QUOTE(Thirsty Sea @ Mar 11 2008, 09:05 PM) [snapback]2763705[/snapback]
Suna hay lahore mein honay walay dhamakay kay phechay apka hath hay 
Full Version: **what Do U Think Guys**
QUOTE(KamlaJatt @ Mar 11 2008, 08:44 PM) [snapback]2763670[/snapback]
tou aur kiya tha 
Haye Rabba mai kithaiy jawaa'n
Haye Rabba mai kithaiy jawaa'n
tussi aithay hi rawo .....kithay chalay oo
QUOTE(KamlaJatt @ Mar 11 2008, 08:45 PM) [snapback]2763671[/snapback]
Sabnaiy apni apni Qabar mai jaana haiy bhai
woh to jana hay bhai
laikin yahan waqai aap nay gunjayesh nahin chaurri
QUOTE(KamlaJatt @ Mar 11 2008, 08:40 PM) [snapback]2763667[/snapback]
I heard about a family in pakistan near gujrat ... no one is working from there home ... they just got a small piece of work were they can cultivate some vegetable and farm some goats and chicken they eat out of that and sale the surplus and living a good life ... they are passing most of there time together and they are very happy couple ... this all is because they dont have more desires
I dont mean that v should live that way ... I m just saying living is not difficult ... but living a high fie life is something different ... Even today when i m going to some village ... I can see happy and simple ppl very loving and caring because they are not much materialistic
I dont mean that v should live that way ... I m just saying living is not difficult ... but living a high fie life is something different ... Even today when i m going to some village ... I can see happy and simple ppl very loving and caring because they are not much materialistic
sahi kaha KJ bhai
insan ki khwahishat hi usay materialistic bana deti hain
agar in khwahishaat ko qaboo mein rakha jayay to yeh zindagi mein aagay barrhnay mein bhi helpful sabit hoti hain laikin agar hum aitadaal qa'im na rakhein to phir yeh banday ki ankh par aisi ainak laga deti hain jis say sab kuch daulat hi nazar aati hay
QUOTE(KamlaJatt @ Mar 11 2008, 08:40 PM) [snapback]2763667[/snapback]
it is OK only ... but u r generous
I just to open ma heart
and about successful person u said very right ... it is also for men
U r most welcome ... I just tried to fulfill ma duty
I heard about a family in pakistan near gujrat ... no one is working from there home ... they just got a small piece of work were they can cultivate some vegetable and farm some goats and chicken they eat out of that and sale the surplus and living a good life ... they are passing most of there time together and they are very happy couple ... this all is because they dont have more desires
I dont mean that v should live that way ... I m just saying living is not difficult ... but living a high fie life is something different ... Even today when i m going to some village ... I can see happy and simple ppl very loving and caring because they are not much materialistic
totally right,,,thats where the world is going~~Materialism~~~
a person can live in this so called modern world,,yet be simple!!!
simplicity bohat sasti aur reasonable resource hey khush aur kamiyaab rehnay k liye.....bas samjhnay aur sacrifice(4 material things) karnay ki baat hey....
fully agree....desires ki hi to baat hey....limited and controlled desires hi Insaan ko "Insaan" banaye rakhay huay hain verna to....
QUOTE(Thirsty Sea @ Mar 11 2008, 10:05 PM) [snapback]2763705[/snapback]
Suna hay lahore mein honay walay dhamakay kay phechay apka hath hay
acha tareeqa hey
QUOTE(M Kashif Nisar @ Mar 12 2008, 09:43 AM) [snapback]2764525[/snapback]
sahi kaha KJ bhai
insan ki khwahishat hi usay materialistic bana deti hain
agar in khwahishaat ko qaboo mein rakha jayay to yeh zindagi mein aagay barrhnay mein bhi helpful sabit hoti hain laikin agar hum aitadaal qa'im na rakhein to phir yeh banday ki ankh par aisi ainak laga deti hain jis say sab kuch daulat hi nazar aati hay
insan ki khwahishat hi usay materialistic bana deti hain
agar in khwahishaat ko qaboo mein rakha jayay to yeh zindagi mein aagay barrhnay mein bhi helpful sabit hoti hain laikin agar hum aitadaal qa'im na rakhein to phir yeh banday ki ankh par aisi ainak laga deti hain jis say sab kuch daulat hi nazar aati hay
"life" ka doosra naam "balance" bhi keh saktey hey....
QUOTE(aaminah @ Mar 9 2008, 12:23 PM) [snapback]2759914[/snapback]
good.....females can too answer 
i agree wid u but the qstn is "not on the risk of her relations and family"......
yeh to achi baat hey "working for their family and earning a living".....its appreciating and worthwhile
nice rply
i agree wid u but the qstn is "not on the risk of her relations and family"......
yeh to achi baat hey "working for their family and earning a living".....its appreciating and worthwhile
nice rply
Wel jus like other ppl have said i wud say is well dat if uve worked realy hard 4 it n den later ur husband shud understabd 2 dat all dat time uve spent in studying u cant jus throw it away jus like dat
QUOTE(aaminah @ Mar 6 2008, 08:16 AM) [snapback]2754303[/snapback]
Alright Hcianz,,,esp males gimme ur views about women's and more precisely those womens who work??
what do u think a working woman will/can be a good housewife or housewoman
Will u appreciate that k womens job karain??and so and so
What do u prefer
what do u think a working woman will/can be a good housewife or housewoman
Will u appreciate that k womens job karain??and so and so
What do u prefer
wow mazay ka topic hai yeh tou
okj lemme b serious ... acha g well m a working woman [u can say so cuz m a teacher in special education skool I dnt do 9-5 job my working hours r 8 am to 2 pm] jab mene apne parents se kaha k I cant stay in home all the tym n I wanna do sum job tou they said k app karo A.P par b careful abt this thing dat u are a *Girl* means other than job u have 2 learn everything abt *Home* n I promsd them dat I will not 4get my duties ... aur yehi hua abb meko almost 2 months ho gye hain bt me aty hi skool se rotiyan paka [
] n raat ki sari duty n ghar main sab ko tym dena manage karti hon ... life is tough but gud ... now when we discuss lyf aft marriage ... one thing one should keep in mind n thats *children* mostly ppl have a kid in the first year of their married lyf ... aur uss chotey se baby k lye we need more tym* sumtyms jobs aisi hoti hain k wahan par baby sitting ka koi process nahi hota hai so yeh difficult ho jata hai buht manage karna uss choty se baby ko tym dena ... so shaadi se pehlay n baad buht diff hota hai ... for me ager main apne in-laws k sath rahi in joint family systm tou really I will not indulge my self in this job phada aft marriage* aur ager me seprate family sys yani k apne hubby k sath rahi tou I am sure I will request him k plz meko job karne dien cuz aaisi sit main wd huby only manage karna aasan hota hai ... only ager huby acha ho ... phir aaisi sit main kesay manage karna hai I knw it very well ... abhi main jis institution main perhati hon I feel so much lucky cuz r Principal is such a nice Woman ... Its a blessing to have her ... cuz ajkal ka ju zamana hai kisi lady par b bharosa karna mushkil hai par shez so nice ... par shaadi k baad other than my *ziddz* main prefer karongi apny hubby ki baat ko mananah ... ager woh man gaye tou thek hai nahi tou I m Happy n I dont think k aesi choti choti baton ko le main apni marital lyf kharab karongi
QUOTE(Airy_Princess @ Mar 13 2008, 12:24 AM) [snapback]2765801[/snapback]
wow mazay ka topic hai yeh tou okj lemme b serious ...
