SalamzZz n HizZz

how r u Buddhiez ohh ok buddiez ... lemme b serious

g ajj me ka topic thora ... ofcourse the questions in my mind par hi hai

wot do u ppl think abt Lady Luck*??? buht se cases main kaha jata hai k shaadi k baad aurat apna rizq khud le kar aati hai ... n sab kuch acha ho jata hai par humari yehi society jab kisi k hubby ki death ho jaye ya kisi k hubby ko nuksaan ho jaye[even k uss girl ka koi b kasoor na ho] tou us par hi kyun ilzam lagta hai???

what do u say???

P.S: jinki shaadi ho gyi hai woh zra tello k un ka experience kya kehta hai aur baki log bhi dukhi na hon k unki nahi hui tou woh kya likhien u can share ur lyf experiences by quoting true incidents happened around u

Ab tou Bilkul nahin bataoon gaa...... !!

yahan sun kar wahan ... .... Uraati ho ....

lolz... tou bhaijaan app b na idhar kuch kahani sunaty hain n sath hi humsaya sec main ja kar kehty hain oye main tey makhool keeta si

Main hor makhol .......

keho jiyan gallan karan lag paey ho 2C....!!

hor ki ... athay rounday hou outhay oukhay honday ou 2c

80 .. tey okhey .....

Mereyaa Rabbaa.......

(wesey aik baat hay ... k main ney tumhari post parhi he nahin ..
warna zroor kuchh batata ... )

i dun think so keh aisa kuch hota hai... har banday ka rizq likha howa hai plus mehnat karo gay to milay ga na... itnay log hain shaadi nahi hoti magar jis karobar main bhi haath daalain woh nahi chalta... yeh to funda hai is duniya ka... mera nahi kahayal keh kisi ki shaadi say gud luck ya bad luck related hoti hai

magar mairee tu abhi death naheen hoee.,. is liya kaisaay dassoon..

Walaikum Assalam

Aik baar phir good topic

Mera nahi khayal aisa kuch hota hai... kyunke har bandeyy ke saath us ki qismat aur rizq etc likh diya jata hai .... Aise main yeh batain is tarah mansoob karna mere khayal main bilkul ghalat baat hai.

Haan yeh ho sakta hai ke jab aurat apna rizq khud laati hai to "Aik se bhaley do" ke mutabiq us main barkat hoti hai aur khushhali feel hoti hai.

Aur jahan tak meri observation ya ezperience ki baat hai to mere ird gird ke mahol main bhi is tarah ki baat nahi dekhney main aayi ke kabhi kisi ke shohar ki death per us ki bewa ko qusoorwaar thehraya gaya ho.

well explained

asal maiN hai to aisa hi, magar log aanay wali aurat ko kissi mishap ka zimmah daar mahaz apni 'jahalat' k baa'es hi qarar detay haiN k iskay aanay say qabal to kabhi aisa nahi howa thaa, ab aisaa howa hai to laazman iski wajah say hai... aisee hi baat kissi nau.maulood k baray maiN bhi kaha jata hai agar oskay aanay k fauran baad kissi ki death hojaye to (jahalat k maaray) kahtay hain k aatay hi maaN yaa baap ko khaa gayaa /gayee. yeh sab jahalat, aqal o faham ki kami k baaes hota hai yaa phir hindouN k saath sadyouN tak rahnay ka nateejah k onkay haaN yeh bahoot aam behaviour hai k falaaN to 'lakshmi saabit howee aur falaaN manhoos.

waisay Allah nay quran maiN wadaa kia hai k agar kam rizq rakhnay walay nau.jawaan Allah par bharosah kartay howay shadi karain to Allah onkay rizq maiN ezafah kardeta hai. yeh oska WADA hai lekin hamaray naujawaanouN maiN say aksar ko yaa to Allah k iss wada ka patah hi nahi yaa iss par imaan pukhtah nahi aur woh yeh kahtay howay shadi ko doooooor Taaltay jatay hain k pahlay maal daulat kama louN phir shadi karouNga takay aanay wali ko paal to sakouN... goya aanay wali ka palan.haar yehi to haiN.

yeh baat to main nay bhi suni huwee hay kay aulaad mard kay muqaddar ki hoti hay aur rizq aurat kay muqaddar ka hota hay.....aagay ALLAH behtar janta hay

jahan tak mera khyal hay kisi banday ko aisay halaat ka zima-dar nahin thehrana chahiyay jo ALLAH ki taraf say runuma hotay hain ......agar koi museebat ya preshani hay tab bhi ALLAH say dua karni chahiyay aur usay ALLAH ki marzi samajhna chahiyay na kay kisi banday kat sarr daal dena chahiyay....kiyunke aisi baatein karnay say diloN mein duuryaN hi paida hoon gi faida to kuch nahin hoga ...waisay bhi life mein ounch neech aati rehti hay ...sada waqt aik jaisa nahin rehta .....aisa waqt aa bhi jayay to apni ghaltiyun par tauba astaghfaar kar kay ALLAH say hi madad mangni chahiyay aur sabar say kaam laina chahiyay.....kiyunke agar yeh aurat kay muqaddar ka mamla hay bhi tab bhi ALLAH ki taraf say hi hay

oye film par rep karo vailey hero

oh.........
woh scene parrha nahin na abhi .........khair aaj sham tak karta hoon reply

tum iss reply par to comments do

ummm.. main aik personal experience share karoongi..

