What would you do.
Explain your thoughts as well

hmm pretty complicated question, think it all depends on the situation and the kind of cheating ur partner is doin, if its questionable and if u can settle it up with talks then u ca forgive at some point, but if its unbearable, or if it on some extreme that u cant forgive and this cud mess up the whole relationship.

if uve seen Salam-e-Ishq Movie, then i guess Anil Kapoor and Juhi;s couple was a live example of to some extent of cheating. in this kind of cheatin u can dicuss u can talk with ur partner and u can ask him whats missing, and then u both can work on it, like they did, i liked that,

but if Anil Kapoor wud go with the girl to Paris then this cud become serious, so it all depends on the situation.

May Allah keep us safe from any kinda cheating.

Depends on situation

depends on situation

I don't know. It depends on the situation. i can't say if i would forgive her/him or not


thats wot i voted for

c agher apka partner apko dhouka deta hai tou sometimes woh iss qabil nahi rehta hai k usko maaf kia jaye kyunki ju aik dafa dhouka dega woh baar baar dhouka dey ga
par ager appka pyar app se buht zyada pyar karta ho aur uss k lye sab kuch app hou par uss se yehi ghalti ho jaye tou hum Khudah tou nahi hain na islye aaise main mein apne partner ko maaf kar don gi Bewafai buht se tareekon se hoti hai par pyar main woh taqat hoti hai ju har gunnah ko maaf kar deti hai tab yeh baat buht zaroori hai k woh insaan majboor ho bewafa nahi ye na ho k app ussko yaad kar k ya uss se pyar kar k maro aur woh kisi aur k saath njoy kary aur appko kahy k woh app k saath nahi khush uski khushi kisi aur main hai aaisy halaat main uss insan ki tarf palt kar dekhna bhi khudh par zulm karny jesa hai
Par agher yeh bewafai shaadi k baad ho tou Main apne kids ki khatir apny ghar ki khatir maaf kar dongi aaise insaan ko uski har khataa ko kyunki shaadi k baad insaan ko sirf apna nahi apny se juri unn zindagiyun ka sochna hota hai yani k uss k bachy khas kar maa ko aur aesy halaat main ager baap bewafai kary maa ko chor de ya chupp k aesa kaam kary[chupp k ho nahi sakta kyunki ju insaan sacha pyar karta hai uss ka dil saaf ho tou khudh ALLAH g uss k samny har haqeeqat khol dety hain]

Ju bhi hou aik Pyar ko maaf karny main dair nahi karni chaheye khass kar woh pyar ju sirf appka tha jisne appko samjha app k har ansoo ponchy apka har dukh har sukh main saath dia ho gayi ager uss se ghalti tou bari baat nahi itni haan maaf karna buht mushkil hai buht mushkil woh bhi tab jab insaan khudh bewafa na ho par jiss nazar jiss pyar ki ankh main apni ghalti par sharm ho woh manay k main ghalt hon tou aaise pyar ko maaf karny mein mujhy koi dikat na hogi abb agey woh maafi mang kar bhi kya kary yeh ALLAH g janien aur woh

i will leave her simply

very nice .. Thanks laila for giving such a nice example

ahan nice Airy Princess..So ap apni family ko or apne kids ke mustakbil ko dekhte howe unko maaf kardogi.. very nice..
Lekin wahin baat hia ghalati ke baad maafi mangne wale ke nazar main sharm or dubara na hone wali asi khata honi chayie..

I would forgive her/him anyway...i love her/him too much to let her/him go.


In my opinion I would forgive him and would try hard to make him come back to me.
Partner meanz after marriage.. and after marriage life is different.. zindagi bhar ka faisla hia or nibhana parhta hia.. or main puri koshish karoongi ke mere partner ke dil main mere liye woh izzzat woh makaam aajaye ke woh sirf mera hi ho kar rahay.. or mujhse bewafai na kare..

I don't know. It depends on the situation. i can't say if i would forgive her/him or not.

yar agher usski ankhon main na bhi ho na ghalti ka ehsaas tou main maaf kar dongi kyunki main itna janti hon k kids k lye sirf maa ka nahi maa aur baap 2no ka pyar zaroori hota hai aur usski bewafi ko main apni kismat ka likha mann longi aur usko maaf kar dongi par uss se dobara kabhie baat na karongi kyunki main janti hon gi k aesa insaan kisi k words ki kadar nahi karty

first of all i'll try to discuss all things with her .. there may be some possibility that i had some misunderstandings. I'll like to clear all things and i wud like to hear in *WORDS* from her, the things that i might have been assumed.

if the things are not that worst then i'll try my best to forgive her .. and will try to love her more than i did before. May be it's my fault that i had some loop hole in my love which made her to cheat on me . I'll try to look over my behavior as well.

However, it depends. May be her deeds clearly give me signal that there is no way of forgiveness ..

wow IM u r so soo intelligent i didn''t know that hehe very nice i agree wid u ALSO i agree wid laila siso

i think if he 's way to cutee ... i m not gonna let him go away from me i 'll just forgive him

is mai intelligence kaha say aagai .. i just gave logical reasons of NOT LETTING HER GO AWAY FROM ME

matlab kai bara soch samjh kai jawab diya na app nai
woheee naaa Me nai bhe wohe kaha don't wanna leave him if he'ss cuteeeeeee

agar 'cheat' say moraad yeh hai k shauhar / biwi kissi doosri aurat / mard say 'khufya talluq' qaaim karay ... aur agar dounouN muslims bhi houN to ....

being a muslim shauhar:

1. maiN pahlay yeh tasdeeq karouNga k ayaa yeh 'khabar' durust hai yaa naheeN.

