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aaminah
QUOTE(Airy_Princess @ Mar 20 2008, 02:14 AM) [snapback]2779620[/snapback]
F a n k Z


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aaminah
QUOTE(Airy_Princess @ Mar 20 2008, 02:18 AM) [snapback]2779648[/snapback]
yara ajj kal ki studies n bachon k nakhrey dono aasmano par hain



gig.gif theek keh rahi hain but still parents can handle it,,so many ways to make things moderate...ain't it?
aaminah
[quote name='ManPaki' date='Mar 20 2008, 12:50 PM' post='2780443']
so, to start making any comment on the topic... we should always remember k hamari priorities hamesha Islam mutaabiq honi chayey... and we should follow all the things according to Islam...
bilkul...
kisi bhi Muashray ki islaah meray nazdiik aurat ki participation sy hi shuru hotii hai... aur is baat ko bhi kisi soorat nazar andaaz nahi kiya jasakta k woh auratain jo jobs bhi kartiin hain aur managing their families too without getting help from any hired governess for their kidz... i really appreciate those working ladies...
sahi keh rahay hain...~muashray ki islaah~~ 0-headbang.gif

laikin jis din ap ko yey ehsaas honay lagay k its not getting harmfull for ur family 1 should stop doing work and give full time to her family... aur this would be the stage for a man to take full responsibility and also 1 should appriciate her for taking this decison and give her more respect than she deserves...

i had a friend named he lost his mother when he was in class 2. we studied together for 5 years till class 5. though its long time now but i still remember him... u ppl cannot belive k mera dost kabhi kisi sports main participate nahi karta tha... for only 1 reason k uniform mela na hojayey jaldi kyunki uniform jaldi mela honay per us ko ghar sy kisi sy daant partii thee shayed. he always use to carry 1 'handkerchief' to keep his shoes clean... k shoes ganday hogayey tu polish tu khud hi karnay hain magar again daant bht parti hai ghar sy...

i am just quoting this example that kidz always need a caring mother arround them... that makes them to participate in daily life more confidently...

exactly,,bachooN ko to aik mother hi sahi sey tarbiat & look after kar sakti hain and make a kid an active/confident Muslim citizen
i would never prefer for a woman to work... but at the same time im not that strict with my preferences... smile.gif

im always praying to Allah for myself to give me enough strength that i can make everything possible for my family...


May Allah give U such strenght!!
Thanks for Ur comments

aaminah
QUOTE(IrrAtionaL MethanE @ Mar 23 2008, 02:55 AM) [snapback]2785347[/snapback]
well dun have any plans .. it depend upon the partner i get ... bt one thing is sure that i dun wana FORCE things on her .. wana have best friend out of her rather a best chef, servant or maid .. ..

alright and good thinking but baat karnay and to do/apply it practically...it depends on time and as u 've said 'partner' too...
seemaf
QUOTE(aaminah @ Mar 6 2008, 08:16 AM) [snapback]2754303[/snapback]
Alright Hcianz,,,esp males gimme ur views about women's and more precisely those womens who work?? clapping3.gif
what do u think a working woman will/can be a good housewife or housewoman web.gif
Will u appreciate that k womens job karain??and so and so yes.gif

What do u prefer 1-quest.gif


Good Topic smile.gif

Yeh koi tey shuda Formula nahi ke working women achi house wife nahi ho sakteen ... Balkey agar balance rakhain to woh bhi achhi tarah manage karsakti hain.. per double zimmedrari uthana har aik ke bas ka kaam nahi... But mera apni zaati khayal yeh hai ke agar ap ko zaroorat nahi to job na karna hi behtar hai.. coz Family comes first smile.gif
sohni_kudi
i'll prefer to work balkay i'll definitely work inshAllah....waise bhi if u r well educated then it is ur rite to work...aakhir ghar bethnay k liye to itna nhe parh rahi na...bus there should be a balance b/w ghar and job...baqi sab thek hai
aaminah
QUOTE(seemaf @ Mar 27 2008, 03:51 PM) [snapback]2793400[/snapback]

Good Topic smile.gif

Yeh koi tey shuda Formula nahi ke working women achi house wife nahi ho sakteen ... Balkey agar balance rakhain to woh bhi achhi tarah manage karsakti hain.. per double zimmedrari uthana har aik ke bas ka kaam nahi... But mera apni zaati khayal yeh hai ke agar ap ko zaroorat nahi to job na karna hi behtar hai.. coz Family comes first smile.gif