Meri apni mama ka.. my mama got married to my father n father came into stable position.. when I was born.. My father had big project in hand.. n he was used to say "meri qismat wali beti hia" my mama didnt wanted me coz i was the 3rd daugher n no brother.. my dado was upset on this.... she said my nano to adopt me.. so in that case i wud be sister of my own mother.. but i wud be in my own family.. but somehow my father refused for this act n said yeh meri qismat wali beti hai main isko nai janay doonga... n he loved me alot.. more than my other sis n bro.. n then mere baad hi bhai hua.. to mujhe or ziyada lucky kaha gaya.. but soon my father died.. when i was 5 yrs n some months older.. n all blame came on to my mama.. even I hated my mama.. that my papa died coz of you after hearing everyone saying this to mama.. everyone accused mama.. that its all coz of you.. but sooner I realized i have been child n i lost someone really dear to me.. so i felt like that n hated mama.. but now I love her so much.. that i cant even express it.. I hate those ppl (my dadhyal) who didnt accepted us after my father's death..


she is out of station since a week.. n i have been missing her so badly.. that I call her 10 times a day n talk for hour or more..

humm
waqai aisa kehnay say pehlay koi sochta bhi nahin kay us aurat kay dil par kya guzar rahi hogi ....aik to us aurat kar sar say saya hat gaya aur itnay zalimana andaz mein blame bhi usay hi kiya jayay ...kitni ghalat baat hay yah kay ALLAH kay faislay par itnay jahilna tabsaray kiyay jayein aur dukhi ko mazeed dukhi kiya jayay

but yeh humare maasharay ka nizaam hai n we cant do anything about it.,. jis pe beet ti hai usko hi pata hota hia...

I hate these things of our society

at least humari parhi likhi generation ko iss say bahar nikalna chahiyay........takay humari agli nasal tak yeh cheezein na pohanchein

yeh sab isliye or wahan hota hai jahan jahalat hoti hai .....hamare sath bhi aise kaii cases hue ...or whana hee hua unhone ne hee kiye jo jahil hain ,,they ....!!!

sad yaar ,,,meri mom k sath bi is istarah kai cases hue dad beemaar to ohupo nd awl cme to blame mai mom..chotey bhai ko bacchpan mie chott lagii thi ,,,,mai mom was crying so0 badly nd mai taya came nd blamed mai mom...hum srf dekhte the tab..kiu k hum chotey the meri ami ne bhi kafi kafi kafi saha ..den ALLAH KA LAAKH LAAKH SHUKAR HAI hamare baba ne hamie us janjaaal se nikaal k door rakhdia ...ab bhi bolte hain magar peet peechey kiun k AB HUM BADEY HOGAE HAIN OR HUM SAB JAANTEY HAIN .... now no one dare to say anything to mai MOM OR TO MAI DAD!

yeh na mumkin si baat hia.. ke asa badlao aaye.. I hope so.. it happens..

same here.. we have suffered alot.. pehle bachay thay to rou parhte thay.. n dekhte rehte the kunke hum khud kamzoor thay.. kya kehte kisi se.. but ab we are independant.. n khud kafeel hian.. ab wohi log jo humse puchte nai thay.. wohi humare ghar aa aa kar puchte hain.. jab mere papa ki death hui to mere papa ka printing press mamoon ko handle karne ko de dia.. n unke sath hi hum rehte hain.. aaye din k tanay.. aaye din kuch na kuch hota tha.. mama paise maangti thin to agay se dus baatien sunana.. n ab asa haal hia ke kitni baar woh aakar mama se paise maangte hian n hum khud par fakhar mehsoos karte hian.. ke humne apni mama ko us daldal se nikaal dia.. woh respect wapas laa di hia.. jo kho gai thi..

DATS REALLY VERY GUD..
yeh dhdiyaal wale jane kiun aise hote hain //:S paisey hote hain to app k paisa na ho to parae.. mere baba ko bhi sab pata hai k woh inse srf paisu k lalch mien sath hain phr bhi baba ..dete hain still dete hain ..or uper se kehte hain k hisa do khair ajib hain bas yeh hai k ab ami us jhanjaal se nikal gai yahi bohuttttttttt hai hamare liye ...ek din khud unko ehsaas ho hee jaega ..

namumkin nahin hay KKG
hum log koshish karein gay to InshahAllah aisi soch kam hona shuro ho jayay gi

yup.. Insha-Allah