Alright Hcianz,,,esp males gimme ur views about women's and more precisely those womens who work??
what do u think a working woman will/can be a good housewife or housewoman
Will u appreciate that k womens job karain??and so and so

What do u prefer

ab jawab day sum merad hazrat ?

well meri koi preference nahi hai .. na hi mai kuch aisa sochta hou k she *MUST* do job or *MUST NOT* do job .. watever she likes .. i wun stop her to do it .. if she wana do job .. she can .. if she dun .. she can ..

the things matter is to keep things balance between job n house .. like male balance the job n house .. it will be applicable to wife as well. since being a mother, she is required to give more time to children, so if she wana do job i'll try to make sure that *WE* will manage *OUR* time so that the children or the *HOME* (family) wun have bad effect - i am using the word *WE/OUR* .. i am not putting all the burden on wife ..

One thing that i'll *PREFER* in today's culture, where the environment is becoming such a rushy, advance and etc .. i'll prefer that she must have exposure of outer world (which can be get if she got her education from some good uni or doing job) .. she must knows her limits (islamically).


btw, i really hate the reply when someone ask from a girl .. "What is your future plans" ... and she replies "kuch nahi bs shadi aur phir ghar" .. I mean .. why not girls think about other than "ROTI PAKANA" or watever .. :S ..

humm
yeh to kai questions kar diyay aap nay aaminah

answer yeh hay kay 1st preference kisi female ki us ka ghar hi hona chahiyay .........kiyune basically mard ka kaam bahar ja kar rozgaar kamana hota hay aur aurat ka apnay ghar ko sanbhalna

laikin situations kay mutabiq agar khwateen jobs bhi karti hain to koi buri baat nahin laikin unhian apni haya ka khyal rakhna chahiyay

aur yeh nahin kay aurat kabhi ghar say bahar na jayay .....kiyunke bahar ka bhi pata hona chahiyay aaj kal ki parrhi likhi aur sensible aurat ko

kafi hay Aaminah ji ?

me se tou nahi pocha na

Nice topic by the way mein b yeh topic start krne wali ti lkin i didnt no how 2 put it together

Nice

im a female but still going 2 anser

ders loads of ppl dat say k ladki ko shaadi k baad kaam nahi krna chaiye simply bcoz the husband will provide all dat
u ave sum mother in laws hu say the same k jab husband hei kamane kliye tou tumhe kaam krne ki zarort kya hei


but answering wht u have asked ders load of wifes dat work n at the same time to the housework i think dats really hard work n if they can do it den no one shud stop dem bcoz at the end of the day there working for their family n earning a living :


hope ive answered ur qs right

oye yeh me ka b answer hei

umm.. Am gonna reply here too..


Well.. as myself is concerned.. I have decided to work.. I will take permission from my mother in law n my hubby.. before doing it so.. coz their permission is necessary for me.. am there responsibility.. n 2ndly.. I want to be helpful for my hubby... n save enuf amount for our better future.. I wud never ask my hubby to take money from me.. if he wants he can have it.. but if he dont.. i wont force him.. n i wud try my level best to be fitted in his income.. n save mine.. for an year or so.. till am working.. n my family has not started.. I want to save some for my kids.. n better future.. because bura waqt kisi per bata kar nai aata hai.. am educated.. n I will insha-Allah manage it being a working women.. n bahu n bv as well.. but when we would start a family.. I wud quit the job.. because i want to give my complete time to kids.. i dont wanna ruin them.. want to be frndz wid them... like my mama did

very balanced & positive approach
agar hum sab log issi tarah positive sochein aur aik dosray ka khyal rakhein to kitna acha ho
I wish my partner would have such approach

ima reply too ..


one thing dat i wud neva compromise in mah life is my job ... stayin up nites n goin thru so much to get a degree.. i wud require mahh hubby to understand mahh aims.. i will definitaly take permission - as KKG said- frm ma mother in law n hubby since it is important.. u neva knw k bura time kab a jaye .. savingz r impt.. life is short... if i am educatted enuff to help than y not? .. n i personally feel dat ladies who take care of their children and their workplace r much betta off n r stronger .. they knw exactly how to give everythin n styll knw* everythin..

