Thanx for sharing ur views.Full Version: Muhabbat Kya Hai ?
lolz....... good replies Thanx for sharing ur views.
Thanx for sharing ur views.
Ek baat kehna Chahon gi yahan ......
Aur woh ye ke Mohabbat ka Lafz likhne aur kehne mein jitna khoobsorat hay, Asal mein ye Utna hi Mushkil kaam hay, mohabbat sirf Bare dil wale kar sakte hain, Bare dil wale is liye keh rahi hoon ke Mohabbat mein aap ko sirf aur sirf Apne Chahne wale ki khushi dekhni parti hay ...... Aap ko ussi ki Khushi mein khushi milti hay .... Aur aaj kal jo kuch ho raha hay Shayad hi koi ho ja Sirf 1 din nahi 2 din nahi 10 saal nahi ...balke sari Omer apni Kissi ki khushnudi mein Guzaar de...
Yahan mujhe Apna ek sher yaad aaraha hay ke...
Pyar, Mohabbat, Ishq, junoon, Pehle Doar Ki Baten Hain
Jis ko pooja Ab loogon ne, Woh to Buss maya Tha..
Am not saying ke sachi Mohabbat aaj kal nahi milti Lekin Dikhti bhi to nahi ....... Kyon ke sari zindagi ka Roag kon le is Computer dunya mein
Aur woh ye ke Mohabbat ka Lafz likhne aur kehne mein jitna khoobsorat hay, Asal mein ye Utna hi Mushkil kaam hay, mohabbat sirf Bare dil wale kar sakte hain, Bare dil wale is liye keh rahi hoon ke Mohabbat mein aap ko sirf aur sirf Apne Chahne wale ki khushi dekhni parti hay ...... Aap ko ussi ki Khushi mein khushi milti hay .... Aur aaj kal jo kuch ho raha hay Shayad hi koi ho ja Sirf 1 din nahi 2 din nahi 10 saal nahi ...balke sari Omer apni Kissi ki khushnudi mein Guzaar de...
Yahan mujhe Apna ek sher yaad aaraha hay ke...
Pyar, Mohabbat, Ishq, junoon, Pehle Doar Ki Baten Hain
Jis ko pooja Ab loogon ne, Woh to Buss maya Tha..
Am not saying ke sachi Mohabbat aaj kal nahi milti Lekin Dikhti bhi to nahi ....... Kyon ke sari zindagi ka Roag kon le is Computer dunya mein
nice sharing.
QUOTE(Bore Na Kar @ Sep 20 2007, 03:32 AM) [snapback]2483302[/snapback]
Muhabbat kya hai? Muhabbat kisay kehtay hain? Kya sirf kisi ka achha lagna hi muhabbat hai?
note: Please no poetic answers, just tell in your own words, what u think of it.
note: Please no poetic answers, just tell in your own words, what u think of it.
Mohabbat bahut hi paak rishta hia.. its true kisi ki care karna kisi ko samjhna kisi ke liye qurbani dena.. jise mohabbat hoti hia ya to uski zindagi sanwar jati hia ya to bigarh jati hia.. or yeh sab humare apne hath main hi hota hia.. kese banana or kese bigarhna hia..
thanx for taking part and sharing some nice thoughts
QUOTE(tenha_saima @ Sep 21 2007, 05:49 AM) [snapback]2484725[/snapback]waisse jitna ap likhte ho .. ap ka keyboard to har 2nd month chnage hota ho ga ..
agreed wid da guyz part n sumwat agreement on galz part too ... but sum galz r juz too hard to b made stupid.. ( take mah wrd for it !!)
nice reply...
wonderful,,
Yani u wanna say k asal muhabat majbori ya zabardasti nai ho sakti :p wese i dont think k mene muhabat ki koi aur kisam btayi, jo duniya ka dastoor hy wohi pesh kia tha :d
Most of the people here agree k muhababt majbori se nai ho sakti, ye humdardi type ki koi chez ho sakti hy bus.
