Assalam o alaikum


koi aisi advice jo aapke zehen mein utarti chali gayi ho aur zindigi ke shab o roz mein aapke liye kaaraamad saabit hui ho.


" andar ka khauf chehre par naheen ana chahiye,always put a brave face"


waiting for your input,do share
thankyou

Salaam Behna

Waalid.e.Marhoom ne yeh qissa baar.ha hamaiN sunnaya keh voh bachpan meiN apne mohalle meiN khail rahe the. Aik faqeer awaazaiN lagata howa wahaan aa gaya keh koi bhooke ko khaana khilaa dey. Yeh naiki ke josh meiN mohalle ke aik ghar meiN pohanch gaey keh khaala faqeer bhooka hai kuch khaane ko di dijiay .. un khatooN ne inki shakal daikhi aur dou rootiyouN per saalan daal kar inhaiN dey diya aur inhooN ne faqeer ko woh rooti aur saalan dey diya.

Shaam ko baite ne naiki ke kaam ka zikr apne waalid se kiya .. unhooN ne jawaab meiN sirf yeh poocha keh baita bheek kis ne maaNgi aur mili kis ko? Faqeer ki awaaz yaqeenan mohalle meiN gharooN ke andar bhi sab ko pohanch rahi hogi? Agar faqeer ko kuch deyna he maqsood tha tu apne ghar se ley jaa kar daite.

buzurgon ki baat hi kya.
ham unke fehm o adraak ka muqaabla naheen kar sakte
shukriya Khalish bhai aur bhi share kijiye ga,accha mehsoos hota hai puraane qisse sunkar/parhkar.They make a lot of sense.

i know,bahot durust tajziya hai aapki saheli ka
ehsaan to reh jata hai.
hamko roz marrah ki zindigi mein advice ke taur par bahot kaam ki baatein aur bahot gehri baatein sunne ko milti hain.

shukriya for participating
khush rahiye

Buhat hi achhi Post hai ap ki ... Yaqeenan is se buhat kuch seekhney ko miley ga ham sab ko

Here is from My side:

"Never take any decision when you r Angry and Never Make any promise when you r Happy"

wa alaikum salaam
awww i do that a lot
main to khush hoti hoon to promises kar leti hoon josh mein,ab seekh rahi hoon ke har mood mein apne upar qabu rakhoon,reasoning karoon aur phir action loon

thankyou

Walikum Salam ShafaQ
hamesha ki tarah great topic

aap nein jo advise share ki
thats also great.....

barey hamesha har baat pey advise kartey hein
aur har advise aik daM correct hotti hai
Mein itniii hairan hotti hun
unn k pass har baat ka knowledge hota hai

yeh...thats true

Well said Seemaf

always be Sincere even When You don't Mean it

good one haya
lekin "mean sincere" se aapki kya muraad hai,kya yeh matlab hai ke "we should Look sincere?
sorry kabhi kabhi gehri baatein hamari samajhh mein naheen aateen aur acchee cheezon ke samajhhne ka shauq bahot hai

My parents always say 2 me"hamaisha such bolo".
when i was in junior school i talked a lllloooootttt .they said to me"thoora bolo but acha bolo aur fazool batain bhi na karo".it is really helping me now in real life.
I read somewhere"kam aur acha bolnay wala zaheen hota hay".

meray walid sahib nay eak baar mujhay kaha tha,

" duniya maiN kuch log apnay liya nahi laR saktay, ya apni zaroorataiN puri nahi ker saktay, hamesha aisay logooN key madad karo"


"raat ko sonay say pehlay apnay din ka ja'iza lo, aur dekho kitnay aisay kaam kiya haiN jis per khush ho sako aur kitnay aisay kiya haiN jis per nadamat ho"

Its not that We Should just look sincere..We should `be´ sincere
Sincere ka Matlab hai Mukhlis
true feelings......
got that ?

Exactly

All advices are superb...

One from my side..

"Be good to others, they will good too."

hmmm thora bolo,,accha bolo,,fuzool na bolo

bahot acchee aur practical advice hai aur zindigi bhar aapke kaam aayegi.

aur share karne ka dili shukriya aaminah

ji bilkul

what goes around comes around
ya
jaisa bo o ge waisa kaatoge

ya

kabhi bhool kar kisi ne na karo sulook aisa
ke jo koi tumse karta tumhein nagawaar hota

thanks for participating

ji haya
sincere ka matlab samajjhti hoon
woh aapne likha tha "when you don't mean it" woh samamjhh mein naheen aa raha hai
quote bahot accha hai isliye poora saamjhhna chah rahi thee

aapke waalid saheb ki waasse'un nazari ka suboot a good good advice




ji bilkul,apna muhaasibah karna to haamra farz hai,lekin ham saara din duniya ko nubhaate/nipat te ,uske taqaazon ko poora karte karte itna exhaust ho jaate hain ke bistar par jaate hi so jaate hain


thanks for coming on the post

My baba gave me a word called SINCERITY. He said, ''apply it in all aspects of your life and you will succeed and even at time when you don't you will at least have no regrets''.

Ami nay hamesha yehi samjhaya hay kay, ''apnay may itnay gunn honay chahiye kay zamana tumharay peechay aye na kay tum zamanay kay peechay''.

How truly wise seemaf behna

No pronblem phir Samjha detti hun dear

kabhi kabhi hum Sirf apney Matlab k liye sincere hotey hien
apney friends k sath,parents k sath,loved one k sath

laikin isska Matlab hai....k humin har kisi k sath sincere hona chahiye
humin uss sey koi Matlab ho ya na ho...

waah aapke baba ne kya behtareen baat aapko bataayi.ek baat to hai sincerity jaisa virtue agar ham mein hain to, sila mile ya na mile, mutmaeen to rehte hain


ammi ki baat bhi bahot gehri hai magar har mein itne gun kahan se aayein,hard hai na
phir bhi try to be your best and always put your best foot forward.

awww i got it now,how sweet
thankyou haya
khush rahein

u r welcome.
And some more,
when i was in 8th i teased 1 of my friend on her physical and she said 2 me"doosron ko kehnay say pehlay apnay daman main zaroor ghank lena chahyee".i will never forget this in my whole life coz i got realization with my own experience and experience is like gold.And after that i m very careful.this also shows that don't hurt others feelings.
And also this 1"mun say nikli hui baat kaman say niklay huay teer ki tarah hay so 1st think then say or speak.(4m my real life experiences )

haan yeh to hai doosron ko kabhi kucch na kaho,hota kyeh hai ke ham khalq e Khuda ko kahein to baat direct Khaaliq e Kainat par jaati hai,pehle main bhi jo jaisa hai keh deti thee ya yeh ke main fulaan se behtar hoon etc etc,ab sochti hoon mujhhse bada bewaqoof koi naheen tha.
Allah ka karam hai ke improvement hai.


aur guftugu bhi waqai naap tol ke karo
pehle tolo phir bolo

apne liye bhi accha aur apne atraaf walon ke liye bhi.
yunbhi agar kisi ko bura na kaha jaaye kabhi bhi,to zehn o zameer hamesha ke liye bahot mutameen ho jata hai,MAY Allah guide us Ameen.

perfect

aapko accha laga meri mehnat wusool hui