"nafrat aghar had seh barh jae tu Muhabat main change hojati hai"

ap is k baare main kia kehte ho????

i think i yeh maine kahi parha hai yah kahi sunha hai, am not sure were

2 apposite cheezain agar aik dosrey k liye haddain cross kar jayein tu i dont think so k wo koi +ve way ikhtiyar kar sakti hain.... baqi aap siyaney behtar jantey hain.....

haan parha tu mai ney bhi tha per mujhey nahi lagta k ziyada tar ayesa huta hu ga.....

koi siyana hai yaha joh ae aur batae????

apko kio nahi lagta keh aisa hota hoga????

agar aap mantaqi eetibar se sochain tu mushkil hey per kya karin insan kabhi kabhi wo bhi kar jata hey HIMAQAT jisey lig ISHQ kehtey hain....

phir tu inlogo k liye wohi misaal hey j jab dil aaya ..... pey.....

hehe muskil kio hai???

ap kishi seh nafrat karo yah muhabat woh insan harr waqt apki thoughts main tu hota hai nah... n woh kehte hai nah k aghar pathr par ik ik qatra parta rhe tu us main b surahk hojata hai.... thn.... jab ap kishi seh shahid nafrat karte ho tu phr kahi nah kahi jah kar woh nafrat muhabat main kio nahi badal shakti?

hehehe....

kia sochne laghi?????

chalyeh ab tafseeli sunyeh baat ..... aam tor per insaan kisi se nafrat ya mohabbat uskey amal se karta hey..theek .... ab nafrat ya mohabbat ki had per yeh tu nahi hu ga na k samney wala bil farz sharaab peeta hey ... isliye aap ko ussey nafrat hey..... ab uski had yeh hu k wo banda sharab sab k samney peeneylagey ... aur itna piye k aap ko aam baat mehsoos hu.... yeh tu usi sorat mai hu sakta he k aap khud bhi umm=ul=khabais ko apna lain(Just exp). means k aap ney uskey amal ko apnaya tu aap ki nafrat khatam hui..... tu aap ki shadeed nafrat agar us amal se hey tu jesey jesey wo us amal ko aap k samney aam karey ga ussey aap ki nafrat barh tu sakti hey per mohabbat main tabdeel hu jaye .... yeh baat mujhey tu ajeeb si hi lagti hey...... wallah o alam ....

well... is surat main tu nafrat muhabat main nahi badal shakti...

bt wen i ask tu aisa koch b zehn main nahi tah... i jus ask... coz koch dinn pehle meri ik frnd neh aisa kaha ... n she said k nafrat muhabat main badal shakti hai but i didnt agreed kio k mujhe nahi lagta keh badal shakti hai... so ap logo ki rae k lie tpc start kia.... jus to knw wat u ppl think...

umm in some cases badal sakti hia.. jab baat larka larki ki aati hai..to hum yeh soch sakte hian.. ke ap kisi se nafrat karo.. be pannah nafrat ke uske naam se bhi chirh hojaye.. ke us ka naam liya jaye to bardasht na ho.. n wohi shaks apko attention de.. care de.. apka khayal rakhay.. apki har cheez ko notice main rakhay.. to i think kahin na kahin pyar ho hi jata hai..
n then nafrat mohabbat main badal jati hai...

i was also thinking abt dat, n thn Wasi neh kishi dosri misal keh saht nafrt muhabat beyan ki.... n thn... waise i thnk meri frnd b aisi hi nafrat ka keh rhi tih joh muhabat main change ho jati hia....

Jahan tak mein soochti hoon .........


Mohabbat nafrat mein badal sakti hay ....Nafrat kabhi bhi aur woh bhi be panah nafrat mohabbat mein nahi badal sakti ... haan ye ho sakta hay ke aap kissi se be panah nafrat karo aur us ki tawajoh aap ko us shakhs ko maaf karne per majboor kar de.... but day wud only b mafi not mohabbat...

Jo cheez mohabbat mein badalti hay woh nafrat nahi balke napasandidgi ho sakti hay ....ke aap kissi ko pasand na karo us ki baton se chir ho lekin uski mohabbat aap ko bhi mohabbat karne per majboor kar de ...aur napasandidgi aur nafrat mein bahot farq hota hay...