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agree !!!
aaminah
QUOTE(sohni_kudi @ Mar 27 2008, 08:12 PM) [snapback]2793725[/snapback]
i'll prefer to work balkay i'll definitely work inshAllah....waise bhi if u r well educated then it is ur rite to work...aakhir ghar bethnay k liye to itna nhe parh rahi na...bus there should be a balance b/w ghar and job...baqi sab thek hai



exactly...balance to maintain rakhnay ki hi asal baat hay....if a person is positive in doin' this...can go for work(job)
seemaf
QUOTE(aaminah @ Apr 2 2008, 11:39 PM) [snapback]2803114[/snapback]
beautiful 0-headbang.gif

agree !!!

smile.gif Thanks dear
aaminah
QUOTE(seemaf @ Apr 6 2008, 07:39 PM) [snapback]2807950[/snapback]
smile.gif Thanks dear


not mention!!!My pleasure to read ur VIEWS!
KamlaJatt
QUOTE(Only_Tears @ Mar 16 2008, 08:40 PM) [snapback]2772323[/snapback]
Lol..

got it Thanks smile.gif

Most welcome E9.gif
KamlaJatt
QUOTE(ManPaki @ Mar 20 2008, 11:50 AM) [snapback]2780443[/snapback]
so, to start making any comment on the topic... we should always remember k hamari priorities hamesha Islam mutaabiq honi chayey... and we should follow all the things according to Islam...

kisi bhi Muashray ki islaah meray nazdiik aurat ki participation sy hi shuru hotii hai... aur is baat ko bhi kisi soorat nazar andaaz nahi kiya jasakta k woh auratain jo jobs bhi kartiin hain aur managing their families too without getting help from any hired governess for their kidz... i really appreciate those working ladies...


laikin jis din ap ko yey ehsaas honay lagay k its not getting harmfull for ur family 1 should stop doing work and give full time to her family... aur this would be the stage for a man to take full responsibility and also 1 should appriciate her for taking this decison and give her more respect than she deserves...

i had a friend named he lost his mother when he was in class 2. we studied together for 5 years till class 5. though its long time now but i still remember him... u ppl cannot belive k mera dost kabhi kisi sports main participate nahi karta tha... for only 1 reason k uniform mela na hojayey jaldi kyunki uniform jaldi mela honay per us ko ghar sy kisi sy daant partii thee shayed. he always use to carry 1 'handkerchief' to keep his shoes clean... k shoes ganday hogayey tu polish tu khud hi karnay hain magar again daant bht parti hai ghar sy...

i am just quoting this example that kidz always need a caring mother arround them... that makes them to participate in daily life more confidently...


i would never prefer for a woman to work... but at the same time im not that strict with my preferences... smile.gif

im always praying to Allah for myself to give me enough strength that i can make everything possible for my family...


Beautiful
I can feel ur friends problems ... I have seen too in life ...
Indeed there is a Vital role by Mothers in life ...
I got a best father ... but I cant forget my mothers role in our life (May ALLAH Keep her soul in peace) Ameen
KamlaJatt
QUOTE(IrrAtionaL MethanE @ Mar 18 2008, 03:19 PM) [snapback]2776235[/snapback]
kyaaa baat kah di hai jnab .. mai hamesha hi ye baat samjhanay ki koshish krtahoun .. icon_peace.gif .. well said .. !!!


thanks for appreciation smile.gif
KamlaJatt
QUOTE(IrrAtionaL MethanE @ Mar 23 2008, 01:55 AM) [snapback]2785347[/snapback]
well dun have any plans .. it depend upon the partner i get ... bt one thing is sure that i dun wana FORCE things on her .. wana have best friend out of her rather a best chef, servant or maid .. ..

Beautiful I M
Thats the spirit smile.gif Mard ki Mardangi uski sakhti mai nahi balkaiy uskaiy peyaar mai haiy
KamlaJatt
QUOTE(ManPaki @ Mar 19 2008, 10:37 PM) [snapback]2779231[/snapback]
very well balanced comments...!!!

