i agree with you on it hadeea.. lekin lets discuss it completely.. lets find a solution to it.. app ke khayal mein iss bechaini ka solution kia ho sakta hai?
well to me.. dekhein.. insan agar khud itna akalmand aur itna flexible ho na.. tu wo har cheez mein apni khushi aur sakoon talash ker leta hai.. coz Allah ne iss duniya mein har cheez ke negative aspects ke saath saath uss pe positive aspects bhi rakhey hein.. so.. jo hasil hai agar wo pasand nahi.. tu kioun na sabar shuker kiya jaye.. aur bajaye ye ke sari zindagi app uss hasil shuda ke na pasand hone ka rona rotey rehein.. app kioun na uss hasil shuda ko pasand kerney ke bahaney paida kerein.. ho sakta hai aik din app ko wo pasand a hi jaye.. secondly.. jo pasand hai.. uss ko agar hasil kerna buhat mushkil ya na mumkin hai.. tu app try kertey rehein aik hadd tak.. lekin jab koi umeed baaki na rehey.. tu kioun apni zindagi ko zaya kerein.. kioun waste kerein uss pasand kiye howe ko hasil kerney ki useless koshish mein.. balkey app sabar se kaam lein.. aur Allah se achey ki umeed rakh ker apni zindagi ko agey barhayein..
thats why i love this quote! LIFE GOES ON.. aur sach mein hadeea.. life really goes on.. time app se pooch ker nahi chalta na rukta hai.. it goes ON n ON..!! so the solution to this dilemna is only ke insan SABAR se kaam ley aur waqt se peechey reh janey ki bajaye.. waqt se bhi agey chaley.. coz sansein insan ki band nahi hoti aur life chalti rehti hai..

someone said" every day is the new day for the rest of your life" so why not forgetting the past and moving ON..!!!