Aap kabhi bhi kissi se bilawaja Bepanah nafrat nahi karte... Nafrat tab janum leti hay jab aap ko kissi se mohabat ho ya aap koi achi feelings hon aur us shakhs ke hurt karne ke baad aap ko woh shakhs bura lagne lage nafrat ho jay ....


so i think Mohabat comes fst den nafrat ....

jo cheez u pooch rahi ho sisoo dat might b dislikeness not Nafrat ........ i think ..

hmm...
mayb dislikness ho jis ko maine nafrat ka naam deh diya, as KKG keh uski attention pane seh woh dislikness muhabat main badal jae....

after conversation wid my frnd i was a bit confuse keh aisa ho shakta hai yah nahi.... lekin ik baat aur samaj nahi ati keh, jis insan seh ap neh khabhi bepanah muhabat ki hoti hai, us seh ap nafrat kaise kar shakte ho??? beshak us neh ap ko hurt kia... but jis k lie khabhi apk dil main ik soft corner tah .. ap us seh nafrat kaise kar shakte ho ? hm... am just a bit confuse now..

dard ka had say bharna hay dawa hou jana.......

Kissi insan se mohabbat tab hoti hay jab woh aap ki expectations per poora utre...us mein kuch bhi ho sakta hay Zahiri beauty, aadaten, ikhlaq, carin nature kuch bhi ..... aur mohabbat shidat tab ikhtyar karti hay jab aap ko lagta hay ke jis se aap mohabbat karte ho woh bhi aap se utni hi mohabbat karta hay aap se zyada aap ka khayal rakhta hay .....

Jab kabhi aap ka khayal rakhne wala hi aap ko takleef de, jis ke liye aap ne hamesha achaa soocha woh hi aap ki insult kare, aap ko shirminda kare to phir aese mein nafrat paida ho jati hay .... aur sweetie .....nafrat un se hi hum karte hain jin se hamen kabhi mohabbat rahi ho .... haan dil mein ek tees zaroor uthti hogi ke kaash aap jis se mohabat karte ho woh aap ke saath itna bura na karta lekin still us ki mojoda nafrat aap ke dil se uski izat khatam kar deti hay ...aur jahan izat na ho wahan kesi mohabbat ........

Ek dafa ek TV prog mein yahi conversation ho rahi thi ke kissi se agar mohabbat ki jay to us se hum nafrat kese kar sakte hain .....den a lady answered ke.....

" Agar aap kissi se be panah mohabbat karo aur woh aap ko beech bazaar sar per joote mare aap ki insult kare to kya aese mein us shakhs ke liye aap ke dil mein mohabat rahe gi.... nahi naaa"

Buss ye itna nazuk rishta hota hay ke kab strong ho jay aur kab pal mein toot jay pata hi nahi lagta...

so true...........

ab in 8 lafzo ki tashree bhi kar dijiye

nice answer ...

n i agree on last 1

nahi pata baba

aray ziddi kiya ho gaya............................

nafrat had se barh k mohabbat mein kaise badal sakti hai......albata mohabbat agar nafrat mein badlay to bahot shiddat ki hoti hai. baaqi to koyi siyaana hi aa kar bataaey ga kionkay main to kamli naa

Kal kam waqt k paish e nazar tafseeli jawab na dey saka.... ab sunyeh meri nazar mai bepanah bafrat mohabbat mai sirf aik sorat mai badal sakti hey j jab samney wala aap se sachi mohabbat karta ho...means k aap ki nafrat ki vajha hi ghalat hu..... for example ....

aap ki nafrat aap k khud k andar -ve raweh se paida hui hu,,,, jesye aik ameer zada ya zadi kisi ghareeb larka\larki k liye tehqeerana soch aur nafrat ...phir uskey +ve way ko sarahey janey k baad be panah nafrat .....aap ki zindagi mai lagi kisi thokar se jab insaan ka dimagh thikaney aata hey tu samney waley k +ve huney ka andaza huta hey ..... then wo realize karta he k jissey aap be panah nafrat kartey hain woh hi aap ka haqeeqi khair khwah he tab aap uske liye maan mai mohabbat aur wo bhi shadeed mohabbat patey hain....


aur jesa k FG ney kaha ..... beech bazar jotey marey janey wali baat..... tu wo sirf mohabbat balkey ishq mai hi ayesa hu jata hey k dunya mai us Ashiq ko meh#### k siwa kuch nazar nahi aata ..... aur duna bhar ki jhirkiyaan zillaton ka samna karty huey bhi wo sirf meh#### ki khushi cahta hey...... per yeh shaaz shaaz hi naseeb huti he ....

