There is nothing which is intrinsically enjoyable. What one person enjoys, another person will despise. Enjoyment comes from your attitude toward a particular situation, not the situation itself.
Too many people search in vain for enjoyable activities, enjoyable relationships, enjoyable environments, enjoyable entertainment. A much more successful strategy would be to stop searching and start enjoying.
The enjoyment is not in the activity. The enjoyment is in you. Wherever you are, whatever you're doing, find a way to enjoy it. Sure, it's great when you aspire to bigger and better things. But don't fool yourself into thinking that they'll come pre-packaged with their own enjoyment. That is up to you.
Perhaps you didn't choose to be where you are, and it's great that you're committed to getting somewhere else. Yet while you're here, accept it and enjoy it. Enjoying where you are right now will take you a long way toward wherever else you wish to go.
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A much more successful strategy would be to stop searching and start enjoying.
bilkul theek
QUOTE(seemaf @ Oct 20 2007, 05:05 PM) [snapback]2536033[/snapback]
There is nothing which is intrinsically enjoyable. What one person enjoys, another person will despise. Enjoyment comes from your attitude toward a particular situation, not the situation itself.
Too many people search in vain for enjoyable activities, enjoyable relationships, enjoyable environments, enjoyable entertainment. A much more successful strategy would be to stop searching and start enjoying.
The enjoyment is not in the activity. The enjoyment is in you. Wherever you are, whatever you're doing, find a way to enjoy it. Sure, it's great when you aspire to bigger and better things. But don't fool yourself into thinking that they'll come pre-packaged with their own enjoyment. That is up to you.
Perhaps you didn't choose to be where you are, and it's great that you're committed to getting somewhere else. Yet while you're here, accept it and enjoy it. Enjoying where you are right now will take you a long way toward wherever else you wish to go.
Too many people search in vain for enjoyable activities, enjoyable relationships, enjoyable environments, enjoyable entertainment. A much more successful strategy would be to stop searching and start enjoying.
The enjoyment is not in the activity. The enjoyment is in you. Wherever you are, whatever you're doing, find a way to enjoy it. Sure, it's great when you aspire to bigger and better things. But don't fool yourself into thinking that they'll come pre-packaged with their own enjoyment. That is up to you.
Perhaps you didn't choose to be where you are, and it's great that you're committed to getting somewhere else. Yet while you're here, accept it and enjoy it. Enjoying where you are right now will take you a long way toward wherever else you wish to go.
Thanks For Informative Sharing
Be Happy And Success Too
A very nice sharing.
AOA
it's quite understandable and logical approach .......anyone who wants to enjoy can do like this and may be he will get the joy ....you can take the things logically and can do good for your own.
but............!!
sometimes a person want to be happy but he can't
sometimes he can't act upon any advices
sometimes he can't understand any logic
sometimes he became pessimist instead of optimist
sometimes he can't enjoy what other people enjoy
Human psyche is very strange.......sometimes a person's behaviour is unexpected even to him/her.......he know the logics and sayings of different people but his mood not recognizes these words
it's quite understandable and logical approach .......anyone who wants to enjoy can do like this and may be he will get the joy ....you can take the things logically and can do good for your own.
but............!!
sometimes a person want to be happy but he can't
sometimes he can't act upon any advices
sometimes he can't understand any logic
sometimes he became pessimist instead of optimist
sometimes he can't enjoy what other people enjoy
Human psyche is very strange.......sometimes a person's behaviour is unexpected even to him/her.......he know the logics and sayings of different people but his mood not recognizes these words
QUOTE(M Kashif Nisar @ Oct 23 2007, 11:16 AM) [snapback]2540809[/snapback]
AOA
it's quite understandable and logical approach .......anyone who wants to enjoy can do like this and may be he will get the joy ....you can take the things logically and can do good for your own.
but............!!