Then what about arranged marriages. Apko ek aisi larki se ya larkiyun ko aik aise larkay se pyar aur muhabat k liye kaha jata hy jise wo janti tak nahi hoti, un dono k pas koi choice nai hoti sivaye iskay k wo ek dosray ko "majbori" se qabol kr k zabardasti us k liye dil mein muhabat paida krein, ya ye sirf compromise hota hy? whats ur thoughts on it :d
ji ALLAH ne mard ko 4 shadiaon ki ijzata di hai but wo baar baar muhabat kerky kerny ko nahi kaha wo to bewaa yateem aur kaneeezoon k saath kerny ki ijzata de thii . wo bhi ager insaaf ker sakeen to jo kah ap ki jaan per bhari hai.
es ka matlab hergiz yeh nahi hai kah mard aik waqt main jitny chahye ishq chala sakta hai..
2nd baat muhabt kerna wife se
ji shaadi aik samjhota hi hai bewi k saath zarurat ka rishta hota hai .ager Bewi achi khiaal rakhny wali .muhabt kerny wali cooperative to khud ba khud hi us ki khobion k wajah se us k liay dil main muhabat piada ho jati hai, otherwise ap ko asi examples bhi milian gi jahan husband wife ki shakal bhi dekhna pasand nahi kerta just guzara kerta hai, waqt paas kerta hai shaadi just aik samjhota hi ban k rah jati hai
like insaan ko zinda rahny k liay INSULINE ki zarurat hoti hai but wo us se muahabt nahi kerta ,smoking ki adat hoti hai but us ko pasand nahi kerta same way main bewi ki zarurat hoti hai adat hoti hai but wo us se muahabt nahi kerta. so yeh wofe per depend kerta hai kah wo kis tarah appny Hubby ka dil jittti hai.keep in mind Love and physical relationship main buht faraq hota hai.
Most of the people here agree k muhababt majbori se nai ho sakti, ye humdardi type ki koi chez ho sakti hy bus.
Then what about arranged marriages. Apko ek aisi larki se ya larkiyun ko aik aise larkay se pyar aur muhabat k liye kaha jata hy jise wo janti tak nahi hoti, un dono k pas koi choice nai hoti sivaye iskay k wo ek dosray ko "majbori" se qabol kr k zabardasti us k liye dil mein muhabat paida krein, ya ye sirf compromise hota hy? whats ur thoughts on it :d
ji ALLAH ne mard ko 4 shadiaon ki ijzata di hai but wo baar baar muhabat kerky kerny ko nahi kaha wo to bewaa yateem aur kaneeezoon k saath kerny ki ijzata de thii . wo bhi ager insaaf ker sakeen to jo kah ap ki jaan per bhari hai.
es ka matlab hergiz yeh nahi hai kah mard aik waqt main jitny chahye ishq chala sakta hai..
2nd baat muhabt kerna wife se
ji shaadi aik samjhota hi hai bewi k saath zarurat ka rishta hota hai .ager Bewi achi khiaal rakhny wali .muhabt kerny wali cooperative to khud ba khud hi us ki khobion k wajah se us k liay dil main muhabat piada ho jati hai, otherwise ap ko asi examples bhi milian gi jahan husband wife ki shakal bhi dekhna pasand nahi kerta just guzara kerta hai, waqt paas kerta hai shaadi just aik samjhota hi ban k rah jati hai
like insaan ko zinda rahny k liay INSULINE ki zarurat hoti hai but wo us se muahabt nahi kerta ,smoking ki adat hoti hai but us ko pasand nahi kerta same way main bewi ki zarurat hoti hai adat hoti hai but wo us se muahabt nahi kerta. so yeh wofe per depend kerta hai kah wo kis tarah appny Hubby ka dil jittti hai.keep in mind Love and physical relationship main buht faraq hota hai.
thek keh rhi ho aap hadeea, thanx for ur reply.
mai saray replies parhnay k baad rep karou ga .. hopefully i'll get time
QUOTE(Bore Na Kar @ Sep 21 2007, 02:27 AM) [snapback]2484511[/snapback]
My next and probably last Question.
Kya Muhabbat zabardasti ya majboori se b ho sakti hy ??
Kya Muhabbat zabardasti ya majboori se b ho sakti hy ??
ehehehe .. agr larki ameer hai .. aur ugly hai to phir mohabbat zabardasti krni parti hai ..
