Muhabbat kya hai? Muhabbat kisay kehtay hain? Kya sirf kisi ka achha lagna hi muhabbat hai?
note: Please no poetic answers, just tell in your own words, what u think of it.
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Mohabbat ko define karna bahot Mushkil hay .... Cuz Mohabbat kisi ek rang mein nahi hoti ...
Mohabbat ke itne rang hote hain ke insan ki Aqal khud heraan reh jaati hay ...
Mein jisse Mohabbat samajhti hoon woh .... Sirf Kissi ka Achaa Lagna nahi hay ... Mohabbat naam hay Care ka, Mohabbat Naam hay Khuloos ka , Mohabbat naam hay Qurbani ka, Mohabbat naam hay Yaqeen ka, Mohabbat naam hay Bharose ka, Mohabbat naam hay Iman ka ... Agar aap ye sab feelings kissi ke liye rakhte ho to iska matlab hay ke aap ko us se mohabbat hay ..... Ye mohabbat sirf mard aur aurat ki nahi hoti ...Kissi bhi rishte se ho sakti hay ....
Aur agar aesi Mohabbat Allah paak se ki jay to Woh khud Bakhud Ishq mein dhal jaati hay
Mohabbat ke itne rang hote hain ke insan ki Aqal khud heraan reh jaati hay ...
Mein jisse Mohabbat samajhti hoon woh .... Sirf Kissi ka Achaa Lagna nahi hay ... Mohabbat naam hay Care ka, Mohabbat Naam hay Khuloos ka , Mohabbat naam hay Qurbani ka, Mohabbat naam hay Yaqeen ka, Mohabbat naam hay Bharose ka, Mohabbat naam hay Iman ka ... Agar aap ye sab feelings kissi ke liye rakhte ho to iska matlab hay ke aap ko us se mohabbat hay ..... Ye mohabbat sirf mard aur aurat ki nahi hoti ...Kissi bhi rishte se ho sakti hay ....
Aur agar aesi Mohabbat Allah paak se ki jay to Woh khud Bakhud Ishq mein dhal jaati hay
QUOTE(Forever Green @ Sep 20 2007, 07:08 AM) 
Mohabbat ko define karna bahot Mushkil hay .... Cuz Mohabbat kisi ek rang mein nahi hoti ...
Mohabbat ke itne rang hote hain ke insan ki Aqal khud heraan reh jaati hay ...
Mein jisse Mohabbat samajhti hoon woh .... Sirf Kissi ka Achaa Lagna nahi hay ... Mohabbat naam hay Care ka, Mohabbat Naam hay Khuloos ka , Mohabbat naam hay Qurbani ka, Mohabbat naam hay Yaqeen ka, Mohabbat naam hay Bharose ka, Mohabbat naam hay Iman ka ... Agar aap ye sab feelings kissi ke liye rakhte ho to iska matlab hay ke aap ko us se mohabbat hay ..... Ye mohabbat sirf mard aur aurat ki nahi hoti ...Kissi bhi rishte se ho sakti hay ....
Aur agar aesi Mohabbat Allah paak se ki jay to Woh khud Bakhud Ishq mein dhal jaati hay
Mohabbat ke itne rang hote hain ke insan ki Aqal khud heraan reh jaati hay ...
Mein jisse Mohabbat samajhti hoon woh .... Sirf Kissi ka Achaa Lagna nahi hay ... Mohabbat naam hay Care ka, Mohabbat Naam hay Khuloos ka , Mohabbat naam hay Qurbani ka, Mohabbat naam hay Yaqeen ka, Mohabbat naam hay Bharose ka, Mohabbat naam hay Iman ka ... Agar aap ye sab feelings kissi ke liye rakhte ho to iska matlab hay ke aap ko us se mohabbat hay ..... Ye mohabbat sirf mard aur aurat ki nahi hoti ...Kissi bhi rishte se ho sakti hay ....
Aur agar aesi Mohabbat Allah paak se ki jay to Woh khud Bakhud Ishq mein dhal jaati hay
wow kia khoob define kia hai.
Allah karay zoray qalam aur zeyadah 
QUOTE(Bore Na Kar @ Sep 20 2007, 03:32 AM)
Muhabbat kya hai?
(*) yeh aik fitree jazbati kashish kaa naam hai jo kissi zee.rooh ko kissi doosray zee.rooh say hoti hai. mohabbat aalamay nabaa.taat maiN bhi payee jati hai aur aalamay haiwaanaat maiN bhi. magar iski sab say zeyadah developed soorat insaanouN k maabain payee jati hai. aik nau.maulood bachah maiN bhi yeh jazbah paya jata hai aur woh dunya maiN aatay hi apni maaN say body language k zariyeh mohabbat ka baaqaidah izhaar bhi karta hai. jouN jouN woh baRa hota jataa hai, woh apnay gird o pesh k deger selected logouN tak apni mohabbat ko wasee karta chala jata hai. insaan bil.amoom apnay shareekay hayaat (yaa oski talab) maiN apnii mohabbat ko darjah.e. urooj tak pahonchanay ki koshish karta nazar aataa hai.
Muhabbat kisay kehtay hain?
(*) kissi doosray fard maiN 'apnaa'iyyat' ki jhalak nazar aanay ko mohabbat kahtay haiN.
Kya sirf kisi ka achha lagna hi muhabbat hai?
(*) yeh mohabbat ki ibteda'yee halat hai. jaisay aik cell /khulia kissi jaan.daar ki ibtedayee halat hoti hai magar cell bazatay khud mokammal zaat / hsati naheeN hoti (uni-cellular animals /plant exceptions haiN). mohabbat ka aghaaz yeheeN say hota hai. aur yeh aghaaz bahoot say logouN say hota howa kissi aik ki taraf apnay mantaqi anjaam ko pahonchta hai.
note: Please no poetic answers,
(*) achcha howa aap nay mana kardia wagarnah yehi arza karnaa taa k:
kahtay haiN jisko ishq (o mohabbat), khalal hai dimaagh kaa
just tell in your own words,
(*) aur jiskay pass 'own-words' nah houN to ....
what u think of it.
(*) wohi jo above reply maiN Forever Green sochti haiN.
Iss topic mein Muhabbat se muraad larkay aur larki ki muhabbat hy, na k maan aur bachay ya behan bhai etc ki :p So please stick to that. (Note mein ye is liye na likha k post se saaf zahir tha na k main kis muhabbat ki bat kr rha hn
QUOTE(Forever Green @ Sep 20 2007, 07:08 AM)
Mein jisse Mohabbat samajhti hoon woh .... Sirf Kissi ka Achaa Lagna nahi hay ... Mohabbat naam hay Care ka, Mohabbat Naam hay Khuloos ka , Mohabbat naam hay Qurbani ka, Mohabbat naam hay Yaqeen ka, Mohabbat naam hay Bharose ka, Mohabbat naam hay Iman ka ... Agar aap ye sab feelings kissi ke liye rakhte ho to iska matlab hay ke aap ko us se mohabbat hay .....
My next question, 2 larkiyan hyn aur mein dono ki boht care krta hon, khloos aur qurbani k liye bhi tyar hon dono k liye, aur bharosa b hai
iska matlab hua k muje unn dono se muhabbat hy?
Kya muhabbat ek se hi ho sakti hy??
Kya muhabbat ek sath do larkiyun se bhi ho sakti hay?
Kya muhabbat kisi se ho janay k baad aur break up hone k baad kisi aur se bhi ho sakti hai?
(next question uskay baad :p )
[quote name='Abu Adnan' date='Sep 20 2007, 08:34 AM' post='2483527']
[quote name='Bore Na Kar' post='2483302' date='Sep 20 2007, 03:32 AM']
Muhabbat kya hai?
(*) insaan bil.amoom apnay shareekay hayaat (yaa oski talab) maiN apnii mohabbat ko darjah.e. urooj tak pahonchanay ki koshish karta nazar aataa hai.
Agr koi muhabbat kisi aur se krta hy aur shadi kahin aur ho jati hy which is more than normal nowadays to agr wo apni biwi k sath bhi muhabat se hi pesh ata hy aur uska khyal rakhta hy to uski muhabbat kya ho gi, wo pehli wali se ya biwi se?? kya sirf jazbati lagawat hi muhabbat hy?
Muhabbat kisay kehtay hain?
(*) kissi doosray fard maiN 'apnaa'iyyat' ki jhalak nazar aanay ko mohabbat kahtay haiN.
Yani ye kehna ghalat hy k muhabt sirf kisi ek se hi ho sakti hy, ye kaiyun se ho sakti hy? kyun k insan jis mein apnaiyat dekh kr uss se muhabt krta hy, ho skta hy k uss ko ye apnaiyat kisi aur larki mein uss se b zyada nazar aye, and if this goes on and on to kya ye sub muhaabtein hon gi?
Kya sirf kisi ka achha lagna hi muhabbat hai?
(*) yeh mohabbat ki ibteda'yee halat hai. jaisay aik cell /khulia kissi jaan.daar ki ibtedayee halat hoti hai magar cell bazatay khud mokammal zaat / hsati naheeN hoti (uni-cellular animals /plant exceptions haiN). mohabbat ka aghaaz yeheeN say hota hai. aur yeh aghaaz bahoot say logouN say hota howa kissi aik ki taraf apnay mantaqi anjaam ko pahonchta hai.
Aur agar ye bouhat se logon tak hi rhe aur mantaqi anjam tak pohanchne ki bjaye shadi kisi aur se ho jaye to ??
[quote name='Bore Na Kar' post='2483302' date='Sep 20 2007, 03:32 AM']
Muhabbat kya hai?
(*) insaan bil.amoom apnay shareekay hayaat (yaa oski talab) maiN apnii mohabbat ko darjah.e. urooj tak pahonchanay ki koshish karta nazar aataa hai.
Agr koi muhabbat kisi aur se krta hy aur shadi kahin aur ho jati hy which is more than normal nowadays to agr wo apni biwi k sath bhi muhabat se hi pesh ata hy aur uska khyal rakhta hy to uski muhabbat kya ho gi, wo pehli wali se ya biwi se?? kya sirf jazbati lagawat hi muhabbat hy?
Muhabbat kisay kehtay hain?
(*) kissi doosray fard maiN 'apnaa'iyyat' ki jhalak nazar aanay ko mohabbat kahtay haiN.
Yani ye kehna ghalat hy k muhabt sirf kisi ek se hi ho sakti hy, ye kaiyun se ho sakti hy? kyun k insan jis mein apnaiyat dekh kr uss se muhabt krta hy, ho skta hy k uss ko ye apnaiyat kisi aur larki mein uss se b zyada nazar aye, and if this goes on and on to kya ye sub muhaabtein hon gi?
Kya sirf kisi ka achha lagna hi muhabbat hai?
(*) yeh mohabbat ki ibteda'yee halat hai. jaisay aik cell /khulia kissi jaan.daar ki ibtedayee halat hoti hai magar cell bazatay khud mokammal zaat / hsati naheeN hoti (uni-cellular animals /plant exceptions haiN). mohabbat ka aghaaz yeheeN say hota hai. aur yeh aghaaz bahoot say logouN say hota howa kissi aik ki taraf apnay mantaqi anjaam ko pahonchta hai.
Aur agar ye bouhat se logon tak hi rhe aur mantaqi anjam tak pohanchne ki bjaye shadi kisi aur se ho jaye to ??
QUOTE(Bore Na Kar @ Sep 20 2007, 03:32 AM)
Muhabbat kya hai?
(*) insaan bil.amoom apnay shareekay hayaat (yaa oski talab) maiN apnii mohabbat ko darjah.e. urooj tak pahonchanay ki koshish karta nazar aataa hai.
Agr koi muhabbat kisi aur se krta hy aur shadi kahin aur ho jati hy which is more than normal nowadays to agr wo apni biwi k sath bhi muhabat se hi pesh ata hy aur uska khyal rakhta hy to uski muhabbat kya ho gi, wo pehli wali se ya biwi se?? kya sirf jazbati lagawat hi muhabbat hy?
Muhabbat kisay kehtay hain?
(*) kissi doosray fard maiN 'apnaa'iyyat' ki jhalak nazar aanay ko mohabbat kahtay haiN.
Yani ye kehna ghalat hy k muhabt sirf kisi ek se hi ho sakti hy, ye kaiyun se ho sakti hy? kyun k insan jis mein apnaiyat dekh kr uss se muhabt krta hy, ho skta hy k uss ko ye apnaiyat kisi aur larki mein uss se b zyada nazar aye, and if this goes on and on to kya ye sub muhaabtein hon gi?
Kya sirf kisi ka achha lagna hi muhabbat hai?
(*) yeh mohabbat ki ibteda'yee halat hai. jaisay aik cell /khulia kissi jaan.daar ki ibtedayee halat hoti hai magar cell bazatay khud mokammal zaat / hsati naheeN hoti (uni-cellular animals /plant exceptions haiN). mohabbat ka aghaaz yeheeN say hota hai. aur yeh aghaaz bahoot say logouN say hota howa kissi aik ki taraf apnay mantaqi anjaam ko pahonchta hai.
Aur agar ye bouhat se logon tak hi rhe aur mantaqi anjam tak pohanchne ki bjaye shadi kisi aur se ho jaye to ??
(*) insaan bil.amoom apnay shareekay hayaat (yaa oski talab) maiN apnii mohabbat ko darjah.e. urooj tak pahonchanay ki koshish karta nazar aataa hai.
Agr koi muhabbat kisi aur se krta hy aur shadi kahin aur ho jati hy which is more than normal nowadays to agr wo apni biwi k sath bhi muhabat se hi pesh ata hy aur uska khyal rakhta hy to uski muhabbat kya ho gi, wo pehli wali se ya biwi se?? kya sirf jazbati lagawat hi muhabbat hy?
Muhabbat kisay kehtay hain?
(*) kissi doosray fard maiN 'apnaa'iyyat' ki jhalak nazar aanay ko mohabbat kahtay haiN.
Yani ye kehna ghalat hy k muhabt sirf kisi ek se hi ho sakti hy, ye kaiyun se ho sakti hy? kyun k insan jis mein apnaiyat dekh kr uss se muhabt krta hy, ho skta hy k uss ko ye apnaiyat kisi aur larki mein uss se b zyada nazar aye, and if this goes on and on to kya ye sub muhaabtein hon gi?
Kya sirf kisi ka achha lagna hi muhabbat hai?