Thanks Kashif.. for appreciating it..

haan jee

ap bhi kutch kahiyea na,,aakhir working woman hain app bhi

nice thoughts

i better understand what *we/our* meant.....lil words wid broad meanings

i agree *good uni+education* and should ov islamically know her limits.....

kia nahi karnay chahyea thay

first preference...us ka ghar ...good
bilkul sahi kaha app ney k bahir ka bhi pata hona chahyea

na-kafi nahi hey

chalain ab pooch leti hooN

Thankyou sairah

nice to know ur plans

good.....females can too answer

i agree wid u but the qstn is "not on the risk of her relations and family"......

yeh to achi baat hey "working for their family and earning a living".....its appreciating and worthwhile

nice rply

nice to read ur rply

it looks as if u have stolen my thoughts

nice & awsome plans!!

may Allah give u strength to act upon 'em

waiquea kitna acha ho

exactly u r right....getting up nights and sacrificing a lot of things....so i think is ka kutch reward to hona chahyea!!!

yeah..permission is v imp
just to add a lil...i have seen families n kids been ruined just bcoz of mothers...esp working women....psycic kids...etc etc
relations can't be as imp as degree.....and a lil more sacrifice by woman can solve many of social probs...

you welcome ji

ji bilkul

humm
nahin aisi to baat nahin

thanks for appreciating

na-kafi nahin hay........means abhi aur taqreer ki gunjayesh hay

I think k woman k job karnay mien koi burai nahi..........agar wo shadi shuda hay aur apnay job k saath saath ghar ko maintain rakh sakti hay easily................tou i dont think so k koi problem honi chaiye

Thanks for the prayers..

Jitni Khoobsurat soocha ... utna hi khoobsurat sawal

Let me try to define Women in my words (Although I m not that worth)

Wajood-e-Zann se Hai tasweer-e-Qaayinaat mieN rung
Issi K saaz saiy Zindagi ka sooz darroo'n


Owrat jiski takhleeq Insaaniat ki takhleeq k liyeh ki gayee ... kaisaiy lafzoo'n mai bayan kardoo'n .... Aankh khultaiy hi Bacha jab kissi insaan ko daikhta haiy to wo maa'n hoti haiy ... behtreen rishta behan ... ALLAH ki rehmat baiti aur Shareek-e-hayat jo dhoop chaoo'n mai aik shohar ka saath daiti hay

Kiya cheez haiy owrat k jab maa' banaiy to uskaiy pairoo'n talaiy Janat rakhdi jayeh ... aur ALLAH ki Mohabat ki Missal di jayeh to Maao'n ka zikar aayeh ... aur Aik Larki ki Achi tarbiat karnaiy par Bakhsish k wadaiy kiyeh Jayain ... biwi k jisko zindagi ka shareeq tehraya gaya .. aur behan jissaiy ghairat keh kar pukara gaya ... Hata k Owrat ko hi Umat ki Maa'n keh kar pukara gaya haiy (Kissi ko umat ka baap nahi kaha gaya)

Mairaiy Nazdeezk ... tamam owratain hi working women hoti hai'n ... Had haram to mard hi hotaiy hai'n (Sabki baat nahi ki :P)
Wo Alag baat haiy k Amoor-e-Khana dari ko koi muqam nahi diya gaya ... Halankay aik ghar ko chalana aur ussaiy ghar ki soorat mai zinda rakhna buhat bara kaam haiy ...

Takhleeq-e-qainat k saath hi kuch cheezain baant di gayee thi ... Jaisaiy Mardoo'n ko zeyaada taqat ... aur owrat ko zeyaada hassaas ... jaisiay k Mardoo'n ko baap aur owratoo'n ko maa' ... jaisaiy k Mardoon ko sarbarah-e-khana daari ... aur owrat ko nazim-e-amoor-e-khana daari ... jaisaiy k Mardoo'n ko Kamanaiy wala ... aur owrat ko ghar sanbhalnaiy wala banaya gaya ... Yeh baat sirf Insaano k liyeh nahi balkaiy Janwaroo'n k liyeh bhi same haiy ... its a life cycle .... Murghi ki Missal laiy lain chahaiy Shair ki

Why Shell a women work ? for What ?

Definitely for a better life ... A good standard of living and to support their family ... these are the answers to above question.

but what is a better life? What is standard and what is support ????

