log to us ko khaane wali cheez le ke piyar se har baat ugalwa lete hein yun aik baat aik ghar se ho ke dusre ghar jaati hai yun aag ki tarah baat pehel jaati hai aur jab pehelti hai to zahir hai kisi ko ura bhi lage ga ke falan ne mere baare mein aisa waisa kaha to ji ho janyinge larne marne ko tiyaar
aur yeh ziyadah tar khawateen mein hota hai Mujhey sakhti chir hai idhar ki baat udhar karne mein haan yeh hai ke apni best freind se har baat kahe deti hoon baaqi se us ke level ke mutabiq karti hoon........jo nahein batanae wali nahein karti aur batane waali ho to bata deti hoon ..... aaj ke liye itna theek hai..
baaqi kal..tab tak is baat pe log gaur karen kiya ham khawateen theek kar rahi hein yeh sab??? why i mind it
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