acha g well m a working woman [u can say so cuz m a teacher in special education skool I dnt do 9-5 job my working hours r 8 am to 2 pm] jab mene apne parents se kaha k I cant stay in home all the tym n I wanna do sum job tou they said k app karo A.P par b careful abt this thing dat u are a *Girl* means other than job u have 2 learn everything abt *Home* n I promsd them dat I will not 4get my duties ... aur yehi hua abb meko almost 2 months ho gye hain bt me aty hi skool se rotiyan paka [] n raat ki sari duty n ghar main sab ko tym dena manage karti hon ... life is tough but gud ... now when we discuss lyf aft marriage ... one thing one should keep in mind n thats *children* mostly ppl have a kid in the first year of their married lyf ... aur uss chotey se baby k lye we need more tym* sumtyms jobs aisi hoti hain k wahan par baby sitting ka koi process nahi hota hai so yeh difficult ho jata hai buht manage karna uss choty se baby ko tym dena ... so shaadi se pehlay n baad buht diff hota hai ... for me ager main apne in-laws k sath rahi in joint family systm tou really I will not indulge my self in this job phada aft marriage* aur ager me seprate family sys yani k apne hubby k sath rahi tou I am sure I will request him k plz meko job karne dien cuz aaisi sit main wd huby only manage karna aasan hota hai ... only ager huby acha ho ... phir aaisi sit main kesay manage karna hai I knw it very well ... abhi main jis institution main perhati hon I feel so much lucky cuz r Principal is such a nice Woman ... Its a blessing to have her ... cuz ajkal ka ju zamana hai kisi lady par b bharosa karna mushkil hai par shez so nice ... par shaadi k baad other than my *ziddz* main prefer karongi apny hubby ki baat ko mananah ... ager woh man gaye tou thek hai nahi tou I m Happy n I dont think k aesi choti choti baton ko le main apni marital lyf kharab karongi
okj lemme b serious ... acha g well m a working woman [u can say so cuz m a teacher in special education skool I dnt do 9-5 job my working hours r 8 am to 2 pm] jab mene apne parents se kaha k I cant stay in home all the tym n I wanna do sum job tou they said k app karo A.P par b careful abt this thing dat u are a *Girl* means other than job u have 2 learn everything abt *Home* n I promsd them dat I will not 4get my duties ... aur yehi hua abb meko almost 2 months ho gye hain bt me aty hi skool se rotiyan paka [
] n raat ki sari duty n ghar main sab ko tym dena manage karti hon ... life is tough but gud ... now when we discuss lyf aft marriage ... one thing one should keep in mind n thats *children* mostly ppl have a kid in the first year of their married lyf ... aur uss chotey se baby k lye we need more tym* sumtyms jobs aisi hoti hain k wahan par baby sitting ka koi process nahi hota hai so yeh difficult ho jata hai buht manage karna uss choty se baby ko tym dena ... so shaadi se pehlay n baad buht diff hota hai ... for me ager main apne in-laws k sath rahi in joint family systm tou really I will not indulge my self in this job phada aft marriage* aur ager me seprate family sys yani k apne hubby k sath rahi tou I am sure I will request him k plz meko job karne dien cuz aaisi sit main wd huby only manage karna aasan hota hai ... only ager huby acha ho ... phir aaisi sit main kesay manage karna hai I knw it very well ... abhi main jis institution main perhati hon I feel so much lucky cuz r Principal is such a nice Woman ... Its a blessing to have her ... cuz ajkal ka ju zamana hai kisi lady par b bharosa karna mushkil hai par shez so nice ... par shaadi k baad other than my *ziddz* main prefer karongi apny hubby ki baat ko mananah ... ager woh man gaye tou thek hai nahi tou I m Happy n I dont think k aesi choti choti baton ko le main apni marital lyf kharab karongi Very well said
u xperinced ho bcoz u job karti ho aur ghar ka b look after karti ho right so it is hard work right mein abi scool mein hoon Lkin meri ami saab kuch nahi karskti isliye we 4 older sis wel sab s badi one is at uni onli cums on weekends hum ghar ka kaam karte hi it is hard lekin jab use 2 ho its okmoving 2 the topic sahi kaha k pehle saal mein bache hote hei n bache ko sambhalna n same time job b karna bht hard hei for example meri Ammi jab pehle sis pehda huwi my mum was workin n my abu is well lkin ami shaadi s pehle b kam karahi ti kin jab 2nd sis my mum stopped working bcoz she realised k it is hard work so jus mere abu neh kam ki n my mum looked afta housen kids
so personally im not really into doing job after maariage Lkin agar tab dil karein den i wud prbz but inna shoq nahi hei muje
like my othere sisters aur agar husband ko koi prb nahi hei den i will lkin job is no my first choice i wud rather look after kids n house its sumthin i enjoy 
QUOTE(miss_abbasi @ Mar 13 2008, 12:39 AM) [snapback]2765821[/snapback]
Very well said u xperinced ho bcoz u job karti ho aur ghar ka b look after karti ho right so it is hard work right mein abi scool mein hoon Lkin meri ami saab kuch nahi karskti isliye we 4 older sis wel sab s badi one is at uni onli cums on weekends hum ghar ka kaam karte hi it is hard lekin jab use 2 ho its ok
moving 2 the topic sahi kaha k pehle saal mein bache hote hei n bache ko sambhalna n same time job b karna bht hard hei for example meri Ammi jab pehle sis pehda huwi my mum was workin n my abu is well lkin ami shaadi s pehle b kam karahi ti kin jab 2nd sis my mum stopped working bcoz she realised k it is hard work so jus mere abu neh kam ki n my mum looked afta housen kids
so personally im not really into doing job after maariage Lkin agar tab dil karein den i wud prbz but inna shoq nahi hei muje like my othere sisters aur agar husband ko koi prb nahi hei den i will lkin job is no my first choice i wud rather look after kids n house its sumthin i enjoy
u xperinced ho bcoz u job karti ho aur ghar ka b look after karti ho right so it is hard work right mein abi scool mein hoon Lkin meri ami saab kuch nahi karskti isliye we 4 older sis wel sab s badi one is at uni onli cums on weekends hum ghar ka kaam karte hi it is hard lekin jab use 2 ho its okmoving 2 the topic sahi kaha k pehle saal mein bache hote hei n bache ko sambhalna n same time job b karna bht hard hei for example meri Ammi jab pehle sis pehda huwi my mum was workin n my abu is well lkin ami shaadi s pehle b kam karahi ti kin jab 2nd sis my mum stopped working bcoz she realised k it is hard work so jus mere abu neh kam ki n my mum looked afta housen kids
so personally im not really into doing job after maariage Lkin agar tab dil karein den i wud prbz but inna shoq nahi hei muje
like my othere sisters aur agar husband ko koi prb nahi hei den i will lkin job is no my first choice i wud rather look after kids n house its sumthin i enjoy n be honest Hubby ko bhi tou har tarhan se impress karna hota hai 1st year of marriage main ... aur itny new relations bantey hain unko manage karna unn ko apni aur khudh ko unki adat dalna its difficult I dunt thk k ju ye kehty hain k woh sab aik dam se manage karty hain its an easy thing na g nah bilkul nahi