Economics ka aik rule haiy... "Unlimited demands and scarce recourses to fulfill these demands" this rule applies every where and any where

You will keep gathering the resources to fulfill ur demands and demands will keep increasing ... there is never a balance. we are in materialistic world today

I was never against working women nor I m today. I do appreciate women who are supporting there families

There are some professions which suits women best ... like teaching, medical and few more easy jobs ... although they can be engineers and etc.,

Owrat ko ALLAH naiy nazuk mizaaj banaya haiy ... magar buhat himat wali aur sabar wali bhi ...

there is no doubt women are proving them best ... but on the other hand there are some harms to family ... U can pay for a governess for ur children but cant get love of a mother for the child ... I love home cooked because when a lady cooks that taste different because its cooked with care and love.

I respect working women a lot because they take care of there homes and they struggle out too ... Laikin Yeh Na Insaafi haiy ... If women is sharing with the husband than Men should help them at home too

Well women can work if they don't have to sacrifice their families ... I salute those women who are supporting there families and salute those women who are forced to work and I condemn those women who are disturbing there families Just to prove that they are better than Men

Aur Mujhaiy afsoos haiy aisaiy mardoo'n par jo owrat ko yeh ehsaas dilataiy hai'n k wo ghar mai pari aik beqaar cheez hai'n aur mard unkaiy liyeh kamma kar unpar ehsaan kartaiy hai'n

and Now my preference.... I wont prefer that women of my home shell work ... but if they wanted to work ... I will not stop ... I will prefer to take pains of earning ...and provide the best .... and I would prefer them to stay home and support and live a better life and give the nation .. the leaders of nations with the motherly powers... and I pray to ALLAH to help me supporting my family (Ameen)

fu... thanks I finished and thanks U tried to read

I don't want people to live my way ... and comments are most welcome ...

KJ ki taqreer khatam huwee
lagta hay kisi debate waghaira mein hisa lay kar aayay hain

nicely explained bro

very nice comments Kamla Jutt..
It is highly appreciated.. ... Thanks for sharing ur valuable comments

thanks for Comments
Na Ji Taqreer nahi ... I just expressed my view
Wo Alag baat haiy k I was the winning debater of my college

thanks for appreciation

pori speach kar dih

nice... boht khoob Kamle

Abhi poori to nahi ki

Aap naiy appreciate kar diya paisaiy pooraiy hogayeh

yani yeh to b continued hai????


ap tahqreer karne k lie paise b laite ho????

@KamlaJatt

zabardast sharing Dear

it looks more to feel,,,than to say that it is a debate
tamam owratain hi working women hoti hai'n i really liked this point of view of urs..
"Unlimited demands and scarce recourses to fulfill these demands" and i think jo women is baat ko achi tarah samjh ley to no doubt she is a succesful person either she is working woman or housewoman......

baqi bhi bohat khoob tha,,,,complete reply....liked very much to read ur views ...thanks for sharing here

right said

exactly if everything works just fine....thn no prob

esi nahi hey to kesi hey

welcome

haan jee jab tak taqreer karnay sey gala nahi band ho jata

exactly app ki batoon main debater ki jhalak aati hey......n ppl get confused k speech hey ya real main feelings/views share kiye hein

welcome bro
acha ......yeh taqreer numa views thay
dekha ...debater thay na aap

pata nahin kaisi hay
you also
nahin taqreer KJ nay kar di hay na .......ab meri zarorat nahin

Yeh it is to be continued.... till there life in my body
Commercial world u c

it is OK only ... but u r generous

I just to open ma heart
and about successful person u said very right ... it is also for men

U r most welcome ... I just tried to fulfill ma duty

I heard about a family in pakistan near gujrat ... no one is working from there home ... they just got a small piece of work were they can cultivate some vegetable and farm some goats and chicken they eat out of that and sale the surplus and living a good life ... they are passing most of there time together and they are very happy couple ... this all is because they dont have more desires
I dont mean that v should live that way ... I m just saying living is not difficult ... but living a high fie life is something different ... Even today when i m going to some village ... I can see happy and simple ppl very loving and caring because they are not much materialistic

bass yehi kahoonga ki
kuj shehar daiy loog vi zalim sann ... kuj mai nu maran da shouq vi si

tou aur kiya tha

Haye Rabba mai kithaiy jawaa'n

Sabnaiy apni apni Qabar mai jaana haiy bhai

Hmmm i fink she should work, but her family comes first, if she can handle both family and her job properly, then she can work.... i find it little tough to ignore the family for a job, specially for ma kids.... they need full concentration about what they do, what they eat and how they work in school..... if a woman thinks she can handle both family and a job, she can go for one:)

Good
Appreciated

thankyou boss

Suna hay lahore mein honay walay dhamakay kay phechay apka hath hay