salamz HizzzZz

howz life n u people doing? ok g today my question is very critical n thinkable again just want ur views abt the matter

People Define True Love As:

1-Pyar ju chahey ju marzi kare
2-Duniyaa k samne na bhi kahien tou khair hai
3-Hum na b milley tou khair hai aik dousre k saath rahien ge aur aik dousre ko khush dekhien ge par shaadi nahi karni cuz parents ijazat nahi dete ... yehi hai sacha pyar

[Remember these arent my viewz thats wot ppl say n think]

abb ajj kal ye dekhne main aaya hai k buhat se log yeh last line par kuch zyada hi amal karne lag gaye hain I have seen so many cases of these kindz ... log engaged hain aur sumtymz married bhi phir bhi unka relation hai [remember ful kind of romantic relation] with the person they loved ... n this thing is getting common,aur log yeh sab batane main buhat fakhar mehsoos karte hain

Examples:

From Guyz Side: "You know uski shaadi bhi ho gayi hai par phir bhi hum phone par batien karte hain woh kehti hai k woh mere bina nahi reh sakti"
From Gurlz Side: "You know woh apni biwi se pyar nahi karta woh mujhse karta hai he always likes to be romantic with me....tou kya hua ager usky 2 bache b ho gaye hain par woh abhi tak mere saath hai"

Really thats what people do so app log kya kahein ge iss baray main kya ye True Love hai ya k Extra Marital Affair ??? what do u say ???

kuch muhabbat, kuch hawas,,, n kuch ba-waqoofi.....

but whatever is that.. thats true. It happens v often....

wot do u think bro kya ye sahi hai? is that what we call true love?

hmm.... well simple solution hai bachon sya pooch kar unkay rishtay tay karnay chahiyain

1. nahi ji pyaar main bhi limits hoti hain
2. duniya kay samnay na bhi kaho that doesnt matter... jo hum log 1st yr main luv shuv kay chakar kartay hain uskay kaun say posters lagay hotay hain
3. well the question could be, can you control ur feelings??? if yes then pyaar nahi kiya deal ki hai aap nay.... if no then question hi valid nahi.... usually pyaar ho to they are supposed to be gud friends as well... so hota kiya hai na keh u can step down n become friends... waisay bhi once someone gets engaged/married to woh apni life main itna busy ho jata hai keh u loose hope n plus u try to get a life urself

aur haan waisay lazmi nahi shaadi say pehlay hi kuch ho yahan to shaadi ho jati hai 4-5 saal guzar jatay hain tub bhi log bewafee kartay hain

dear tum nay apnay mesg mei khd hi reply bi diay diya ha to ab hum kiya boliaye ab...

pur kahir ...

this iz very true n common.. log bhut asani say kah daitye ha kiay I Love U (u know fashion kiay tour pur )... relation iss base pur aggaye bhurtha ha kiay i ll marry u (funny part of life ).... but battr v undersatnd each other b4 marrraige (lolz..koi bhala un say yea pouchaiye shadi kiay baad kiya juk marro gey ) .. pur end hota ha sorry miray family walye naih maan rehay ha iss liye hum shadi naih kur skatye .. n this stage is very pathetic for the senstiv pple wo male hop ya female... aur abi ap ik line add kurna bhool gaye ha.. kiay khair ha hum shadi to nah kur sukkay pur hum acchay dost to rehay gey na.. (asay logo ko thupur lagnaiye say v guraiz naih kurna chaiye )..

this is cheat simply... not love... koi mujhay yea batiye kiay jub family say pouch kur shadi kurni hoti ha to lov bi un say pouch kur kuray na.. tub logo ko mujboriaya nazr naih atti.. ishuq mei pagal ho rehay hotaye ha... (stupids)

in my view...jub shadi ho jati ha to phr no realtion... larki ho ya larka... acchay aur sincere loog wo haotye ha jo khd say ulg ho jaiye... wo khatye ha na jis gali say guzrna naih woha ka patta kiya pouchna....

ab baat ajati ha wht is true love.. true lov doesnt mean kiay ap kisi ka right kisi aur ko do.. ap ki line qoute kurti ho idur
"From Gurlz Side: "You know woh apni biwi se pyar nahi karta woh mujhse karta hai he always likes to be romantic with me....tou kya hua ager usky 2 bache b ho gaye hain par woh abhi tak mere saath hai"

yar koi un say yea pouchaiye jub wo apni life partner say sincer naih tu tum say kiya ho ga.... wo sirf aur sirf un kiay time passing ha bas.... (sorry to say)

pyar yea ha kiay ap sincere raho us kiay sath.. apnay sath.. us ko taklif mut do... agr shadi ho jati ha to life partner ko cheat mut kuro...

