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seemaf

Nov 16 2007, 04:08 AM

Kisi ne Sheikh Saadi (R.A) se pucha:
"Dost" aur "Bhai" mein kia fark hai?
To Aap ne farmaya,

"Bhai" SONA hai
aur
"Dost" HEERA.

Us aadmi ne kaha,
"Aap ne bhai ko kam keemat
aur
dost ko keemti cheez se kyun tashbeeh di?"

To Aap ne farmaya,
"Sonay mein agar daraar aa gae to us ko pighla ker bilkul pehle jesa banaya ja sakta hai,
jab ke Heeray mein aik daraar aa gae to woh kabhi bhi pehle jesa nahi ban sakta".

sohani

Nov 16 2007, 11:55 AM

very nice appi

Mrs.KnOwN_StRaNgEr

Nov 16 2007, 12:17 PM

Nice Sharing Seema Jee

KnOwN_StRaNgEr

Nov 16 2007, 12:18 PM

Bore Na Kar

Nov 16 2007, 12:20 PM

nice sharing

bahi hamari marzi k bagher zabardasti bun jatay hain jabke dost hum apni marzi se banatay hain

ziddi

Nov 16 2007, 03:37 PM

awsum post SeemaApi

Silent Scream

Nov 16 2007, 04:02 PM

QUOTE(seemaf @ Nov 16 2007, 04:08 AM) [snapback]2579594[/snapback]

Kisi ne Sheikh Saadi (R.A) se pucha:
"Dost" aur "Bhai" mein kia fark hai?
To Aap ne farmaya,

"Bhai" SONA hai
aur
"Dost" HEERA.

Us aadmi ne kaha,
"Aap ne bhai ko kam keemat
aur
dost ko keemti cheez se kyun tashbeeh di?"

To Aap ne farmaya,
"Sonay mein agar daraar aa gae to us ko pighla ker bilkul pehle jesa banaya ja sakta hai,
jab ke Heeray mein aik daraar aa gae to woh kabhi bhi pehle jesa nahi ban sakta".

Seema aapi aap ne bilkul sahi kaha..

bhai tou hamesha sone ki tarha hotay hain.. bhai rishta hi aisay hay k... mere paas lafz nahi hain jo kahoon..

hmmmmmmm acha dost bohat naseeb walon ko miltay hain.. jo k aap k sachay aur mukhlis dost hon.. aur main is mamlay main bohat khush naseeb hon.. Allah ka karam hay

aaminah

Nov 17 2007, 12:54 AM

QUOTE(seemaf @ Nov 16 2007, 04:08 AM) [snapback]2579594[/snapback]

Kisi ne Sheikh Saadi (R.A) se pucha:
"Dost" aur "Bhai" mein kia fark hai?
To Aap ne farmaya,

"Bhai" SONA hai
aur
"Dost" HEERA.

Us aadmi ne kaha,
"Aap ne bhai ko kam keemat
aur
dost ko keemti cheez se kyun tashbeeh di?"

To Aap ne farmaya,
"Sonay mein agar daraar aa gae to us ko pighla ker bilkul pehle jesa banaya ja sakta hai,
jab ke Heeray mein aik daraar aa gae to woh kabhi bhi pehle jesa nahi ban sakta".

wah,,kia khoobsurat sharing,,

parh kar aik khushi si mehssos hui,,jo k aik achi cheez ko parhnay k baad hoti hay,,

excellent sharing

Kashif

Nov 17 2007, 02:14 PM

right Seema siso
practically very true thing
Thanks for sharing

Shoby4U

Nov 17 2007, 04:27 PM

VERY WELL SAID

THANKS 4 SHARING

Jahan Zaib

Nov 17 2007, 06:18 PM

QUOTE(seemaf @ Nov 16 2007, 04:08 AM) [snapback]2579594[/snapback]

"Bhai" SONA hai
aur
"Dost" HEERA.

well said & a very great saying abbout the difference.
Absolutelty right.
Thanx for sharing such a nice thing.

Abu Adnan

Nov 18 2007, 02:24 PM

QUOTE(seemaf @ Nov 16 2007, 04:08 AM) [snapback]2579594[/snapback]

Kisi ne Sheikh Saadi (R.A) se pucha:
"Dost" aur "Bhai" mein kia fark hai?
To Aap ne farmaya,

"Bhai" SONA hai
aur
"Dost" HEERA.