(*) yeh mohabbat ki ibteda'yee halat hai. jaisay aik cell /khulia kissi jaan.daar ki ibtedayee halat hoti hai magar cell bazatay khud mokammal zaat / hsati naheeN hoti (uni-cellular animals /plant exceptions haiN). mohabbat ka aghaaz yeheeN say hota hai. aur yeh aghaaz bahoot say logouN say hota howa kissi aik ki taraf apnay mantaqi anjaam ko pahonchta hai.
Aur agar ye bouhat se logon tak hi rhe aur mantaqi anjam tak pohanchne ki bjaye shadi kisi aur se ho jaye to ??
pahlay hi batla denaa thaa k aap mohabbat ko sirf male-female mohabbat tak mahdodd rah kar guftagoo karna chaahtay haiN. no prob. yeh lijyeh aap k sawaalaat k jawaabaat.
mard aur aurat dounouN ko aik say zayad logouN say mohabbat hosakti hai. mard bah yak waqt aik say zayad khawateen say mohabbat bhi karsakta hai aur aik say zayad khawateen say shadi bhi. jabkay iskay bar.aks aurat bayak waqt aik say zayad mardouN say mohabbat to kar sakti hai (go k yeh har tahzeeb / mazhab maiN mayoob aur mana hai) lekin woh shadi aik waqt maiN sirf aik hi mard say katrsakti hai. lehaza kissi aik love ko opt karnay ki soorat maiN ossay apnay deger tamaam loves ko (agar ho to) turk karna parta hai / bholana paRta hai /rubt o zubt khatam karna paRta hai ... khaah
say onhaiN bhola sakay yaa nah bhola sakay.mard-aurat ki mohabbat kissi bhi waqt aur kaheeN bhi start hosakti hai ... parwaan chaRh (grow) kar sakti hai. kam yaa zeyadah hosakti hai aur khatam bhi hosakti hai ... aik say doosray ko muntaqil bhi hosakti hai. iss sab ka daaro.madaar environment-mohib-mah#### teenouN maiN say kissi aik ya do yaa teenouN k behaviours par hai. mohabbat koi saakit o jaamid shaii nahii k aik baar hogayee to bus hogayee. pahli nazar maiN hogayee to doosri /tessri nazar maiN khatam nahee hosakti. yaa aaj aik say hai to kal kissi doosray say nahee hosakti. taham hamaiN mohabbat k izhaar aur issay kissi mantaqi anjaam tak pahochanay k liyeh (agar hum aisa chahaiN) hum apni tahzeeb, culture, mulki qawaneen aur apnay mazhabi aqdaar ki pabandi karni hoti hai..... 'baghawat' ki soorat maiN hamaiN sazaa k liyeh tayyar rahna chahiyeh. agar society /khaandaani aqdaar say baghawat ki hai to society saza degi. mulki qawaneen say baghawat ki hai ti mulki adalat saza degi aur agar mazhab /deen say baghawat k murtakib howay to Allah iss dunya maiN bhi aur rozay hashar bhi sazaa denay ki qudrat rakhta hai.
mohabbat aur ishq maiN albatta faraq hai..... mohabbat ki intehaa ISHQ hai. mohabbat bayak waqt aik say zayad logouN say hosakti hai. khaah hum iska izhaar karaiN yaa nah karaiN. jabkay ISHQ sirf aik say hi hota hai. sinfay mokhalif say ISHQ honay ki soorat maiN bandah / bandi dunyaa o maa.fee.haa say beganaa hokar apnay mah#### ki zaat / yaad maiN kho jataa hai. ossay har dam sirf aur sirf apnay mah#### ki fikar hoti hai. aur woh society / mulk / mazhab k kissi qanoon ko nahee maantaa nahi maanta agar yeh qawaaneen oskay aur oskay mah#### k darmayaan aanay ki koshihs karay..... lehaza aap mohabbat aur ishq ko hum maani nah samjhaiN. dounouN maiN zameen aasmaan ka faraq hai. ISHQ k baray maiN yeh bilkul sahi kaha gaya hai k:
kahtay haiN jisko ISHQ, khala hai demaagh kaa
AOA
well you asked about love only btw a guy & girl
muhabbat waisay to aik apnayaat wala jazba hay .......generally muhabbat ki shidat kay lihaz say iss tarah kaha ja sakta hay kay muhabbat ki kuch stages hoti hain
1- Unsiat
2- Ulfat
3- Piyar
4- Muhabbat
5- Ishq
and
6- Junoon
ab agar aap larka/ larki ki muhabbat ki baat kar rahay hain to naturally us mein yeh khwahish bhi shamil ho jati hay kay yeh banda jo humein acha lagta hay woh humari zindagi ka sathi ban jayay (agarcha kisi kisi jaga aisi khwahish hona zarori nahin hota aur banda waisay hi admire karta hay)......ab yeh us muhabbat ki shidat par munhassir hay kay woh us aik banday say us ka ta'luq kitnay arsay jorray rakhti hay aur ....shadi na honay ki soorat mein kitna asarandaz hoti hay us par
aik say hi hona zaroori nahin hay ......mukhtalif hallat o waqiat kay tehet .....aik say ziada logon say bhi ho sakti hay ...laikin aik waqt mein aam taur par aik say hi hoti hay...yahan bhi main wohi kahon ga kay yeh us muhabbat ki shidat par munhassir hay....jaisay agar aik banda ishq ya junoon par pohanch jata hay to phir bohat mushkil hota hay kay ussay kisi aur say bhi muhabbat ho sakay
well you asked about love only btw a guy & girl
muhabbat waisay to aik apnayaat wala jazba hay .......generally muhabbat ki shidat kay lihaz say iss tarah kaha ja sakta hay kay muhabbat ki kuch stages hoti hain
1- Unsiat
2- Ulfat
3- Piyar
4- Muhabbat
5- Ishq
and
6- Junoon
ab agar aap larka/ larki ki muhabbat ki baat kar rahay hain to naturally us mein yeh khwahish bhi shamil ho jati hay kay yeh banda jo humein acha lagta hay woh humari zindagi ka sathi ban jayay (agarcha kisi kisi jaga aisi khwahish hona zarori nahin hota aur banda waisay hi admire karta hay)......ab yeh us muhabbat ki shidat par munhassir hay kay woh us aik banday say us ka ta'luq kitnay arsay jorray rakhti hay aur ....shadi na honay ki soorat mein kitna asarandaz hoti hay us par
aik say hi hona zaroori nahin hay ......mukhtalif hallat o waqiat kay tehet .....aik say ziada logon say bhi ho sakti hay ...laikin aik waqt mein aam taur par aik say hi hoti hay...yahan bhi main wohi kahon ga kay yeh us muhabbat ki shidat par munhassir hay....jaisay agar aik banda ishq ya junoon par pohanch jata hay to phir bohat mushkil hota hay kay ussay kisi aur say bhi muhabbat ho sakay
QUOTE(Abu Adnan @ Sep 19 2007, 07:14 PM)
wow kia khoob define kia hai. Allah karay zoray qalam aur zeyadah
Allah karay zoray qalam aur zeyadah Itne khoobsorat Alfaaz ka bahot shukrya bhai ........... Thanks For Ur Dua
QUOTE(Abu Adnan @ Sep 19 2007, 07:34 PM)
what u think of it.
(*) wohi jo above reply maiN Forever Green sochti haiN.
(*) wohi jo above reply maiN Forever Green sochti haiN.
Am honoured Bhai
muhabbat is a vast subject to discuss.. but yeah.. remaining inside the bounds of the proposed discussion which is muhabbat between a girl and a guy.. ill answer here..
for a guy:
jab aik larka apney bachpaney mein hota hai.. uss waqt muhabbat aik khayal hota hai..
jab wo thora bhara hota hai.. tu wo aik feeling ban na start hoti hai..
uss waqt uss ko samajh nahi ata ke ye kiya feeling hai.. aur phir uss ke samney muhabbat ke buhat sarey phases a jatey hein.. like flirt, jazbati pyar, lust aur haqeeqi muhabbat.. jin ko abhi wo sirf observe ker raha hota hai apney ird gird logoun mein..
phir thora aur bhara ho ker uss ke andar feelings develop hona shurooh hoti hein.. aur wo zyada tar pehla kadam jazbaati pyar ki taraf uthata hai.. coz feelings aik dam se uss ko hit kerti hein aur wo jazbati ho jata hai.. so baghair kuch sochey samjhey wo muhabbat chahta hai.. aur wo jazbati pyar mein par jata hai kisi bhi larki se..
phir kuch arsa ke baad uss ko lagta hai ke ye tu buhat early ho gaya.. aur ye tu kuch ajeeb sa ho gaya hai.. tab ja ker wo sochta hai ke jis se mein muhabbat kerta houn.. uss mein kiya khoobiyan khamiyaan hein.. aur akhir phir uss ko lagta hai ke nahi yaar soch lena chahiye tha.. aur phir wo apni anaa aur apni ego ke peechey inkar bhi nahi ker sakta.. so wo flirt shurooh kerta hai.. aur abhi bhi uss ko ye theek se andaza nahi howa hota ke wo kiya chahta hai.. lekin uss ko aik addiction si ho jati hai aise pyar se.. so wo idher udher apni man pasand larki ki talash mein na janey kitni larkiyoun se flirt kerta hai.. aur ahista ahista uss ki muhabbat, lust mein badal jati hai.. aur ab uss ke liye sirf aik larki ki looks aur uss ki outer beauty hi aik pasand kerney ka mayaar ban ker reh jati hai.. kuch time guzarta hai.. jab wo tang a jata hai iss sab se.. kitney jhootey waadey.. kitni umeedein larkiyoun ko dila dila ker akhir kaar wo sab kuch chor deta hai aur haqeeqi muhabbat ki talash kerta hai.. lekin iss se pehley wo apney app ko pehchanta hai ke uss ki khawahish kiya hai.. aur phir.. khushkismat larkoun ko un ki haqeeqi muhabbat mil jati jis ko wo apni biwi bana letey hein.. aur badkismatoun ko arrange marriage kerni parti hai.. jo ke baad mein khushkismati se un ki haqeeqi muhabbat mein badal sakti hai.. lekin jo phir bhi badkismat reh jayein.. wo shadi ke baad bhi talash jari rakhtey hein.. aur apni wives ko bhi cheat kertey hein.. jab tak ke buss.. wo tang nahi a jatey.. aur phir.. wapis apni biwioun ke paas a jatey hein akhir kaar thak haar ker..
this is an avg general case of muhabbat..!!!
werna.. achey achey cases bhi hote hein.. lekin mein hamesha worst case iss liye likhta houn takkey best case ko khud se sochney mein app logoun ko asaani ho..
waise.. to my opinion.. ajj kal itna time nahi hai yaar ke muhabbat kerein app kisi larki se..
apna career banao.. apna future banao.. jinhoun ne paida kiya.. un ka haq pehley hai.. so pehley un ki khawahishein poori kero.. baat cheet ki hadd tak females se bhi gup shup rakho.. lekin addict na ho kisi ke bhi.. aur jab app ki jeb mein itna paisa ho ke app 2 logoun ka kharcha utha saktey houn.. compromises ker saktey houn, qurbaniyaan de saktey houn.. be los pyar muhabbat ker saktey houn.. mehnat ker ke asayishein faraham ker saktey houn.. tab idher udher dekhein aur sochein ke ho sakta hai koi aisi larki hai jis se app ki understanding ho aur app uss ke saath khush reh saktey houn.. so.. phir app shadi kerein.. aur sari umer muhabbat aur pyar se guzarein.. aur merey khayal se.. ye sab muhabbatoun se achi muhabbat hai jo ke aik larka apni biwi se kerta hai.. zyada tension mein perney se ye buhat behter hai
for a girl:
well.. girls are basically stupid!.. lolzz.. no offense.. lekin sach mein.. they are stupid.. and am telling you all this out of my experience.. well.. agar mein ne yahan pe kuch kaha.. tu iss pooreh forum ki girls ne mujhe KATAL ker dena hai.. so behter hai mein chupp hi rahoun.. waise bhi.. am more interested to save my brothers from this beemari then to say anything to the girls.. lolz
so guys.. listen to me.. its a brotherly advice to you all.. dont ever get into this love thing with girls.. dont ever do any committment with girls jo ke app poori na ker sako.. coz seriously.. girls take it on their heart and they really really get hurt.. aur gunah un ko nahi.. humein hi hota hai.. dont ever flirt.. aur haan.. larkiyoun se gup shup ka itna hi shauk hai tu just achi gup shup rakho and do clear them at the very beginning that its nothing but just a simple gup shup.. coz if once you OR her slips off.. tu masla ho sakta hai.. so plss stay away from this.. atleast uss waqt tak..
jab tak app mature nahi ho jatey.. jab tak app ke paas itna paisa na ho ke app apney app ko aur apni biwi ko aur apni family ko khush na rakh sako aur responsibility na utha sako.. and always choose the girl which understands you and has the capacity to adjust and compromise.. aur jis ke saath app adjust ker sako aur compromise ker sako.. coz its the only way you can be happy and you can love each other the whole life long..
aur haan.. ye baaki lust, flirt, jazbaati love, ishq wishq.. ye sab shadi ke 3 saal baad farigh ho jatey hein.. so its better ke sab kuch shadi ke baad ke liye bacha ker rakho taakey kabhi interest mein aur pyar mein kami na aye..
pheww.. so this is all i think about love between a girl and a guy
for a guy:
jab aik larka apney bachpaney mein hota hai.. uss waqt muhabbat aik khayal hota hai..
jab wo thora bhara hota hai.. tu wo aik feeling ban na start hoti hai..
uss waqt uss ko samajh nahi ata ke ye kiya feeling hai.. aur phir uss ke samney muhabbat ke buhat sarey phases a jatey hein.. like flirt, jazbati pyar, lust aur haqeeqi muhabbat.. jin ko abhi wo sirf observe ker raha hota hai apney ird gird logoun mein..
phir thora aur bhara ho ker uss ke andar feelings develop hona shurooh hoti hein.. aur wo zyada tar pehla kadam jazbaati pyar ki taraf uthata hai.. coz feelings aik dam se uss ko hit kerti hein aur wo jazbati ho jata hai.. so baghair kuch sochey samjhey wo muhabbat chahta hai.. aur wo jazbati pyar mein par jata hai kisi bhi larki se..