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KamlaJatt
QUOTE(nomi87 @ Mar 17 2008, 09:56 PM) [snapback]2774285[/snapback]
haan janab mere kheal se ik working woman aik achi house wife ho sakti hai.

magar uske liye kafi kuch karna parta hai.
aik aesa relation husband aur wife ka jo bohat hi samajhne wala
saath mil ke zindagi guzarne walay hoon ager to kuch bhi mushkil nahin.

problem jab shruu hoti hai jab dono husband aur wife job karte hon aur unki koi
aulaad ho,phir uski sahi perwarish aur sab cheezon ka kheal rakhna
aik working woman ke liye kafi mushkil ho jata hai.

ager joint family system ho to phir koi masla nahin hota.

aur rahi baat Woman ki job karne ki.

main zaroor chahonga ke meri wife Job karay ager woh chahe to,ager na chahe to uski
marzi per main mukammal support karonga inshAllah.

mujhe dono main koi aiteraaz nahin.

bas samajhne walay hon aik dosre ko,sab kuch acha chalta hai phir


Good yaar ...

Hamaiy har moor par understanding ki zaroorat haiy ... Aur Azdawaji zindagi jaisaiy eham rishtaiy mai to yeh naguzeer haiy smile.gif
Fani
Not bad
*Reflection*
In my Case.... i will not have no problem wether if she works or not smile.gif

I am kina person who can easily adjust maself in any kind of situation ... so if she does work ....i would say "Appriciated" cuz dat means she thinks about me and want to make our lives easier.......

N if she dosnt like to work i will say "Appriciated again " cuz dat means she is a house loving gul n like to spend tim eto make her house more look like a ahouse....

i think dats enough to explain my feelings
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KamlaJatt
Mr. Reflection welcome aboard icon_peace.gif

I like Your philosophy cheerleader.gif
tension_4u
QUOTE
what do u think a working woman will/can be a good housewife or housewoman
Will u appreciate that k womens job karain??and so and so

What do u prefer


hmmn asa ha k aik larki achi housewife ho sakti ha


hmmn job krna buri baat nhi lakin
asi job krain k app ki minty ki jain na k app ko kisi k peechy kutoon ki trha phirna pry

soo job krni chahiye agar dil kry to
agar koi force kry to bilkul na many job krny py


KamlaJatt
QUOTE(tension_4u @ May 9 2008, 10:27 PM) [snapback]2865446[/snapback]
hmmn asa ha k aik larki achi housewife ho sakti ha
hmmn job krna buri baat nhi lakin
asi job krain k app ki minty ki jain na k app ko kisi k peechy kutoon ki trha phirna pry

soo job krni chahiye agar dil kry to
agar koi force kry to bilkul na many job krny py



Good smile.gif
Aur thora jazbati bhi poster_oops.gif
aaminah
QUOTE(KamlaJatt @ Apr 28 2008, 11:16 PM) [snapback]2844470[/snapback]
Beautiful
I can feel ur friends problems ... I have seen too in life ...
Indeed there is a Vital role by Mothers in life ...
I got a best father ... but I cant forget my mothers role in our life
(May ALLAH Keep her soul in peace) Ameen


Ameen
aaminah
QUOTE(*Reflection* @ May 8 2008, 02:04 AM) [snapback]2861880[/snapback]
In my Case.... i will not have no problem wether if she works or not smile.gif

I am kina person who can easily adjust maself in any kind of situation ... so if she does work ....i would say "Appriciated" cuz dat means she thinks about me and want to make our lives easier.......

N if she dosnt like to work i will say "Appriciated again " cuz dat means she is a house loving gul n like to spend tim eto make her house more look like a ahouse....

i think dats enough to explain my feelings
smile.gif

that awsome and being looking toward the bright and positive side!!
Thanks for sharing smile.gif and Welcome on the Board!
aaminah
QUOTE(tension_4u @ May 9 2008, 11:27 PM) [snapback]2865446[/snapback]
hmmn asa ha k aik larki achi housewife ho sakti ha


hmmn job krna buri baat nhi lakin
asi job krain k app ki minty ki jain na k app ko kisi k peechy kutoon ki trha phirna pry

soo job krni chahiye agar dil kry to
agar koi force kry to bilkul na many job krny py

i agree aik woman k liye suitable job hay 'houseperson' but job to woh wohi karay gi na jis k liye woh qualified hay and ofcourse if agr job pasand nahi ya "izatdaar" mahool nahi hay to quit it without thinking twice