.. kidding
QUOTE(Sharabi_Eyes @ Sep 20 2007, 11:31 PM) [snapback]2484365[/snapback]
muhabbat is a vast subject to discuss.. but yeah.. remaining inside the bounds of the proposed discussion which is muhabbat between a girl and a guy.. ill answer here..
for a guy:
jab aik larka apney bachpaney mein hota hai.. uss waqt muhabbat aik khayal hota hai..
jab wo thora bhara hota hai.. tu wo aik feeling ban na start hoti hai..
uss waqt uss ko samajh nahi ata ke ye kiya feeling hai.. aur phir uss ke samney muhabbat ke buhat sarey phases a jatey hein.. like flirt, jazbati pyar, lust aur haqeeqi muhabbat.. jin ko abhi wo sirf observe ker raha hota hai apney ird gird logoun mein..
phir thora aur bhara ho ker uss ke andar feelings develop hona shurooh hoti hein.. aur wo zyada tar pehla kadam jazbaati pyar ki taraf uthata hai.. coz feelings aik dam se uss ko hit kerti hein aur wo jazbati ho jata hai.. so baghair kuch sochey samjhey wo muhabbat chahta hai.. aur wo jazbati pyar mein par jata hai kisi bhi larki se..
phir kuch arsa ke baad uss ko lagta hai ke ye tu buhat early ho gaya.. aur ye tu kuch ajeeb sa ho gaya hai.. tab ja ker wo sochta hai ke jis se mein muhabbat kerta houn.. uss mein kiya khoobiyan khamiyaan hein.. aur akhir phir uss ko lagta hai ke nahi yaar soch lena chahiye tha.. aur phir wo apni anaa aur apni ego ke peechey inkar bhi nahi ker sakta.. so wo flirt shurooh kerta hai.. aur abhi bhi uss ko ye theek se andaza nahi howa hota ke wo kiya chahta hai.. lekin uss ko aik addiction si ho jati hai aise pyar se.. so wo idher udher apni man pasand larki ki talash mein na janey kitni larkiyoun se flirt kerta hai.. aur ahista ahista uss ki muhabbat, lust mein badal jati hai.. aur ab uss ke liye sirf aik larki ki looks aur uss ki outer beauty hi aik pasand kerney ka mayaar ban ker reh jati hai.. kuch time guzarta hai.. jab wo tang a jata hai iss sab se.. kitney jhootey waadey.. kitni umeedein larkiyoun ko dila dila ker akhir kaar wo sab kuch chor deta hai aur haqeeqi muhabbat ki talash kerta hai.. lekin iss se pehley wo apney app ko pehchanta hai ke uss ki khawahish kiya hai.. aur phir.. khushkismat larkoun ko un ki haqeeqi muhabbat mil jati jis ko wo apni biwi bana letey hein.. aur badkismatoun ko arrange marriage kerni parti hai.. jo ke baad mein khushkismati se un ki haqeeqi muhabbat mein badal sakti hai.. lekin jo phir bhi badkismat reh jayein.. wo shadi ke baad bhi talash jari rakhtey hein.. aur apni wives ko bhi cheat kertey hein.. jab tak ke buss.. wo tang nahi a jatey.. aur phir.. wapis apni biwioun ke paas a jatey hein akhir kaar thak haar ker..
this is an avg general case of muhabbat..!!!
werna.. achey achey cases bhi hote hein.. lekin mein hamesha worst case iss liye likhta houn takkey best case ko khud se sochney mein app logoun ko asaani ho..
waise.. to my opinion.. ajj kal itna time nahi hai yaar ke muhabbat kerein app kisi larki se..
apna career banao.. apna future banao.. jinhoun ne paida kiya.. un ka haq pehley hai.. so pehley un ki khawahishein poori kero.. baat cheet ki hadd tak females se bhi gup shup rakho.. lekin addict na ho kisi ke bhi.. aur jab app ki jeb mein itna paisa ho ke app 2 logoun ka kharcha utha saktey houn.. compromises ker saktey houn, qurbaniyaan de saktey houn.. be los pyar muhabbat ker saktey houn.. mehnat ker ke asayishein faraham ker saktey houn.. tab idher udher dekhein aur sochein ke ho sakta hai koi aisi larki hai jis se app ki understanding ho aur app uss ke saath khush reh saktey houn.. so.. phir app shadi kerein.. aur sari umer muhabbat aur pyar se guzarein.. aur merey khayal se.. ye sab muhabbatoun se achi muhabbat hai jo ke aik larka apni biwi se kerta hai.. zyada tension mein perney se ye buhat behter hai
for a girl:
well.. girls are basically stupid!.. lolzz.. no offense.. lekin sach mein.. they are stupid.. and am telling you all this out of my experience.. well.. agar mein ne yahan pe kuch kaha.. tu iss pooreh forum ki girls ne mujhe KATAL ker dena hai.. so behter hai mein chupp hi rahoun.. waise bhi.. am more interested to save my brothers from this beemari then to say anything to the girls.. lolz
so guys.. listen to me.. its a brotherly advice to you all.. dont ever get into this love thing with girls.. dont ever do any committment with girls jo ke app poori na ker sako.. coz seriously.. girls take it on their heart and they really really get hurt.. aur gunah un ko nahi.. humein hi hota hai.. dont ever flirt.. aur haan.. larkiyoun se gup shup ka itna hi shauk hai tu just achi gup shup rakho and do clear them at the very beginning that its nothing but just a simple gup shup.. coz if once you OR her slips off.. tu masla ho sakta hai.. so plss stay away from this.. atleast uss waqt tak..