abt ur mom thanq for sharing nice piece of her experience ... ok I will quote here an experience of mine ... there is a lady in r family woh shaadi se pehly job karti thien MOBILINK main 9-5 aur duty tymz un k change hoty hain ... abb shaadi ho gyi hai unki tou woh kehti hain k woh bhi manage nahi kar pa rahi hain ... even k abhi unka koi baby nahi hai ... phir b ... woh job nahi karna chahti acha One thing more I would lyk to say ... k me k Hubby ko ager kabhie aaisi financial probz huein humien tou main zaroor unka saath dena chahhon gi issi lye bhi main abhi job kar rahi hon ta ky meko aaram ki adat na ho ... meki aik teacher thien in coolage she adviced her k kabhie beta khudh ko aaram ki adat na dalo being girl cuz u dont knw k future main kya hona hai ager kabhie hubby k pass kam hon paise tou iss main koi burayi nahi hai k app apne hubby ki help na karo ... atleast app itna tou kar sako k app ki job main se apka aur app k baby ka kharcha nikal aye aur iss tarf se hubby ko relief milly
QUOTE(Airy_Princess @ Mar 13 2008, 12:49 AM) [snapback]2765832[/snapback]
n be honest Hubby ko bhi tou har tarhan se impress karna hota hai 1st year of marriage main ... aur itny new relations bantey hain unko manage karna unn ko apni aur khudh ko unki adat dalna its difficult I dunt thk k ju ye kehty hain k woh sab aik dam se manage karty hain its an easy thing na g nah bilkul nahi abt ur mom thanq for sharing nice piece of her experience ... ok I will quote here an experience of mine ... there is a lady in r family woh shaadi se pehly job karti thien MOBILINK main 9-5 aur duty tymz un k change hoty hain ... abb shaadi ho gyi hai unki tou woh kehti hain k woh bhi manage nahi kar pa rahi hain ... even k abhi unka koi baby nahi hai ... phir b ... woh job nahi karna chahti
acha One thing more I would lyk to say ... k me k Hubby ko ager kabhie aaisi financial probz huein humien tou main zaroor unka saath dena chahhon gi issi lye bhi main abhi job kar rahi hon ta ky meko aaram ki adat na ho ... meki aik teacher thien in coolage she adviced her k kabhie beta khudh ko aaram ki adat na dalo being girl cuz u dont knw k future main kya hona hai ager kabhie hubby k pass kam hon paise tou iss main koi burayi nahi hai k app apne hubby ki help na karo ... atleast app itna tou kar sako k app ki job main se apka aur app k baby ka kharcha nikal aye aur iss tarf se hubby ko relief milly
abt ur mom thanq for sharing nice piece of her experience ... ok I will quote here an experience of mine ... there is a lady in r family woh shaadi se pehly job karti thien MOBILINK main 9-5 aur duty tymz un k change hoty hain ... abb shaadi ho gyi hai unki tou woh kehti hain k woh bhi manage nahi kar pa rahi hain ... even k abhi unka koi baby nahi hai ... phir b ... woh job nahi karna chahti acha One thing more I would lyk to say ... k me k Hubby ko ager kabhie aaisi financial probz huein humien tou main zaroor unka saath dena chahhon gi issi lye bhi main abhi job kar rahi hon ta ky meko aaram ki adat na ho ... meki aik teacher thien in coolage she adviced her k kabhie beta khudh ko aaram ki adat na dalo being girl cuz u dont knw k future main kya hona hai ager kabhie hubby k pass kam hon paise tou iss main koi burayi nahi hai k app apne hubby ki help na karo ... atleast app itna tou kar sako k app ki job main se apka aur app k baby ka kharcha nikal aye aur iss tarf se hubby ko relief milly
welcome
MOBILINK k barein mein its ture kuch log aise kehte hei k haan manage karlungi but shaadi k baad they can't
aur last baat jo tumne ki hei bilkul sahi meri ammi b mujse yeh kehti hei k job karni hei ya nahi koi problem nahi lekin ek din agar husband k saat koi prb hojaye whether its finacily ya phir mentally usseh support wife ko hi karna paregha so u always need sumthing jise dono ko pata hoga k future mein agar koi prb ajaye atelast we no hum kaise overcome karenghe like wife doing a job
QUOTE(aaminah @ Mar 12 2008, 11:15 PM) [snapback]2765700[/snapback]
"life" ka doosra naam "balance" bhi keh saktey hey....
ji bilkul
Islam humein life mein balance rakhnay ka hi sabaq deta hay
QUOTE(Airy_Princess @ Mar 13 2008, 12:24 AM) [snapback]2765801[/snapback]
wow mazay ka topic hai yeh tou okj lemme b serious ...
acha g well m a working woman [u can say so cuz m a teacher in special education skool I dnt do 9-5 job my working hours r 8 am to 2 pm] jab mene apne parents se kaha k I cant stay in home all the tym n I wanna do sum job tou they said k app karo A.P par b careful abt this thing dat u are a *Girl* means other than job u have 2 learn everything abt *Home* n I promsd them dat I will not 4get my duties ... aur yehi hua abb meko almost 2 months ho gye hain bt me aty hi skool se rotiyan paka [ ] n raat ki sari duty n ghar main sab ko tym dena manage karti hon ... life is tough but gud ... now when we discuss lyf aft marriage ... one thing one should keep in mind n thats *children* mostly ppl have a kid in the first year of their married lyf ... aur uss chotey se baby k lye we need more tym* sumtyms jobs aisi hoti hain k wahan par baby sitting ka koi process nahi hota hai so yeh difficult ho jata hai buht manage karna uss choty se baby ko tym dena ... so shaadi se pehlay n baad buht diff hota hai ... for me ager main apne in-laws k sath rahi in joint family systm tou really I will not indulge my self in this job phada aft marriage* aur ager me seprate family sys yani k apne hubby k sath rahi tou I am sure I will request him k plz meko job karne dien cuz aaisi sit main wd huby only manage karna aasan hota hai ... only ager huby acha ho ... phir aaisi sit main kesay manage karna hai I knw it very well ... abhi main jis institution main perhati hon I feel so much lucky cuz r Principal is such a nice Woman ... Its a blessing to have her ... cuz ajkal ka ju zamana hai kisi lady par b bharosa karna mushkil hai par shez so nice ... par shaadi k baad other than my *ziddz* main prefer karongi apny hubby ki baat ko mananah ... ager woh man gaye tou thek hai nahi tou I m Happy n I dont think k aesi choti choti baton ko le main apni marital lyf kharab karongi
okj lemme b serious ... acha g well m a working woman [u can say so cuz m a teacher in special education skool I dnt do 9-5 job my working hours r 8 am to 2 pm] jab mene apne parents se kaha k I cant stay in home all the tym n I wanna do sum job tou they said k app karo A.P par b careful abt this thing dat u are a *Girl* means other than job u have 2 learn everything abt *Home* n I promsd them dat I will not 4get my duties ... aur yehi hua abb meko almost 2 months ho gye hain bt me aty hi skool se rotiyan paka [