Aap ki friend ney jab aur jis soch k sath wo bat kahi hu gi wo dar haqeeqat yehi hu sakti he k wo wesi hi mohabbat hu sakti hey jo k pehley bata chuka hoon.... k Kehtey hain jisey ishq Khalal he dimagh ka...... usmain tu kuch bhi hu sakta hey.....

aisa mushkil hay magar ho sakta hay

asal mein insan kay jazbaat, ehsasaat aur feelings barri ajeeb cheez hoti hain.........ba'z waqt aisa ho sakta hay kay aik banda kisi dosray banday ko sakht napasand karnay lagay aur bura samajhta rahay magar zindagi kay kisi morr par us kay khyalaat badal jayein ya usay kuch aisi batein pata chalein us banday kay baray mein jis say us kay khyalat badal jayein aur ussi banday say woh muhabbat karnay lagay

tu patha karwao nah baba :P

abhi taq koch b nahi

Kamli, aghar muhabat nafrat main badal shakti hai tu nafrat muhabaat main kio nahi badl shakti????

hm... jis nafrat ki baat ap kar rhe ho woh nafrat tu nah hoi nahpasandeedgi hoi nah....
n maine tu muhabat ka pocha not ishq... ishq tu kch aur hi ho jata hai

again u neh bhi nahpasndeedgi keh bare main kaha, nahpasndeedgi n nafrat to alag alag feelingz hai dnt u agree???

napasandeedgi aagay ja kar nafrat ka roop ikhtiyar kar laiti hay ........main nay jo kaha usay nafrat kay baray mein hi samajh lo

zarori tu nahi keh nahpasandeedgi aagae jah kar nafrat main badle....

main btata hon is topic sy relatedddddddd

ummn nafrat ka muhabat main change hona.........ummn agar aik side sy reaction positive ho or doosry side sy negative phir to mumkin ha
lakin agar opposit hon dono sides to phir namumkin ha

bcoz bonding nhi ho gi

wasy ye jo main ny sooratehaal paish ki -ve & +ve wali...............ye chemistry sy prove ho jati ha

lakin -ve &-ve wali namumkin ha

to us reply ko nafrat kay baray mein hi samajh lo

I dont agree with it

Naftar had se barh kar dushmani zaroor ban sakti hai mohabbat nahi

Suni sunayi baton per aise yaqeen nahi kartey

negative negative is euqual possitive na ...???

bilkul sister am agree ...OR DUSHMAN KABHI AP K DOST NHI BANSAKTEY ,,,, CHAHEY WO MAAFI MANGEY JO BHI KARIEN ..WO DUSHMAN HEE REHTA HAI ,,,JAB WO DOST NHI BANSAKTE TO MUHABAT KAISE BANENGEY ....

is sentence main tu 9 ilfaaz haain.. aap bata dain koon say 8 ilfaaz ki tashreeh chahyyay......

dard ka had seh barh kar dawa hona ...

in 8 lafz ka

mujhe koch samaj nahi ai is +ve n -ve ki

api main suni sunai baato par yaqeen tu nahi karti
maine tu sirf pocha hai...

Yeh sab kitabi baatein hain

inna na sochie ziddi jee ..maan lien zidd na karien aisa kuch nhi hota .. ;;)

aray nahi zid karni hai to karni hai

tumse kisi ne baat ki? awayien jawab derahe ho?? huh

meri marzi mera munh hai... jisay chahy jawab doon

so u ka kehna hai keh aisa real lyf main nahi hota???

kio nah socho???

kahi parha tha keh sochne seh zahanat barthi hai (joking)

kio maan loh ????

u kaise keh shakti ho keh aisa koch nahi hota????

haan sochey magar zang lagi hui chiiz hai awayien kaam nhi karegi tym apka barbaad hoga ..=D

well mie istraha kehsakti hun kiun sab kehrahe hain yahan ..so jahan itne log yahi baat kahien wahan ek jaga ki parhi hui mani thodi na jasakti hai ...

app khud bhi to nhi kehsati k aisa hee hai??

areh abhi zang kaha lagha????

tu joh sab kahe ge u bhi wohi kahogi beshak woh galt ho???? jus a Q...
maine kaha maaani yeh baat??? main tu sirf ap sab ki rae pochi hai? keh wat u ppl think keh aisa ho shakta hai yah nahi????

to yahan sarey ppl bata bata k thak gae phr bhi app poche jarahi ho ,.abhi tuk ...

ziddi!!

well... Muhabbat ya Nafrat ko kisi aik tanazuur main dekhain tu shayed aisa mumkin na ho...

jaisa kisi member nay kaha k...

yey sab kitaabi batain hain...
ya...
suni sunai batuun per yaqeen nahi karna chayey...

un k liyey arz karna chahuun ga k meray zehan main jo khayal aya yey sawal parh kar woh yey tha k being muslim hamain tu apnay rawayey sy hi samnay walay ki shadeed nafrat ko muhabbat main badalna hota hai... jis ka hamain sharayey hukm bhi hai... ab is ki misaalain denain bethay tu shayed zindagee kum ho...

aisa ho yey zaruuri tu nahi magar meray nazdiik had sy zyada nafrat k muhabbat main badalnay k imkaan hamesha mojuud rehtay hain...