Us aadmi ne kaha,
"Aap ne bhai ko kam keemat
aur
dost ko keemti cheez se kyun tashbeeh di?"

To Aap ne farmaya,
"Sonay mein agar daraar aa gae to us ko pighla ker bilkul pehle jesa banaya ja sakta hai,
jab ke Heeray mein aik daraar aa gae to woh kabhi bhi pehle jesa nahi ban sakta".

hmmmmmmmm

by day way

laRkiyouN k liyeh aap ka mashwarah kia hai

woh bhai banayaiN yaa dost

sohani

Nov 18 2007, 04:11 PM

QUOTE(Bore Na Kar @ Nov 16 2007, 12:20 PM) [snapback]2579906[/snapback]

nice sharing

bahi hamari marzi k bagher zabardasti bun jatay hain jabke dost hum apni marzi se banatay hain

zaberdasti

sohani

Nov 18 2007, 04:14 PM

QUOTE(Abu Adnan @ Nov 18 2007, 02:24 PM) [snapback]2582323[/snapback]

hmmmmmmmm

by day way

laRkiyouN k liyeh aap ka mashwarah kia hai

woh bhai banayaiN yaa dost

abu adnan bhai

mashriqui larkiya to shadi se pehlay apne shohar ko bhi bhai hi kehty hai

aur meray hisab se dost aur bhai wala scene zarorat k hisab se tay ker lena chaye

*DhanaK*

Nov 18 2007, 11:11 PM

acchee post hai seema

Manoos Ajnabi

Nov 19 2007, 12:11 AM

bhot achi baat hai

thanks 4 sharing

Airy_Princess

Nov 19 2007, 12:13 AM

Buhat Achi post hai

Silent_Ocean

Nov 19 2007, 01:57 AM

Wonderful Sharing Dear

Thanks For Nice Sharing

Abu Adnan

Nov 19 2007, 08:02 AM

QUOTE(sohani @ Nov 18 2007, 04:14 PM) [snapback]2582418[/snapback]

abu adnan bhai
mashriqui larkiya to shadi se pehlay apne shohar ko bhi bhai hi kehty hai

aur meray hisab se dost aur bhai wala scene zarorat k hisab se tay ker lena chaye

*Kainaat*

Nov 19 2007, 04:17 PM

QUOTE(Abu Adnan @ Nov 18 2007, 09:24 AM) [snapback]2582323[/snapback]

hmmmmmmmm

by day way

laRkiyouN k liyeh aap ka mashwarah kia hai

woh bhai banayaiN yaa dost

usuf *bhai*

aap kabhi kabhi bohtt "Fassad" wali baataiN kertay hain

Abu Adnan

Nov 20 2007, 09:29 AM

QUOTE(*Kainaat* @ Nov 19 2007, 04:17 PM) [snapback]2583861[/snapback]

usuf *bhai*

aap kabhi kabhi bohtt "Fassad" wali baataiN kertay hain

maiN to hamesha "aik jaisee" bataiN karta houN. aap ko kabhi kabhi kiyouN samajh aati hai k maiN ....

shahrafiq

Nov 20 2007, 12:54 PM

QUOTE(Abu Adnan @ Nov 18 2007, 02:24 PM) [snapback]2582323[/snapback]

hmmmmmmmm

by day way

laRkiyouN k liyeh aap ka mashwarah kia hai

woh bhai banayaiN yaa dost

Salam
ye to larkiyoun ki choice per hai k un ko SONA pasnad hai ya HEERA

Abu Adnan

Nov 20 2007, 01:50 PM

QUOTE(shahrafiq @ Nov 20 2007, 12:54 PM) [snapback]2584949[/snapback]

Salam
ye to larkiyoun ki choice per hai k un ko SONA pasnad hai ya HEERA

well said ... yehi to maiN nay bhi poocha tha k woh SONA (sleepinh naheeN) pasand karengi yaa HEERA (machli naheeN)

shahrafiq

Nov 20 2007, 02:59 PM

QUOTE(Abu Adnan @ Nov 20 2007, 01:50 PM) [snapback]2585104[/snapback]

well said ... yehi to maiN nay bhi poocha tha k woh SONA (sleepinh naheeN) pasand karengi yaa HEERA (machli naheeN)