] n raat ki sari duty n ghar main sab ko tym dena manage karti hon ... life is tough but gud ... now when we discuss lyf aft marriage ... one thing one should keep in mind n thats *children* mostly ppl have a kid in the first year of their married lyf ... aur uss chotey se baby k lye we need more tym* sumtyms jobs aisi hoti hain k wahan par baby sitting ka koi process nahi hota hai so yeh difficult ho jata hai buht manage karna uss choty se baby ko tym dena ... so shaadi se pehlay n baad buht diff hota hai ... for me ager main apne in-laws k sath rahi in joint family systm tou really I will not indulge my self in this job phada aft marriage* aur ager me seprate family sys yani k apne hubby k sath rahi tou I am sure I will request him k plz meko job karne dien cuz aaisi sit main wd huby only manage karna aasan hota hai ... only ager huby acha ho ... phir aaisi sit main kesay manage karna hai I knw it very well ... abhi main jis institution main perhati hon I feel so much lucky cuz r Principal is such a nice Woman ... Its a blessing to have her ... cuz ajkal ka ju zamana hai kisi lady par b bharosa karna mushkil hai par shez so nice ... par shaadi k baad other than my *ziddz* main prefer karongi apny hubby ki baat ko mananah ... ager woh man gaye tou thek hai nahi tou I m Happy n I dont think k aesi choti choti baton ko le main apni marital lyf kharab karongi good thinking
QUOTE(miss_abbasi @ Mar 13 2008, 01:00 AM) [snapback]2765855[/snapback]
welcome
MOBILINK k barein mein its ture kuch log aise kehte hei k haan manage karlungi but shaadi k baad they can't
aur last baat jo tumne ki hei bilkul sahi meri ammi b mujse yeh kehti hei k job karni hei ya nahi koi problem nahi lekin ek din agar husband k saat koi prb hojaye whether its finacily ya phir mentally usseh support wife ko hi karna paregha so u always need sumthing jise dono ko pata hoga k future mein agar koi prb ajaye atelast we no hum kaise overcome karenghe like wife doing a job
MOBILINK k barein mein its ture kuch log aise kehte hei k haan manage karlungi but shaadi k baad they can't
aur last baat jo tumne ki hei bilkul sahi meri ammi b mujse yeh kehti hei k job karni hei ya nahi koi problem nahi lekin ek din agar husband k saat koi prb hojaye whether its finacily ya phir mentally usseh support wife ko hi karna paregha so u always need sumthing jise dono ko pata hoga k future mein agar koi prb ajaye atelast we no hum kaise overcome karenghe like wife doing a job
Exactly ... well ALLAH g sab ko theek thaak rakhien aur kisi ko bhi aisa mushkil waqt na dekhna paray ... Ameen
QUOTE(M Kashif Nisar @ Mar 13 2008, 10:09 AM) [snapback]2766445[/snapback]
good thinking
F A N K Z
QUOTE(Airy_Princess @ Mar 14 2008, 12:02 AM) [snapback]2767836[/snapback]
Exactly ... well ALLAH g sab ko theek thaak rakhien aur kisi ko bhi aisa mushkil waqt na dekhna paray ... Ameen
AMEEN same 2 u
haan g chalo abb aur b kuch bolo
QUOTE(Airy_Princess @ Mar 14 2008, 12:02 AM) [snapback]2767838[/snapback]
F A N K Z
waisay kabhi kabhi to barri samajhdari ki baatein karti ho tum
aur u tou kabhie kabhie b nahi karty
QUOTE(Airy_Princess @ Mar 14 2008, 11:59 PM) [snapback]2770094[/snapback]
aur u tou kabhie kabhie b nahi karty
main to hamesha hi karta hoon
joke of the day 
yahan kiya ho raha haiiii
QUOTE(Only_Tears @ Mar 15 2008, 11:04 PM) [snapback]2771594[/snapback]
yahan kiya ho raha haiiii
Assalam-o-Aliakum
kuch ho naa jayeh uskaiy liyeh behas ho rahi haiy bass
QUOTE(KamlaJatt @ Mar 10 2008, 01:20 AM) [snapback]2761090[/snapback]
Jitni Khoobsurat soocha ... utna hi khoobsurat sawal
Let me try to define Women in my words (Although I m not that worth)
Wajood-e-Zann se Hai tasweer-e-Qaayinaat mieN rung
Issi K saaz saiy Zindagi ka sooz darroo'n
Owrat jiski takhleeq Insaaniat ki takhleeq k liyeh ki gayee ... kaisaiy lafzoo'n mai bayan kardoo'n .... Aankh khultaiy hi Bacha jab kissi insaan ko daikhta haiy to wo maa'n hoti haiy ... behtreen rishta behan ... ALLAH ki rehmat baiti aur Shareek-e-hayat jo dhoop chaoo'n mai aik shohar ka saath daiti hay
Kiya cheez haiy owrat k jab maa' banaiy to uskaiy pairoo'n talaiy Janat rakhdi jayeh ... aur ALLAH ki Mohabat ki Missal di jayeh to Maao'n ka zikar aayeh ... aur Aik Larki ki Achi tarbiat karnaiy par Bakhsish k wadaiy kiyeh Jayain ... biwi k jisko zindagi ka shareeq tehraya gaya .. aur behan jissaiy ghairat keh kar pukara gaya ... Hata k Owrat ko hi Umat ki Maa'n keh kar pukara gaya haiy (Kissi ko umat ka baap nahi kaha gaya)
Mairaiy Nazdeezk ... tamam owratain hi working women hoti hai'n ... Had haram to mard hi hotaiy hai'n (Sabki baat nahi ki :P)
Wo Alag baat haiy k Amoor-e-Khana dari ko koi muqam nahi diya gaya ... Halankay aik ghar ko chalana aur ussaiy ghar ki soorat mai zinda rakhna buhat bara kaam haiy ...
Takhleeq-e-qainat k saath hi kuch cheezain baant di gayee thi ... Jaisaiy Mardoo'n ko zeyaada taqat ... aur owrat ko zeyaada hassaas ... jaisiay k Mardoo'n ko baap aur owratoo'n ko maa' ... jaisaiy k Mardoon ko sarbarah-e-khana daari ... aur owrat ko nazim-e-amoor-e-khana daari ... jaisaiy k Mardoo'n ko Kamanaiy wala ... aur owrat ko ghar sanbhalnaiy wala banaya gaya ... Yeh baat sirf Insaano k liyeh nahi balkaiy Janwaroo'n k liyeh bhi same haiy ... its a life cycle .... Murghi ki Missal laiy lain chahaiy Shair ki
Why Shell a women work ? for What ?
Definitely for a better life ... A good standard of living and to support their family ... these are the answers to above question.
but what is a better life? What is standard and what is support ????
Economics ka aik rule haiy... "Unlimited demands and scarce recourses to fulfill these demands" this rule applies every where and any where
You will keep gathering the resources to fulfill ur demands and demands will keep increasing ... there is never a balance. we are in materialistic world today
I was never against working women nor I m today. I do appreciate women who are supporting there families
There are some professions which suits women best ... like teaching, medical and few more easy jobs ... although they can be engineers and etc.,
Owrat ko ALLAH naiy nazuk mizaaj banaya haiy ... magar buhat himat wali aur sabar wali bhi ...
there is no doubt women are proving them best ... but on the other hand there are some harms to family ... U can pay for a governess for ur children but cant get love of a mother for the child ... I love home cooked because when a lady cooks that taste different because its cooked with care and love.
I respect working women a lot because they take care of there homes and they struggle out too ... Laikin Yeh Na Insaafi haiy ... If women is sharing with the husband than Men should help them at home too
Well women can work if they don't have to sacrifice their families ... I salute those women who are supporting there families and salute those women who are forced to work and I condemn those women who are disturbing there families Just to prove that they are better than Men
Aur Mujhaiy afsoos haiy aisaiy mardoo'n par jo owrat ko yeh ehsaas dilataiy hai'n k wo ghar mai pari aik beqaar cheez hai'n aur mard unkaiy liyeh kamma kar unpar ehsaan kartaiy hai'n
and Now my preference.... I wont prefer that women of my home shell work ... but if they wanted to work ... I will not stop ... I will prefer to take pains of earning ...and provide the best .... and I would prefer them to stay home and support and live a better life and give the nation .. the leaders of nations with the motherly powers... and I pray to ALLAH to help me supporting my family (Ameen)
fu... thanks I finished and thanks U tried to read
I don't want people to live my way ... and comments are most welcome ...
