maiN apnay shauhar k barabar auqaatay kaar ka motaalebah karti houN yaani:

1. I will work eight hours a day only as u (husband) do in ur office. maiN aam bay.waqoof gharelu aurtouN ki tarah 24 ghanTay kaam kiyouN karouN. yaa onn ahmaq working lady ki tarah jo 8 ghanTay office work k baad ghar maiN bhi kaam karti haiN. it's true k ghar maiN 24 ghantay kaam hota hai. lehaza aap mujh say yaa to sobah kaam lay lo i.e. 0600 hrs to 14oo hrs (fajir taa zohara prayers) ... yaa zohar taa esha prayers i.e. 1400 hrs taa 22oo hrs kaam lay lo yaa phir raat after esha prayers till fajir prayers i.e. 22oo hrs to 0600 hrs. dunyaa bhar k working laws k motabiq maiN 8 ghantay yaima say zayad kaam nahi karsati.... kar lo jo karnaa hai .... hai koi himmat waali jo meray iss motaalebay ki himayat karay.

2. phir mujhay har week 2 days off bhi chahiyeh sarkaar o sartaaj meray. yeh bhi mera haq hai. aakhir ko merray maaN baap haiN, bahan bhai haiN, saheliyaaN haiN. week maiN kam az kam 2 din onkay saath bhi guzaarnaa hoga mujhay. aap k aqad (bandhan) maiN aanay ka yeh matlab thoRa hi hai k maiN apnay pichlay tamam rishtay naatay toR douN. jinhouN nay mujhay paida kia, paalaa posa, taleem o tarbiat dee... onhaiN yaksar kaisay choR douN. it's not possible for me. jab aap week end pay daftar say 2 fays off lay kar enjoy karsaktay haiN to mujhay bhi 'aap k ghar ki duty' say 2 days off chahiyeh... phir jab weekly 2 days maiN aap say door rahouNgi to aap ko meri qadar bhi hogi aur mujhay bhi aap ki zaroorat / ahmiat ka ehsaas hoga. yeh aarzi doori mohabbat ko parwan chaRhanay k liyeh zaroori hai. aik hi chehra mosal.sal dekhtay dekhtay bhi bandah bore honay lagta hai. aur phir bila wajah baahmi ranjishaiN start hojati haiN. I don't like that at all.

3. mujhay annually bhi kam az kam maheenah bahr ki chuTTi darkaar hogi. aakhir aap bhi to office say one month annual leave letay ho. jab aap annual leave lay saktay ho to maiN kiyouN naheeN. maiN bhi to aap hi ki tarah human being houN. paRhe likhee houN. maiN bhi aap ki tarah office maiN job karsakti houN. office nah sahi aap ka ghar sahi. lekin working hours to same hi houngay. aaye baaq aqal shareef maiN k naheeN.

agar tamam married / unmarried laRkiyaaN meray above motaalebay pay agree karaiN to haath oThaa kar iss baat ka elaaan karaiN.... phir hum sab mil kar shauharouN ko biwiyouN k working denay par majboor karsakti haiN...... haathouN maiN haath do, aurtouN k haqooq e auqaatay kaar ka saath do...... agar koi biwi / shauhar poochay k yeh sab hoga kaisay to ossay meray pass bhej do, maiN batayouNgi k kaisay mumkin hai, lekin pahlay koi poochay to.......

faltoo ki batien hein bas yeh sab.....jitna mard hazraat ko bahir ki dunia aur apnay kaam ko sehna karna parta hay .....khawateen mey iski himmat nahi.

well in main say last wali baat -- means k 1 month off wali tu hamaray ghar bhi houte hay.. b/c jab ham Pak aatay haain tu main tu 2 wks k baad wapis aa jata houn n WOH n Laiba 1-2 months k baad araam say aatay haaain.......n most of the people living abroad yahi haal houta hay.......... so 1/3rd aap ki baat theek hoee.....