Clever........................
but its depends k SONA (sleepinh naheeN)*
*
*
*HEERA (machli naheeN)

*NANHI PARI*

Nov 21 2007, 08:50 PM

I got this through a SMS
Acha laga =)

sohani

Nov 22 2007, 04:26 PM

QUOTE(shahrafiq @ Nov 20 2007, 12:54 PM) [snapback]2584949[/snapback]

Salam
ye to larkiyoun ki choice per hai k un ko SONA pasnad hai ya HEERA

wasey larkiya ajj kal artificial jewellery zyada pasand kerty hai

*Angel*

Nov 22 2007, 05:12 PM

bilkul sahi kaha hai kay bhai sona aur dost heera

JeeNa'

Nov 22 2007, 05:23 PM

ver gudgud post sach

*Angel*

Nov 22 2007, 05:25 PM

yup good post

*Kainaat*

Nov 22 2007, 05:37 PM

QUOTE(Abu Adnan @ Nov 20 2007, 04:29 AM) [snapback]2584791[/snapback]

maiN to hamesha "aik jaisee" bataiN karta houN. aap ko kabhi kabhi kiyouN samajh aati hai k maiN ....

hamesha ai jaise baatain =matlab hamesha Fassadi baatain

usuf bhai aap kab sudhraiN gey

Kashif

Nov 24 2007, 08:05 PM

QUOTE(*Kainaat* @ Nov 22 2007, 05:37 PM) [snapback]2588555[/snapback]

hamesha ai jaise baatain =matlab hamesha Fassadi baatain

usuf bhai aap kab sudhraiN gey

kaisay namumkin kaam ka pooch rahi hain aap

Abu Adnan

Nov 25 2007, 08:51 AM

QUOTE(M Kashif Nisar @ Nov 24 2007, 08:05 PM) [snapback]2591478[/snapback]

kaisay namumkin kaam ka pooch rahi hain aap

abhi naa.samajh jo haiN ... zara aap ki tarah baRi aur samajhdaar hojayaiN, phir yeh naa.mumkin ka naa kaisay ghaib karti haiN.

Kashif

Nov 25 2007, 09:04 PM

QUOTE(Abu Adnan @ Nov 25 2007, 08:51 AM) [snapback]2591961[/snapback]

abhi naa.samajh jo haiN ... zara aap ki tarah baRi aur samajhdaar hojayaiN, phir yeh naa.mumkin ka naa kaisay ghaib karti haiN.

hehe
Kainaat ji phir samajhdar honay ka wait karein aap

*Kainaat*

Nov 25 2007, 10:05 PM

QUOTE(Abu Adnan @ Nov 25 2007, 03:51 AM) [snapback]2591961[/snapback]

abhi naa.samajh jo haiN ... zara aap ki tarah baRi aur samajhdaar hojayaiN, phir yeh naa.mumkin ka naa kaisay ghaib karti haiN.

QUOTE(M Kashif Nisar @ Nov 25 2007, 04:04 PM) [snapback]2592486[/snapback]

hehe
Kainaat ji phir samajhdar honay ka wait karein aap

yeh aap dono Bhai " Indirectly" mujhe kya kehne ki koshsih ker rahy hain

indirectly besti....Haen .........???

Kashif

Nov 26 2007, 01:06 PM

QUOTE(*Kainaat* @ Nov 25 2007, 10:05 PM) [snapback]2592559[/snapback]

yeh aap dono Bhai " Indirectly" mujhe kya kehne ki koshsih ker rahy hain

indirectly besti....Haen .........???

haha
main nay to kuch nahin kaha .........yusaf bhai say pochein yeh kiya kehna chahtay hain

~Saraj~

Nov 26 2007, 05:54 PM

QUOTE(Abu Adnan @ Nov 18 2007, 02:24 PM) [snapback]2582323[/snapback]

hmmmmmmmm

by day way

laRkiyouN k liyeh aap ka mashwarah kia hai

woh bhai banayaiN yaa dost

Usuf bhai yeh kia baat kerdi aap ne Seema ko andaza naheen tah ke unhen itney technical sawal ka samna kerna parey ga

Meri nazer meyn Dosti ka rishta sab se bara hey aur meyn monh boley behn bhai waley rishtey ko bilkul naheen mant'ta bhai aur behn woh jo aap ka Maan jaya ho.