jab tak app mature nahi ho jatey.. jab tak app ke paas itna paisa na ho ke app apney app ko aur apni biwi ko aur apni family ko khush na rakh sako aur responsibility na utha sako.. and always choose the girl which understands you and has the capacity to adjust and compromise.. aur jis ke saath app adjust ker sako aur compromise ker sako.. coz its the only way you can be happy and you can love each other the whole life long..
aur haan.. ye baaki lust, flirt, jazbaati love, ishq wishq.. ye sab shadi ke 3 saal baad farigh ho jatey hein.. so its better ke sab kuch shadi ke baad ke liye bacha ker rakho taakey kabhi interest mein aur pyar mein kami na aye..
pheww.. so this is all i think about love between a girl and a guy
for a guy:
jab aik larka apney bachpaney mein hota hai.. uss waqt muhabbat aik khayal hota hai..
jab wo thora bhara hota hai.. tu wo aik feeling ban na start hoti hai..
uss waqt uss ko samajh nahi ata ke ye kiya feeling hai.. aur phir uss ke samney muhabbat ke buhat sarey phases a jatey hein.. like flirt, jazbati pyar, lust aur haqeeqi muhabbat.. jin ko abhi wo sirf observe ker raha hota hai apney ird gird logoun mein..
phir thora aur bhara ho ker uss ke andar feelings develop hona shurooh hoti hein.. aur wo zyada tar pehla kadam jazbaati pyar ki taraf uthata hai.. coz feelings aik dam se uss ko hit kerti hein aur wo jazbati ho jata hai.. so baghair kuch sochey samjhey wo muhabbat chahta hai.. aur wo jazbati pyar mein par jata hai kisi bhi larki se..
phir kuch arsa ke baad uss ko lagta hai ke ye tu buhat early ho gaya.. aur ye tu kuch ajeeb sa ho gaya hai.. tab ja ker wo sochta hai ke jis se mein muhabbat kerta houn.. uss mein kiya khoobiyan khamiyaan hein.. aur akhir phir uss ko lagta hai ke nahi yaar soch lena chahiye tha.. aur phir wo apni anaa aur apni ego ke peechey inkar bhi nahi ker sakta.. so wo flirt shurooh kerta hai.. aur abhi bhi uss ko ye theek se andaza nahi howa hota ke wo kiya chahta hai.. lekin uss ko aik addiction si ho jati hai aise pyar se.. so wo idher udher apni man pasand larki ki talash mein na janey kitni larkiyoun se flirt kerta hai.. aur ahista ahista uss ki muhabbat, lust mein badal jati hai.. aur ab uss ke liye sirf aik larki ki looks aur uss ki outer beauty hi aik pasand kerney ka mayaar ban ker reh jati hai.. kuch time guzarta hai.. jab wo tang a jata hai iss sab se.. kitney jhootey waadey.. kitni umeedein larkiyoun ko dila dila ker akhir kaar wo sab kuch chor deta hai aur haqeeqi muhabbat ki talash kerta hai.. lekin iss se pehley wo apney app ko pehchanta hai ke uss ki khawahish kiya hai.. aur phir.. khushkismat larkoun ko un ki haqeeqi muhabbat mil jati jis ko wo apni biwi bana letey hein.. aur badkismatoun ko arrange marriage kerni parti hai.. jo ke baad mein khushkismati se un ki haqeeqi muhabbat mein badal sakti hai.. lekin jo phir bhi badkismat reh jayein.. wo shadi ke baad bhi talash jari rakhtey hein.. aur apni wives ko bhi cheat kertey hein.. jab tak ke buss.. wo tang nahi a jatey.. aur phir.. wapis apni biwioun ke paas a jatey hein akhir kaar thak haar ker..