Let me try to define Women in my words (Although I m not that worth)
Wajood-e-Zann se Hai tasweer-e-Qaayinaat mieN rung
Issi K saaz saiy Zindagi ka sooz darroo'n
Owrat jiski takhleeq Insaaniat ki takhleeq k liyeh ki gayee ... kaisaiy lafzoo'n mai bayan kardoo'n .... Aankh khultaiy hi Bacha jab kissi insaan ko daikhta haiy to wo maa'n hoti haiy ... behtreen rishta behan ... ALLAH ki rehmat baiti aur Shareek-e-hayat jo dhoop chaoo'n mai aik shohar ka saath daiti hay
Kiya cheez haiy owrat k jab maa' banaiy to uskaiy pairoo'n talaiy Janat rakhdi jayeh ... aur ALLAH ki Mohabat ki Missal di jayeh to Maao'n ka zikar aayeh ... aur Aik Larki ki Achi tarbiat karnaiy par Bakhsish k wadaiy kiyeh Jayain ... biwi k jisko zindagi ka shareeq tehraya gaya .. aur behan jissaiy ghairat keh kar pukara gaya ... Hata k Owrat ko hi Umat ki Maa'n keh kar pukara gaya haiy (Kissi ko umat ka baap nahi kaha gaya)
Mairaiy Nazdeezk ... tamam owratain hi working women hoti hai'n ... Had haram to mard hi hotaiy hai'n
(Sabki baat nahi ki :P) Wo Alag baat haiy k Amoor-e-Khana dari ko koi muqam nahi diya gaya ... Halankay aik ghar ko chalana aur ussaiy ghar ki soorat mai zinda rakhna buhat bara kaam haiy ...
Takhleeq-e-qainat k saath hi kuch cheezain baant di gayee thi ... Jaisaiy Mardoo'n ko zeyaada taqat ... aur owrat ko zeyaada hassaas ... jaisiay k Mardoo'n ko baap aur owratoo'n ko maa' ... jaisaiy k Mardoon ko sarbarah-e-khana daari ... aur owrat ko nazim-e-amoor-e-khana daari ... jaisaiy k Mardoo'n ko Kamanaiy wala ... aur owrat ko ghar sanbhalnaiy wala banaya gaya ... Yeh baat sirf Insaano k liyeh nahi balkaiy Janwaroo'n k liyeh bhi same haiy ... its a life cycle .... Murghi ki Missal laiy lain chahaiy Shair ki
Why Shell a women work ? for What ?
Definitely for a better life ... A good standard of living and to support their family ... these are the answers to above question.
but what is a better life? What is standard and what is support ????
Economics ka aik rule haiy... "Unlimited demands and scarce recourses to fulfill these demands" this rule applies every where and any where
You will keep gathering the resources to fulfill ur demands and demands will keep increasing ... there is never a balance. we are in materialistic world today
I was never against working women nor I m today. I do appreciate women who are supporting there families
There are some professions which suits women best ... like teaching, medical and few more easy jobs ... although they can be engineers and etc.,
Owrat ko ALLAH naiy nazuk mizaaj banaya haiy ... magar buhat himat wali aur sabar wali bhi ...
there is no doubt women are proving them best ... but on the other hand there are some harms to family ... U can pay for a governess for ur children but cant get love of a mother for the child ... I love home cooked because when a lady cooks that taste different because its cooked with care and love.
I respect working women a lot because they take care of there homes and they struggle out too ... Laikin Yeh Na Insaafi haiy ... If women is sharing with the husband than Men should help them at home too
Well women can work if they don't have to sacrifice their families ... I salute those women who are supporting there families and salute those women who are forced to work and I condemn those women who are disturbing there families Just to prove that they are better than Men
Aur Mujhaiy afsoos haiy aisaiy mardoo'n par jo owrat ko yeh ehsaas dilataiy hai'n k wo ghar mai pari aik beqaar cheez hai'n aur mard unkaiy liyeh kamma kar unpar ehsaan kartaiy hai'n
and Now my preference.... I wont prefer that women of my home shell work ... but if they wanted to work ... I will not stop ... I will prefer to take pains of earning ...and provide the best .... and I would prefer them to stay home and support and live a better life and give the nation .. the leaders of nations with the motherly powers... and I pray to ALLAH to help me supporting my family (Ameen)
fu... thanks I finished and thanks U tried to read
I don't want people to live my way ... and comments are most welcome ...
that's the thing i hate most about male ... any male who thinks like that no matter how much well educated he is .. looks to me the biggest idiot on earth .. i duno y ..
most of the male took wife as "servant" to take care of their *HOUSE* .. they never take it as the *real partner*, the *real friend*. thinking a female as servant and killing all her happines, her dreams her aims .. isn't good .. we shudn't act like that.
QUOTE(IrrAtionaL MethanE @ Mar 16 2008, 04:09 PM) [snapback]2772191[/snapback]
that's the thing i hate most about male ... any male who thinks like that no matter how much well educated he is .. looks to me the biggest idiot on earth .. i duno y ..
most of the male took wife as "servant" to take care of their *HOUSE* .. they never take it as the *real partner*, the *real friend*. thinking a female as servant and killing all her happines, her dreams her aims .. isn't good .. we shudn't act like that.
most of the male took wife as "servant" to take care of their *HOUSE* .. they never take it as the *real partner*, the *real friend*. thinking a female as servant and killing all her happines, her dreams her aims .. isn't good .. we shudn't act like that.
buhat acha laga aapki baat sun kar
Dear every body who is going to School College of University is not getting education mere certificates which are not bringing any impact on there lives and there is a difference between educated and people with certificates
sirf taleem nahi tarbiat bhi buhat zaroori haiy bhai. Aur tarbiat sirf school saiy nahi balkaiy ghar aur mashraiy saiy milti haiy ...
Islam has defined every thing very well for us, We the Muslims Islam should be code of conduct. Islam has defined Men as Masters but never said Women as Slaves .... This is misperception by some people that started believing that they are superior than Women and they can use them as servants and denied their rights and freedom ... they pretend to have more rights but they forgot there obligations which is root cause of this conflict of time
same as above women asked liberty and some of them are trying to cross the limits in the name of freedom
QUOTE(KamlaJatt @ Mar 16 2008, 11:33 AM) [snapback]2771972[/snapback]
Assalam-o-Aliakum
kuch ho naa jayeh uskaiy liyeh behas ho rahi haiy bass
walaikum salam
lol ok...
muje bhi behas karni hey..
QUOTE(Only_Tears @ Mar 16 2008, 08:22 PM) [snapback]2772307[/snapback]
walaikum salam
lol ok...
muje bhi behas karni hey..
lol ok...
muje bhi behas karni hey..
to karo naa ji
yahan koun haiy jo mana karaiy
QUOTE(KamlaJatt @ Mar 16 2008, 09:24 PM) [snapback]2772308[/snapback]
to karo naa ji
yahan koun haiy jo mana karaiy
yahan koun haiy jo mana karaiy
sorry one more question..
kis topic pe behas karni hai ?
QUOTE(Only_Tears @ Mar 16 2008, 08:29 PM) [snapback]2772312[/snapback]
sorry one more question..
kis topic pe behas karni hai ?
kis topic pe behas karni hai ?