sometimes a person want to be happy but he can't
sometimes he can't act upon any advices
sometimes he can't understand any logic
sometimes he became pessimist instead of optimist
sometimes he can't enjoy what other people enjoy
Human psyche is very strange.......sometimes a person's behaviour is unexpected even to him/her.......he know the logics and sayings of different people but his mood not recognizes these words
it's quite understandable and logical approach .......anyone who wants to enjoy can do like this and may be he will get the joy ....you can take the things logically and can do good for your own.
but............!!
sometimes a person want to be happy but he can't
sometimes he can't act upon any advices
sometimes he can't understand any logic
sometimes he became pessimist instead of optimist
sometimes he can't enjoy what other people enjoy
Human psyche is very strange.......sometimes a person's behaviour is unexpected even to him/her.......he know the logics and sayings of different people but his mood not recognizes these words
Exactly Brother
QUOTE(Silent_Ocean @ Oct 24 2007, 06:02 AM) [snapback]2542380[/snapback]
Exactly Brother
Thanks
waisay Allah ka shukar hay kay meray sath aisa kabhi kabhar hi hota hay kay mera mood udas ho......warna normal hi rehta hoon
nice sharing......
QUOTE(M Kashif Nisar @ Oct 23 2007, 11:16 AM) [snapback]2540809[/snapback]
AOA
it's quite understandable and logical approach .......anyone who wants to enjoy can do like this and may be he will get the joy ....you can take the things logically and can do good for your own.
but............!!
sometimes a person want to be happy but he can't
sometimes he can't act upon any advices
sometimes he can't understand any logic
sometimes he became pessimist instead of optimist
sometimes he can't enjoy what other people enjoy
Human psyche is very strange.......sometimes a person's behaviour is unexpected even to him/her.......he know the logics and sayings of different people but his mood not recognizes these words
it's quite understandable and logical approach .......anyone who wants to enjoy can do like this and may be he will get the joy ....you can take the things logically and can do good for your own.
but............!!
sometimes a person want to be happy but he can't
sometimes he can't act upon any advices
sometimes he can't understand any logic
sometimes he became pessimist instead of optimist
sometimes he can't enjoy what other people enjoy
Human psyche is very strange.......sometimes a person's behaviour is unexpected even to him/her.......he know the logics and sayings of different people but his mood not recognizes these words
Is it a 'dahla' on someone's 'nahla' ???
well said
QUOTE(Abu Adnan @ Oct 24 2007, 01:17 PM) [snapback]2543102[/snapback]
Is it a 'dahla' on someone's 'nahla' ???
well said
well said
Thanks janab
well.......it is not "dehla" ......
just sharing of some thoughts
by the way what are you saying ...(someone)
QUOTE(M Kashif Nisar @ Oct 24 2007, 03:03 PM) [snapback]2543331[/snapback]
Thanks janab
well.......it is not "dehla" ......
just sharing of some thoughts
by the way what are you saying ...(someone)
well.......it is not "dehla" ......
just sharing of some thoughts
by the way what are you saying ...(someone)
hon rahan deyo paa g kiyouN tussi ....
QUOTE(Abu Adnan @ Oct 24 2007, 03:43 PM) [snapback]2543414[/snapback]
hon rahan deyo paa g kiyouN tussi ....
hehe
tuanon kairri gal da khatra hay
koi aisi waisi baat hay kiya
QUOTE(seemaf @ Oct 20 2007, 05:05 PM) [snapback]2536033[/snapback]
There is nothing which is intrinsically enjoyable. What one person enjoys, another person will despise. Enjoyment comes from your attitude toward a particular situation, not the situation itself.
Too many people search in vain for enjoyable activities, enjoyable relationships, enjoyable environments, enjoyable entertainment. A much more successful strategy would be to stop searching and start enjoying.
The enjoyment is not in the activity. The enjoyment is in you. Wherever you are, whatever you're doing, find a way to enjoy it. Sure, it's great when you aspire to bigger and better things. But don't fool yourself into thinking that they'll come pre-packaged with their own enjoyment. That is up to you.
Perhaps you didn't choose to be where you are, and it's great that you're committed to getting somewhere else. Yet while you're here, accept it and enjoy it. Enjoying where you are right now will take you a long way toward wherever else you wish to go.