2. agar khabar durust hai to phir yeh check karouNga k meri biwi ka kissi doosray mard say talluq kiss had tak hai ... mahaz gup shup ki si dosti, mah####-mah####ah ki chaahat / ishq (bilaa wisaal) yaa miyaaN-biwi k say talluq.

3. pahli wali 'relation' ki soorat maiN biwi say mokaalmah karouNga it's is not gud 4 both of us. agar woh baaz aajaye to maaf kardouNga.

4. doosri wali relation ki soorat maiN bhi mokaalmah karouNga k agar woh kissi doosray ko chahti hai to mujh say alag hojaye aur oss say shadi karlay. yaa phir taubah karkay oss say hamesha k liyeh talluq khatam karlay.

5. teesri wali relation ki 'tasdeeq' k baad family-jirgah bola kar sab k saamnay saboot pesh karkay ossay teen harf yaani tallaq day kar rukhsat kardouNga. aur zaroori qanooni kaarwaaye bhi karouNga takay baad main koi prob nah ho.


being a muslim biwi:

1. sab say pahlay aisee khabar denay walay say apnay shauhar ki kissi ghair aurat say talluqaat ka tasdeeqi saboot chahouNgi k mera shauhar kiss k saath aur kiss category k relationship maiN molawwas hai.

2. agar mahaz category-A yaani gup shup wali friendship hai to apnay shauhar say baat karnay ki bajaye khabar denay walay ki maarfat oss aurat ko message bhejouNgi k woh meray shauhar say door rahay. aur apnaa behaviour / gharelu mahaul ko apnay shauhar k lyeh mazeed purkashish banaanay par tawajjah douNgi k shauhar hazraat amooman biwi / ghar k mahaul maiN kashsih nah paakar hi bahar aisee kashish dhoonDtay haiN.

3. 2nd stage yani mah####-mah####ah wali yaa khodaa nah khaastah 3rd category waali relation sabit honay par pahlay khud apnay aap say poochouNgi k kia maiN aik saukan / shauhar ki doosri biwi ka afford / qabool karsakti houN. agar jawaab yes ho to shauhar say 2 Tok kahouNgi k yaa to oss aurat say shadi kar lo yaa phir oss say qata talluq karlo ... mard bahar haal aik say zayad shadi kar sakta hai.

4. agar mera dil apni saukan ko qabool nah karay to apnay maikay waalouN say mash.warah karouNgi aur yeh dekhouNgi k apnay shauhar say alaihadgi ki soorat main mera alternate intezaam hosakta hai yaa naheeN.... alternate intezaam nah honay ki soorat maiN bhi ... dil nah chaahtay howay apnay shauhar k saath hi rahoungi. aur apnay shauhar say kahouNgi k maiN saukan bardaasht nahi karsakti. lehaza yaa to woh ossay chor day. yaa phir doosri shadi karkay ossay alag rakhay. oss par mosalsal zor dety rahoungi k ghair ikhlaqi / ghair islami relationship ko khatam karday.

5. agar apna alternate intezaam bah khoobi mumkin ho, parents bhi raazi houN aur dil bhi saukan ko kissi soorat accept nah karta ho to phir shaur kay saamnay 2 raastay rakhouNgi k yaa to ossay chor day yaa mujhay ... agar woh koi saa bhi option qabool nah karay to phir khud khulaa ka qaanooni notice day kar adalat say separation haasil kar louNgi.

6. Shauhar say separate honay ar apna alag intezaam karnay k baad next shauhar ki talaash karouNgi.

I know k above tense sooratay haal maiN sab kuch iss tarah step by step sakoon say karna mumkin nahi hota. ghussah, jazbaat mard o aurat dounouN ko andha kardeta hai jiss k nateejay maiN laraye jhagRa aur deger pechhedgiyaaN paida hokar gharelu zindagi talkh hojati hai.... lekin chouNkay Alhamdolillah abhi aisee sooratay haal paida nahi howi hai lehaza maiN iss debate say faidah oThatay howay line of action to tayyar kar sakta / sakti houN houN. aur above maiN maiN yehi to kia hai ... kia ghalat kia hai ... ur opinion plzzzzzzzz.

Aapki to Kya hi Baat hay Bhai

i swear Cha gay ho aap ............ Itna Zabardast Reply n it is very useful specially da 1 dat is for BIWI ....excellent

Ma Answer is "Depend on situation"

Thpogh ..am not married....but yes am Engaged..... i love ma Fiance ........God Forbid .....i hope nothin happen like dis ever Aamin ...

Cuz i do Love ma Fiance ...More den ne thin....i will try ma level best to make him come bak to me.... i will always make him feel dat i love him frm core of ma heart...so Inshahallh he will always think abt me first ....

Sometime It is very hard to forgive (Specially da kina person am ) But Love is sumthin dat always make u do sumthin dat u never even immagine in ur life....

Simply awesome abu adnan.. ap ne bahut ache tareeqe se explain kardia very nice n generous thoughts

it depend on situation
nice answer Abu Adnan

Zabardast

i dont have a partner yet but i think we should forgive him/her and i have voted the first option