~Saraj~

Nov 26 2007, 05:56 PM

QUOTE(*Kainaat* @ Nov 25 2007, 10:05 PM) [snapback]2592559[/snapback]

yeh aap dono Bhai " Indirectly" mujhe kya kehne ki koshsih ker rahy hain

indirectly besti....Haen .........???

Achaa Kainaat aap yeh batao aap Usuf bhai ko dost samjhti heyn ya Bhai ?

~Saraj~

Nov 26 2007, 06:00 PM

QUOTE(shahrafiq @ Nov 20 2007, 12:54 PM) [snapback]2584949[/snapback]

Salam
ye to larkiyoun ki choice per hai k un ko SONA pasnad hai ya HEERA

Abu Adnan

Nov 27 2007, 08:02 AM

QUOTE(~Saraj~ @ Nov 26 2007, 05:54 PM) [snapback]2594219[/snapback]

Usuf bhai yeh kia baat kerdi aap ne Seema ko andaza naheen tah ke unhen itney technical sawal ka samna kerna parey ga

Meri nazer meyn Dosti ka rishta sab se bara hey aur meyn monh boley [b]behn bhai waley rishtey ko bilkul naheen mant'ta bhai aur behn woh jo aap ka Maan jaya ho.[/b]

hmmmmmmm

chalo aap nay aik baat to kam az kam wazah kardi ... ab zara dossri wali baat bhi wazah kardo k:

being a muslim, hum naa.mahram laRkay / laRkiyouN ko dost / just friend banaa saktay haiN.

no gol mol answer plzzzzzzzzzz

~Saraj~

Nov 27 2007, 10:04 AM

QUOTE(Abu Adnan @ Nov 27 2007, 08:02 AM) [snapback]2595316[/snapback]

hmmmmmmm

chalo aap nay aik baat to kam az kam wazah kardi ... ab zara dossri wali baat bhi wazah kardo k:

being a muslim, hum naa.mahram laRkay / laRkiyouN ko dost / just friend banaa saktay haiN.

no gol mol answer plzzzzzzzzzz

Being a muslim hameyn na .mahramon sey dosti ya rawabit rakhne ki muma.ni.aat ki gai hey.
Lakin mojodah dor meyn humeyn apni hadod.oqayud meyn rehtey howey kaheen kaheen iski permission bhi di gai hey kyun key hamara deen ek deen.e.fitrat hey isliey kaheen bhi ismeyn bejaa sakhti ya zulm ka anser naheen hey sirf aur sirf aap (inssan) ki bhali ka pehlo rakha ghya hey yeh aur baat hey ke ham zyada ter iska idrak naheen ker patey aur inn ehkamat sey tajawuz ker jatey heyn aur apni aql.e.naqis ke fesley ko deen ke feslon per foqeyet deyne lagtey heyn.
Ek mashor ayat ka mafhom hey "Emalon ka daromadar aap ki neyyat per hota hey"
Esi dosti jis meyn larka aur larki akeley/tanhaee meyn mileyn uski to intehaee sakhti se mana kia ghya hey aur dekhne meyn bhi aya hey ke esi mulaqat ya rawabit ka hamesha se ghalat hi nateja nikla hey.
Mera apna zaati khyal hey aap jo bhi rishta banyen chahey woh dosti ka ho ya pyar ka usmeyn koi khot naheen honi chahiey..
Rafay ka bhasahun bahukum Usuf bhai

shahrafiq

Nov 27 2007, 11:40 AM

QUOTE(~Saraj~ @ Nov 26 2007, 06:00 PM) [snapback]2594236[/snapback]

app hunsaty howy achy lag rahain hain.

Abu Adnan

Nov 27 2007, 11:58 AM

QUOTE(~Saraj~ @ Nov 27 2007, 10:04 AM) [snapback]2595417[/snapback]

