While I was surfing the net
I found these Rules
and Found true as well

21 Rules of Life

1. Marry the right person . This one decision will determine 90% of your happiness or misery.
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2. Work at something you enjoy and that's worthy of your time and talent.
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3. Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.
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4. Become the most positive and enthusiastic person you know.
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5. Be forgiving of yourself and others.
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6. Be generous.
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7. Have a grateful heart.
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8. Persistence, persistence, persistence.
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9. Discipline yourself to save money on even the most modest salary.
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10. Treat everyone you meet like you want to be treated.
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11. Commit yourself to constant improvement.
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12. Commit yourself to quality.
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13. Understand that happiness is not based on possessions, power or prestige, but on relationship with people you love and respect.
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14. Be loyal.
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15. Be honest.
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16. Be a self-starter.
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17. Be decisive even it it means you'll sometimes be wrong.
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18. Stop blaming others. Take responsibility for every area of your life.
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19. Be bold and courageous. When you look back on your life, you'll regret the things you didn't do more than the ones you did.
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20. Take good care of those you love.
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21. Don't do anything that wouldn't make your Mom proud.


If u c in depth u will find Islam says for this all

kash yeh sab kam hum sab se hoo jaye to phir to kiya hi baat hai

Just few m0ments ago a beautiful person was saying about something that it is difficult to do something .....

but indeed when there is a will there is a way ... U put ur steps and eyes on ALLAH ... nothing will be difficult

Its just matter of believing ... Beleive ur self ... Trust ALLAH and Become Blody Confident

hmmmm... lagta hy inn par amal karna hi paray ga :p

NO DOUBT! THESE GOLDEN RULES ARE NOT ONLY THE BASICS OF ONE'S HAPPY & PROSPEROUS LIFE BUT ALSO THE FOUNDATION OF A HEALTHY & PEACEFUL SOCIETY, THANKS FOR REMINDING IT AGAIN BROTHER!

HMMMM... AUR MUJHE LAGTA HAI K AAP KO YEH KHAYAL FIRST RULE DEKH KAR AAYA HAI.

True

No doubt we know so many things but recaling them over and over can make us practicing them

And its our duty to remind each other

:d :d Haan aur mene socha hy k jab tak pehle rule par amal nahin ho jata baki rules ko nahin chherna... Iss liye baar baar shadiyan karon ga jab tak mujhe "right person" nahin mil jata :d :d

BROTHER!
LEKIN KIA AAP NE YEH BHE SOCHA HAI K YEH TOU MUMKIN HAI K AAP KO ISS PRACTICE MEIN KOI RIGHT PERSON MILL JAE LEKIN UNN BECHARI LARKIYUN KA KIA KASOOR K JIN KA HAR DAFA MR.WRONG SE HE WASTAH PARHE GA.

If u c in depth u will find Islam says for this all

exactly,,it is indeed a fantastic post.
thanks.

Nahin na, kya pata main un k liye Mr. Right hon :p

bohat nice post
n bilkul sach hai...

sure...

but its also matter of motivation... Lost motivation...............
kyun karain, kis liye karaiN ..one doesn't feel the need

but if it is desired.. somebody's well wishes are there.. One can try & promise to do that
buttt
with the condition that if desired thing couldn't be achieved.. then one shoudn't be hated by some body !!

Perfect Rules !!

from One to twenty One

(but difficulty starts right from the begining of these Rules .. as a matter of fact)

am wondering, if am not wrong about the person.... ??.....beautifull

Thanks Aaminah ... Wish U we can implement in the life too

Hanji Nice Bandaiy naiy ki haiy to Nice hi hogi naa
Wish can post in life too

When There is a will there is a way ... Its not always easy to start from where we want ... Its preferred to start from where we can ... as a matter of Fact ... Begening is difficult only

One Road to Mativation is to do more and expect nothing ...

the problem start from the point that what we are gona get in return ... We Offten forget that This world is gona finish soon ... and we have to reside in a place for ever ...

ALLAH has given us life to be happy and to make others happy ... the best person is who is not harmful to the humanity

We offten forget that we are human too ... and due to others if we are sacrificing our selves than we can be Wali or if in a wrong way than we harm our selves to praise others or to hurt others than we are neglacting sayings of ALLAH too

If we believe ALLAH we should have to have trust that any Good deed is not going to be wasted ... ALLAH Will bless ... here ... if not than in Akhraa for sure ... We should'nt regret As its ordered by ALLAH to be thankful Always ... May be some time we are harmed ... but Who knows that a small visible loss is protecting us from a big loss

If u think of a child who want to play with fire and mother is protecting her .... in child's mind his wish is not granted ... but in reality its a blessing

and Dear When there is no body ... ALLAH is always there ...
Our problem is that we beg from the beggars ... and we regret that we are unheard ... but trust me ...

and fear of loosing prevent us from not trying as well

If we thorough out this fear ... We can over come any obstacle ...
Only Believe in You Self and Trust ALLAH

Kuch Zeyaada bool gaya naa ... Bass kabhi kabhi ... mai buhat zeyaada bool jaata hoo'n

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Thanks Aaminah ... Wish U we can implement in the life too

Ameen.

Okay !!!

(may be.. u wasted ur time as usual )

U know there is also a factor " hurt" .. hurting is such a strong feeling
-- cause of which all the Rules .. and all the promises fly away !!

Sure we Live our Life for ALLAH.. but we have to spend it with the people on this planet Earth ..So .......!!!



( haan aap tu aise hi hansai'n gey.. u Can)