okie .. so afta talkin to a bunch of ppl n gettin wierd comments abt desi families outside ... i thought i'd rather make a proper topic n hav sum debate here


to janab ... aissa kyun lagta hai sab ko k jo loog bahir rahte hian woo adhe gore hote hain??? as in .. khaane main kuch bhi kha ja'ain ge widout thinkin k yeh halal hai ya haram ... frndship karain ge ... limits ka kuch pata hi nahien .. dresses wud b absurd... baaroo'n ki respect nahien ..


aissa kyun sochte hain sab?

akhir tension kya hai?

yeh sirf outside ka nahi pakistan main bhi yeh "kala sahab" buhat hotay hain jo skin color ki wajah say "gora sahab" to nahi ban saktay but kala sahab zaroor ban jatay hain... tension nahi i think complex hai... i was ok with my hairstyle i used to hate spikes when i was in pak magar yahan aa kar main nay bhi rakh li mostly cuz of complex... i know dis gal who has neva been abroad magar munh bigar bigar kar urdu bolti hai n uska accent pure british hai... i remember these two hosts on TV n they took pride in "humain urdu naaahi ati"... humain sirf yeh samjhna hoga keh to be kool we dont have to be western, we have to be just ourselves!!!

100% right tauba yeh tou sahi kehrahi hei app n it realy annoys my 3 sisters hu r older den me
my personal xpericne
mere sab chache karachi mein rehte hei
so hum har saal chakar lagata hei pak so wen ever we go mere chacha ki beityan r like tum sab itne modern ho ap uk k log aise hote hei waise hote hei u no stuk up
n were like yeh kaise hoskta hei i mean hum b sab ap ki tara hei
wel dey dnt mean us dey mean larkiyon aur larke jo uk k hote hei unhe lagta hei k unki souch bilkul gore ki tara hei isliy gilrs n boys frm uk dnt want 2 get married to pakistani bopys frm pak n yeh tou har kisi ki apni souch hoti hei my couzns persnally jo karachi mein rehte hei dnt like uk 100% dey hate it der li9ke yaar beiqaar hei ap sab yahan aoa rehne kliye permantly n none of dem wud ever wana get married in uk
aur meri sis wear jeans on dey like wearin dem personally i dnt like it i prefer salwar kameez n dey always were like its wrng u no yeh nanga hota hei n dat i used to laugh bcoz its just stupid
seriousi dnt see y pakistani people think like dat
lik the film namste london
katrina kaif dey used 2 say were like hei we was like hahahah shoooo funni bas srf mazak krte hei
but the way her character has been shown dats wat people think k hum aise hei yeh woh
like i said k har kisi ki apni souch hoti hei
shooo im not sayin k u pakistan ki larkyin aise hei aur larko
bas frm personal funni xperinces dats wat sum ppl think

Btw nice topic tenha_saima

n yea aik aur baat why do these guyz prefer to get married to some gal from pakistan rather then getting married to someone in UK?? majority of the cases i saw were like keh larki say arrange marriage kar li... why cant u get married to those gals whom u used to "go out" with?

all of these ppl r juz weird... wanna b'z ... khairz i knw alota ppl who r not gud at urdu but they styll take pride in speakin it ... its juz the way they r taught their values !!

lolz.... honestly, ur not the only one who had to go thru this... i visited paksitan a month back .. n i got the wierdest comments of mah life... everyone thinks that we outside hav been in the most ajeeb-o-gareeb things, n hav no respect of nythin .. i preferred to wear shalwaar kameez too which shocked mah couzi'z cuz they thought i'd b wearin jeans n top in pkaistan .. aur namaz parhoo too, its like 100 volts ka current for em .. "bahir bhi namaz parhte hain?"

khairs... yeh too chalta hi rahe ga shayad...

thanx for likin it !!

nahi dekho if u live abroad n u dun know urdu to its not that bad cuz obviously its not used much in the daily life.... (n yeah i hink unjabi is spoken more then urdu abroad) i was talkin abt the people back in pakistan... i remember a part from the newspaper column n the writer said i met this guy n he was telling me his son will be taught everything in english n they like to speak english at home as well so i said well he wont know urdu how would he communicate with the "natives" aur us banday ki gardan guroor say akar gaye!!! i dun mind people speaking good english theek hai ji shauq hai to bolo but atleast dun take pride in not knowing urdu, u should be ashamed!!!

dis reminds me of princess'z topic " sorry i cant marry u cuz mah parents wun approve of it "

mje apni zubaan ati hei jo hindko hei (urdu punjabi mix hazare ki zuban) aur muje urdu b aati hei so it doesnt matter were u r if u take interts in ur culture den dats gd shoo ur right teachin values shud always b thought n follwed

hehehe... i remember how mah mum taught me to read urdu ... she use to say " koi galiaan likh k de ga too kaisse parhoo gi?" ... achanak ap ki baat se yeh yaad a gaya ...

yeah there r alota ppl like dat too!

red wali font hahahah shooo funni u no wat mein samajti hn 100% but my couinz werent over the top it was like uk ki larkyion k bf hote hei yeh respect nhi krte shoo i didnt get offended but it shudnt have 2 b like dat dnt u think

neva heard of it... wasay bhi u kafi budhi ho... aap nay duniya dekhi hai.... humari abhi age hi kiya hai

dats good.... mainly mothers r very into teachin their kids their own language wid or widout the kidz interest .... juz as mine was ...

