Body language is a broad term for forms of communication using body movements or gestures instead of, or in addition to, sounds, verbal language, or other forms of communication...

Expressions and face of a person is said to be mirror of his mind ...More often a person talks or tells about himself with his mannerism and body language...Interviews are mainly judged by this feature...

I've always found this to be a fascinating subject. People think that just because words come out of their mouths they are fooling others into thinking they really mean it. However, I always look at the body language, because it is so much more honest and tells a lot more...

Some are gifted to gauge a person by body language/face reading.
Do you have this quality???

body language ka to nahi pata but looking at a guys face main uskay barya main 80% jaan leta hoon... dunno if thats a gift or a curse cuz its hard for me to be friends with such people jo mujhay sehi na lagain dats why ma friends are really limited.. n m talking about guyz only lakriyon ka kuch pata nahi chalta... khair larkiyon ka to kisi ko bhi nahi pata chalta.... unko khud ko bhi nahi

my couzin he can tel wat ur feelin n wat ur not feelin n in fisrt meetin he can tell wat type of person u are mera chacha k beita hei itss soo amazing

hmmmm nice topic

agarchay mujhay body language ko read karna kissi had tak aataa hai, magar iss language main apna point of view express karna bilkul nahi aataa. kahna kuch chaahtaa houN aur express kuch aur hojata hai lol

body language ko observe karkay kissi ki 'soch' bhi read ki jasakti hai.... jaisay kuch arsa maiN aik educational academy maiN as a admin advisor job kar raha thaa. schools college par mushtamil yeh academy meray aik dost ki thee aur asal maiN onhi ko 'advisory serveces' day raha thaa. oss dauraan mausoof ko maiN nay bahoot qareeb say dekhaa. meri maujoodgi maiN jab woh kissi ijlaas ko chair kartay howay koi proposal / dirction detay to log meri taraf dekhnay lagtay... shayad 'body language' say woh bhi kuch kahna chahtay houN..... khair aik martabah maiN nay mausoof say kahaa k sir aap jo kuch on the record kahtay haiN, woh aap ki asal soch say huT kar hota hai. aur jo aap ka asal maqsad hota hai, go woh apnay words say zaahir nahi kartay lekin aap ki body language aap ki chughli kardeti hai... sahab bahoot naraaz howay k tum mujhay aisaa waisaa samajhtay ho....

issi tarah aik zamanay maiN aik khatoon ummay adnan ko aksar yeh batla kar 'hairaan' kar dia karta tha k woh ab kia soch rahi haiN aur tab kia soch rahi haiN. woh kahnay lagteeN k aap ko kaisay pata chal jata hai k maiN yeh soch rahi houN. issi tarah aik martabah 6 saalah adnan nay meri 'chori' pakaRtay howay yeh kah kar mujhay hairaan kardia thaa k aap kia soch rahay haiN ... aap kuch soch rahay haiN naa.... aur maiN baRi mushkil say apni oss soch ko oss say chopaya thaa.....

yeh sab body language hi ki karastani hai, jo aksar hamaray Dhol ka pol khol deti hai... khud HC maiN bhi bahoot say HCians apnay 'body-language' ... i maean k apnay 'tarzay amal' say khud ko aaskaaraa kardetay haiN... kaah onhaiN apnay iss 'fail' ka idraak' ho yaa nah ho... albattah yeh durust hai k words ka matlab to aksar log samajh letay haiN, lekin body language ko samajhnay walay kam kam hi haiN.

omeed hai k log iss post k zariyah iss language ko samajhnay maiN mazeed asaani hogi aur log apnay apnay experience bayaan karengay.

munnay miyaaN, 'face expressions' bhi 'body language' hi k 'alphabets' haiN balkay infact aisay 'vowels' jinkay beghair koi words aur sentence hi nahi ada hotay, body language maiN. laRkiyouN k baray maiN abhi aap ki jaan.kaari iss liyeh kam hai k abhi aap ko iski zaroorat naheeN. jab baRay hojawogay to az khud onki body language / face reading......... readnay lagogay apnay sabaq ki tarah far.far far.far

mazaq bar taraf, u r rite k larkiyouN ko samajhna aur onki harkaat o saknaat (i.e. body language) ko maani pahnaana bahoot mushkil hai, lekin naamumkin naheeN. make up ki tahou k neechay chopay face ko read karnaa go k mushkil zaroor hai, magar naa.mumkin nahi. societ maiN iss fun k 'maahereen' ki kami naheeN...... jiss tarah tairna, tairnay say aata hai nah k tairnay k rules regulation jaan lenay say .... issi tarah females ki body language ko paRhnay k liyeh bhi mashq ki zaroorat hoti hai. aap mashq jari rakhaiN insha Allah afaqah hoga.

