QUOTE(Kanch k1 gur1a @ Apr 4 2008, 12:33 AM) [snapback]2804735[/snapback]
mujhe apne doston ki wajah se sab se ziyada pachtana para hia..
abhi recently kal hi mere sath hua hia.. n i am very depressed n ab puray office main.. maine usko sunana hia..
She is my colleague.. n a very good frnd too.. she is engaged.. but somehow she got involved in our other colleague fellow ...
It was so depressing me to find out ke asa kun hota hia.. why wasn't she loyal to her own fiance.. and that my other colleague.. he is a play boy.. she knew all this.. then why she felt for him...
Main us waqt ko le kar pachta rahi hun ke yeh haqeeqat mere samne aayi n yeh meri achi dost bani.. maine iske liye apne sab doston ko kaha ke mujhe project chayie Marketing strategy pe.. forum pe diya.. braveheart ka damagh khaya.. sab se pucha.. Qasim ki insult hui apne doston main...n uske baad mujhe yeh mil raha hia sila.. am having anger.. n hatred for her in my heart...
calm down honey. wazu kero or do nafal Astaghfar k parrho. ghussa thanda ho jayega InshaAllah.

n as far as ur friend is concerned, she cerainly didn't do the right thing. not being loyal to ur own fiance is a grave mistake to make. (grave=serious....qabar nahi

) yes go ahead and bust her chops. usko itna sunana k usko apni ghalti ka ehsaas ho. uski wajha se itni probs hui. pata hai apke is story se muje apni story yaad i. wo kuch yu hai:
meri b SO CALLED saheli thi. dad k dost ki beti. wo or mai hum umar hain. boht close thay.secrets tak share kerte thay. uske dhair saare affairs thay. pata nai kese. ek chuuta doosra aa gaya. uski mangni hui. wo pehle hi kisi ko pasand kerti thi apni job per. pehle to muje barri hamdardi hui us se n all that. ek din jab uska AFFAIR boyfriend ko pata chala k wo aur larrkon se b baat kerti hai (just as a friend) to usko ghussa charrha or uska fone le liya or saare number delete ker k us se phir baat na kerne ko kaha. us larrki ko ghussa charrha or muje foran fone kiya. kehti: rabiah neend ki goliaan kehaan se milti hain. wo kafi depressed lag rahi thi. maine kaha kiu tujhe kiu chahiye. kehti bas muje bata na ek friend ko chahiye. to maine bata diya k sath ki shop se mil jayega. phir thorri dair baad muje samajh aaya k hua kia hai. usne ph band kia. or maine dubara ph milaya. maine saari detail li or usko samjhaya k dimagh kharab na ker. aqal se kaam le. tu aise insaan k liye (boyfriend) khudkusshi ker rahi hai jisko teri parva nai hai tujhpe bharosa nahi hai us insaan ko chorr ker (fiance) jo tujhse itna piar kerta hai. kuch to uska khial ker. uska na sahi apni family ka hi ker. kitni chaa se teri shadi ker rahe hain. to kehti tu muje kuch na samjha. don't tell me. mai train track per kharri hu. us se milne ja rahi hu. maine train k neeche aa jana hai mere hath mai goliaan hain. pehle to mera dil kiya iski ammaan ko sab bata du phir mai ruk gai. fir maine usko samjhaya bar bar kaha na ker dimagh kharab. usne sirf ek baat kahi: shutup don't tell me what to do . shut ur face up. maine kaha ok u know what? go to hell. maine ph band ker dia or job per chali gai. usne ye b kaha tha k aj ya kal mai tumhain hospital mai milungi. sham ko uska sms aya hello kia tum mere ghar aa rahi ho. maine kaha tum hospital pohnch gai. aage se hansne lagi. tab mai pachtai k maine isko samjhaya kiu apne aap ki respect hi khatm ker di. usko dost banaya jisne mera b dimagh kharab kiya. fir dusri bar tab pachtai jab wo meri shadi per nai i. usko zabardasti ph ker k bulaya. phir mere valime se pehle hi chali gai. mai uski shadi mai apne hubby k sath khana kha rahi thi wo chorr k uski doodh pilai k liye chali gai or wo phir wesi. usko lagta hai im sum stupid person n dont know anything. after that, i didnt talk to her. i dont like her or her family or her husband or her 2 sons. i dont care watever happens to her. jab koi banda aapki care nahi kerta so whats the point of caring for them. its all BS.
thnx for sharing ur story hun