koi force karay? ab koi force usi waqt karay ga jab dil nahi manay ga k job nahi karni....aur shaid compromise karnay k liye job karna bhi paray to phir woh kia karay?? divorce, separation,abuse etc etc ab job karna zyada easy hay ya life ko challenge karna?
Gn0m3r.X
I think a man is not supposed to worry about all this as long as his parents are happy with his wife and his kids are going in the right direction coz that's all a man wants in his life smile.gif
Fani
Woking women can be good housewifes as well...
aaminah
QUOTE(Loner Tech @ May 11 2008, 05:56 PM) [snapback]2867152[/snapback]
I think a man is not supposed to worry about all this as long as his parents are happy with his wife and his kids are going in the right direction coz that's all a man wants in his life smile.gif


true but u can't neglect what a woman wants! its reality k har aurat apnay app ko in-laws ki vaja sey change nahi kar sakti or so to speak don't want to compromise wid the job etc etc

it will only happen wen both have the same Destiny!![to make a happy life wid in-laws n Kids]
aaminah
QUOTE(Fani0300 @ May 15 2008, 01:01 AM) [snapback]2871889[/snapback]
Woking women can be good housewifes as well...

exactly but it needs more hard-word and sacrifice!Isn't it?
Gn0m3r.X
QUOTE(aaminah @ May 15 2008, 10:20 PM) [snapback]2873294[/snapback]
true but u can't neglect what a woman wants! its reality k har aurat apnay app ko in-laws ki vaja sey change nahi kar sakti or so to speak don't want to compromise wid the job etc etc

it will only happen wen both have the same Destiny!![to make a happy life wid in-laws n Kids]

I never said that a man should neglect a woman's needs, it's a simple thing u live your life with full freedom but shouldn't cross certain boundaries that's all.
aaminah
QUOTE(Loner Tech @ May 16 2008, 01:32 AM) [snapback]2873529[/snapback]
I never said that a man should neglect a woman's needs, it's a simple thing u live your life with full freedom but shouldn't cross certain boundaries that's all.

but i never siad that u have said this, either E9.gif
exactly here iz the main thing..not to cross limits...even if doin' job within limits...no probs at all but if job iz interfering the personal lyf and esp. kids lyf...its better not to work go.gif
Fani
main think ni karta... kyun kay dimag thora hai aur main is kaam main zaya ni karna cahta
Gn0m3r.X
QUOTE(aaminah @ May 16 2008, 02:17 AM) [snapback]2873548[/snapback]
but i never siad that u have said this, either E9.gif
exactly here iz the main thing..not to cross limits...even if doin' job within limits...no probs at all but if job iz interfering the personal lyf and esp. kids lyf...its better not to work go.gif

The funny reality is that not every woman thinks like u E9.gif
aaminah
QUOTE(Loner Tech @ May 25 2008, 02:25 AM) [snapback]2886675[/snapback]
The funny reality is that not every woman thinks like u E9.gif


the other way around[phir to males baycharay nuqsaan main hoon gey],its not a funny reality E9.gif
VrSoLdIeRs
QUOTE(aaminah @ Mar 6 2008, 08:16 AM) [snapback]2754303[/snapback]
Alright Hcianz,,,esp males gimme ur views about women's and more precisely those womens who work?? clapping3.gif
what do u think a working woman will/can be a good housewife or housewoman web.gif
Will u appreciate that k womens job karain??and so and so yes.gif

What do u prefer 1-quest.gif

well see if she likes to work i wd let her but there are alotta things to be considered first, most importantly can she manage a balance between family n work, then again about the environment that she would be working in.... see if you hav struggled n achieved a degree like an MBA or MBBS or something thats really worth it, then i wud definetly let her work cuz i wud be doing unjustice to yrs of hardwork that she put in.....

personally i cant say cuz the women around me were mostly house wives, but then again it depends on the girl herself if she can handle things.... cuz her first priority should always be her family

as for womens job karain ya na karain... dekhain ji as i said earlier agar kisi aisi field ki degree hai jis main saalon ki mehnat hai to usay rok kar aap uska haq mar rehay ho... laikin agar aik normal si graduate jo aisi job kar rahi hai jis main uski transportation bhi mushkil say puri hoti hai.... plus wahan secure bhi na ho woh itni, i dun think its worth it smile.gif
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