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HUM LOGO MAY BARDSHT KU KHATAM HO GAYE HAY

HUM LOG MAZAK KERTY HAIN TANQEED KERTY HAIN LAKIN JAB WOHI MAZAK TANQEED WAPIS ATI HAY TO BAS BARDSHT KHATAM KUe,,,,,,,,,,,,,(WHY )

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well simple si baat hai agar hosla nahi to aap khud ko aisi situation main hi involve na karo... simple as that

friend!

pata kia "to put urself in other shoes" n then analyse it honestly, agr karna aa jaye to bohat bardast aa jati hay even a lot of patience...trust me

sukar hai ma bach gayee warna kisi ki bardsht jany wali thi mara kia hota

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yee shooki kis ko bola oar maara kis ko

baat simple se nahi frds ma sab chelta hai some plz donlt like 2 listen

ahn nice ans karna aa jaya to bohat bardash aa jati hai u ki yee baat me ko bahat achi lagi

huma ko bola

nahi friends main bhi har koi utna bardasht nahi kar sakta na... so jokes ko itna drag hi na karo.... there are plent of tips n tricks to handle people... bus aik baat... dost ki achaye mehfil main batao... aur uski buraye usay tanhai main

nICE

Nice Topic !

wakai logon main bardasht khatam ho gaye hay..... abb ziyada door kiu jaoon mere ander khud berdasht nahin hay choti choti bataon main gussa jazbat main aker galat faisly ker lena....
hmm insaan main berdasht bohaat zaroori hay werna bohaat kuch galat ho jata hay..! so koshish kerty hain...

ahan thx dats u like this topic n thx for reply frd...

yes this kinda pro many poeple hv nowadays even im aslo soemtiems very negetive thinker jis waja se bhout gussa ata hai aor baat hoti hee nahi baad main bhout bura lagta hai aor apnay app per gusaa ata hai k yee main nay kia keya

per iger try keya chay tu sab theak ho sekta hai

w/salam

pata nahin log wohi baat apni baari par bardasht kiyun nahin kartay jo woh dosron kay sath kar jatay hain
agar koi banda kisi baat ko napasand karta hay to woh phir dosri taraf bhi nazar aana chahiyay yani us kay apnay behaviour say bhi woh baat zahir honi chahiyay

kai log aisay hotay hain kay unhain koi baat samjhai jayay to bad-tameezi par utar aatay hain .....aur apni bari jitna bhi mazaq kar lein sahi hay .......yeh wala kaam nahin hona chahiyay
kisi ko baat par foran ghussa nahin karna chahiyay bulke thanday dimagh say us par ghaur karna chahiyay

NICE ,,,,,wasy i saw whoi loc asa kartya hai jo khud bhout mazak karty hai others se when others replied they can't face aor then fighting i beleive when some1 app se mazak karta hai tu wo app ko dost samj kar hee karta hai freely n frankly fir asa kayou ,,,,,per simple hum sab ko k under hee baradh honi chay her achi buri baat ko face karny k lay

ji sahi kaha
agar koi tanqeed karta hay to us ko hoslay say bardasht karna chahiyay .......na kay ghussa kar kay bura bhalla kehna shuro ho jayein
aur agar koi mazaq aap ko bura lagta hay to aaram say bata dein kay main aisa mazaq mind karta hoon takay doosra next time khyal karay

bhout achay,,last wali baat app nay nice kie asa hee hona chay ,,,oar rest tanqeed bhout kam loc bardash kar sektay hai even wo loc khud mazak nahi karty fir bi kuch loco k saat asa hota hai for those kind of pppl kay lay bhout muskil hota hai

aor kuch ki koiu mistake bi nahi hoti agir in ko kou bura bala kha jay tu inn se bi bardash nahi ho ga

haan agar koi banda aisa hay jo mazaq nahin karta phir bhi us kay sath mazaq kiya jayay to usay feel hoga ....leikin usay ghussay ki bajayay politely bata dena chahiyay

koshish yehi karni chahiyay kay hum apnay alfaaz say kisi ka dil na dukhayein

lafz chuntaa hoon tow mafhoom badal jata hai
ek naah ek khuaf bhi hai jurt-e-izhaar k sath

what is a gud person .....according to me .....woh jo app k sath apne se zaida meherbaan hota hai

insaan ki tamiz, sharaft, zahant, seekh, soch, uss ki guftugu se jhalktii hai n uss k amaal uss k izhaar ker dete hein ...itnae galt log nahin jitnaa un k rawayie un ko bana dete hein ......