ise pehlay ke ham "break" ki adam maujoodgi ke sabab break ho jaayein, break mil jana chahiye becuz break is essential

wow kia khoob.soorat falsafah hai... issay to falsafah section maiN post hona chahiyeh.

it means k aap ko above schedule pasand aayaa. qudrat to yeh schedule of work har khatoonay khanah ko denay ko tayyar hai, magar koi such.cha sach.chi talab.gaar hi nahi..... aap above charter of demand jee.jaa.jee ko kab pesh kar rahi haiN.

u r rite ... salaanah chuTTiyaaN to paak maiN bhi amooman khawateenay khaanaah ko mil hi jati haiN... bilkhasoos jab schools main jab garmiyouN /sardiyouN ki chuTTiyaaN hoti haiN to beshtar khawateen maikay ka rukh karti haiN aur shauhar hazraat ki susral prade shooroo hojati hai.

magar daily aur weekly off hours bhi to khawateen ko milnay chahiyeh ... bay.shak apnay shauhar k ghar hi milay ... magar kaisay aur kiyouN.kar

yeh howee naa baat ... khawateen mardouN ka khayaal karaiN aur mard khawaateen ka jaisa k poster nay kia hai.

lekin shafaq ki baat maiN bhi dam hai... k khawaateen ko rozmarrah k kaamouN maiN bhi break mlna chahiyeh warnah ... khawateen aur kaam laazim o malzoom samjhee jaati haiN. woh har dam aur har waqt kuch nah kuch karti howee hi ach.chee samjhee jati haiN. jabkay khawaateen amalan , kaam say ye kahti howee nazar aati haiN k:

ay roz.marrah k kaamo!

azeez iss qadar rakho k bahal jaaye

itna bhi nah chaaho k dam nikal jaye

well daily ka tu khawateen par hi depend karta hay k agar woh apna sara kaam '8 hours' main kar k khatam kar dain... tu they have plenty of time to enjoy....

n weekly main kabhi kabhi outing hu hi jatee hay hoteling, burgers / takeaway etc.......

r u sure k agar bhabi 8 hrs maiN apna saraa kaam karlaiN to baqyah hours maiN aap onhaiN bilkul bhi zahmat nahee dengay kaheeN aisaa to nahee hoga k baqi 'free hours' k liyeh new kaam Dhoond nikalaiN .... aur hamari piyari bhateeji ko after eight hours kaun look after karega yehi to sab say baRaa kaam hai jo round the clock khawateen ko karna paRta hai. hon dasso ki khayaal ay

laiba ka khyaal karnay k liyay aaj kal us ki khala ayee hoee haain.... so aap ki yah shikayat bhi dour hu gaye.......waisay bhi ab usay full time care ki zaroorat nahen.. MASHA-ALLAH 26 months ki hu gayee hay..

Usuf bahi!

As per poster zindagi in shartoN par guzar nahi sakti...routine kay kamON se yakeenan oktahat hoti hay......magar hur din aik sa nahi aata even anaay wala lamha bhi nahi.....poranay loog jo baatien ghardari kay huwalay se kartay hein woh aaj kal kay hisaab se mazak lagti heiN.magar hur chese efforts se banti hay....chahey woh bachOn ki tarbeet ho , ghar mey sakoon dey mahooL ya rishtOn ka mazboot hona....

aur yeh sirf aik par nahi doono par depend karta hay.

aur hum logON nay apni zaat par khud zulm kiye hoye heiN. yakeen janay as per poster 8 hrs kaam kay bhi zayda hein agar meray huwalay se dekhay .meray kya islamic point of view se dekhay..

aap apni life se dekhaway ki zindagi nikaal deiN.....u will have enough time kay guzaray na guzray.