Good question
http://www.hulchul.net/HC/index.php?showtopic=169287
iss link par jayain saari kahani samajh aa jayeh gi
QUOTE(KamlaJatt @ Mar 16 2008, 09:30 PM) [snapback]2772313[/snapback]
Good question
http://www.hulchul.net/HC/index.php?showtopic=169287
iss link par jayain saari kahani samajh aa jayeh gi
Lol..
got it Thanks
QUOTE(Airy_Princess @ Mar 15 2008, 11:52 PM) [snapback]2771589[/snapback]
joke of the day
mis-conceiver all time
QUOTE(Only_Tears @ Mar 16 2008, 12:04 AM) [snapback]2771594[/snapback]
yahan kiya ho raha haiiii
yar sab na apni apni dinki carz la rhy hain n patah kya khel rahy hain u b plz ... par shart hai k dinki ho app k pas
QUOTE(aaminah @ Mar 6 2008, 08:16 AM) [snapback]2754303[/snapback]
Alright Hcianz,,,esp males gimme ur views about women's and more precisely those womens who work??
what do u think a working woman will/can be a good housewife or housewoman
Will u appreciate that k womens job karain??and so and so
What do u prefer
what do u think a working woman will/can be a good housewife or housewoman
Will u appreciate that k womens job karain??and so and so
What do u prefer
haan janab mere kheal se ik working woman aik achi house wife ho sakti hai.
magar uske liye kafi kuch karna parta hai.
aik aesa relation husband aur wife ka jo bohat hi samajhne wala
saath mil ke zindagi guzarne walay hoon ager to kuch bhi mushkil nahin.
problem jab shruu hoti hai jab dono husband aur wife job karte hon aur unki koi
aulaad ho,phir uski sahi perwarish aur sab cheezon ka kheal rakhna
aik working woman ke liye kafi mushkil ho jata hai.
ager joint family system ho to phir koi masla nahin hota.
aur rahi baat Woman ki job karne ki.
main zaroor chahonga ke meri wife Job karay ager woh chahe to,ager na chahe to uski
marzi per main mukammal support karonga inshAllah.
mujhe dono main koi aiteraaz nahin.
bas samajhne walay hon aik dosre ko,sab kuch acha chalta hai phir
QUOTE(KamlaJatt @ Mar 16 2008, 09:17 PM) [snapback]2772305[/snapback]
buhat acha laga aapki baat sun kar
Dear every body who is going to School College of University is not getting education mere certificates which are not bringing any impact on there lives and there is a difference between educated and people with certificates
sirf taleem nahi tarbiat bhi buhat zaroori haiy bhai. Aur tarbiat sirf school saiy nahi balkaiy ghar aur mashraiy saiy milti haiy ...
Islam has defined every thing very well for us, We the Muslims Islam should be code of conduct. Islam has defined Men as Masters but never said Women as Slaves .... This is misperception by some people that started believing that they are superior than Women and they can use them as servants and denied their rights and freedom ... they pretend to have more rights but they forgot there obligations which is root cause of this conflict of time
same as above women asked liberty and some of them are trying to cross the limits in the name of freedom
Dear every body who is going to School College of University is not getting education mere certificates which are not bringing any impact on there lives and there is a difference between educated and people with certificates
sirf taleem nahi tarbiat bhi buhat zaroori haiy bhai. Aur tarbiat sirf school saiy nahi balkaiy ghar aur mashraiy saiy milti haiy ...
Islam has defined every thing very well for us, We the Muslims Islam should be code of conduct. Islam has defined Men as Masters but never said Women as Slaves .... This is misperception by some people that started believing that they are superior than Women and they can use them as servants and denied their rights and freedom ... they pretend to have more rights but they forgot there obligations which is root cause of this conflict of time
same as above women asked liberty and some of them are trying to cross the limits in the name of freedom
kyaaa baat kah di hai jnab .. mai hamesha hi ye baat samjhanay ki koshish krtahoun ..
.. well said .. !!!
QUOTE(Thirsty Sea @ Mar 11 2008, 09:25 PM) [snapback]2763682[/snapback]
Hmmm i fink she should work, but her family comes first, if she can handle both family and her job properly, then she can work.... i find it little tough to ignore the family for a job, specially for ma kids.... they need full concentration about what they do, what they eat and how they work in school..... if a woman thinks she can handle both family and a job, she can go for one:)
exactly!!!
if she can handle well...thn no probs...and right said abt kids
QUOTE(miss_abbasi @ Mar 12 2008, 11:28 PM) [snapback]2765711[/snapback]
Wel jus like other ppl have said i wud say is well dat if uve worked realy hard 4 it n den later ur husband shud understabd 2 dat all dat time uve spent in studying u cant jus throw it away jus like dat
haan ji bilkul understanding honi chahyea aur jo education hasil ki hey if she can put it into some constructive way....i think husband won't have ne objection cuz its for his good too!!!
QUOTE(Airy_Princess @ Mar 13 2008, 12:24 AM) [snapback]2765801[/snapback]
wow mazay ka topic hai yeh tou okj lemme b serious ...
acha g well m a working woman [u can say so cuz m a teacher in special education skool I dnt do 9-5 job my working hours r 8 am to 2 pm] jab mene apne parents se kaha k I cant stay in home all the tym n I wanna do sum job tou they said k app karo A.P par b careful abt this thing dat u are a *Girl* means other than job u have 2 learn everything abt *Home* n I promsd them dat I will not 4get my duties ... aur yehi hua abb meko almost 2 months ho gye hain bt me aty hi skool se rotiyan paka [ ] n raat ki sari duty n ghar main sab ko tym dena manage karti hon ... life is tough but gud ... now when we discuss lyf aft marriage ... one thing one should keep in mind n thats *children* mostly ppl have a kid in the first year of their married lyf ... aur uss chotey se baby k lye we need more tym* sumtyms jobs aisi hoti hain k wahan par baby sitting ka koi process nahi hota hai so yeh difficult ho jata hai buht manage karna uss choty se baby ko tym dena ... so shaadi se pehlay n baad buht diff hota hai ... for me ager main apne in-laws k sath rahi in joint family systm tou really I will not indulge my self in this job phada aft marriage* aur ager me seprate family sys yani k apne hubby k sath rahi tou I am sure I will request him k plz meko job karne dien cuz aaisi sit main wd huby only manage karna aasan hota hai ... only ager huby acha ho ... phir aaisi sit main kesay manage karna hai I knw it very well ... abhi main jis institution main perhati hon I feel so much lucky cuz r Principal is such a nice Woman ... Its a blessing to have her ... cuz ajkal ka ju zamana hai kisi lady par b bharosa karna mushkil hai par shez so nice ... par shaadi k baad other than my *ziddz* main prefer karongi apny hubby ki baat ko mananah ... ager woh man gaye tou thek hai nahi tou I m Happy n I dont think k aesi choti choti baton ko le main apni marital lyf kharab karongi
okj lemme b serious ... acha g well m a working woman [u can say so cuz m a teacher in special education skool I dnt do 9-5 job my working hours r 8 am to 2 pm] jab mene apne parents se kaha k I cant stay in home all the tym n I wanna do sum job tou they said k app karo A.P par b careful abt this thing dat u are a *Girl* means other than job u have 2 learn everything abt *Home* n I promsd them dat I will not 4get my duties ... aur yehi hua abb meko almost 2 months ho gye hain bt me aty hi skool se rotiyan paka [
] n raat ki sari duty n ghar main sab ko tym dena manage karti hon ... life is tough but gud ... now when we discuss lyf aft marriage ... one thing one should keep in mind n thats *children* mostly ppl have a kid in the first year of their married lyf ... aur uss chotey se baby k lye we need more tym* sumtyms jobs aisi hoti hain k wahan par baby sitting ka koi process nahi hota hai so yeh difficult ho jata hai buht manage karna uss choty se baby ko tym dena ... so shaadi se pehlay n baad buht diff hota hai ... for me ager main apne in-laws k sath rahi in joint family systm tou really I will not indulge my self in this job phada aft marriage* aur ager me seprate family sys yani k apne hubby k sath rahi tou I am sure I will request him k plz meko job karne dien cuz aaisi sit main wd huby only manage karna aasan hota hai ... only ager huby acha ho ... phir aaisi sit main kesay manage karna hai I knw it very well ... abhi main jis institution main perhati hon I feel so much lucky cuz r Principal is such a nice Woman ... Its a blessing to have her ... cuz ajkal ka ju zamana hai kisi lady par b bharosa karna mushkil hai par shez so nice ... par shaadi k baad other than my *ziddz* main prefer karongi apny hubby ki baat ko mananah ... ager woh man gaye tou thek hai nahi tou I m Happy n I dont think k aesi choti choti baton ko le main apni marital lyf kharab karongi exactly sahi keh rahi hein app AP...k a woman should of give preference to her H's descision cuz one should have to sacrifice and if she can get time(while have no kids yet) to i don't think k job mein koi prob hay .....