phir kuch arsa ke baad uss ko lagta hai ke ye tu buhat early ho gaya.. aur ye tu kuch ajeeb sa ho gaya hai.. tab ja ker wo sochta hai ke jis se mein muhabbat kerta houn.. uss mein kiya khoobiyan khamiyaan hein.. aur akhir phir uss ko lagta hai ke nahi yaar soch lena chahiye tha.. aur phir wo apni anaa aur apni ego ke peechey inkar bhi nahi ker sakta.. so wo flirt shurooh kerta hai.. aur abhi bhi uss ko ye theek se andaza nahi howa hota ke wo kiya chahta hai.. lekin uss ko aik addiction si ho jati hai aise pyar se.. so wo idher udher apni man pasand larki ki talash mein na janey kitni larkiyoun se flirt kerta hai.. aur ahista ahista uss ki muhabbat, lust mein badal jati hai.. aur ab uss ke liye sirf aik larki ki looks aur uss ki outer beauty hi aik pasand kerney ka mayaar ban ker reh jati hai.. kuch time guzarta hai.. jab wo tang a jata hai iss sab se.. kitney jhootey waadey.. kitni umeedein larkiyoun ko dila dila ker akhir kaar wo sab kuch chor deta hai aur haqeeqi muhabbat ki talash kerta hai.. lekin iss se pehley wo apney app ko pehchanta hai ke uss ki khawahish kiya hai.. aur phir.. khushkismat larkoun ko un ki haqeeqi muhabbat mil jati jis ko wo apni biwi bana letey hein.. aur badkismatoun ko arrange marriage kerni parti hai.. jo ke baad mein khushkismati se un ki haqeeqi muhabbat mein badal sakti hai.. lekin jo phir bhi badkismat reh jayein.. wo shadi ke baad bhi talash jari rakhtey hein.. aur apni wives ko bhi cheat kertey hein.. jab tak ke buss.. wo tang nahi a jatey.. aur phir.. wapis apni biwioun ke paas a jatey hein akhir kaar thak haar ker..
this is an avg general case of muhabbat..!!!
werna.. achey achey cases bhi hote hein.. lekin mein hamesha worst case iss liye likhta houn takkey best case ko khud se sochney mein app logoun ko asaani ho..
waise.. to my opinion.. ajj kal itna time nahi hai yaar ke muhabbat kerein app kisi larki se..
apna career banao.. apna future banao.. jinhoun ne paida kiya.. un ka haq pehley hai.. so pehley un ki khawahishein poori kero.. baat cheet ki hadd tak females se bhi gup shup rakho.. lekin addict na ho kisi ke bhi.. aur jab app ki jeb mein itna paisa ho ke app 2 logoun ka kharcha utha saktey houn.. compromises ker saktey houn, qurbaniyaan de saktey houn.. be los pyar muhabbat ker saktey houn.. mehnat ker ke asayishein faraham ker saktey houn.. tab idher udher dekhein aur sochein ke ho sakta hai koi aisi larki hai jis se app ki understanding ho aur app uss ke saath khush reh saktey houn.. so.. phir app shadi kerein.. aur sari umer muhabbat aur pyar se guzarein.. aur merey khayal se.. ye sab muhabbatoun se achi muhabbat hai jo ke aik larka apni biwi se kerta hai.. zyada tension mein perney se ye buhat behter hai
for a girl:
well.. girls are basically stupid!.. lolzz.. no offense.. lekin sach mein.. they are stupid.. and am telling you all this out of my experience.. well.. agar mein ne yahan pe kuch kaha.. tu iss pooreh forum ki girls ne mujhe KATAL ker dena hai.. so behter hai mein chupp hi rahoun.. waise bhi.. am more interested to save my brothers from this beemari then to say anything to the girls.. lolz
so guys.. listen to me.. its a brotherly advice to you all.. dont ever get into this love thing with girls.. dont ever do any committment with girls jo ke app poori na ker sako.. coz seriously.. girls take it on their heart and they really really get hurt.. aur gunah un ko nahi.. humein hi hota hai.. dont ever flirt.. aur haan.. larkiyoun se gup shup ka itna hi shauk hai tu just achi gup shup rakho and do clear them at the very beginning that its nothing but just a simple gup shup.. coz if once you OR her slips off.. tu masla ho sakta hai.. so plss stay away from this.. atleast uss waqt tak..
jab tak app mature nahi ho jatey.. jab tak app ke paas itna paisa na ho ke app apney app ko aur apni biwi ko aur apni family ko khush na rakh sako aur responsibility na utha sako.. and always choose the girl which understands you and has the capacity to adjust and compromise.. aur jis ke saath app adjust ker sako aur compromise ker sako.. coz its the only way you can be happy and you can love each other the whole life long..
aur haan.. ye baaki lust, flirt, jazbaati love, ishq wishq.. ye sab shadi ke 3 saal baad farigh ho jatey hein.. so its better ke sab kuch shadi ke baad ke liye bacha ker rakho taakey kabhi interest mein aur pyar mein kami na aye..
pheww.. so this is all i think about love between a girl and a guy
QUOTE(Bore Na Kar @ Sep 19 2007, 08:21 PM)
My next question, 2 larkiyan hyn aur mein dono ki boht care krta hon, khloos aur qurbani k liye bhi tyar hon dono k liye, aur bharosa b hai
iska matlab hua k muje unn dono se muhabbat hy?
Kya muhabbat ek se hi ho sakti hy??
Kya muhabbat ek sath do larkiyun se bhi ho sakti hay?
Kya muhabbat kisi se ho janay k baad aur break up hone k baad kisi aur se bhi ho sakti hai?
(next question uskay baad :p )
iska matlab hua k muje unn dono se muhabbat hy?
Kya muhabbat ek se hi ho sakti hy??
Kya muhabbat ek sath do larkiyun se bhi ho sakti hay?
Kya muhabbat kisi se ho janay k baad aur break up hone k baad kisi aur se bhi ho sakti hai?
(next question uskay baad :p )
Sachi kahon ...thori se hasi aagai thi mujhe aap ka ye reply parh ke
Mohabbat to wohi hoti hay jo mein ne pehle kaha ..... aur ye bhi keh diya tha mein ne ke Mohabbat kissi bhi rishte se ho sakti hay
Rahi baat ke ek saath 2 larkyon se agar Mohabbat ho
Mohabbat aap ek saath dunya mein bahot se loogon se karte ho Lekin rishte Mukhtalif hote hain ........Aur agar ek hi Rishte ke liye ek saath do loogon se Mohabbat ho( jesa ke aap ne kaha ek saath Do larkyon se mohabbat hona) To jahan tak meri sooch hay ke Mohabbat ek waqt mein ek hi rishte se mutaliq sirf ek hi shakhs se hosakti hay ....
Haan ho sakta hay ke aap ko lagta ho ke aap ko ek saath dono se ek jitni hi mohabbat hay to May be ye waqti baat ho .... Mohabbat parakhti hay ...aur jo us parakh mein sabit qadam tehre wohi Us Mohabbat ka haqdaar kehlata hay ...
Doosri baat jo aap ne poochi ke agar aap ko kissi se mohabbat ho aur breakup hone ke baad Kissi aur se mohabbat ho sakti hay to is ka bahot simple sa jawab hay .....
insani fitrat Mohabbat ki bhooki hay ......... Usse har haal mein har waqt Mohabbat chahye .... Aesa ho sakta hay ke Agar aap ko koi us se bhi zyada Mohabbat de jo aap ko aap ke pehle saathi se mili thi to may be aap ki tawajah us taraf ho jay ....... Zyada to mein is baare mein nahi kehsakti kyon ke Kabhi aesa itefaq nahi huwa (Aur Allah kare ho bhi na
)Chalen jee dekhte hain kitna mutmain kar pai hoon aap ko
QUOTE(Abu Adnan @ Sep 19 2007, 11:10 PM)
pahlay hi batla denaa thaa k aap mohabbat ko sirf male-female mohabbat tak mahdodd rah kar guftagoo karna chaahtay haiN. no prob. yeh lijyeh aap k sawaalaat k jawaabaat.
mard aur aurat dounouN ko aik say zayad logouN say mohabbat hosakti hai. mard bah yak waqt aik say zayad khawateen say mohabbat bhi karsakta hai aur aik say zayad khawateen say shadi bhi. jabkay iskay bar.aks aurat bayak waqt aik say zayad mardouN say mohabbat to kar sakti hai (go k yeh har tahzeeb / mazhab maiN mayoob aur mana hai) lekin woh shadi aik waqt maiN sirf aik hi mard say katrsakti hai. lehaza kissi aik love ko opt karnay ki soorat maiN ossay apnay deger tamaam loves ko (agar ho to) turk karna parta hai / bholana paRta hai /rubt o zubt khatam karna paRta hai ... khaah say onhaiN bhola sakay yaa nah bhola sakay.
mard-aurat ki mohabbat kissi bhi waqt aur kaheeN bhi start hosakti hai ... parwaan chaRh (grow) kar sakti hai. kam yaa zeyadah hosakti hai aur khatam bhi hosakti hai ... aik say doosray ko muntaqil bhi hosakti hai. iss sab ka daaro.madaar environment-mohib-mah#### teenouN maiN say kissi aik ya do yaa teenouN k behaviours par hai. mohabbat koi saakit o jaamid shaii nahii k aik baar hogayee to bus hogayee. pahli nazar maiN hogayee to doosri /tessri nazar maiN khatam nahee hosakti. yaa aaj aik say hai to kal kissi doosray say nahee hosakti. taham hamaiN mohabbat k izhaar aur issay kissi mantaqi anjaam tak pahochanay k liyeh (agar hum aisa chahaiN) hum apni tahzeeb, culture, mulki qawaneen aur apnay mazhabi aqdaar ki pabandi karni hoti hai..... 'baghawat' ki soorat maiN hamaiN sazaa k liyeh tayyar rahna chahiyeh. agar society /khaandaani aqdaar say baghawat ki hai to society saza degi. mulki qawaneen say baghawat ki hai ti mulki adalat saza degi aur agar mazhab /deen say baghawat k murtakib howay to Allah iss dunya maiN bhi aur rozay hashar bhi sazaa denay ki qudrat rakhta hai.
mohabbat aur ishq maiN albatta faraq hai..... mohabbat ki intehaa ISHQ hai. mohabbat bayak waqt aik say zayad logouN say hosakti hai. khaah hum iska izhaar karaiN yaa nah karaiN. jabkay ISHQ sirf aik say hi hota hai. sinfay mokhalif say ISHQ honay ki soorat maiN bandah / bandi dunyaa o maa.fee.haa say beganaa hokar apnay mah#### ki zaat / yaad maiN kho jataa hai. ossay har dam sirf aur sirf apnay mah#### ki fikar hoti hai. aur woh society / mulk / mazhab k kissi qanoon ko nahee maantaa nahi maanta agar yeh qawaaneen oskay aur oskay mah#### k darmayaan aanay ki koshihs karay..... lehaza aap mohabbat aur ishq ko hum maani nah samjhaiN. dounouN maiN zameen aasmaan ka faraq hai. ISHQ k baray maiN yeh bilkul sahi kaha gaya hai k:
kahtay haiN jisko ISHQ, khala hai demaagh kaa
mard aur aurat dounouN ko aik say zayad logouN say mohabbat hosakti hai. mard bah yak waqt aik say zayad khawateen say mohabbat bhi karsakta hai aur aik say zayad khawateen say shadi bhi. jabkay iskay bar.aks aurat bayak waqt aik say zayad mardouN say mohabbat to kar sakti hai (go k yeh har tahzeeb / mazhab maiN mayoob aur mana hai) lekin woh shadi aik waqt maiN sirf aik hi mard say katrsakti hai. lehaza kissi aik love ko opt karnay ki soorat maiN ossay apnay deger tamaam loves ko (agar ho to) turk karna parta hai / bholana paRta hai /rubt o zubt khatam karna paRta hai ... khaah
say onhaiN bhola sakay yaa nah bhola sakay.mard-aurat ki mohabbat kissi bhi waqt aur kaheeN bhi start hosakti hai ... parwaan chaRh (grow) kar sakti hai. kam yaa zeyadah hosakti hai aur khatam bhi hosakti hai ... aik say doosray ko muntaqil bhi hosakti hai. iss sab ka daaro.madaar environment-mohib-mah#### teenouN maiN say kissi aik ya do yaa teenouN k behaviours par hai. mohabbat koi saakit o jaamid shaii nahii k aik baar hogayee to bus hogayee. pahli nazar maiN hogayee to doosri /tessri nazar maiN khatam nahee hosakti. yaa aaj aik say hai to kal kissi doosray say nahee hosakti. taham hamaiN mohabbat k izhaar aur issay kissi mantaqi anjaam tak pahochanay k liyeh (agar hum aisa chahaiN) hum apni tahzeeb, culture, mulki qawaneen aur apnay mazhabi aqdaar ki pabandi karni hoti hai..... 'baghawat' ki soorat maiN hamaiN sazaa k liyeh tayyar rahna chahiyeh. agar society /khaandaani aqdaar say baghawat ki hai to society saza degi. mulki qawaneen say baghawat ki hai ti mulki adalat saza degi aur agar mazhab /deen say baghawat k murtakib howay to Allah iss dunya maiN bhi aur rozay hashar bhi sazaa denay ki qudrat rakhta hai.
mohabbat aur ishq maiN albatta faraq hai..... mohabbat ki intehaa ISHQ hai. mohabbat bayak waqt aik say zayad logouN say hosakti hai. khaah hum iska izhaar karaiN yaa nah karaiN. jabkay ISHQ sirf aik say hi hota hai. sinfay mokhalif say ISHQ honay ki soorat maiN bandah / bandi dunyaa o maa.fee.haa say beganaa hokar apnay mah#### ki zaat / yaad maiN kho jataa hai. ossay har dam sirf aur sirf apnay mah#### ki fikar hoti hai. aur woh society / mulk / mazhab k kissi qanoon ko nahee maantaa nahi maanta agar yeh qawaaneen oskay aur oskay mah#### k darmayaan aanay ki koshihs karay..... lehaza aap mohabbat aur ishq ko hum maani nah samjhaiN. dounouN maiN zameen aasmaan ka faraq hai. ISHQ k baray maiN yeh bilkul sahi kaha gaya hai k:
kahtay haiN jisko ISHQ, khala hai demaagh kaa
Zabardast bhai................ Aap ki Ungliyon se to alfaaz aese nikalte hain jese bane hi aap ke liye hoon ...