this is an avg general case of muhabbat..!!!
werna.. achey achey cases bhi hote hein.. lekin mein hamesha worst case iss liye likhta houn takkey best case ko khud se sochney mein app logoun ko asaani ho..
waise.. to my opinion.. ajj kal itna time nahi hai yaar ke muhabbat kerein app kisi larki se..
apna career banao.. apna future banao.. jinhoun ne paida kiya.. un ka haq pehley hai.. so pehley un ki khawahishein poori kero.. baat cheet ki hadd tak females se bhi gup shup rakho.. lekin addict na ho kisi ke bhi.. aur jab app ki jeb mein itna paisa ho ke app 2 logoun ka kharcha utha saktey houn.. compromises ker saktey houn, qurbaniyaan de saktey houn.. be los pyar muhabbat ker saktey houn.. mehnat ker ke asayishein faraham ker saktey houn.. tab idher udher dekhein aur sochein ke ho sakta hai koi aisi larki hai jis se app ki understanding ho aur app uss ke saath khush reh saktey houn.. so.. phir app shadi kerein.. aur sari umer muhabbat aur pyar se guzarein.. aur merey khayal se.. ye sab muhabbatoun se achi muhabbat hai jo ke aik larka apni biwi se kerta hai.. zyada tension mein perney se ye buhat behter hai
for a girl:
well.. girls are basically stupid!.. lolzz.. no offense.. lekin sach mein.. they are stupid.. and am telling you all this out of my experience.. well.. agar mein ne yahan pe kuch kaha.. tu iss pooreh forum ki girls ne mujhe KATAL ker dena hai.. so behter hai mein chupp hi rahoun.. waise bhi.. am more interested to save my brothers from this beemari then to say anything to the girls.. lolz
so guys.. listen to me.. its a brotherly advice to you all.. dont ever get into this love thing with girls.. dont ever do any committment with girls jo ke app poori na ker sako.. coz seriously.. girls take it on their heart and they really really get hurt.. aur gunah un ko nahi.. humein hi hota hai.. dont ever flirt.. aur haan.. larkiyoun se gup shup ka itna hi shauk hai tu just achi gup shup rakho and do clear them at the very beginning that its nothing but just a simple gup shup.. coz if once you OR her slips off.. tu masla ho sakta hai.. so plss stay away from this.. atleast uss waqt tak..
jab tak app mature nahi ho jatey.. jab tak app ke paas itna paisa na ho ke app apney app ko aur apni biwi ko aur apni family ko khush na rakh sako aur responsibility na utha sako.. and always choose the girl which understands you and has the capacity to adjust and compromise.. aur jis ke saath app adjust ker sako aur compromise ker sako.. coz its the only way you can be happy and you can love each other the whole life long..
aur haan.. ye baaki lust, flirt, jazbaati love, ishq wishq.. ye sab shadi ke 3 saal baad farigh ho jatey hein.. so its better ke sab kuch shadi ke baad ke liye bacha ker rakho taakey kabhi interest mein aur pyar mein kami na aye..
pheww.. so this is all i think about love between a girl and a guy
cool! .. kafi hud tk sahi kaha hai .. i'll definitly try to *add* more ..
.. bt later ..waisay aaj kal, i have seen that guys get hurt .. wo cheezain seriously lay laitay hain .. aur girls pr koi asar nahi hoa hota
waisay guys .. aik advice hai .. to avoid FALLING in luv with someone wen you don't want to (i.e wen you are at initial stages of career) hamesha aik say zyada GF rakho ..
.. aqal mund k liye ishara kafi hai ..
QUOTE(IrrAtionaL MethanE @ Sep 30 2007, 02:45 AM) [snapback]2500333[/snapback]
ehehehe .. agr larki ameer hai .. aur ugly hai to phir mohabbat zabardasti krni parti hai .. ..
kidding
.. kidding
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hamesha aik say zyada GF rakho .. E9.gif .. aqal mund k liye ishara kafi hai .. 1-embaressed_smile.gif
Yahi to hum sub chahtay hyn :d :d
me also kidding :p
Thanx for golden suggestions yar, will wait for more :p
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