sub se bara fault yeah hai k hum apni isslah nahin chahte dusron ki chahte hein....jo hum mein missing hota hai woh dusron mein dhundhnaa shuru ho jate hein aur jub uss se behter nazer aata hai tow uss ko adopt kerne ki bajae hasd ki maar se criticizm ki surat mein apna ander baher nikal dete hein ...bcoz of fear of failing .....insaan ki nature mein hai woh bhara para hai excuses se apna self defend kerne ko .....we just want "praise.praise"...everyone has to seek in his own way to make his own self more noble and to realize his own true worth "doing ur best is more important than being the best ..."....different questions arise in this context .....'berdasht"......bcoz of the fact when we at various phenomenaa of human nature....people deal too much with the negative...what is wrong.....y not try and see positive things...."an age is called dark, not bcoz the light fails to shine, but bcoz people refuse to see it ..."..a healthy society can be nurtured only by healthy persons n minds ......nothing inspires the human minds more than the words spoken by different ppl ......................when u meet sumone better than urself turn ur thoughts becoming his equal.....when u meet sumone not as gud as u r , look within and examine ur own self .....say to urself "i dont want to be right... i just want to know what is truth.....what do i have to learn from others rather than why did he or she do this say this thing to me ...etc.....free ur heart from hatred.......so luv to all n hatred/jeolusy for none apna moto bana lo ....all things gonna be ok ......zehan mein yeah rakho keh i want to be kinder not popular/important ...... i want to bring a piece of joy not rude.......i want to dedicate my life to helping others not ignoring them .



ek practicle based example i want to share it .......jiss terhaa se jahan meethaa hota hai chuntian wahein jatti hein aur khud ba khud meethai ki khusbu paa laytti hein issi terha aik aacha insan jo hota hai uss ki aachain iss meethas ki terhaa hotti hein jiss terhaa chuntian meetha daikh ker uss tak puhanch jatti hein jhund ki surat mein aise he sarae shaitaan (hasad,munafiqat,nafrat.)..yeah sub uss insaan ki aachaion ki khushbu paa ker uss ki taraf lapkte hein mager yeah aab uss insan peh hai k woh un pe ghalib aata hai yaa phir apna app khilaa detaa hai .....inn chizon se bachon ....

NICE ogar hum sab inn cheezo ki care karay tu sab her jaga sakoon hee sakoon ho jo yee ajjkal ho raha hai wo na ho

u ki baat theak hai much nagetive thinking ki waja se asa hota hai aor iss k saat bi hum bhout si cheezain ignore karay hai datz happened like datz...if we care above u mentioned above hope everything can be ok just need to try

yup right and u 9 why???coz hum muslim ho kay islam bhul gey hain....islam or quran namaz humain bardasht or saber sikhatay hain so who kaim karoo belive me saber and bardasht kud paida ho jai ga....or ziada say zaida all tym Allah ka kalam parhoo aap ka dil and mind cool rahay ga...

right....Hmmm... bohot sari wajuhat ho sakti hain...

Koi insaan khush nahi hota agar os ki baat ko rad kiya jaay.. is liye tanqeed karna to asaan hai lakin jub khud par tanqeed hoti hai to insaan se bardasht nahi ho pata... aor wo is ka kisi na kisi terha izhaar karta hi hai...

Ab baat izhaar ki hai...

baaz log apney kaam ko jis par tenqeed ki gai os ko mazeed behter kar k is ka izhar kartey hain..

Aor baaz log negatively izhaar kartey hain gussa kar k.. lar jhagar kar...

aor jahan tak mazak ki baat hai to...
ap mazak apney dosto aor jannay walo se hi kartey ho...

aisa bhi ho sakta hai k.. wo kisi parishani main ho aor is waja se ap ka mazak bardasht na kar saka ho... ya phir agar wo mazak ko bardahst kar hi nahi pata to os ko mazak bhi na karney diya jaay.... chips

aor..

aor aj kal har shakhs parishani aor fikarmandi liye howay hai..
is liye bhi bardasht ka mada khatam hota ja raha hai...

HM HM .............NICE REPLIED..................WELL WELL ..........THE WORDLY PLEASURES SHOULD NOT TAKE US AWAY FROM RIGHT/GOD......MANY OF OUR PROBLEMS ARE BCOZ OF THE FACT THAT WE ALWAYS THINK OURSELVES TO BE RIGHT AND OTHERS WRONG....DUE TO IT WE ARE NOT READY TO ADMIT OUR FAULTS AND TRY TO PROVE THAT OTHERS ARE AT FAULT ............TO THE POINT ERROR OF US

hmm u r right dear but ok kabhi tym mila to aap ko smajhoon gi sahi say sub

its ok any time

yes right but sometime we miss many things