Bahot khoob
QUOTE(Bore Na Kar @ Sep 19 2007, 10:32 PM)
Muhabbat kya hai? Muhabbat kisay kehtay hain? Kya sirf kisi ka achha lagna hi muhabbat hai?
note: Please no poetic answers, just tell in your own words, what u think of it.
note: Please no poetic answers, just tell in your own words, what u think of it.
poetry too ati nahien ahi iss liye is baat ki tension khatam hoi ... now lemme giv a shot to ur 3 questions..
1. sirf aur sirf aik feelin hai jisse barhaaaaa kar pata nahien kya bana diaa logoon ne..
2. kissi aik k liye affection, care, emotions, feelinz ziada hooon ap k dil main, baqiooo'n se comparatively.. muhabat har os act ko kahte hain jo koi ap k liye kare .. sirf ap k liye aur dil se .. ya koi act ap kissi k liye karain ... sirf aik k liye
3. kissi ka acha lagna muhabbat nahien stupidity hai .. dis goes for guyz n galz... agr koi sirf luks pe ja raha hai too immature hai ...in otha wrdz GROW UP !
QUOTE(Bore Na Kar @ Sep 20 2007, 04:32 AM)
Muhabbat kya hai? Muhabbat kisay kehtay hain? Kya sirf kisi ka achha lagna hi muhabbat hai?
note: Please no poetic answers, just tell in your own words, what u think of it.
note: Please no poetic answers, just tell in your own words, what u think of it.
Muhabat kia hai es ki koi tareef nahi hai.es ko words main na likha ja sakta hai na kisi ko samjhaya ja sakta hai yeh sirf aik ahsaas hai jis ko sirf mahsoos kia ja sakta hai.
My next question, 2 larkiyan hyn aur mein dono ki boht care krta hon, khloos aur qurbani k liye bhi tyar hon dono k liye, aur bharosa b hai
iska matlab hua k muje unn dono se muhabbat hy?
Kya muhabbat ek se hi ho sakti hy??
Kya muhabbat ek sath do larkiyun se bhi ho sakti hay?
Kya muhabbat kisi se ho janay k baad aur break up hone k baad kisi aur se bhi ho sakti hai?
(next question uskay baad :p )
aik insaan ke dosre k saath 3 type k relations hoty hain. zaruurat ka, adat ka,aur muhabat ka
sab se stronge or mazboot rishta zarurat ka hota hai us k baad adat ka aur sab se kamzoor rishta muhabat ka.
ab example se
like food meri zarurat hai
roti ki mujhe adat hai
aur beryani se mujhe muahbt hai
dunya ain sab se khubsurat rishta muhabt ka hota hai
lakin jin logon ki humain zaruart hai automaticaly un se muahabt bh ho jati hai.adat ka rishta bhi khatam ho jata hai aur muhabat k rishty ki qurbani dena perh jati hai.jesa kah humari society main hota hai 90% cases main muahabt ki qurbani de di jati hai.cos yeh sab se weak rishta samjha jata hai cos es main zarurat involve nahi hotii
humarae relatives bhi humari zarurat hain so un k liay mauahabt k rishty qurbaan ker diay jaty hain
ab ajain ap k questions ki taraf
ab baat yeh hai kah ap ko kiss ki zarurat hai?
zahir hai wife ki to ap ko ziada muhabt wife se ho gi
2nd one ho sakta hai ap ko samjhti hoo us k saath understanding ho may be soul mate hoo but wo ap ki zarurat nahi hai just soul mate hai.
Hosakta hai aik girl ap ki wife ho aur dosri beloved
aik se ziada females se ap muahabt ker sakty hain
Akhirr mard jo thahre girls to stupid hoti hain(as sharabi eyes said) bas aik se hi kertiin hain as bano qudsia said
"mard batakh DUCK ki tarah hota hai opper opper k panion main terna janta hai aur aurat machli (fish)ki tarah hoti hai ,buht gahre panion main chali jati hai."
3rd Question
ji haan insaan ko kai muhabain ho sakti hain aik k saath aik break k baad dosri phir 2nd break k baad tesrii. tuu nahi aur sahi aur nahi aur nahi
reason
Insaan azal se pyasa hai PYAAR K DO BOLON KA.aur isi wajah se dhoka khata hai aur baar baar khata hai.
last main aik shaer that explain true love of a female
Dosti ka dawa kia ashqi se kia matlab
hum tere faqeeron main hum tere ghulamon main
iska matlab hua k muje unn dono se muhabbat hy?
Kya muhabbat ek se hi ho sakti hy??
Kya muhabbat ek sath do larkiyun se bhi ho sakti hay?
Kya muhabbat kisi se ho janay k baad aur break up hone k baad kisi aur se bhi ho sakti hai?
(next question uskay baad :p )
aik insaan ke dosre k saath 3 type k relations hoty hain. zaruurat ka, adat ka,aur muhabat ka
sab se stronge or mazboot rishta zarurat ka hota hai us k baad adat ka aur sab se kamzoor rishta muhabat ka.
ab example se
like food meri zarurat hai
roti ki mujhe adat hai
aur beryani se mujhe muahbt hai
dunya ain sab se khubsurat rishta muhabt ka hota hai
lakin jin logon ki humain zaruart hai automaticaly un se muahabt bh ho jati hai.adat ka rishta bhi khatam ho jata hai aur muhabat k rishty ki qurbani dena perh jati hai.jesa kah humari society main hota hai 90% cases main muahabt ki qurbani de di jati hai.cos yeh sab se weak rishta samjha jata hai cos es main zarurat involve nahi hotii
humarae relatives bhi humari zarurat hain so un k liay mauahabt k rishty qurbaan ker diay jaty hain
ab ajain ap k questions ki taraf
ab baat yeh hai kah ap ko kiss ki zarurat hai?
zahir hai wife ki to ap ko ziada muhabt wife se ho gi
2nd one ho sakta hai ap ko samjhti hoo us k saath understanding ho may be soul mate hoo but wo ap ki zarurat nahi hai just soul mate hai.
Hosakta hai aik girl ap ki wife ho aur dosri beloved
aik se ziada females se ap muahabt ker sakty hain
Akhirr mard jo thahre girls to stupid hoti hain(as sharabi eyes said) bas aik se hi kertiin hain as bano qudsia said
"mard batakh DUCK ki tarah hota hai opper opper k panion main terna janta hai aur aurat machli (fish)ki tarah hoti hai ,buht gahre panion main chali jati hai."
3rd Question
ji haan insaan ko kai muhabain ho sakti hain aik k saath aik break k baad dosri phir 2nd break k baad tesrii. tuu nahi aur sahi aur nahi aur nahi
reason
Insaan azal se pyasa hai PYAAR K DO BOLON KA.aur isi wajah se dhoka khata hai aur baar baar khata hai.
last main aik shaer that explain true love of a female
Dosti ka dawa kia ashqi se kia matlab
hum tere faqeeron main hum tere ghulamon main
QUOTE(Bore Na Kar @ Sep 20 2007, 10:21 AM)
My next question, 2 larkiyan hyn aur mein dono ki boht care krta hon, khloos aur qurbani k liye bhi tyar hon dono k liye, aur bharosa b hai
iska matlab hua k muje unn dono se muhabbat hy?
Kya muhabbat ek se hi ho sakti hy??
Kya muhabbat ek sath do larkiyun se bhi ho sakti hay?
Kya muhabbat kisi se ho janay k baad aur break up hone k baad kisi aur se bhi ho sakti hai?
(next question uskay baad :p )
iska matlab hua k muje unn dono se muhabbat hy?
Kya muhabbat ek se hi ho sakti hy??
Kya muhabbat ek sath do larkiyun se bhi ho sakti hay?
Kya muhabbat kisi se ho janay k baad aur break up hone k baad kisi aur se bhi ho sakti hai?
(next question uskay baad :p )
My next question, 2 larkiyan hyn aur mein dono ki boht care krta hon, khloos aur qurbani k liye bhi tyar hon dono k liye, aur bharosa b hai
iska matlab hua k muje unn dono se muhabbat hy?
Kya muhabbat ek se hi ho sakti hy??
Kya muhabbat ek sath do larkiyun se bhi ho sakti hay?
Kya muhabbat kisi se ho janay k baad aur break up hone k baad kisi aur se bhi ho sakti hai?
(next question uskay baad :p )
aik insaan ke dosre k saath 3 type k relations hoty hain. zaruurat ka, adat ka,aur muhabat ka
sab se stronge or mazboot rishta zarurat ka hota hai us k baad adat ka aur sab se kamzoor rishta muhabat ka.
ab example se
like food meri zarurat hai
roti ki mujhe adat hai
aur beryani se mujhe muahbt hai
dunya ain sab se khubsurat rishta muhabt ka hota hai but sab se kamzoor.
lakin jin logon ki humain zaruart hai automaticaly un se muahabt bh ho jati hai.adat ka rishta bhi
khatam ho jata hai aur muhabat k rishty ki qurbani dena perh jati hai.jesa kah humari society
main hota hai 90% cases main muahabt ki qurbani de di jati hai.cos yeh sab se weak rishta
samjha jata hai cos es main zarurat involve nahi hotii
humarae relatives bhi humari zarurat hain so un k liay mauahabt k rishty qurbaan ker diay jaty hain
ab ajain ap k questions ki taraf
ab baat yeh hai kah ap ko kiss ki zarurat hai?
zahir hai wife ki, to ap ko ziada muhabt wife se ho gi
2nd Girl ho sakta hai ap ko samjhti hoo us k saath understanding ho may be soul mate hoo but
wo ap ki zarurat nahi hai just soul mate hai.
Hosakta hai aik girl ap ki wife ho aur dosri beloved.
Ager donon main se aik bhi ap ki wife nahi hai just lovers or girl frds hain to phir ap just flirt ker rahy hain.
wo panjabi main kahty hain.
Chopri aur 2 do
.aik se ziada females se ap muahabt ker sakty hain
Akhirr mard jo thahre girls to stupid hoti hain(as sharabi eyes said) bas aik se hi kertiin hain as
bano qudsia said
"mard batakh DUCK ki tarah hota hai opper opper k panion main terna janta hai aur aurat
machli (fish)ki tarah hoti hai ,buht gahre panion main chali jati hai."
3rd Question
ji haan insaan ko kai muhabain ho sakti hain aik k saath aik break k baad dosri phir 2nd break k
baad tesrii.
tuu nahi aur sahi aur nahi aur nahi
reason
Insaan azal se pyasa hai PYAAR K DO BOLON KA.aur isi wajah se dhoka khata hai aur baar baar
khata hai.
last main aik shaer that explain true love of a female
Dosti ka dawa kia ashqi se kia matlab
hum tere faqeeron main hum tere ghulamon main
[2 larkiyan hyn aur mein dono ki boht care krta hon, khloos aur qurbani k liye bhi tyar hon dono k liye, aur bharosa b hai
iska matlab hua k muje unn dono se muhabbat hy?
Kya muhabbat ek se hi ho sakti hy??
Kya muhabbat ek sath do larkiyun se bhi ho sakti hay?
Kya muhabbat kisi se ho janay k baad aur break up hone k baad kisi aur se bhi ho sakti hai?
(next question uskay baad :p )[/i]
iska matlab hua k muje unn dono se muhabbat hy?
Kya muhabbat ek se hi ho sakti hy??
Kya muhabbat ek sath do larkiyun se bhi ho sakti hay?
Kya muhabbat kisi se ho janay k baad aur break up hone k baad kisi aur se bhi ho sakti hai?
(next question uskay baad :p )[/i]
Extremely happy for getting good nice replies. Thanx to all of you, i think the material is enough to look n think n getting the right answer from here.
1- Nice one Abu Adnan.
2- Gud explanantion kashif
3- Very interesting rep by Sharabi Eyes :p
U said "ajj kal itna time nahi hai yaar ke muhabbat kerein app kisi larki se..."
I think aisa sirf doosron ko kaha hi ja sakta hy haqiqat iss se mukhtalif hy :d wese b
farigh time dkh k to muhabt nai ki jati , ye to bus ho jati hy :p
4- Nice reply by Forevergreen. But u didnt tell k apko hansi kis baat pe aai? Or it is just
a try to show that u r a genious and my questions r stupid ones well if someone
here feels himself/herself genious, no need to reply to my questions
Otherwise thanx for ur replies,
U said "To jahan tak meri sooch hay ke Mohabbat ek waqt mein ek hi rishte se
mutaliq sirf ek hi shakhs se hosakti hay ...."
If this is the case then why Allah has allowed that men can marry twice or even
more, yakinan agr ek rishtay k liye ek se hi muhabt ho sakti hy to islam kabi b ek
se zyada shadi ki ijazat na deta kyunke wife husband ka to rishta hi muhabat ka
hota hy. isnt it? or it is another stupid question
U said "insani fitrat Mohabbat ki bhooki hay ......... Usse har haal mein har waqt
Mohabbat chahye .... Aesa ho sakta hay ke Agar aap ko koi us se bhi zyada
Mohabbat de jo aap ko aap ke pehle saathi se mili thi to may be aap ki tawajah us
taraf ho jay "
* Thats a gud point.
5- Tenha Saima, nice reply,
U said "kissi ka acha lagna muhabbat nahien stupidity hai .. dis goes for guyz n
galz... agr koi sirf luks pe ja raha hai too immature hai ...in otha wrdz GROW UP ! "
* It depends on every person how he/she takes it, koi apko achha lagay can NEVER
EVER just mean that he/she looks beautiful to you Acha lagna means k apko
kisi ki adatein, khayalat , taur tarekay pasand hon aur wo apko acha lagne lagay
6- Thanx for ur reply Haadea Wese mard itne buray b nai hotay aur aurtein itni
masoom b nai hoti hahaha
U said k kisi se break up k baad dobara kisi aur se muhabt nai ho skti, wajah?? the
reason u told is not a convincing one dear
1- Nice one Abu Adnan.
2- Gud explanantion kashif
3- Very interesting rep by Sharabi Eyes :p
U said "ajj kal itna time nahi hai yaar ke muhabbat kerein app kisi larki se..."