Too many people search in vain for enjoyable activities, enjoyable relationships, enjoyable environments, enjoyable entertainment. A much more successful strategy would be to stop searching and start enjoying.
The enjoyment is not in the activity. The enjoyment is in you. Wherever you are, whatever you're doing, find a way to enjoy it. Sure, it's great when you aspire to bigger and better things. But don't fool yourself into thinking that they'll come pre-packaged with their own enjoyment. That is up to you.
Perhaps you didn't choose to be where you are, and it's great that you're committed to getting somewhere else. Yet while you're here, accept it and enjoy it. Enjoying where you are right now will take you a long way toward wherever else you wish to go.
Tumne kafi acha kaha hai
QUOTE(M Kashif Nisar @ Oct 23 2007, 11:16 AM) [snapback]2540809[/snapback]
AOA
it's quite understandable and logical approach .......anyone who wants to enjoy can do like this and may be he will get the joy ....you can take the things logically and can do good for your own.
but............!!
sometimes a person want to be happy but he can't
sometimes he can't act upon any advices
sometimes he can't understand any logic
sometimes he became pessimist instead of optimist
sometimes he can't enjoy what other people enjoy
Human psyche is very strange.......sometimes a person's behaviour is unexpected even to him/her.......he know the logics and sayings of different people but his mood not recognizes these words
it's quite understandable and logical approach .......anyone who wants to enjoy can do like this and may be he will get the joy ....you can take the things logically and can do good for your own.
but............!!
sometimes a person want to be happy but he can't
sometimes he can't act upon any advices
sometimes he can't understand any logic
sometimes he became pessimist instead of optimist
sometimes he can't enjoy what other people enjoy
Human psyche is very strange.......sometimes a person's behaviour is unexpected even to him/her.......he know the logics and sayings of different people but his mood not recognizes these words
am suffering 4rm these "alaamaat" these dayz,,:((((,,in a way,,u gave words to my mental disturbance. 
100% correct.
QUOTE(M Kashif Nisar @ Oct 24 2007, 03:55 PM) [snapback]2543423[/snapback]
hehe
tuanon kairri gal da khatra hay
koi aisi waisi baat hay kiya
tuanon kairri gal da khatra hay
koi aisi waisi baat hay kiya
nothing paa g but woh jo meer anees nay kahaa thaa naa k...
khayaal khaatir e ahbaab chaahiyeh hardam
anees Thes nah lag jaye aab.gee.nouN ko
QUOTE(Abu Adnan @ Oct 25 2007, 08:37 AM) [snapback]2544793[/snapback]
nothing paa g but woh jo meer anees nay kahaa thaa naa k...
khayaal khaatir e ahbaab chaahiyeh hardam
anees Thes nah lag jaye aab.gee.nouN ko
khayaal khaatir e ahbaab chaahiyeh hardam
anees Thes nah lag jaye aab.gee.nouN ko
humm
OK samajh mein kuch kuch aaya hay
lagta hay aap seema sis ki baat kr rahay thay "nehlay" walay reply mein
QUOTE(aaminah @ Oct 24 2007, 08:45 PM) [snapback]2543951[/snapback]
am suffering 4rm these "alaamaat" these dayz,,:((((,,in a way,,u gave words to my mental disturbance. 100% correct.
ohhhhh
aap ka mood kiyon itna udas hay janab aaj kal?
jab hum sab hain to aap kiyun udas hain......try to relax your mind and feel the happiness
but as I said ........perhaps in this situation the person can't do anything
QUOTE(M Kashif Nisar @ Oct 25 2007, 08:47 AM) [snapback]2544813[/snapback]
humm
OK samajh mein kuch kuch aaya hay
lagta hay aap seema sis ki baat kr rahay thay "nehlay" walay reply mein
OK samajh mein kuch kuch aaya hay
lagta hay aap seema sis ki baat kr rahay thay "nehlay" walay reply mein
aap to khasay samajh.daar niklay ... aap to bahoooooooooooot doooooooooooooor ki bhi sooooooooooooooojh letay haiN.