and i agree itni chooti chooti batooN pr apni marital life kharab karna, not a good idea ..
yeah..working place aur profession bhi imp hey k woman kahan kaam kar rahi hey
QUOTE(Airy_Princess @ Mar 13 2008, 12:49 AM) [snapback]2765832[/snapback]
n be honest Hubby ko bhi tou har tarhan se impress karna hota hai 1st year of marriage main ... aur itny new relations bantey hain unko manage karna unn ko apni aur khudh ko unki adat dalna its difficult I dunt thk k ju ye kehty hain k woh sab aik dam se manage karty hain its an easy thing na g nah bilkul nahi abt ur mom thanq for sharing nice piece of her experience ... ok I will quote here an experience of mine ... there is a lady in r family woh shaadi se pehly job karti thien MOBILINK main 9-5 aur duty tymz un k change hoty hain ... abb shaadi ho gyi hai unki tou woh kehti hain k woh bhi manage nahi kar pa rahi hain ... even k abhi unka koi baby nahi hai ... phir b ... woh job nahi karna chahti
acha One thing more I would lyk to say ... k me k Hubby ko ager kabhie aaisi financial probz huein humien tou main zaroor unka saath dena chahhon gi issi lye bhi main abhi job kar rahi hon ta ky meko aaram ki adat na ho ... meki aik teacher thien in coolage she adviced her k kabhie beta khudh ko aaram ki adat na dalo being girl cuz u dont knw k future main kya hona hai ager kabhie hubby k pass kam hon paise tou iss main koi burayi nahi hai k app apne hubby ki help na karo ... atleast app itna tou kar sako k app ki job main se apka aur app k baby ka kharcha nikal aye aur iss tarf se hubby ko relief milly
abt ur mom thanq for sharing nice piece of her experience ... ok I will quote here an experience of mine ... there is a lady in r family woh shaadi se pehly job karti thien MOBILINK main 9-5 aur duty tymz un k change hoty hain ... abb shaadi ho gyi hai unki tou woh kehti hain k woh bhi manage nahi kar pa rahi hain ... even k abhi unka koi baby nahi hai ... phir b ... woh job nahi karna chahti acha One thing more I would lyk to say ... k me k Hubby ko ager kabhie aaisi financial probz huein humien tou main zaroor unka saath dena chahhon gi issi lye bhi main abhi job kar rahi hon ta ky meko aaram ki adat na ho ... meki aik teacher thien in coolage she adviced her k kabhie beta khudh ko aaram ki adat na dalo being girl cuz u dont knw k future main kya hona hai ager kabhie hubby k pass kam hon paise tou iss main koi burayi nahi hai k app apne hubby ki help na karo ... atleast app itna tou kar sako k app ki job main se apka aur app k baby ka kharcha nikal aye aur iss tarf se hubby ko relief milly
ahaan nice comments....like makin' new relations and giving time to family
and totally agree wid wht u have said on financial probs..
QUOTE(IrrAtionaL MethanE @ Mar 16 2008, 05:09 PM) [snapback]2772191[/snapback]
that's the thing i hate most about male ... any male who thinks like that no matter how much well educated he is .. looks to me the biggest idiot on earth .. i duno y ..
most of the male took wife as "servant" to take care of their *HOUSE* .. they never take it as the *real partner*, the *real friend*. thinking a female as servant and killing all her happines, her dreams her aims .. isn't good .. we shudn't act like that.
most of the male took wife as "servant" to take care of their *HOUSE* .. they never take it as the *real partner*, the *real friend*. thinking a female as servant and killing all her happines, her dreams her aims .. isn't good .. we shudn't act like that.
nice thoughts and it looks as if u have full plans to imply those practically
QUOTE(M Kashif Nisar @ Mar 13 2008, 10:04 AM) [snapback]2766432[/snapback]
ji bilkul
Islam humein life mein balance rakhnay ka hi sabaq deta hay
Islam humein life mein balance rakhnay ka hi sabaq deta hay
bilkul
QUOTE(miss_abbasi @ Mar 13 2008, 12:39 AM) [snapback]2765821[/snapback]
Very well said u xperinced ho bcoz u job karti ho aur ghar ka b look after karti ho right so it is hard work right mein abi scool mein hoon Lkin meri ami saab kuch nahi karskti isliye we 4 older sis wel sab s badi one is at uni onli cums on weekends hum ghar ka kaam karte hi it is hard lekin jab use 2 ho its ok
moving 2 the topic sahi kaha k pehle saal mein bache hote hei n bache ko sambhalna n same time job b karna bht hard hei for example meri Ammi jab pehle sis pehda huwi my mum was workin n my abu is well lkin ami shaadi s pehle b kam karahi ti kin jab 2nd sis my mum stopped working bcoz she realised k it is hard work so jus mere abu neh kam ki n my mum looked afta housen kids
so personally im not really into doing job after maariage Lkin agar tab dil karein den i wud prbz but inna shoq nahi hei muje like my othere sisters aur agar husband ko koi prb nahi hei den i will lkin job is no my first choice i wud rather look after kids n house its sumthin i enjoy
u xperinced ho bcoz u job karti ho aur ghar ka b look after karti ho right so it is hard work right mein abi scool mein hoon Lkin meri ami saab kuch nahi karskti isliye we 4 older sis wel sab s badi one is at uni onli cums on weekends hum ghar ka kaam karte hi it is hard lekin jab use 2 ho its okmoving 2 the topic sahi kaha k pehle saal mein bache hote hei n bache ko sambhalna n same time job b karna bht hard hei for example meri Ammi jab pehle sis pehda huwi my mum was workin n my abu is well lkin ami shaadi s pehle b kam karahi ti kin jab 2nd sis my mum stopped working bcoz she realised k it is hard work so jus mere abu neh kam ki n my mum looked afta housen kids
so personally im not really into doing job after maariage Lkin agar tab dil karein den i wud prbz but inna shoq nahi hei muje
like my othere sisters aur agar husband ko koi prb nahi hei den i will lkin job is no my first choice i wud rather look after kids n house its sumthin i enjoy nice nice
good,,,so u know ur mum's experience and good thing is u have got/realize/understand somethings out of it
QUOTE(KamlaJatt @ Mar 16 2008, 09:17 PM) [snapback]2772305[/snapback]
buhat acha laga aapki baat sun kar
Dear every body who is going to School College of University is not getting education mere certificates which are not bringing any impact on there lives and there is a difference between educated and people with certificates
sirf taleem nahi tarbiat bhi buhat zaroori haiy bhai. Aur tarbiat sirf school saiy nahi balkaiy ghar aur mashraiy saiy milti haiy ...
Islam has defined every thing very well for us, We the Muslims Islam should be code of conduct. Islam has defined Men as Masters but never said Women as Slaves .... This is misperception by some people that started believing that they are superior than Women and they can use them as servants and denied their rights and freedom ... they pretend to have more rights but they forgot there obligations which is root cause of this conflict of time
same as above women asked liberty and some of them are trying to cross the limits in the name of freedom
Dear every body who is going to School College of University is not getting education mere certificates which are not bringing any impact on there lives and there is a difference between educated and people with certificates
sirf taleem nahi tarbiat bhi buhat zaroori haiy bhai. Aur tarbiat sirf school saiy nahi balkaiy ghar aur mashraiy saiy milti haiy ...