I think aisa sirf doosron ko kaha hi ja sakta hy haqiqat iss se mukhtalif hy :d wese b
farigh time dkh k to muhabt nai ki jati , ye to bus ho jati hy :p
4- Nice reply by Forevergreen. But u didnt tell k apko hansi kis baat pe aai? Or it is just
a try to show that u r a genious and my questions r stupid ones
well if someonehere feels himself/herself genious, no need to reply to my questions
Otherwise thanx for ur replies,
U said "To jahan tak meri sooch hay ke Mohabbat ek waqt mein ek hi rishte se
mutaliq sirf ek hi shakhs se hosakti hay ...."
If this is the case then why Allah has allowed that men can marry twice or even
more, yakinan agr ek rishtay k liye ek se hi muhabt ho sakti hy to islam kabi b ek
se zyada shadi ki ijazat na deta kyunke wife husband ka to rishta hi muhabat ka
hota hy. isnt it? or it is another stupid question
U said "insani fitrat Mohabbat ki bhooki hay ......... Usse har haal mein har waqt
Mohabbat chahye .... Aesa ho sakta hay ke Agar aap ko koi us se bhi zyada
Mohabbat de jo aap ko aap ke pehle saathi se mili thi to may be aap ki tawajah us
taraf ho jay "
* Thats a gud point.
5- Tenha Saima, nice reply,
U said "kissi ka acha lagna muhabbat nahien stupidity hai .. dis goes for guyz n
galz... agr koi sirf luks pe ja raha hai too immature hai ...in otha wrdz GROW UP ! "
* It depends on every person how he/she takes it, koi apko achha lagay can NEVER
EVER just mean that he/she looks beautiful to you
Acha lagna means k apkokisi ki adatein, khayalat , taur tarekay pasand hon aur wo apko acha lagne lagay
6- Thanx for ur reply Haadea
Wese mard itne buray b nai hotay aur aurtein itni masoom b nai hoti hahaha
U said k kisi se break up k baad dobara kisi aur se muhabt nai ho skti, wajah?? the
reason u told is not a convincing one dear
[color=blue]My next and probably last Question.
Kya Muhabbat zabardasti ya majboori se b ho sakti hy ??[color]
Kya Muhabbat zabardasti ya majboori se b ho sakti hy ??[color]
QUOTE(Sharabi_Eyes @ Sep 21 2007, 12:01 AM)
muhabbat is a vast subject to discuss.. but yeah.. remaining inside the bounds of the proposed discussion which is muhabbat between a girl and a guy.. ill answer here..
for a guy:
jab aik larka apney bachpaney mein hota hai.. uss waqt muhabbat aik khayal hota hai..
jab wo thora bhara hota hai.. tu wo aik feeling ban na start hoti hai..
uss waqt uss ko samajh nahi ata ke ye kiya feeling hai.. aur phir uss ke samney muhabbat ke buhat sarey phases a jatey hein.. like flirt, jazbati pyar, lust aur haqeeqi muhabbat.. jin ko abhi wo sirf observe ker raha hota hai apney ird gird logoun mein..
phir thora aur bhara ho ker uss ke andar feelings develop hona shurooh hoti hein.. aur wo zyada tar pehla kadam jazbaati pyar ki taraf uthata hai.. coz feelings aik dam se uss ko hit kerti hein aur wo jazbati ho jata hai.. so baghair kuch sochey samjhey wo muhabbat chahta hai.. aur wo jazbati pyar mein par jata hai kisi bhi larki se..
phir kuch arsa ke baad uss ko lagta hai ke ye tu buhat early ho gaya.. aur ye tu kuch ajeeb sa ho gaya hai.. tab ja ker wo sochta hai ke jis se mein muhabbat kerta houn.. uss mein kiya khoobiyan khamiyaan hein.. aur akhir phir uss ko lagta hai ke nahi yaar soch lena chahiye tha.. aur phir wo apni anaa aur apni ego ke peechey inkar bhi nahi ker sakta.. so wo flirt shurooh kerta hai.. aur abhi bhi uss ko ye theek se andaza nahi howa hota ke wo kiya chahta hai.. lekin uss ko aik addiction si ho jati hai aise pyar se.. so wo idher udher apni man pasand larki ki talash mein na janey kitni larkiyoun se flirt kerta hai.. aur ahista ahista uss ki muhabbat, lust mein badal jati hai.. aur ab uss ke liye sirf aik larki ki looks aur uss ki outer beauty hi aik pasand kerney ka mayaar ban ker reh jati hai.. kuch time guzarta hai.. jab wo tang a jata hai iss sab se.. kitney jhootey waadey.. kitni umeedein larkiyoun ko dila dila ker akhir kaar wo sab kuch chor deta hai aur haqeeqi muhabbat ki talash kerta hai.. lekin iss se pehley wo apney app ko pehchanta hai ke uss ki khawahish kiya hai.. aur phir.. khushkismat larkoun ko un ki haqeeqi muhabbat mil jati jis ko wo apni biwi bana letey hein.. aur badkismatoun ko arrange marriage kerni parti hai.. jo ke baad mein khushkismati se un ki haqeeqi muhabbat mein badal sakti hai.. lekin jo phir bhi badkismat reh jayein.. wo shadi ke baad bhi talash jari rakhtey hein.. aur apni wives ko bhi cheat kertey hein.. jab tak ke buss.. wo tang nahi a jatey.. aur phir.. wapis apni biwioun ke paas a jatey hein akhir kaar thak haar ker..
this is an avg general case of muhabbat..!!!
werna.. achey achey cases bhi hote hein.. lekin mein hamesha worst case iss liye likhta houn takkey best case ko khud se sochney mein app logoun ko asaani ho..
waise.. to my opinion.. ajj kal itna time nahi hai yaar ke muhabbat kerein app kisi larki se..
apna career banao.. apna future banao.. jinhoun ne paida kiya.. un ka haq pehley hai.. so pehley un ki khawahishein poori kero.. baat cheet ki hadd tak females se bhi gup shup rakho.. lekin addict na ho kisi ke bhi.. aur jab app ki jeb mein itna paisa ho ke app 2 logoun ka kharcha utha saktey houn.. compromises ker saktey houn, qurbaniyaan de saktey houn.. be los pyar muhabbat ker saktey houn.. mehnat ker ke asayishein faraham ker saktey houn.. tab idher udher dekhein aur sochein ke ho sakta hai koi aisi larki hai jis se app ki understanding ho aur app uss ke saath khush reh saktey houn.. so.. phir app shadi kerein.. aur sari umer muhabbat aur pyar se guzarein.. aur merey khayal se.. ye sab muhabbatoun se achi muhabbat hai jo ke aik larka apni biwi se kerta hai.. zyada tension mein perney se ye buhat behter hai
for a girl:
well.. girls are basically stupid!.. lolzz.. no offense.. lekin sach mein.. they are stupid.. and am telling you all this out of my experience.. well.. agar mein ne yahan pe kuch kaha.. tu iss pooreh forum ki girls ne mujhe KATAL ker dena hai.. so behter hai mein chupp hi rahoun.. waise bhi.. am more interested to save my brothers from this beemari then to say anything to the girls.. lolz
so guys.. listen to me.. its a brotherly advice to you all.. dont ever get into this love thing with girls.. dont ever do any committment with girls jo ke app poori na ker sako.. coz seriously.. girls take it on their heart and they really really get hurt.. aur gunah un ko nahi.. humein hi hota hai.. dont ever flirt.. aur haan.. larkiyoun se gup shup ka itna hi shauk hai tu just achi gup shup rakho and do clear them at the very beginning that its nothing but just a simple gup shup.. coz if once you OR her slips off.. tu masla ho sakta hai.. so plss stay away from this.. atleast uss waqt tak..
jab tak app mature nahi ho jatey.. jab tak app ke paas itna paisa na ho ke app apney app ko aur apni biwi ko aur apni family ko khush na rakh sako aur responsibility na utha sako.. and always choose the girl which understands you and has the capacity to adjust and compromise.. aur jis ke saath app adjust ker sako aur compromise ker sako.. coz its the only way you can be happy and you can love each other the whole life long..
aur haan.. ye baaki lust, flirt, jazbaati love, ishq wishq.. ye sab shadi ke 3 saal baad farigh ho jatey hein.. so its better ke sab kuch shadi ke baad ke liye bacha ker rakho taakey kabhi interest mein aur pyar mein kami na aye..
pheww.. so this is all i think about love between a girl and a guy
for a guy:
jab aik larka apney bachpaney mein hota hai.. uss waqt muhabbat aik khayal hota hai..
jab wo thora bhara hota hai.. tu wo aik feeling ban na start hoti hai..
uss waqt uss ko samajh nahi ata ke ye kiya feeling hai.. aur phir uss ke samney muhabbat ke buhat sarey phases a jatey hein.. like flirt, jazbati pyar, lust aur haqeeqi muhabbat.. jin ko abhi wo sirf observe ker raha hota hai apney ird gird logoun mein..
phir thora aur bhara ho ker uss ke andar feelings develop hona shurooh hoti hein.. aur wo zyada tar pehla kadam jazbaati pyar ki taraf uthata hai.. coz feelings aik dam se uss ko hit kerti hein aur wo jazbati ho jata hai.. so baghair kuch sochey samjhey wo muhabbat chahta hai.. aur wo jazbati pyar mein par jata hai kisi bhi larki se..
phir kuch arsa ke baad uss ko lagta hai ke ye tu buhat early ho gaya.. aur ye tu kuch ajeeb sa ho gaya hai.. tab ja ker wo sochta hai ke jis se mein muhabbat kerta houn.. uss mein kiya khoobiyan khamiyaan hein.. aur akhir phir uss ko lagta hai ke nahi yaar soch lena chahiye tha.. aur phir wo apni anaa aur apni ego ke peechey inkar bhi nahi ker sakta.. so wo flirt shurooh kerta hai.. aur abhi bhi uss ko ye theek se andaza nahi howa hota ke wo kiya chahta hai.. lekin uss ko aik addiction si ho jati hai aise pyar se.. so wo idher udher apni man pasand larki ki talash mein na janey kitni larkiyoun se flirt kerta hai.. aur ahista ahista uss ki muhabbat, lust mein badal jati hai.. aur ab uss ke liye sirf aik larki ki looks aur uss ki outer beauty hi aik pasand kerney ka mayaar ban ker reh jati hai.. kuch time guzarta hai.. jab wo tang a jata hai iss sab se.. kitney jhootey waadey.. kitni umeedein larkiyoun ko dila dila ker akhir kaar wo sab kuch chor deta hai aur haqeeqi muhabbat ki talash kerta hai.. lekin iss se pehley wo apney app ko pehchanta hai ke uss ki khawahish kiya hai.. aur phir.. khushkismat larkoun ko un ki haqeeqi muhabbat mil jati jis ko wo apni biwi bana letey hein.. aur badkismatoun ko arrange marriage kerni parti hai.. jo ke baad mein khushkismati se un ki haqeeqi muhabbat mein badal sakti hai.. lekin jo phir bhi badkismat reh jayein.. wo shadi ke baad bhi talash jari rakhtey hein.. aur apni wives ko bhi cheat kertey hein.. jab tak ke buss.. wo tang nahi a jatey.. aur phir.. wapis apni biwioun ke paas a jatey hein akhir kaar thak haar ker..
this is an avg general case of muhabbat..!!!
werna.. achey achey cases bhi hote hein.. lekin mein hamesha worst case iss liye likhta houn takkey best case ko khud se sochney mein app logoun ko asaani ho..
waise.. to my opinion.. ajj kal itna time nahi hai yaar ke muhabbat kerein app kisi larki se..
apna career banao.. apna future banao.. jinhoun ne paida kiya.. un ka haq pehley hai.. so pehley un ki khawahishein poori kero.. baat cheet ki hadd tak females se bhi gup shup rakho.. lekin addict na ho kisi ke bhi.. aur jab app ki jeb mein itna paisa ho ke app 2 logoun ka kharcha utha saktey houn.. compromises ker saktey houn, qurbaniyaan de saktey houn.. be los pyar muhabbat ker saktey houn.. mehnat ker ke asayishein faraham ker saktey houn.. tab idher udher dekhein aur sochein ke ho sakta hai koi aisi larki hai jis se app ki understanding ho aur app uss ke saath khush reh saktey houn.. so.. phir app shadi kerein.. aur sari umer muhabbat aur pyar se guzarein.. aur merey khayal se.. ye sab muhabbatoun se achi muhabbat hai jo ke aik larka apni biwi se kerta hai.. zyada tension mein perney se ye buhat behter hai
for a girl:
well.. girls are basically stupid!.. lolzz.. no offense.. lekin sach mein.. they are stupid.. and am telling you all this out of my experience.. well.. agar mein ne yahan pe kuch kaha.. tu iss pooreh forum ki girls ne mujhe KATAL ker dena hai.. so behter hai mein chupp hi rahoun.. waise bhi.. am more interested to save my brothers from this beemari then to say anything to the girls.. lolz
so guys.. listen to me.. its a brotherly advice to you all.. dont ever get into this love thing with girls.. dont ever do any committment with girls jo ke app poori na ker sako.. coz seriously.. girls take it on their heart and they really really get hurt.. aur gunah un ko nahi.. humein hi hota hai.. dont ever flirt.. aur haan.. larkiyoun se gup shup ka itna hi shauk hai tu just achi gup shup rakho and do clear them at the very beginning that its nothing but just a simple gup shup.. coz if once you OR her slips off.. tu masla ho sakta hai.. so plss stay away from this.. atleast uss waqt tak..
jab tak app mature nahi ho jatey.. jab tak app ke paas itna paisa na ho ke app apney app ko aur apni biwi ko aur apni family ko khush na rakh sako aur responsibility na utha sako.. and always choose the girl which understands you and has the capacity to adjust and compromise.. aur jis ke saath app adjust ker sako aur compromise ker sako.. coz its the only way you can be happy and you can love each other the whole life long..
aur haan.. ye baaki lust, flirt, jazbaati love, ishq wishq.. ye sab shadi ke 3 saal baad farigh ho jatey hein.. so its better ke sab kuch shadi ke baad ke liye bacha ker rakho taakey kabhi interest mein aur pyar mein kami na aye..
pheww.. so this is all i think about love between a girl and a guy
ek ek baat such lag rahe hai... very impresive reply..!!
or haan larkiya stupid hoti hain ye tu mein bhi manti hai
aisay hi her kise per trust ker k osay apna samjhlaina stupidity hi hai...
un bechariyo ko ye nahe pata hota na k larkay kitni taiz cheez hotay hain...
