Salamz n Hizzz

Child Adopt karny ka masla kaafi aam hai humari society mai socha k kyun na isko app sab k saath discuss kia jaye
k kya app k khayal se yeh sahi hai????
aur jab buht se log child adopt karny lagty hain tou organizations unki help kyun nahi karti at the time
almost 1-1.5 years aik couple ko adopt karny main baby ko lag jaty hain
buht se log isko ghalt bhi manty hain
some think k iska impact kids par sahi nahi parta hai
app iss masly ko le kar kya sochty hain
plz share ur views

islamic teaching issay discourage karti hai k:

1. koi couple kissi bachchay ko adopt karkay ossay 'apni aulaad' banaye yaani oski waldiat ko change karkay apnaa naame day. waldiat change karna bahoot baRa gunaah hai.

2. agar apnay bachchay bhi maujood houN to adopted child ksaath bara hokar mahram-naa.mahram ka masla paida hota hai. coz adopted child doosray bachouN ka saga bhai /bahan nahi hota. lehaza aik ghar maiN baham naa.mahram bachchouN ki parwarish mushkil hoti hai.

3. albatta islamic teaching yateem aur bay.saharaa bachchouN ki "sarparasti" ko encourage karti hai. aik musalmaan aur muslim reyasat bhi har tarah say aisay bay sahara bachchouN ko onki jumlah zarooreyaat faraham karkay onhaiN society ka aik zimmah daar shahri bana sakti hai.

4. "adoptation" ka maghribi concept above points ki bunyaad par aik ghair islami fail hai.... yehi wajah hai k adoptation k qawaneen bahoot sakht aur iski implementation slow hai ... even western countries maiN bhi... wahaaN to adopted child ko regularly monitor bhi kia jata hai k oski parwarish sahi horahi hai yaa nahi.

5. 'adoptation system' k bahoot say -ve asraat bhi hai .... log adopted bachchouN ko ghar k kaam kaaj k liyeh bhi lay jaatay haiN... jaraim pesha afraad aisay kidz ko smuggle bhi kartay haiN aur iski khareed o farokht bhi kartay haiN... maafia groh bheek maangnay aur deger aisay hi qabeeh fail k liyeh bhi use kartay haiN.

issi liyeh adoptation ko mushkil tar banaya gaya hai jo Theek hai. issay jiss had tak discourage kia jaye otna hi behtar hai.... albatta reyasat / samaji adaray aisay bachchouN ki parwarish behrtar taur par karnay ka intezaam karaiN jo zeyadah afzal tareeqah hai.

kisi ghareeb, bay-sahara ko sahara mil jae to iss se achi bat kya ho gi.

Abu Adan i didnt know before what u wrote ... thx for replying here ..
aur yakeenan, laawaaris bachon ki sarparasti, bewaa-yon ki shadi, aur yateem k saath sila rehmi ka bohat sawab hai ..

may buhat arsey k baad HC per aai houn aur iss post per aa ker abu adnan kaa jawab perh ker aissa laga k jaissey may yahan say kabhi gai he nahi thi.bilqul vaisa he jawab deya hay inhoun nay jaissa may nay socha thaa.may Abu adnan say mutafiq houn

Good post

Personally main bilkul adaptation ke favour main nahi hoon .... Aur Usuf bhai ke reply se 100% Agree

iss maiN kia shak hai ... islami taaleemat aisee baatouN ko encourage karnay say bhari pari hai

hum nay kabhi yeh samjha hi nahi k aap yahaaN say aap kabhi gai bhi haiN

woh kahta haiN naa k gret people think......

aati rahaa karaiN ... aap ko kuch nahi kaha jayega ... jaisay 'baqi aanay walouN' ko kuch nahi kaha gayaa

sada khush rahaiN.

adab arz hai

kaheeN yeh jumlah aap ka takya kalaam to nahi ... sonaa sonaa saa lagta hai

Kiya karoon Is ke ilawa koi jumla nahi milta

Takiya kalam hargiz nahi hai