btw... hindko kaisse bolte hain?

i din use the proper wordinz of the topic.... baat-cheet main hai jis main ap k khud k itne replies hain ... yaad karoo baba

ohhhh haan woh wala... princess ko bhi saray aisay hi topics soojhtay hain... woh to mujhay bhi yaad hai but still u phir bhi budhi ho

hindko kaise bolte hei simple urdu n punjabi mix

ji nahi woh siraiki hoti hai... meri zubaan

hindko wohi na jo kashmiri boltay hain... asaan tusaan ki milan awanay paye!!!

asaan tussan ki milay xcuse me ye mirpuri hei my zuban nhi
hindko woh hei like tera na keh veh??
ma itni nhi andiyeh apni zuban se mere khola na pouch
n i no k meri zuban hindko hei were frm hazare not kashmiri ok

ohhh i c... meray aik unle hain abbotabad say hain woh log yehi boltay hain... waisay meri zubaan is related to sindhi-urud-punjabi and few other so kafi cheezain same hain... kameez tedi kaali jiye mianwali

achaaa
red wali baat hahaha
Kameez meri kali jiye hindko wali

oye chalo oye copycat... apnay songs banao!!!

awwwwwww koi baat nahi bana lo... waisay hindko wali zayda acha sound kar rha hai

gooood boy warna scarf wali ko mana karti

to main kiya muft main makhan laga raha hoon

OYE U BOTH ... STICK TO THE TOPIC !

aunty aa gayeen... bhaagooo waisay yaar mazaa to off topic rehnay main hi ata hai

lekin yeh bohat hi ghalat baat hai

koi country yeh nahi keh sakta k us k tamam k tamam civilians bohat hi naik shareef hain

achay aur buray log her jagah hotay hain

jis terah Kanwal ka khobsoorat phool gandi jagah per i mean keechar (mud) main khilta hai isi terah out sided log bhi ............

Shoriiiii yeh VS b nah so miss leading

jo red mein hei iska kya matlb

majority ko dekha jata hai bhai!!! jo zayda tar log hain usi tarah country bhi samjha jata hai

main nay kub miss guide kiya oye

kiyaaa kiyaaaa kyaa kiyaaa kya kiya hei VS???
MISS LEAD KIYA AUR KYA

tum miss hi ho na to miss lead hi karoon ga kiya mr lead karoon

iska matlab yeh hai k out sided log bhi Kamwal k phool ki terah hotay hain

mud main khilnay walay aisay phool ki terah jo paak saaf hota hai

won't be able to get in so much debate. not kinda feeling writing much.

bt .. pak mai is cheez ka complex zaroor hai k ppl like to be FOREIGNERS .. aur agr in logo ko bahir janay ka moqa mil jaye to they ADOPT every possible thing that can make an IMPRESSION on others here in pak. that's why ppl think k bahir walay log in cheezou say hut k hogaye ..

i have chance to met number of such ppl .. rather lot of such ppl .. n only 2 (yeah i can count them) had really shocked me .. and also impressed me and i must say that it totaly depends upon parents and on oneself how they adopt the islamic values + desi culture ..

acha na jeee ok

haan achay buray log to her jagah hotay hain

bas heeray aur pathar ki pehchan honi chahiye insan ko

well, i don't think that adopting the fashion or dressing style according to the place has anything to do with culter + values ..

in my thinking if a person, living in such culture, have islamic and desi things in him is much more respectfull than persone living in muslim/desi country and have the same values. the former one, have to struggled hard to adopt those good things even living out of muslim/desi world.

not sure wat i am writing ..

not sure wat ur writin either :P

its kinda funny how ppl fall for things dat aint true... n dun fall for things dat r true..

ja ja k kahaan minatain faryaad karo gi ... jao hum ne tumhian maaf kia kya yaad karo gi :P

agreeeD

oops .. din it make any sense .. ??

ok!

it's false for u girly, or for thse who realize this fact .. but for those it is the fantasy they wished for and the best thing, that's why they go after it ..

i'll only reply if u temme .. wat on earth dis was suppose to mean.. :S

nice topic

yaar yeh bekar ki batain hain

sab aesay hi hotay hain.jese yahan rehte hain

baat ager bigarne ki hai

to log yahan reh ke bhi bigar hi jatay hain.

is ke liye zaroori nahin ke pakistan se bahar rehne walay hon

actualy i started posting in this topic n the wrong foot... i started talking about ppl who are in pakistan n act "gora" its all mixed up

Astagfirullah...
jo aisa soochtey hain unka apna hi demag kharaab hai saima, hum kyun tension lain

wasiey i also recieved such harsh comments from pakistani people ..Most commen comment is " Baher rehne wali Larkyian bohat kharab hotti hain "

ALLAH KA SHUKAR HAI.. we r much better then those girls expoliting the islamic values even living in pakistan...and those who comment on us, i can only say,, they hv only big mouth but no quality !!!

pehle main bhi bohat tension leti thi in baaton se, and i used to claim my father but unho ne mujhe samjhya this time we went to pakistan, ab main kisi ko koi explaination nahi deti.....we dont need to !!
See.. we live outside..Survive here + we keep our values & culture at the same time We r best !!