QUOTE(Bore Na Kar @ Sep 21 2007, 02:57 AM)
My next and probably last Question.
Kya Muhabbat zabardasti ya majboori se b ho sakti hy ??[color]
Kya Muhabbat zabardasti ya majboori se b ho sakti hy ??[color]
nahe..!!
QUOTE(Sharabi_Eyes @ Sep 20 2007, 06:31 PM)
muhabbat is a vast subject to discuss.. but yeah.. remaining inside the bounds of the proposed discussion which is muhabbat between a girl and a guy.. ill answer here..
for a guy:
jab aik larka apney bachpaney mein hota hai.. uss waqt muhabbat aik khayal hota hai..
jab wo thora bhara hota hai.. tu wo aik feeling ban na start hoti hai..
uss waqt uss ko samajh nahi ata ke ye kiya feeling hai.. aur phir uss ke samney muhabbat ke buhat sarey phases a jatey hein.. like flirt, jazbati pyar, lust aur haqeeqi muhabbat.. jin ko abhi wo sirf observe ker raha hota hai apney ird gird logoun mein..
phir thora aur bhara ho ker uss ke andar feelings develop hona shurooh hoti hein.. aur wo zyada tar pehla kadam jazbaati pyar ki taraf uthata hai.. coz feelings aik dam se uss ko hit kerti hein aur wo jazbati ho jata hai.. so baghair kuch sochey samjhey wo muhabbat chahta hai.. aur wo jazbati pyar mein par jata hai kisi bhi larki se..
phir kuch arsa ke baad uss ko lagta hai ke ye tu buhat early ho gaya.. aur ye tu kuch ajeeb sa ho gaya hai.. tab ja ker wo sochta hai ke jis se mein muhabbat kerta houn.. uss mein kiya khoobiyan khamiyaan hein.. aur akhir phir uss ko lagta hai ke nahi yaar soch lena chahiye tha.. aur phir wo apni anaa aur apni ego ke peechey inkar bhi nahi ker sakta.. so wo flirt shurooh kerta hai.. aur abhi bhi uss ko ye theek se andaza nahi howa hota ke wo kiya chahta hai.. lekin uss ko aik addiction si ho jati hai aise pyar se.. so wo idher udher apni man pasand larki ki talash mein na janey kitni larkiyoun se flirt kerta hai.. aur ahista ahista uss ki muhabbat, lust mein badal jati hai.. aur ab uss ke liye sirf aik larki ki looks aur uss ki outer beauty hi aik pasand kerney ka mayaar ban ker reh jati hai.. kuch time guzarta hai.. jab wo tang a jata hai iss sab se.. kitney jhootey waadey.. kitni umeedein larkiyoun ko dila dila ker akhir kaar wo sab kuch chor deta hai aur haqeeqi muhabbat ki talash kerta hai.. lekin iss se pehley wo apney app ko pehchanta hai ke uss ki khawahish kiya hai.. aur phir.. khushkismat larkoun ko un ki haqeeqi muhabbat mil jati jis ko wo apni biwi bana letey hein.. aur badkismatoun ko arrange marriage kerni parti hai.. jo ke baad mein khushkismati se un ki haqeeqi muhabbat mein badal sakti hai.. lekin jo phir bhi badkismat reh jayein.. wo shadi ke baad bhi talash jari rakhtey hein.. aur apni wives ko bhi cheat kertey hein.. jab tak ke buss.. wo tang nahi a jatey.. aur phir.. wapis apni biwioun ke paas a jatey hein akhir kaar thak haar ker..
this is an avg general case of muhabbat..!!!
werna.. achey achey cases bhi hote hein.. lekin mein hamesha worst case iss liye likhta houn takkey best case ko khud se sochney mein app logoun ko asaani ho..
waise.. to my opinion.. ajj kal itna time nahi hai yaar ke muhabbat kerein app kisi larki se..
apna career banao.. apna future banao.. jinhoun ne paida kiya.. un ka haq pehley hai.. so pehley un ki khawahishein poori kero.. baat cheet ki hadd tak females se bhi gup shup rakho.. lekin addict na ho kisi ke bhi.. aur jab app ki jeb mein itna paisa ho ke app 2 logoun ka kharcha utha saktey houn.. compromises ker saktey houn, qurbaniyaan de saktey houn.. be los pyar muhabbat ker saktey houn.. mehnat ker ke asayishein faraham ker saktey houn.. tab idher udher dekhein aur sochein ke ho sakta hai koi aisi larki hai jis se app ki understanding ho aur app uss ke saath khush reh saktey houn.. so.. phir app shadi kerein.. aur sari umer muhabbat aur pyar se guzarein.. aur merey khayal se.. ye sab muhabbatoun se achi muhabbat hai jo ke aik larka apni biwi se kerta hai.. zyada tension mein perney se ye buhat behter hai
for a girl:
well.. girls are basically stupid!.. lolzz.. no offense.. lekin sach mein.. they are stupid.. and am telling you all this out of my experience.. well.. agar mein ne yahan pe kuch kaha.. tu iss pooreh forum ki girls ne mujhe KATAL ker dena hai.. so behter hai mein chupp hi rahoun.. waise bhi.. am more interested to save my brothers from this beemari then to say anything to the girls.. lolz
so guys.. listen to me.. its a brotherly advice to you all.. dont ever get into this love thing with girls.. dont ever do any committment with girls jo ke app poori na ker sako.. coz seriously.. girls take it on their heart and they really really get hurt.. aur gunah un ko nahi.. humein hi hota hai.. dont ever flirt.. aur haan.. larkiyoun se gup shup ka itna hi shauk hai tu just achi gup shup rakho and do clear them at the very beginning that its nothing but just a simple gup shup.. coz if once you OR her slips off.. tu masla ho sakta hai.. so plss stay away from this.. atleast uss waqt tak..
jab tak app mature nahi ho jatey.. jab tak app ke paas itna paisa na ho ke app apney app ko aur apni biwi ko aur apni family ko khush na rakh sako aur responsibility na utha sako.. and always choose the girl which understands you and has the capacity to adjust and compromise.. aur jis ke saath app adjust ker sako aur compromise ker sako.. coz its the only way you can be happy and you can love each other the whole life long..
aur haan.. ye baaki lust, flirt, jazbaati love, ishq wishq.. ye sab shadi ke 3 saal baad farigh ho jatey hein.. so its better ke sab kuch shadi ke baad ke liye bacha ker rakho taakey kabhi interest mein aur pyar mein kami na aye..
pheww.. so this is all i think about love between a girl and a guy
for a guy:
jab aik larka apney bachpaney mein hota hai.. uss waqt muhabbat aik khayal hota hai..
jab wo thora bhara hota hai.. tu wo aik feeling ban na start hoti hai..
uss waqt uss ko samajh nahi ata ke ye kiya feeling hai.. aur phir uss ke samney muhabbat ke buhat sarey phases a jatey hein.. like flirt, jazbati pyar, lust aur haqeeqi muhabbat.. jin ko abhi wo sirf observe ker raha hota hai apney ird gird logoun mein..
phir thora aur bhara ho ker uss ke andar feelings develop hona shurooh hoti hein.. aur wo zyada tar pehla kadam jazbaati pyar ki taraf uthata hai.. coz feelings aik dam se uss ko hit kerti hein aur wo jazbati ho jata hai.. so baghair kuch sochey samjhey wo muhabbat chahta hai.. aur wo jazbati pyar mein par jata hai kisi bhi larki se..
phir kuch arsa ke baad uss ko lagta hai ke ye tu buhat early ho gaya.. aur ye tu kuch ajeeb sa ho gaya hai.. tab ja ker wo sochta hai ke jis se mein muhabbat kerta houn.. uss mein kiya khoobiyan khamiyaan hein.. aur akhir phir uss ko lagta hai ke nahi yaar soch lena chahiye tha.. aur phir wo apni anaa aur apni ego ke peechey inkar bhi nahi ker sakta.. so wo flirt shurooh kerta hai.. aur abhi bhi uss ko ye theek se andaza nahi howa hota ke wo kiya chahta hai.. lekin uss ko aik addiction si ho jati hai aise pyar se.. so wo idher udher apni man pasand larki ki talash mein na janey kitni larkiyoun se flirt kerta hai.. aur ahista ahista uss ki muhabbat, lust mein badal jati hai.. aur ab uss ke liye sirf aik larki ki looks aur uss ki outer beauty hi aik pasand kerney ka mayaar ban ker reh jati hai.. kuch time guzarta hai.. jab wo tang a jata hai iss sab se.. kitney jhootey waadey.. kitni umeedein larkiyoun ko dila dila ker akhir kaar wo sab kuch chor deta hai aur haqeeqi muhabbat ki talash kerta hai.. lekin iss se pehley wo apney app ko pehchanta hai ke uss ki khawahish kiya hai.. aur phir.. khushkismat larkoun ko un ki haqeeqi muhabbat mil jati jis ko wo apni biwi bana letey hein.. aur badkismatoun ko arrange marriage kerni parti hai.. jo ke baad mein khushkismati se un ki haqeeqi muhabbat mein badal sakti hai.. lekin jo phir bhi badkismat reh jayein.. wo shadi ke baad bhi talash jari rakhtey hein.. aur apni wives ko bhi cheat kertey hein.. jab tak ke buss.. wo tang nahi a jatey.. aur phir.. wapis apni biwioun ke paas a jatey hein akhir kaar thak haar ker..
this is an avg general case of muhabbat..!!!
werna.. achey achey cases bhi hote hein.. lekin mein hamesha worst case iss liye likhta houn takkey best case ko khud se sochney mein app logoun ko asaani ho..
waise.. to my opinion.. ajj kal itna time nahi hai yaar ke muhabbat kerein app kisi larki se..
apna career banao.. apna future banao.. jinhoun ne paida kiya.. un ka haq pehley hai.. so pehley un ki khawahishein poori kero.. baat cheet ki hadd tak females se bhi gup shup rakho.. lekin addict na ho kisi ke bhi.. aur jab app ki jeb mein itna paisa ho ke app 2 logoun ka kharcha utha saktey houn.. compromises ker saktey houn, qurbaniyaan de saktey houn.. be los pyar muhabbat ker saktey houn.. mehnat ker ke asayishein faraham ker saktey houn.. tab idher udher dekhein aur sochein ke ho sakta hai koi aisi larki hai jis se app ki understanding ho aur app uss ke saath khush reh saktey houn.. so.. phir app shadi kerein.. aur sari umer muhabbat aur pyar se guzarein.. aur merey khayal se.. ye sab muhabbatoun se achi muhabbat hai jo ke aik larka apni biwi se kerta hai.. zyada tension mein perney se ye buhat behter hai
for a girl:
well.. girls are basically stupid!.. lolzz.. no offense.. lekin sach mein.. they are stupid.. and am telling you all this out of my experience.. well.. agar mein ne yahan pe kuch kaha.. tu iss pooreh forum ki girls ne mujhe KATAL ker dena hai.. so behter hai mein chupp hi rahoun.. waise bhi.. am more interested to save my brothers from this beemari then to say anything to the girls.. lolz
so guys.. listen to me.. its a brotherly advice to you all.. dont ever get into this love thing with girls.. dont ever do any committment with girls jo ke app poori na ker sako.. coz seriously.. girls take it on their heart and they really really get hurt.. aur gunah un ko nahi.. humein hi hota hai.. dont ever flirt.. aur haan.. larkiyoun se gup shup ka itna hi shauk hai tu just achi gup shup rakho and do clear them at the very beginning that its nothing but just a simple gup shup.. coz if once you OR her slips off.. tu masla ho sakta hai.. so plss stay away from this.. atleast uss waqt tak..
jab tak app mature nahi ho jatey.. jab tak app ke paas itna paisa na ho ke app apney app ko aur apni biwi ko aur apni family ko khush na rakh sako aur responsibility na utha sako.. and always choose the girl which understands you and has the capacity to adjust and compromise.. aur jis ke saath app adjust ker sako aur compromise ker sako.. coz its the only way you can be happy and you can love each other the whole life long..
aur haan.. ye baaki lust, flirt, jazbaati love, ishq wishq.. ye sab shadi ke 3 saal baad farigh ho jatey hein.. so its better ke sab kuch shadi ke baad ke liye bacha ker rakho taakey kabhi interest mein aur pyar mein kami na aye..
pheww.. so this is all i think about love between a girl and a guy
waisse jitna ap likhte ho .. ap ka keyboard to har 2nd month chnage hota ho ga ..
agreed wid da guyz part n sumwat agreement on galz part too ... but sum galz r juz too hard to b made stupid.. ( take mah wrd for it !!)
nice reply...
QUOTE(Bore Na Kar @ Sep 20 2007, 09:20 PM)
5- Tenha Saima, nice reply,
U said "kissi ka acha lagna muhabbat nahien stupidity hai .. dis goes for guyz n
galz... agr koi sirf luks pe ja raha hai too immature hai ...in otha wrdz GROW UP ! "
* It depends on every person how he/she takes it, koi apko achha lagay can NEVER
EVER just mean that he/she looks beautiful to you
Acha lagna means k apkokisi ki adatein, khayalat , taur tarekay pasand hon aur wo apko acha lagne lagay
AgreeD .. depends on every person
QUOTE(KinZz @ Sep 20 2007, 10:51 PM)
ek ek baat such lag rahe hai... very impresive reply..!!
or haan larkiya stupid hoti hain ye tu mein bhi manti hai
aisay hi her kise per trust ker k osay apna samjhlaina stupidity hi hai...
un bechariyo ko ye nahe pata hota na k larkay kitni taiz cheez hotay hain...
or haan larkiya stupid hoti hain ye tu mein bhi manti hai
aisay hi her kise per trust ker k osay apna samjhlaina stupidity hi hai...
un bechariyo ko ye nahe pata hota na k larkay kitni taiz cheez hotay hain...
shayad issi liye kahte hain k aqal use karo :P
QUOTE(Bore Na Kar @ Sep 20 2007, 09:27 PM)
[color=blue]My next and probably last Question.