Allah ossay Dher saari khushiyaaN day aur Dher saray bahan bhai

well said cent percent agreed!

kissi nay kia khoob kaha hai, aik true woman, ghar daari k kaamouN say thak to sakti hai, oktaa nahi sakti.

maiN aisee committed women ko salam pesh karta houN.

actually above original post, FG maiN aik bahas k jawaab maiN likhee gayee thee... asal bahas k beech maiN maiN nay yeh reply kiyouN diya, yeh jannay k liyeh readyeh yeh post....

Would U Allow Ur Husband For 2nd Marriage?

haha
Yusaf bhai ..iss kay jawab mein shohar ko kehna chahiyay kay ghar bhi tumhara, hum bhi tumharay aur humara batwa (wallet) bhi tumhara ........phir kis baat ka demand notice bana rahi ho janam

MaiN ne tu ghar meiN 7/8 maasiyaaN laga rakhi haiN, aur unki tankha apni jaib se ada karta hooN.

(1) Fully automatic washing machine
(2) Vacuum Cleaner
(3) Dish washer
(4) Grinder & Mixer
(5) Cooking Range
(6) Microwave
(7) Electric Oven

Additional Assistantance:

(1) TV
(2) Satellite Channels
(3) VCR
(4) Computer (Akhbar aur risaale bhi tu parhne hote haiN, chat bhi karni hoti hai)
(5) Walkman
(6) Telephone (with international dialing facility)
(7) Mobile
(8) Car + Driver
(9) Farmabardaar Bacche
(10) MOST FAITHFULL HUSBAND

Phir bhi hum se yeh gila hai keh 'wafa.daar' nahi.

khalish bhai
list mein chakki, sil batta,jhaadoo,niyaamat khana,chheenka to hai hi naheen


waise the best thing was driver + car
bas yahan in mulkon mein yahee naheen hota.

waise on a more serious note mujhhay dish washer se behtar lagta hai jaldi jaldi bartan khud dho lein,warna to oehlay bartan ko rinse karo,dish washer mein lagaao,phir nikalo aur apni jagah pahonchaao aur tough stains ahin to dobarah unhein haath de dho etc etc

same with the aataa goondhnay ki machine,it is much easier ke aatay ko taslay mein daal kar fatafat goondh lo

as fro vaccum cleaner,carpets ki wajah se we need them otherwise koi aur farsh hota to jhaadooo kya buri hai

yeh bhi pyar jatanay ka andaaz hota hay

jee maine visit kiya aur jawab bhi diya.,

USUF BHAI Aap ki dua ka shukryaa, laikin ziada zoor sirf 1st part par hi rakhaaain........

very nice logIC.......aap ki bv yakeenan aap ko wafadaar he kehtI honGi.

per kithouN

abhi tak to kashif paa g bay-bay k haathouN ki paki hi khaa rahay haiN.

hehe
jab aa jayay gi to aap ko bata dooN ga kay kya samajhti hay woh

haha
haaN to tussi tay biwi noo piyaray ho chukay hoo

Main ne is post ke unwan (title) se jo nateeja akhz kiya woh ye keh :

HumaiN "Aik Biwi Ka Mutalba" kerna chaiye ...[aik se ziyada ka nahi] This was my frist impression...

lehaza mujhey afsoos hoa ...ke jo main samjha tha wo drust nahi (aur hum aik se ziayda biwiouN ka mutalba bhi ker saktey haiN)hahhah hahah

plz correct n note 4 ever

bandah Allah nouN v piyarah hojavay tay biwi nouN piyaraa nahi hondaa

it proves dat 1st imp is not always da last imp.

haha
tussi tay aeho ji galaN na karo
sannoN dara diyo gay tay assi shadi wi karni hay hali

daran di koi loR naii ... tussi tay masha Allah bouN bahadur banday ho ... bahadur loki khud.kashi tay khud.kash hamlah karan to darday naii chaRh jaa beTa sooli pay, raam bhali karegaa.

hahaha
tussi oo hi chanday ho jo tuaday naal ho chuka hay ...sab dey naal ho jaway