Islam has defined every thing very well for us, We the Muslims Islam should be code of conduct. Islam has defined Men as Masters but never said Women as Slaves .... This is misperception by some people that started believing that they are superior than Women and they can use them as servants and denied their rights and freedom ... they pretend to have more rights but they forgot there obligations which is root cause of this conflict of time
same as above women asked liberty and some of them are trying to cross the limits in the name of freedom
very well balanced comments...!!!
QUOTE(KamlaJatt @ Mar 16 2008, 09:17 PM) [snapback]2772305[/snapback]
buhat acha laga aapki baat sun kar
Dear every body who is going to School College of University is not getting education mere certificates which are not bringing any impact on there lives and there is a difference between educated and people with certificates
sirf taleem nahi tarbiat bhi buhat zaroori haiy bhai. Aur tarbiat sirf school saiy nahi balkaiy ghar aur mashraiy saiy milti haiy ...
Islam has defined every thing very well for us, We the Muslims Islam should be code of conduct. Islam has defined Men as Masters but never said Women as Slaves .... This is misperception by some people that started believing that they are superior than Women and they can use them as servants and denied their rights and freedom ... they pretend to have more rights but they forgot there obligations which is root cause of this conflict of time
same as above women asked liberty and some of them are trying to cross the limits in the name of freedom
Dear every body who is going to School College of University is not getting education mere certificates which are not bringing any impact on there lives and there is a difference between educated and people with certificates
sirf taleem nahi tarbiat bhi buhat zaroori haiy bhai. Aur tarbiat sirf school saiy nahi balkaiy ghar aur mashraiy saiy milti haiy ...
Islam has defined every thing very well for us, We the Muslims Islam should be code of conduct. Islam has defined Men as Masters but never said Women as Slaves .... This is misperception by some people that started believing that they are superior than Women and they can use them as servants and denied their rights and freedom ... they pretend to have more rights but they forgot there obligations which is root cause of this conflict of time
same as above women asked liberty and some of them are trying to cross the limits in the name of freedom
~not getting education mere certificates~~isn't this our current social,,well global dielmma!!
and last line
totally agree
QUOTE(nomi87 @ Mar 17 2008, 10:56 PM) [snapback]2774285[/snapback]
haan janab mere kheal se ik working woman aik achi house wife ho sakti hai.
magar uske liye kafi kuch karna parta hai.
aik aesa relation husband aur wife ka jo bohat hi samajhne wala
saath mil ke zindagi guzarne walay hoon ager to kuch bhi mushkil nahin.
problem jab shruu hoti hai jab dono husband aur wife job karte hon aur unki koi
aulaad ho,phir uski sahi perwarish aur sab cheezon ka kheal rakhna
aik working woman ke liye kafi mushkil ho jata hai.
ager joint family system ho to phir koi masla nahin hota.
aur rahi baat Woman ki job karne ki.
main zaroor chahonga ke meri wife Job karay ager woh chahe to,ager na chahe to uski
marzi per main mukammal support karonga inshAllah.
mujhe dono main koi aiteraaz nahin.
bas samajhne walay hon aik dosre ko,sab kuch acha chalta hai phir
magar uske liye kafi kuch karna parta hai.
aik aesa relation husband aur wife ka jo bohat hi samajhne wala
saath mil ke zindagi guzarne walay hoon ager to kuch bhi mushkil nahin.
problem jab shruu hoti hai jab dono husband aur wife job karte hon aur unki koi
aulaad ho,phir uski sahi perwarish aur sab cheezon ka kheal rakhna
aik working woman ke liye kafi mushkil ho jata hai.
ager joint family system ho to phir koi masla nahin hota.
aur rahi baat Woman ki job karne ki.
main zaroor chahonga ke meri wife Job karay ager woh chahe to,ager na chahe to uski
marzi per main mukammal support karonga inshAllah.
mujhe dono main koi aiteraaz nahin.
bas samajhne walay hon aik dosre ko,sab kuch acha chalta hai phir
nice comments/thoughts
agree wen a couple have kids,,,its hard to manage
and last line
thats what matters most!!!
QUOTE(ManPaki @ Mar 19 2008, 11:37 PM) [snapback]2779231[/snapback]
very well balanced comments...!!!
wouldn'u U have ur own opinion?
QUOTE(aaminah @ Mar 19 2008, 11:29 PM) [snapback]2779221[/snapback]
exactly sahi keh rahi hein app AP...k a woman should of give preference to her H's descision cuz one should have to sacrifice and if she can get time(while have no kids yet) to i don't think k job mein koi prob hay .....
and i agree itni chooti chooti batooN pr apni marital life kharab karna, not a good idea ..
yeah..working place aur profession bhi imp hey k woman kahan kaam kar rahi hey
and i agree itni chooti chooti batooN pr apni marital life kharab karna, not a good idea ..
yeah..working place aur profession bhi imp hey k woman kahan kaam kar rahi hey
F a n k Z
QUOTE(aaminah @ Mar 19 2008, 11:31 PM) [snapback]2779222[/snapback]
ahaan nice comments....like makin' new relations and giving time to family
and totally agree wid wht u have said on financial probs..
and totally agree wid wht u have said on financial probs..
yara ajj kal ki studies n bachon k nakhrey dono aasmano par hain
QUOTE(aaminah @ Mar 6 2008, 08:16 AM) [snapback]2754303[/snapback]
Alright Hcianz,,,esp males gimme ur views about women's and more precisely those womens who work??
what do u think a working woman will/can be a good housewife or housewoman
Will u appreciate that k womens job karain??and so and so
What do u prefer
what do u think a working woman will/can be a good housewife or housewoman
Will u appreciate that k womens job karain??and so and so
What do u prefer
so, to start making any comment on the topic... we should always remember k hamari priorities hamesha Islam mutaabiq honi chayey... and we should follow all the things according to Islam...
kisi bhi Muashray ki islaah meray nazdiik aurat ki participation sy hi shuru hotii hai... aur is baat ko bhi kisi soorat nazar andaaz nahi kiya jasakta k woh auratain jo jobs bhi kartiin hain aur managing their families too without getting help from any hired governess for their kidz... i really appreciate those working ladies...
laikin jis din ap ko yey ehsaas honay lagay k its not getting harmfull for ur family 1 should stop doing work and give full time to her family... aur this would be the stage for a man to take full responsibility and also 1 should appriciate her for taking this decison and give her more respect than she deserves...
i had a friend named he lost his mother when he was in class 2. we studied together for 5 years till class 5. though its long time now but i still remember him... u ppl cannot belive k mera dost kabhi kisi sports main participate nahi karta tha... for only 1 reason k uniform mela na hojayey jaldi kyunki uniform jaldi mela honay per us ko ghar sy kisi sy daant partii thee shayed. he always use to carry 1 'handkerchief' to keep his shoes clean... k shoes ganday hogayey tu polish tu khud hi karnay hain magar again daant bht parti hai ghar sy...
i am just quoting this example that kidz always need a caring mother arround them... that makes them to participate in daily life more confidently...
i would never prefer for a woman to work... but at the same time im not that strict with my preferences...
im always praying to Allah for myself to give me enough strength that i can make everything possible for my family...
QUOTE(aaminah @ Mar 19 2008, 11:34 PM) [snapback]2779227[/snapback]
nice thoughts and it looks as if u have full plans to imply those practically
well dun have any plans .. it depend upon the partner i get ... bt one thing is sure that i dun wana FORCE things on her .. wana have best friend out of her rather a best chef, servant or maid .. ..
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