Kya Muhabbat zabardasti ya majboori se b ho sakti hy ??[color]
Kya Muhabbat zabardasti ya majboori se b ho sakti hy ??[color]
Muhabbad par Ph.D karne ka irada hai? :P
zabardasti too impossible hai ... u can make a person hate u mor dis way..
majboori main ... one can start to like or sympathize sumbody but luv is a lil off...
luv takes time to grow n it likes to xcel itself !
[quote name='Bore Na Kar' date='Sep 20 2007, 01:20 PM' post='2484502']
[b]
4- Nice reply by Forevergreen. But u didnt tell k apko hansi kis baat pe aai? Or it is just
a try to show that u r a genious and my questions r stupid ones well if someone
here feels himself/herself genious, no need to reply to my questions
Otherwise thanx for ur replies,
U said "To jahan tak meri sooch hay ke Mohabbat ek waqt mein ek hi rishte se
mutaliq sirf ek hi shakhs se hosakti hay ...."
If this is the case then why Allah has allowed that men can marry twice or even
more, yakinan agr ek rishtay k liye ek se hi muhabt ho sakti hy to islam kabi b ek
se zyada shadi ki ijazat na deta kyunke wife husband ka to rishta hi muhabat ka
hota hy. isnt it? or it is another stupid question
U said "insani fitrat Mohabbat ki bhooki hay ......... Usse har haal mein har waqt
Mohabbat chahye .... Aesa ho sakta hay ke Agar aap ko koi us se bhi zyada
Mohabbat de jo aap ko aap ke pehle saathi se mili thi to may be aap ki tawajah us
taraf ho jay "
* Thats a gud point.
Ohh God
is it only me ...ya sab ko hi roza lag raha y hay 
..
I did say ke mujhe hasi aai to is mein ye kahan sabit huwa ke am saying dat am genious. me bilkul bhi genious nahi ..... Balke sire se hi ek aam si Larki hoon ...n i hate to say dat Yes am di one n no 1 can compete me ....am very down to earth person ...but jab baat meri izzat ki aati hay to koi Mujhe majboor nahi karsakta mere Moqaf se hatne per .... Simple naa.......
Ne ways .... Thanks for linkin Points >..Oppzz haan ye bata doon ke Hasi is liye aai ke Mein ne kabhi larkyon se nahi suna ke un ko ek Waqt mein do loogon se mohabat huwi ho Hamesha hi Larkon ko ye kehte suna hay n ma Bros r a big Eg of dis for me ..woh yaad aagay the is liye hasi aagai ...Bura kiya kya has ke ?
Khir U have asked ke agar ek hi rishte ke liye 1 se zyada loogon se mohabbat nahi ho sakti to Islaam mein kyon 4 Bvon ki ijazat hay .......
Yes Islam did permit a Man to hv more den 1 wife lekin jis baat per Zor diya gaya hay woh hay INSAAF .............. insaaf ki sakhti se Takeed ki gai hay ke agar aap 1 se zyada BVyan rakhte ho to un ke saath Insaaf karna hoga aur phir ye bhi kaha gaya hay ke Hum insan bilkul bhi insaaf nahi kar sakte ..... mohabbat ka mein ne nahi suna kahin haan agar Mohabbat se baat karna aur mohabbat hona Bilkul alag baaten hain ...
Mohabbat Zabardasti nahi ki jasakti warna kaha jaata ke tum Mohabbat karo ..... ye to buss ho jati hay ........ aur us ke peeche bhi circumstances hote hain .....
i hope mein samjha pai hoon
[b]
4- Nice reply by Forevergreen. But u didnt tell k apko hansi kis baat pe aai? Or it is just
a try to show that u r a genious and my questions r stupid ones
well if someonehere feels himself/herself genious, no need to reply to my questions
Otherwise thanx for ur replies,
U said "To jahan tak meri sooch hay ke Mohabbat ek waqt mein ek hi rishte se
mutaliq sirf ek hi shakhs se hosakti hay ...."
If this is the case then why Allah has allowed that men can marry twice or even
more, yakinan agr ek rishtay k liye ek se hi muhabt ho sakti hy to islam kabi b ek
se zyada shadi ki ijazat na deta kyunke wife husband ka to rishta hi muhabat ka
hota hy. isnt it? or it is another stupid question
U said "insani fitrat Mohabbat ki bhooki hay ......... Usse har haal mein har waqt
Mohabbat chahye .... Aesa ho sakta hay ke Agar aap ko koi us se bhi zyada
Mohabbat de jo aap ko aap ke pehle saathi se mili thi to may be aap ki tawajah us
taraf ho jay "
* Thats a gud point.
Ohh God
is it only me ...ya sab ko hi roza lag raha y hay ..I did say ke mujhe hasi aai to is mein ye kahan sabit huwa ke am saying dat am genious.
me bilkul bhi genious nahi ..... Balke sire se hi ek aam si Larki hoon ...n i hate to say dat Yes am di one n no 1 can compete me ....am very down to earth person ...but jab baat meri izzat ki aati hay to koi Mujhe majboor nahi karsakta mere Moqaf se hatne per .... Simple naa....... Ne ways .... Thanks for linkin Points >..Oppzz haan ye bata doon ke Hasi is liye aai ke Mein ne kabhi larkyon se nahi suna ke un ko ek Waqt mein do loogon se mohabat huwi ho Hamesha hi Larkon ko ye kehte suna hay n ma Bros r a big Eg of dis for me ..woh yaad aagay the is liye hasi aagai ...Bura kiya kya has ke ?
Khir U have asked ke agar ek hi rishte ke liye 1 se zyada loogon se mohabbat nahi ho sakti to Islaam mein kyon 4 Bvon ki ijazat hay .......
Yes Islam did permit a Man to hv more den 1 wife lekin jis baat per Zor diya gaya hay woh hay INSAAF .............. insaaf ki sakhti se Takeed ki gai hay ke agar aap 1 se zyada BVyan rakhte ho to un ke saath Insaaf karna hoga aur phir ye bhi kaha gaya hay ke Hum insan bilkul bhi insaaf nahi kar sakte ..... mohabbat ka mein ne nahi suna kahin haan agar Mohabbat se baat karna aur mohabbat hona Bilkul alag baaten hain ...
Mohabbat Zabardasti nahi ki jasakti warna kaha jaata ke tum Mohabbat karo ..... ye to buss ho jati hay ........ aur us ke peeche bhi circumstances hote hain .....
i hope mein samjha pai hoon
QUOTE(Forever Green @ Sep 21 2007, 12:00 AM)
Zabardast bhai................ Aap ki Ungliyon se to alfaaz aese nikalte hain jese bane hi aap ke liye hoon ...
Bahot khoob
Bahot khoob
agar yahaaN DL bhai hotay to yehi kahtay:
munn tera haji bagoyam, tou mera mulla bago
(maiN tujhay haji kah kar pokarouN aur tou mujhay mulla kah kar hisaab barabar karday)
QUOTE(Bore Na Kar @ Sep 21 2007, 02:27 AM)
My next and probably last Question.
Kya Muhabbat zabardasti ya majboori se b ho sakti hy ??
Kya Muhabbat zabardasti ya majboori se b ho sakti hy ??
jissay aap 'mohabbat' kah rahay haiN, woh zabardasti ya majboori se bhi ho sakti hai
QUOTE(tenha_saima @ Sep 21 2007, 06:00 AM)
Muhabbad par Ph.D karne ka irada hai? :P
zabardasti too impossible hai ... u can make a person hate u mor dis way..
majboori main ... one can start to like or sympathize sumbody but luv is a lil off...
luv takes time to grow n it likes to xcel itself !
Hahaha nopes, only to get some views on muhabbat. Sometimes it is very important to know the views of people beacuse that broadens ur thinking ability
hmmm thanx for reply
QUOTE(Forever Green @ Sep 21 2007, 06:35 AM)
QUOTE(Bore Na Kar @ Sep 20 2007, 01:20 PM)
[b]
4- Nice reply by Forevergreen. But u didnt tell k apko hansi kis baat pe aai? Or it is just
a try to show that u r a genious and my questions r stupid ones
well if someonehere feels himself/herself genious, no need to reply to my questions
Otherwise thanx for ur replies,
U said "To jahan tak meri sooch hay ke Mohabbat ek waqt mein ek hi rishte se
mutaliq sirf ek hi shakhs se hosakti hay ...."
If this is the case then why Allah has allowed that men can marry twice or even
more, yakinan agr ek rishtay k liye ek se hi muhabt ho sakti hy to islam kabi b ek
se zyada shadi ki ijazat na deta kyunke wife husband ka to rishta hi muhabat ka
hota hy. isnt it? or it is another stupid question
U said "insani fitrat Mohabbat ki bhooki hay ......... Usse har haal mein har waqt
Mohabbat chahye .... Aesa ho sakta hay ke Agar aap ko koi us se bhi zyada
Mohabbat de jo aap ko aap ke pehle saathi se mili thi to may be aap ki tawajah us
taraf ho jay "
* Thats a gud point.
Ohh God
is it only me ...ya sab ko hi roza lag raha y hay ..I did say ke mujhe hasi aai to is mein ye kahan sabit huwa ke am saying dat am genious.
me bilkul bhi genious nahi ..... Balke sire se hi ek aam si Larki hoon ...n i hate to say dat Yes am di one n no 1 can compete me ....am very down to earth person ...but jab baat meri izzat ki aati hay to koi Mujhe majboor nahi karsakta mere Moqaf se hatne per .... Simple naa....... Ne ways .... Thanks for linkin Points >..Oppzz haan ye bata doon ke Hasi is liye aai ke Mein ne kabhi larkyon se nahi suna ke un ko ek Waqt mein do loogon se mohabat huwi ho Hamesha hi Larkon ko ye kehte suna hay n ma Bros r a big Eg of dis for me ..woh yaad aagay the is liye hasi aagai ...Bura kiya kya has ke ?
Khir U have asked ke agar ek hi rishte ke liye 1 se zyada loogon se mohabbat nahi ho sakti to Islaam mein kyon 4 Bvon ki ijazat hay .......
Yes Islam did permit a Man to hv more den 1 wife lekin jis baat per Zor diya gaya hay woh hay INSAAF .............. insaaf ki sakhti se Takeed ki gai hay ke agar aap 1 se zyada BVyan rakhte ho to un ke saath Insaaf karna hoga aur phir ye bhi kaha gaya hay ke Hum insan bilkul bhi insaaf nahi kar sakte ..... mohabbat ka mein ne nahi suna kahin haan agar Mohabbat se baat karna aur mohabbat hona Bilkul alag baaten hain ...
Mohabbat Zabardasti nahi ki jasakti warna kaha jaata ke tum Mohabbat karo ..... ye to buss ho jati hay ........ aur us ke peeche bhi circumstances hote hain .....
i hope mein samjha pai hoon
Thanx for replying and clearing ur hansi :d :d
I think k jahan nikah k baray mein ayat hy wahan nikah ka jo maqsad bataya gya hy us mein mian biwi ki apasi muhabbat ka b zikr hy. im not well qualified for islamic discussion so me keeping myself away from it :d
QUOTE(Abu Adnan @ Sep 21 2007, 08:36 AM)
agar yahaaN DL bhai hotay to yehi kahtay:
munn tera haji bagoyam, tou mera mulla bago
(maiN tujhay haji kah kar pokarouN aur tou mujhay mulla kah kar hisaab barabar karday)
Bagoyam ka matlab kya hota hy? :d
QUOTE(Abu Adnan @ Sep 21 2007, 08:40 AM)
jissay aap 'mohabbat' kah rahay haiN, woh zabardasti ya majboori se bhi ho sakti hai
Yani u wanna say k asal muhabat majbori ya zabardasti nai ho sakti :p wese i dont think k mene muhabat ki koi aur kisam btayi, jo duniya ka dastoor hy wohi pesh kia tha :d
Most of the people here agree k muhababt majbori se nai ho sakti, ye humdardi type ki koi chez ho sakti hy bus.
Then what about arranged marriages. Apko ek aisi larki se ya larkiyun ko aik aise larkay se pyar aur muhabat k liye kaha jata hy jise wo janti tak nahi hoti, un dono k pas koi choice nai hoti sivaye iskay k wo ek dosray ko "majbori" se qabol kr k zabardasti us k liye dil mein muhabat paida krein, ya ye sirf compromise hota hy? whats ur thoughts on it :d
میں نے بارہا اپنے دل سے پوچھا محبت ہے کیا؟
پتہ ہے میرے دل نے مجھ سے کیا کہا؟
محبت ایک ایسا لطیف جز بہ ہے جسے تشہیر کی نہیں اظہار کی ضرورت ہوتی ہے
precious_pearl
محبت ایک جزبہ ہے جو اپنی آغوش میں بے پناہ احساسات لئے ہوئے ہے۔
یہ احساسات ہی تو ہیں جو اس جزبہ کا اظہار چاہتے ہیں۔
رہی بات احساس کی تو یہ خود بہ خود جنم لیتے ہیں دلوں میں۔
کبھی کسی شکل میں کبھی کسی شکل میں۔
مثلاً کسی کے بارے میں آپ نرم رویہ رکھتے ہیں تو یقیناً اس کی کوئی
اچھائی آپ کو اُس کے ساتھ نرمی کا احساس دلاتی ہے اور جب یہ احساس شدت سے بڑ ھتا ہے تو اِسے اَگلے کے دل تک رسائی چاہئیے ہوتی ہے اور اُس کے دل تک پہنچنے کے لئے اِسے ایک لطیف پیرائے میں اظہار چاہئیے جو کہ محبت کی شکل میں اِسے ملتا ہے۔
This Is What I Think.