... ab mazeeeeeeeeeed doooooooooooor ki nah sooooooooooooojhyega warnah .... 
QUOTE(Abu Adnan @ Oct 25 2007, 09:42 AM) [snapback]2544868[/snapback]
aap to khasay samajh.daar niklay ... aap to bahoooooooooooot doooooooooooooor ki bhi sooooooooooooooojh letay haiN.
... ab mazeeeeeeeeeed doooooooooooor ki nah sooooooooooooojhyega warnah .... urra lain mazaq
hum zara bewaqoof say banday hain........iss liyay itni "jaldi" samajh gayay hain
QUOTE(Bore Na Kar @ Oct 21 2007, 04:06 AM) [snapback]2536857[/snapback]
bilkul theek
Thanks for liking
QUOTE(Silent_Ocean @ Oct 21 2007, 06:44 AM) [snapback]2536936[/snapback]
Thanks For Informative Sharing
Be Happy And Success Too
U r Welcome
.. and Thanks for liking Same wishes for u to
QUOTE(aaminah @ Oct 21 2007, 07:09 AM) [snapback]2536949[/snapback]
A very nice sharing.
Thanks Aaminah
QUOTE(M Kashif Nisar @ Oct 23 2007, 11:16 AM) [snapback]2540809[/snapback]
AOA
it's quite understandable and logical approach .......anyone who wants to enjoy can do like this and may be he will get the joy ....you can take the things logically and can do good for your own.
but............!!
sometimes a person want to be happy but he can't
sometimes he can't act upon any advices
sometimes he can't understand any logic
sometimes he became pessimist instead of optimist
sometimes he can't enjoy what other people enjoy
Human psyche is very strange.......sometimes a person's behaviour is unexpected even to him/her.......he know the logics and sayings of different people but his mood not recognizes these words
it's quite understandable and logical approach .......anyone who wants to enjoy can do like this and may be he will get the joy ....you can take the things logically and can do good for your own.
but............!!
sometimes a person want to be happy but he can't
sometimes he can't act upon any advices
sometimes he can't understand any logic
sometimes he became pessimist instead of optimist
sometimes he can't enjoy what other people enjoy
Human psyche is very strange.......sometimes a person's behaviour is unexpected even to him/her.......he know the logics and sayings of different people but his mood not recognizes these words
Sahi kaha... per sometimes wali kaifiyat permenant nahi honi chaiyye naa
QUOTE(riab @ Oct 24 2007, 11:52 AM) [snapback]2542956[/snapback]
nice sharing......
Thanks
QUOTE(Abu Adnan @ Oct 24 2007, 01:17 PM) [snapback]2543102[/snapback]
Is it a 'dahla' on someone's 'nahla' ???
well said
well said
QUOTE(M Kashif Nisar @ Oct 25 2007, 09:54 AM) [snapback]2544888[/snapback]
urra lain mazaq
hum zara bewaqoof say banday hain........iss liyay itni "jaldi" samajh gayay hain
hum zara bewaqoof say banday hain........iss liyay itni "jaldi" samajh gayay hain
moskoratay raho youN hi tum tum tum....
QUOTE(seemaf @ Oct 25 2007, 10:20 AM) [snapback]2544908[/snapback]
Sahi kaha... per sometimes wali kaifiyat permenant nahi honi chaiyye naa
ji bilkul
issi liyay to main nay sometimes ka lafz use kiya hay
jo permanent apna lay in feelings ko woh to gaya kaam say
QUOTE(seemaf @ Oct 25 2007, 10:41 AM) [snapback]2544915[/snapback]
QUOTE(Farishta @ Oct 24 2007, 08:35 PM) [snapback]2543937[/snapback]
Tumne kafi acha kaha hai
Welcome in Hc Family
QUOTE(Abu Adnan @ Oct 25 2007, 10:43 AM) [snapback]2544919[/snapback]
moskoratay raho youN hi tum tum tum....