Being a muslim hameyn na .mahramon sey dosti ya rawabit rakhne ki muma.ni.aat ki gai hey.
Lakin mojodah dor meyn humeyn apni hadod.oqayud meyn rehtey howey kaheen kaheen iski permission bhi di gai hey kyun key hamara deen ek deen.e.fitrat hey isliey kaheen bhi ismeyn bejaa sakhti ya zulm ka anser naheen hey sirf aur sirf aap (inssan) ki bhali ka pehlo rakha ghya hey yeh aur baat hey ke ham zyada ter iska idrak naheen ker patey aur inn ehkamat sey tajawuz ker jatey heyn aur apni aql.e.naqis ke fesley ko deen ke feslon per foqeyet deyne lagtey heyn.
Ek mashor ayat ka mafhom hey "Emalon ka daromadar aap ki neyyat per hota hey"
Esi dosti jis meyn larka aur larki akeley/tanhaee meyn mileyn uski to intehaee sakhti se mana kia ghya hey aur dekhne meyn bhi aya hey ke esi mulaqat ya rawabit ka hamesha se ghalat hi nateja nikla hey.
Mera apna zaati khyal hey aap jo bhi rishta banyen chahey woh dosti ka ho ya pyar ka usmeyn koi khot naheen honi chahiey..
Rafay ka bhasahun bahukum Usuf bhai

Red line-1:

well said ... that's enuf n final jawaab.

Red Line-2:

Yeh ayat.e.quran nahee balkay aik hadees ka Tukra hai: innamal aamaal o binniyyat yaani aamaal ka daaromadaar niyyat par hai ... lekin iss k tehat "har qism k amaal" nahi aatay jaisay naik niyyati say sharaab peena yaa naik niyati say pig khaanaa etc. iss hadees k tehat mamnoo'aa amal nahi aatay.

Blue Bhashan:

no comments

thanx 4 ur nice reply ... Jazak Allah

~Saraj~

Nov 27 2007, 12:12 PM

QUOTE(Abu Adnan @ Nov 27 2007, 11:58 AM) [snapback]2595505[/snapback]

Red line-1:

well said ... that's enuf n final jawaab.

Red Line-2:

Yeh ayat.e.quran nahee balkay aik hadees ka Tukra hai: innamal aamaal o binniyyat yaani aamaal ka daaromadaar niyyat par hai ... lekin iss k tehat "har qism k amaal" nahi aatay jaisay naik niyyati say sharaab peena yaa naik niyati say pig khaanaa etc. iss hadees k tehat mamnoo'aa amal nahi aatay.

Blue Bhashan:

no comments

thanx 4 ur nice reply ... Jazak Allah

Thanks for correction. derasal esi achi bateyn kerni ki adat naheen hey na
Hamesha khush rahen aur hamarey sath raheyn

~Saraj~

Nov 27 2007, 12:12 PM

QUOTE(shahrafiq @ Nov 27 2007, 11:40 AM) [snapback]2595482[/snapback]

app hunsaty howy achy lag rahain hain.

seemaf

Nov 27 2007, 04:18 PM

QUOTE(sohani @ Nov 16 2007, 11:55 AM) [snapback]2579864[/snapback]

very nice appi

Thanks Sohani

seemaf

Nov 27 2007, 04:43 PM

QUOTE(Kamli @ Nov 16 2007, 12:17 PM) [snapback]2579898[/snapback]

Nice Sharing Seema Jee

Thanku Komal

seemaf

Nov 27 2007, 04:57 PM

QUOTE(KnOwN_StRaNgEr @ Nov 16 2007, 12:18 PM) [snapback]2579900[/snapback]

seemaf

Nov 27 2007, 05:01 PM

QUOTE(Bore Na Kar @ Nov 16 2007, 12:20 PM) [snapback]2579906[/snapback]

nice sharing

bahi hamari marzi k bagher zabardasti bun jatay hain jabke dost hum apni marzi se banatay hain

Thank BNK

seemaf

Nov 27 2007, 05:07 PM

QUOTE(ziddi @ Nov 16 2007, 03:37 PM) [snapback]2580115[/snapback]

awsum post SeemaApi

Thanks Ziddi

seemaf

Nov 27 2007, 05:10 PM

QUOTE(Silent Scream @ Nov 16 2007, 04:02 PM) [snapback]2580137[/snapback]

Seema aapi aap ne bilkul sahi kaha..

bhai tou hamesha sone ki tarha hotay hain.. bhai rishta hi aisay hay k... mere paas lafz nahi hain jo kahoon..

hmmmmmmm acha dost bohat naseeb walon ko miltay hain.. jo k aap k sachay aur mukhlis dost hon.. aur main is mamlay main bohat khush naseeb hon.. Allah ka karam hay

Buhat shukriya

Jee bilkul sahi kaha ap ne