Precious_Pearl
بات کو آگے بڑ ھائیں تو محبت کی نہیں جاتی ہو جاتی ہے
یہ وہ جزبہ ہے جو اپنا اظہار چاہتا ہے اور جب تک اظہار نہ ہو مقصود اور مقصود علیہ کو بے چین کئے رکھتا ہے۔
یہ جزبہ کرنے والے کو ایک ایسی طاقت دیتا ہے کہ اور اس میں تمام دنیا سے ٹکرا جانے کا حوصلہ پیدا کرتا ہے۔
الخرض محبت بے قراری میں قرار دیتا اور کرنے والوں کو ایک ایسی دنیا میں لے جانے والا جزبہ ہے جہاں محبوب کی تمام تر اچھائیاں اس کی برائیوں پر پردہ ڈال دیتی ہیں اور ایک ماورائی دنیا میں لے جاتاہے۔
یہ وہ جزبہ ہے جو اپنا اظہار چاہتا ہے اور جب تک اظہار نہ ہو مقصود اور مقصود علیہ کو بے چین کئے رکھتا ہے۔
یہ جزبہ کرنے والے کو ایک ایسی طاقت دیتا ہے کہ اور اس میں تمام دنیا سے ٹکرا جانے کا حوصلہ پیدا کرتا ہے۔
الخرض محبت بے قراری میں قرار دیتا اور کرنے والوں کو ایک ایسی دنیا میں لے جانے والا جزبہ ہے جہاں محبوب کی تمام تر اچھائیاں اس کی برائیوں پر پردہ ڈال دیتی ہیں اور ایک ماورائی دنیا میں لے جاتاہے۔
محبت کیا چاہتی ہے؟
محبت اعتبار چاہتی ہے
محبت ساتھ چاہتی ہے
محبت اقرار چاہتی ہے
محبت کیا دیتی ہے؟
محبت اعتماد دیتی ہے
محبت حوصلہ دیتی ہے
محبت بے قراری دیتی ہے
محبت اعتبار چاہتی ہے
محبت ساتھ چاہتی ہے
محبت اقرار چاہتی ہے
محبت کیا دیتی ہے؟
محبت اعتماد دیتی ہے
محبت حوصلہ دیتی ہے
محبت بے قراری دیتی ہے
Teri Saansoun Ki Thakkan Teri Nighahoun Ka Sukoot
Dar Haqeeqat koi Rangeen Shararat Hi Na Ho
Main Sumajh Baitha Houn Jissay Muhabbat Ka Andaz
Woh Tabbasum Wo Takallum Teri Aadat Hi Na Ho
Precious Hay Na?
Precious_pearl
Dar Haqeeqat koi Rangeen Shararat Hi Na Ho
Main Sumajh Baitha Houn Jissay Muhabbat Ka Andaz
Woh Tabbasum Wo Takallum Teri Aadat Hi Na Ho
Precious Hay Na?
Precious_pearl
Mohabbat ehsaas hay
ehsaas jazba hay
jazba .........
khuch baatain kahi nahin jaatein
sirf sumjhee jaate hain
Precious_Pearl
ehsaas jazba hay
jazba .........
khuch baatain kahi nahin jaatein
sirf sumjhee jaate hain
Precious_Pearl
QUOTE(Bore Na Kar @ Sep 21 2007, 12:34 PM)
Yani u wanna say k asal muhabat majbori ya zabardasti nai ho sakti :p wese i dont think k mene muhabat ki koi aur kisam btayi, jo duniya ka dastoor hy wohi pesh kia tha :d
Most of the people here agree k muhababt majbori se nai ho sakti, ye humdardi type ki koi chez ho sakti hy bus.
Then what about arranged marriages. Apko ek aisi larki se ya larkiyun ko aik aise larkay se pyar aur muhabat k liye kaha jata hy jise wo janti tak nahi hoti, un dono k pas koi choice nai hoti sivaye iskay k wo ek dosray ko "majbori" se qabol kr k zabardasti us k liye dil mein muhabat paida krein, ya ye sirf compromise hota hy? whats ur thoughts on it :d
Most of the people here agree k muhababt majbori se nai ho sakti, ye humdardi type ki koi chez ho sakti hy bus.
Then what about arranged marriages. Apko ek aisi larki se ya larkiyun ko aik aise larkay se pyar aur muhabat k liye kaha jata hy jise wo janti tak nahi hoti, un dono k pas koi choice nai hoti sivaye iskay k wo ek dosray ko "majbori" se qabol kr k zabardasti us k liye dil mein muhabat paida krein, ya ye sirf compromise hota hy? whats ur thoughts on it :d
aap nay to khud hi jawaab day dia k iss sooratay haal maiN log zabardasti /majbooran bhi 'mohabbat' karnay lagtay haiN.... wazah rahay k 'mohabbat hona' aur cheez hai aur 'mohabbat karna' aur cheez. mohabbat majbooran / zabardsti 'ki' jasakti hai... 'ho' nahee sakti. 'honay wali' mohabbat to khud bah khud hoti hai. bila kissi wajah k bhiiiiiiii
Muhabbat Naam Hay Kis Ka Shourooh Kahan Say Hoti Hay
Kia Kis Nay Issay Paida Khutum Kahan Pay Hoti Hay
Muhabbat Naam Hay Jis Ka Shourooh Sansoun Say Hoti Hay
Kiya Rub Nay Issay Paida Khutum Saansoun Pay Hoti Hay
Precious
QUOTE(tenha_saima @ Sep 21 2007, 06:26 AM)
shayad issi liye kahte hain k aqal use karo :P
kuch log pahlay use kerlaitay hai or kuch log ko jab lesson milta hai tab use kartay hai...
or kuch ko lesson mil bhi jay tab bhi use nahe kartay... :D
QUOTE(Bore Na Kar @ Sep 21 2007, 02:27 AM)
[color=blue]My next and probably last Question.
Kya Muhabbat zabardasti ya majboori se b ho sakti hy ??[color]
Kya Muhabbat zabardasti ya majboori se b ho sakti hy ??[color]
no more questions..!!!
and for an answer to this question! HC mein 2 buhat achey emoticons hein jo iss ka answer de saktey hein..agar muhabbat zabardasti kerney ki koshish kero gey ya kerwao gey tu anjaam ye ho ga!
agar muhabbat majboori se kero gey ya kerwao gey tu anjaam ye ho ga!
so samajh jao.. aur plsssssss pplz.. GHALIB mat bano..!! muhabbat ho bhi jaye tab bhi 10,000 kaam hein insan ko aur iss duniya mein..
and regarding your reply BNK..
waqayi mein ajj kal ke daur mein muhabbat ka time nahi hai..!!! so jab sehi time aye ga tab dekha jaye ga..!!!
ok
QUOTE(Bore Na Kar @ Sep 21 2007, 03:20 AM)
Extremely happy for getting good nice replies. Thanx to all of you, i think the material is enough to look n think n getting the right answer from here.
1- Nice one Abu Adnan.
2- Gud explanantion kashif
3- Very interesting rep by Sharabi Eyes :p
U said "ajj kal itna time nahi hai yaar ke muhabbat kerein app kisi larki se..."
I think aisa sirf doosron ko kaha hi ja sakta hy haqiqat iss se mukhtalif hy :d wese b
farigh time dkh k to muhabt nai ki jati , ye to bus ho jati hy :p
4- Nice reply by Forevergreen. But u didnt tell k apko hansi kis baat pe aai? Or it is just
a try to show that u r a genious and my questions r stupid ones well if someone
here feels himself/herself genious, no need to reply to my questions
Otherwise thanx for ur replies,
U said "To jahan tak meri sooch hay ke Mohabbat ek waqt mein ek hi rishte se
mutaliq sirf ek hi shakhs se hosakti hay ...."
If this is the case then why Allah has allowed that men can marry twice or even
more, yakinan agr ek rishtay k liye ek se hi muhabt ho sakti hy to islam kabi b ek
se zyada shadi ki ijazat na deta kyunke wife husband ka to rishta hi muhabat ka
hota hy. isnt it? or it is another stupid question
U said "insani fitrat Mohabbat ki bhooki hay ......... Usse har haal mein har waqt
Mohabbat chahye .... Aesa ho sakta hay ke Agar aap ko koi us se bhi zyada
Mohabbat de jo aap ko aap ke pehle saathi se mili thi to may be aap ki tawajah us
taraf ho jay "
* Thats a gud point.
5- Tenha Saima, nice reply,
U said "kissi ka acha lagna muhabbat nahien stupidity hai .. dis goes for guyz n
galz... agr koi sirf luks pe ja raha hai too immature hai ...in otha wrdz GROW UP ! "
* It depends on every person how he/she takes it, koi apko achha lagay can NEVER
EVER just mean that he/she looks beautiful to you Acha lagna means k apko
kisi ki adatein, khayalat , taur tarekay pasand hon aur wo apko acha lagne lagay
6- Thanx for ur reply Haadea Wese mard itne buray b nai hotay aur aurtein itni
masoom b nai hoti hahaha
U said k kisi se break up k baad dobara kisi aur se muhabt nai ho skti, wajah?? the
reason u told is not a convincing one dear
1- Nice one Abu Adnan.
2- Gud explanantion kashif
3- Very interesting rep by Sharabi Eyes :p
U said "ajj kal itna time nahi hai yaar ke muhabbat kerein app kisi larki se..."
I think aisa sirf doosron ko kaha hi ja sakta hy haqiqat iss se mukhtalif hy :d wese b
farigh time dkh k to muhabt nai ki jati , ye to bus ho jati hy :p
4- Nice reply by Forevergreen. But u didnt tell k apko hansi kis baat pe aai? Or it is just
a try to show that u r a genious and my questions r stupid ones
well if someonehere feels himself/herself genious, no need to reply to my questions
Otherwise thanx for ur replies,
U said "To jahan tak meri sooch hay ke Mohabbat ek waqt mein ek hi rishte se
mutaliq sirf ek hi shakhs se hosakti hay ...."
If this is the case then why Allah has allowed that men can marry twice or even
more, yakinan agr ek rishtay k liye ek se hi muhabt ho sakti hy to islam kabi b ek
se zyada shadi ki ijazat na deta kyunke wife husband ka to rishta hi muhabat ka
hota hy. isnt it? or it is another stupid question
U said "insani fitrat Mohabbat ki bhooki hay ......... Usse har haal mein har waqt
Mohabbat chahye .... Aesa ho sakta hay ke Agar aap ko koi us se bhi zyada
Mohabbat de jo aap ko aap ke pehle saathi se mili thi to may be aap ki tawajah us
taraf ho jay "
* Thats a gud point.
5- Tenha Saima, nice reply,
U said "kissi ka acha lagna muhabbat nahien stupidity hai .. dis goes for guyz n
galz... agr koi sirf luks pe ja raha hai too immature hai ...in otha wrdz GROW UP ! "
* It depends on every person how he/she takes it, koi apko achha lagay can NEVER
EVER just mean that he/she looks beautiful to you
Acha lagna means k apkokisi ki adatein, khayalat , taur tarekay pasand hon aur wo apko acha lagne lagay
6- Thanx for ur reply Haadea
Wese mard itne buray b nai hotay aur aurtein itni masoom b nai hoti hahaha
U said k kisi se break up k baad dobara kisi aur se muhabt nai ho skti, wajah?? the
reason u told is not a convincing one dear
Ji mainne likha tha males buht se love ker sakty hain aisa akser writers kahty hain haan females aik adh baar hii...............
main ne nahi kaha females innocent hoti hain no BIILI SHAER KI KHALA HOTI HAI SO........... AGY AP KHUD SAMAJH DAAR HAIN
haan araut stupid hoti hia aur jazbati bhii buht hoti hai
muhabt main gahri main chali jati hai.
males ko allah ne bahter superior banay hai aur talented bhi so un ka muqaam araut se afzal hai allah ne bhi us ko fazeelat di hai aur mujhe aj tak koi bura male nazar nahi aya so i will never say they r bad or..........
writers kahty hain males apni zindagi main bhut se lov kerty hain aurat nahi ok ji thnx
QUOTE(tenha_saima @ Sep 21 2007, 05:49 AM)
waisse jitna ap likhte ho .. ap ka keyboard to har 2nd month chnage hota ho ga ..
agreed wid da guyz part n sumwat agreement on galz part too ... but sum galz r juz too hard to b made stupid.. ( take mah wrd for it !!)
nice reply...
agreed wid da guyz part n sumwat agreement on galz part too ... but sum galz r juz too hard to b made stupid.. ( take mah wrd for it !!)
nice reply...
your word has been taken on it
and i know.. some girls are too hard to be made stupid.. well.. ermm.. ive got categories for them as well.. lolzzz.. acha choro ab buss.. seriouslyyyy.. i dont wanna talk about this anymore.. lolzz..
oh yeah.. thanks for appreciating.. and my keyboard..
ermm..
aik saal se tu theek hai..!!!
QUOTE(Bore Na Kar @ Sep 21 2007, 07:21 AM)
Hahaha nopes, only to get some views on muhabbat. Sometimes it is very important to know the views of people beacuse that broadens ur thinking ability
hmmm thanx for reply
hmmm thanx for reply
QUOTE(Bore Na Kar @ Sep 21 2007, 07:34 AM)
Then what about arranged marriages. Apko ek aisi larki se ya larkiyun ko aik aise larkay se pyar aur muhabat k liye kaha jata hy jise wo janti tak nahi hoti, un dono k pas koi choice nai hoti sivaye iskay k wo ek dosray ko "majbori" se qabol kr k zabardasti us k liye dil mein muhabat paida krein, ya ye sirf compromise hota hy? whats ur thoughts on it :d
cheatin ... u said u wudnt ask no mor questionz..
marriage is completely different .. accordin to me .. wen onez married, there is no way out n u hav to accept da person .. majbooori se compromise... compromise se likeness .. aur may b likeness se luv ( u neva knw !) ya shayad baat likeness per hi rahti hai ! ( arranged marriages) ... // but if ur fallin for sumone who mite b ur frnd, colleague or nybody.. u hav da option of jumpin in or out of da relation ...
QUOTE(KinZz @ Sep 21 2007, 11:07 AM)
kuch log pahlay use kerlaitay hai or kuch log ko jab lesson milta hai tab use kartay hai...
or kuch ko lesson mil bhi jay tab bhi use nahe kartay... :D
or kuch ko lesson mil bhi jay tab bhi use nahe kartay... :D
koi haal nahien ahi ..
QUOTE(Sharabi_Eyes @ Sep 21 2007, 12:51 PM)
your word has been taken on it and i know.. some girls are too hard to be made stupid.. well.. ermm.. ive got categories for them as well.. lolzzz..
acha choro ab buss.. seriouslyyyy.. i dont wanna talk about this anymore.. lolzz..
oh yeah.. thanks for appreciating.. and my keyboard..
ermm..
aik saal se tu theek hai..!!!
and i know.. some girls are too hard to be made stupid.. well.. ermm.. ive got categories for them as well.. lolzzz.. acha choro ab buss.. seriouslyyyy.. i dont wanna talk about this anymore.. lolzz..
oh yeah.. thanks for appreciating.. and my keyboard..
ermm..
aik saal se tu theek hai..!!!
aik saal? poor thing
fine .. no mor talks on dis ..
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