mazaq urra kar muskuranay ki talqeen kartay hain
kiya yeh sitam zareefi hay
QUOTE(M Kashif Nisar @ Oct 25 2007, 08:47 AM) [snapback]2544813[/snapback]
humm
OK samajh mein kuch kuch aaya hay
lagta hay aap seema sis ki baat kr rahay thay "nehlay" walay reply mein
OK samajh mein kuch kuch aaya hay
lagta hay aap seema sis ki baat kr rahay thay "nehlay" walay reply mein
abhi bhi kuch kuch
QUOTE(M Kashif Nisar @ Oct 25 2007, 10:43 AM) [snapback]2544920[/snapback]
ji bilkul
issi liyay to main nay sometimes ka lafz use kiya hay
jo permanent apna lay in feelings ko woh to gaya kaam say
issi liyay to main nay sometimes ka lafz use kiya hay
jo permanent apna lay in feelings ko woh to gaya kaam say
Jee bilkul sahi kaha... to yeh SPECIALLY un logon ke liye hi hai na
QUOTE(M Kashif Nisar @ Oct 25 2007, 10:47 AM) [snapback]2544929[/snapback]
mazaq urra kar muskuranay ki talqeen kartay hain
kiya yeh sitam zareefi hay
kiya yeh sitam zareefi hay
mazaaq aur patang to hotay hi oranay k liyeh haiN.... mazaaq ko mazaq hi maiN lia jaye to lutf dobalaa hojata hai
QUOTE(seemaf @ Oct 25 2007, 10:50 AM) [snapback]2544936[/snapback]
abhi bhi kuch kuch g g ... inhouN nay to apni see poori koshish
kar dali ... lekin jissay Allah rakhay ossay Kashif kaisay chakhay.
QUOTE(Abu Adnan @ Oct 25 2007, 10:44 AM) [snapback]2544923[/snapback]
QUOTE(Abu Adnan @ Oct 25 2007, 11:03 AM) [snapback]2544980[/snapback]
g g ... inhouN nay to apni see poori koshish kar dali ... lekin jissay Allah rakhay ossay Kashif kaisay chakhay.
kar dali ... lekin jissay Allah rakhay ossay Kashif kaisay chakhay. Well saidChalain ho jayen ge yeh bhi trained
Ap hain na
QUOTE(M Kashif Nisar @ Oct 25 2007, 10:47 AM) [snapback]2544929[/snapback]
mazaq urra kar muskuranay ki talqeen kartay hain
kiya yeh sitam zareefi hay
kiya yeh sitam zareefi hay
QUOTE(seemaf @ Oct 25 2007, 10:50 AM) [snapback]2544936[/snapback]
abhi bhi kuch kuch hehe
kaha to hay main thora sa bewaqoof hoon
QUOTE(seemaf @ Oct 25 2007, 10:54 AM) [snapback]2544953[/snapback]
Jee bilkul sahi kaha... to yeh SPECIALLY un logon ke liye hi hai na
yeh mood kabhi kabhar to har insan par hi taari ho jata hay
laikin kabhi kabhaar kisi banday kay liyay frustration ka sabab ban jata hay .....aisi haalat nuqsan deh hoti hay insan kay liyay
baqi kabhi kabhi ki to khair hay
QUOTE(Abu Adnan @ Oct 25 2007, 10:58 AM) [snapback]2544963[/snapback]
mazaaq aur patang to hotay hi oranay k liyeh haiN.... mazaaq ko mazaq hi maiN lia jaye to lutf dobalaa hojata hai
yeh bhi sahi hay .......
woh aik shaks say kaha tha na doosray say kay tum nay thappar mazaq mein maara hay? ...us nay kaha nahin ghussay mein maara hay.......ab pehla us say kamzoor tha.....us nay kaha thik hay...main aisay mazaq bardhast nahin kiya karta
QUOTE(Abu Adnan @ Oct 25 2007, 11:03 AM) [snapback]2544980[/snapback]
g g ... inhouN nay to apni see poori koshish kar dali ... lekin jissay Allah rakhay ossay Kashif kaisay chakhay.
