Jealousy

Jealousy is a disease of the heart. It is, perhaps, one of the oldest problems of human beings.

Causes of Jealousy

1-Enmity: One has animosity for a person or group and does not want to see anything good happen to that person or group.

2-Ambition: It hurts a person to see someone else ahead or above him/her.

3-Pride and Arrogance: When a person is self conceited and arrogant, he/she feels very jealous to see anyone else going ahead or doing better.

4-Astonishment: Some time a person feels astonished that another person could do better than him/her. He/she feels surprised: 'How come that person became so rich, so successful, so popular, etc.?'

5-Fear: Fear that if another person would have such and such thing, then he/she may not have it.

6-Desire for power and prestige: Sometimes a person becomes jealous because he/she want to make one great by putting others down.

7-Evil nature and avarice of the heart: Some people just do not like to see others happy. They want to see the whole world in misery and difficulty except their own selves.

Normally jealousy occurs among people who know each other. It happens among siblings, among family members, people of the same profession and age.

"Do not be jealous of each other, do not boycott each other, do not hate each other, do not contrive against each other. Be all of you brothers to each other.

Jealousy is war against Allah.

All praises and thanks be to Allah, Lord of everything that exists. The most Gracious, the Most Merciful. Master of the Day of Judgment You (alone) we worship, and You (alone) we ask for help.Guide us to the Straight Way The Way of of those on whom You have bestowed Your Grace, not (the way) of those who earned Your Anger, nor those who went astray. Ameen

Aik acha mazmoon

Jahan Ferq hota hey wahan mehroomi hoti hey or jahan mehroomi wahan yeah bimari aik podhey ki tarah perwan chertii hey jis per nafret ka phal lagta hey

Ksyun na ferq ko mita diya jaey MERA TERA khatem ker diya jaey

Faheem bohat khobsorat aur achi baat ki hey aap ne derasal yeh sab nateja hi apus meyn tafreq rakhne ki wajah se peda hota hey....

Kabhi apney liey doa kertey kertey hamarey liey bhi doa ker dijiye ga
mein samaj lun Allah Tallah ki khas inayet sey ham donon mein Mera Tera Khatam ho gaya

a thought provkn post jee
keep it up...

jelousy: leads to murder sometimes. bach ke rehna chahiye hamain

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waqai yeh jealousy bohat barri burai hay ........iss ki waja say hum aik insan kay baray mein negative jazbaat ka shikar ho jatay hain........aur yeh aag doosray ko bhi nuqsan pohanchanay ka sabab banti hay aur iss say banda khud bhi gunahgaar banta hay
Allah Talah hum sab ko iss burai say mehfooz rakhay
haan kisi say inspire ho kar apni performance ko improve karna aik positive cheez hay ....yeh initiative deti hay kay banda mehnat ki taraf jata hay

bilkul sahi kaha ...

aik hota hai hasad krna aur doosra rashk krna
rashk is posotive which drives a person to be like the man he likes !
hasad is negative word ... which burns everything ..
hadees mai hai k .. hasad naikion ko ese kha jata hai jese aag lakri ko (i think ese hi hai)

Thanks for appriciating janab
bilkul main bhi yehi kehna chah raha tha .........aap nay aur bhi wazahat kar di
aur hadees sharif ka mafhoom bhi yehi hay jo aap nay bataya
Allah humein iss say mehfooz rakhay Aamin