hmm.. pata nahi face expressions kehain gay ya pata nahi kiya magar logon kay chhehray par likha hota hai... aap ki baat sehi hai keh tairna parta hai tub hi ja kar swimming ati hai... magar ji na to humaray aas pass koi swimming pool hai aur humain ulhan bhi buhat hoti hai is paani say... shayad bagair swimming seekhay hi khush rehain

haa haa

apnay ghar maiN apna zati pool lay aa'aiN... phir khoob mash karaiN, swimming ki... uljhan bhi dooooooooor hojayegi aur swimming bhi aa hi jayegi, agar Dooooooooob nah gae to.

haan ji soocha to kuch aisa hi hai.. magar ghar main jagah to bana lain pool ki... waisay apna pool aa jaye to mujhay koi jaldi nahi swimming ki... seekhain seekhain nahi to na sahi... phir to zaroorat bhi nahi rehni na

Soch k batata hun

chal bhai ab to 5 din baad hi reply aye ga

I 110% believe in it .. for me the gestures and body movements are the real thing - n i guess so that i can judge somone personality from it ..

one more thing that i'd like to share is that wat i personally believe that besidge gestures a person's sense of humor is also a major factor that can tell someone's personality/his views towards life --- and that's why i always try to judge someone's personaly from his jokes .. if he makes some .. ..

Not just body language, there are a lotta things that judge a person. I can't discuss about that now as am not havin time but will reply back later.

May kisi ka chehra observe karti hi nahi....Ek jhalak pe hi guzara kar leti hu......

Mazaak k ilawa.......Ek hadd tak is baray may Knowledge hai......Yun keh lain k general idea bhi hai.....aur logon ko parakhnay ka experience bhi hai.........

Magar chehray k dhokay may na aaen......

Chehray badaltay hai rang kitnay.....inke dhokay kha kar hai dekhay.....

nice topic

for me itis hard,shuru mein lagta tha ke baitthnay utthnay se baat karnay ke tareeqay se pehchan jaati hoon lekin ab sab kucch mixed up ho gaya hai,jise sahi samjhho woh ghalat jise ghalat samjhho woh sahi.ho sakta hai ke mutawatar mulaqat ho to samajhh mein aanay lagay.

haan logon ke tarz e takallum se i guess zyadah andaza kiya ja sakta hai.

ek member ne likha unke sense of humor se,that is a VERY good point.


isi zimn mein ek aur baat yaad aayee
kaheen padha tha:
ke kisi ko jaanna ho to yeh dekho woh kin baaton par hansta hai."


that tells you lot too,woh azmaya huwa hai

main to har baat par hansta hoon... wat does that tell abt me

iskay kai meanings haiN jaisay....

aap zindagi ko serious nahi letay.... zindagi zindah dilli ka naam hai ... per believe rakhtay haiN..... yaa phir zindagi k dukhoun, ghamouN, mushkilaat, pareshani k liye .... yeh jo maiN etna moskora raha houN + koi to ghum hai jo chopa raha houN ... ki amali tasweer banay haiN .... yaa phir aap by-default hanstay moskoratay rahtay haiN... just aadatan....

...aur haaN woh jo aap nay kaha thaa naa k aap ko laRkiyouN ki samajh nahi aati to mokhali asnaaf k logouN ko samajhna aik alag art aur specialization ka motaqazi hai... iss ziman maiN log aksar khush.fahmi / ghalat fahmi ka shikaar hojatay haiN ... jaisay aik male poet ki khush.fahmi dekiyeh:

raah par lagaa to laaye haiN, batouN batouN maiN
aur khul jayengay do chaar molaaqaatouN maiN

aik female poet above ghalat fahmi youN door karti hai:

laRkiyouN k samajhnay ko aik omr chaahiyeh janaaN
do ghaRi ko molaaqaat maiN laRkiyaaN nahi khulteeN

meray khayaal say to yeh sab kuch 'body-language' hi ka hissa hai. zobaan say elfaaz ki adaa'egi k elawaah aik fard jiss tareeqay say bhi kuch express karta hai woh sab body-language hi k zimray maiN aataa hai jaisay...\\

face expression
tarzay kalaam
uThna baiThna
chalna phirna
life style
sense of humour
reactions
temper
ghussa k izhaar ka tareeqah
piyaar k izhaar ka tareeqah
pasand
naa.pasand

please correct if i'm wrong....as aposter soz yaqeenan, iss par tafseelan roshni Daalna pasand karengi, sirf body language say nahi balkay alfaaz k zariyeh bhi.