kar dali ... lekin jissay Allah rakhay ossay Kashif kaisay chakhay. hehe
aap ka war main samajh gaya tha ...........laikiN seema siso par war karein gay aap yeh umeed nahin thi.......iss liyay confirm kar raha tha
QUOTE(seemaf @ Oct 25 2007, 11:14 AM) [snapback]2544999[/snapback]
Well saidChalain ho jayen ge yeh bhi trained
Ap hain na
in ki training .........aur main
kaisi baatein katri hain siso
QUOTE(seemaf @ Oct 25 2007, 11:21 AM) [snapback]2545010[/snapback]
koi nahin........itni bhi buri nahin huwee kay aap tassalyan dein
QUOTE(M Kashif Nisar @ Oct 25 2007, 02:08 PM) [snapback]2545671[/snapback]
hehe
aap ka war main samajh gaya tha ...........laikiN seema siso par war karein gay aap yeh umeed nahin thi.......iss liyay confirm kar raha tha
aap ka war main samajh gaya tha ...........laikiN seema siso par war karein gay aap yeh umeed nahin thi.......iss liyay confirm kar raha tha
QUOTE(M Kashif Nisar @ Oct 25 2007, 02:07 PM) [snapback]2545661[/snapback]
yeh bhi sahi hay .......
woh aik shaks say kaha tha na doosray say kay tum nay thappar mazaq mein maara hay? ...us nay kaha nahin ghussay mein maara hay.......ab pehla us say kamzoor tha.....us nay kaha thik hay...main aisay mazaq bardhast nahin kiya karta
woh aik shaks say kaha tha na doosray say kay tum nay thappar mazaq mein maara hay? ...us nay kaha nahin ghussay mein maara hay.......ab pehla us say kamzoor tha.....us nay kaha thik hay...main aisay mazaq bardhast nahin kiya karta
iss tarah to hota hai is taarh k kaamouN maiN
QUOTE(M Kashif Nisar @ Oct 25 2007, 02:08 PM) [snapback]2545671[/snapback]
hehe
aap ka war main samajh gaya tha ...........laikiN seema siso par war karein gay aap yeh umeed nahin thi.......iss liyay confirm kar raha tha
aap ka war main samajh gaya tha ...........laikiN seema siso par war karein gay aap yeh umeed nahin thi.......iss liyay confirm kar raha tha
O' bhai ketni baat attempt karogay.
QUOTE(M Kashif Nisar @ Oct 25 2007, 02:09 PM) [snapback]2545675[/snapback]
in ki training .........aur main
kaisi baatein katri hain siso
kaisi baatein katri hain siso
g haaN aap bhi meri training hasil karsaktay haiN .... lekin maiN apnay shaagirdouN ko darakht par chaRhna hargiz nahi sikhlata ... jaa.ay ostaad khali ast .... kia samjhay.
QUOTE(M Kashif Nisar @ Oct 25 2007, 02:04 PM) [snapback]2545644[/snapback]
hehe
kaha to hay main thora sa bewaqoof hoon
kaha to hay main thora sa bewaqoof hoon
Lagtey to nahi
QUOTE(M Kashif Nisar @ Oct 25 2007, 02:06 PM) [snapback]2545653[/snapback]
yeh mood kabhi kabhar to har insan par hi taari ho jata hay
laikin kabhi kabhaar kisi banday kay liyay frustration ka sabab ban jata hay .....aisi haalat nuqsan deh hoti hay insan kay liyay
baqi kabhi kabhi ki to khair hay
laikin kabhi kabhaar kisi banday kay liyay frustration ka sabab ban jata hay .....aisi haalat nuqsan deh hoti hay insan kay liyay
baqi kabhi kabhi ki to khair hay
Agreed
QUOTE(seemaf @ Oct 25 2007, 03:12 PM) [snapback]2545954[/snapback]
Lagtey to nahi
phir budho lagta hoon ga
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