QUOTE(hadeea @ Sep 23 2007, 03:05 PM)

Dunya main aik hi Fitri(natural) rishta exist kerta hai aur wo hai MAAN KA APNY BACHY K SAATH.
BY BANO QUDSIA
very well said.. and thats absolutely right..
yahan pe maan ya baap ke rishtey ko fitri kehney ka matlab ye hai ke ye aise rishtey hein jo insan ko bananey nahi pertey balkey khud bantey hein fitratan in mein purity hoti hai.. aur ye intehayi be gharz be loss pure rishtey hote hein..
infact hadeea.. id like to add something in it..
fitri rishtey maan baap ka bachoun se n vice versa.. and secondly behan bhai ka rishta.. and vice versa.. ye donoun fitri rishtey hein.. aur in donoun rishtoun ki haisiyat aik si hai lekin darja maan ke rishtey ka zyada hai.. and no doubt agar in ko app fitratan, mazhaban, ya phir aur kisi bhi aspect se dekhna chahein tu maan ke rishtey ki kadar o munzilat ka andaza insaan nahi laga sakta.. yahan tak ke Khuda ka apney bandoun se pyar bhi maan ki muhabbat mein hi measure kiya gaya.. yani Khuda apney bandoun se 70 maaoun jitna pyar kerta hai..(Wallah Allam)!
giving birth to an entirely new human being.. this do have some significance.. and its something really respectable and of high nobility..
koi bhi rishta toot sakta hai.. kisi bhi rishtey mein gharz ho sakti hai.. kisi bhi rishtey mein daulat hayil ho sakti hai.. lekin.. maan ka apney bachey se aisa rishta hai jis mein kabhi koi shak na ajj tak howa hai aur na ho sakey ga.. lekin haan.. ye firtri rishta aur iss ki khubsurati sirf maan ki taraf se app guaranteed keh saktey ho.. bachoun ki taraf se nahi.. coz kahein na kahein.. bachoun ki taraf se iss rishtey ko dekhtey howe you'll feel ke uss mein gharz a rahi hai..!
iss fitri rishtey ki har community aur har country aur society ke lihaz se different definitions hein.. jo ke aik aur detailed discussion hai.. lekin agar fitratan.. purity ke hisab se dekha jaye.. tu waqayi ye rishta iss baat pe poora utarta hai

nice delicate sharing hadeea