we'll wait for Soz

ArrRRayyYY aapse pareshan hone ke liye kisne kaha.Agar aap kisi haalaat o waaqiyaat ko apne upar musallat naheen honay dete to accha hai.
hansnay se meri muraad thee laughing at low cheap jokes,making cheap jokes ,laughing at people behind their backs or making a mock of people.you know people who have no gehraayi etc etc.

waise aapki baat par ek sher yad aya:

ya to deewana hansay ya Tu jise taufeeq de
warna is duniya mein aake muskurata kaun hai

hehe

tajarba kaar logoN ki mahiraana baatein

hehe

tajarba kaar logoN ki mahiraana baatein

Body language kisi banday ko judge karnay ka bohat acha tareeqa hay.......woh log zaheen hotay hain jo body language say kisi kay baray mein sahi andaza laga laitay hain ......albata ba'z waqt aisa bhi hota hay kay koi banda dar-haqeeqat waisa nahin hota jaisay bazahir apni shaksiat say nazar aa raha hota hay

jahaN tak meri baat hay ........I think main itna zaheen nahin jo iss tarah kisi kay baray mein sahi andaza laga sakoN
aam taur par kisi ki kahi huwee baat par aitbaar kar laita hooN
laikin yeh hay kay kisi banday ki body language say us kay baray mein aik impression sa ban jata hay zehen mein ....jo baa'd mein sahi ya ghalat bhi ho sakta hay

there is a cousin of mine who is excellent in reading faces, minds, gestures and hands. he used to be great at it. but for a couple of years, he doesn't do this publically. His some Buzurg has stopped him doing this anymore so he has left it. but i am amazed he gets to know past present and future so good. Aur us ki duaayain asar rakhti hain mashAllah

ab to bhabi jee kehti hain k mera hath daikho to wo bhai sahb nahi dekhtay


and yes ... one of my brothers is good too in reading Gestures

aap k cousin bahoot aqalmand haiN. onhaiN pata hai k miyaaN-biwi ko aik doosray k maazi-mustaqbil say hargiz agaah nahi hona chahiyeh warnah ... jab aik doosray k "haal" say waaqf hona hi g ka jangaal ban jataa hai to maazi-mustaqbil say jaankaari hasil karnaa ....

waisay ur cousin's knowledge is beyond body-language. yeh to kuch ooNchay darjay ka ilm hai.... body language to aik 'medium of communication' hai jiss maiN aik bandah (beghair ilfaaz k) kuch batlaata hai aur doosra bandah ossay samajh leta hai.... tamseelan issay isharouN ki zobaan say momaaselat qarar di jasakti hai.... woh kahtay haiN naa k oski bolti howee aankhaiN haiN. yaani baaz logouN ki aankhaiN bhi bahoot say jazbaat ka wazah izhaar karti haiN.

thats a relief

is duniya main aa kar ji soldier muskurata hai

Thanks all for positive replies & sharing your experiences.

[quote name='Abu Adnan' date='Jan 28 2008, 03:57 PM' post='2691248']


aap k cousin bahoot aqalmand haiN. onhaiN pata hai k miyaaN-biwi ko aik doosray k maazi-mustaqbil say hargiz agaah nahi hona chahiyeh warnah ... jab aik doosray k "haal" say waaqf hona hi g ka jangaal ban jataa hai to maazi-mustaqbil say jaankaari hasil karnaa ....

very good point ..

waisay ur cousin's knowledge is beyond body-language. yeh to kuch ooNchay darjay ka ilm hai....
jee esa hi hai

body language to aik 'medium of communication' hai jiss maiN aik bandah (beghair ilfaaz k) kuch batlaata hai aur doosra bandah ossay samajh leta hai.... tamseelan issay isharouN ki zobaan say momaaselat qarar di jasakti hai.... woh kahtay haiN naa k oski bolti howee aankhaiN haiN. yaani baaz logouN ki aankhaiN bhi bahoot say jazbaat ka wazah izhaar karti haiN.

got it ....... wese they say, my expressions and eyes SPEAK rather REAL TALK