I think apne topic ko sahi se nahi perha hai mene ye kaha hi nahi k step backward yani k dosti par attey hain tou kya ye sahi hai k nahi ... I think k pyar wapisi se dosti par nahi aasakta aik insaan jisky saath app aik hadh tak free ho then again app usko apna dost bana lou khair dats another thing ... 2nd I didnt ask comments ju k main ne true love k points bolay k app inn 3 points ko le kya bolo ge apne dunno kya rep kya hai ... c I wrote they dont call it friendship*

Such an excellent rep sis ... ap ka aik aik word sahi hai ... sahi kaha main aik line add karni bhool gayi thi sach stupid kaha appne ... sis ajkal jesa xamana ja raha hai log aik affair main hadh se zyada agey berh jatey hain aur phir breakup k baad uss insan ko dost kehna its pathatic ya tou aaise log apne doston k saath b aaise relation shayad bana chukey hote hain ... ju aisi offers maarte hain ... sis par mene tou koi jawab nahi dia apne hi topic main apka jawab bilkul sahi hai thanks for replying

pehli baat tow yeah hai k ji .........................tusi saray luv beecharay k peechay kuyn paray ho .......................well just kidding ...."luv is valuable but ........that can only be actualized through luving actions (with translation ahum ahum pyar ek haseen jazbah hai mager uss waqat k jin se yeah himaqat serzad hui ho un k aamal kaise hein its up to them ..........so pyar ek haseen jazbah hai mager iss ka dar--o-madaar iss k aamal per hota hai )...........luv is not a material affair bcoz luv word tow qualitaive hai rather than quantitaive (n quantitaive always belongs to materialism).............so logon ne iss ko material affair bana liyaa hai ...................

chalain ji meri nanhi si akal main jo baat aye uska reply kar deta hoon... i think true love yeh nahi hota keh shaadi kay baad bhi chipkay raho... some people can become friends.. like main nay khud dekha hai logon ko... but still jis say pyaar kiya jata hai uski izzat par harf nahi anay diya jata so from my side agar kuch aisa ho to baat agay nahi barhani chahiyay... friends ban saktay ho well n good nahi to paka paka bye

bez of this examples this is not love just time pass ,,and kisi had tak cheating bi iss inshaan/he/she k saat bhi jis ka kou qasoor nahi ,,In our Islamic society ma iss tara k retaliation ko jo after married ho …( najiez) illegal /prohibited samja jata hai

This is not true love... full time Extra Marital Affair !
biwi ko dhoka bachon ko dhoka us larki ko bhi dhoka or khud maze main.....
same thing with girls husband ko dhoka bachon ko dhoka or larke bhi dhoka or khud maze main...
agher ye saab kerna tha tu kiu mana parents ka kehna ker lety apni passand se shaadi pehly himmat dekhai nahin or bad main.....

wow naj!
chhaa gayin

best answer so far

true!

u know what. I really liked ur reply... b/c of the words u used (us underlined) Its true really k saree Love stories(or so called love stories) aik jaisee h houtee haain, wohi dialogues har taraf haain chahay kisi say bhi pooch laain,, ab tu banda kiis ki story sun raha hu tu yah tak bata daitay haain k tum nay usay yah kaha hu ga n us na tumhaain reply main yah.............b/c its same every where...
bichartay waqat aisay wa'day bhi houtaay haain n jab koi in wa'doon ko tooray k I don't want to cheat my hubby/wife tu doosre taraf say naraazgee bhi houtee hay k abhi sab sab kuch bhool gaay...
Yahn mujhaay Banu qudsyaa ki writing RAJA GIDH k kuch sentence yaad aa gaay .

'' jab kisi ko kuch bhi mil jaay acha yah bura tu us k dil say yaad mahaw hounay walgtee hay ,, jab k jis ko sab kuch khoo kar kuch bh na milaay us k yadaain taiz tar houte jaatee haain , phr har waqyaa nishtar ban kar chubhta hay'' (not exact words but same meanings.)

thx

hahahaha u r right dear and ais ka 1 chota sa jawab hai kha aaj kal 99%logon mein sensiourty nahi rhai koi ksii kay nahi jeeta nahi hai just apnay liay tub hi yah sub hota hai or jahan tka abat rhai relations ki shadi kay baad to...yah cheezein against islam hain agahr pyar akroo to nibhoo warna karoo hi nahi i think dat..or jis say pyar kia hai agahr shadi nahi akr saqtay to always dil mein rkahoo and jis say sshadi ho sub ausay hi manoo

thiz iz fact... abi mira reply end naih hoiya tha..

story ka climax to sunnaiye..

ab jub ik banday side linay ki khoissih kurta ha to dosra khd ko up grade aur bhut sincser show kurnay kiay liye sara ilzam uss pur daal dita ha kiay mie to ready tha tum hi pichay hut gaye... agr hum sath hotaye to ye hota.. wo hota... aur jo banda/bandi jo aram say ik truf ho rai hoti ha uss pur baywafa honay ka stamp lug jatta ha.. (is it ridiculous )...

wasy aps ki baat ha... no more offensive ... mostly ye baat guys ki truf say sunnaiye ko milti ha.. kiay larki nay wafa naih ki...

i agree wid u.. ye stories itni comon ho chuki ha kiay ab aam si baat lugti ha...

pur khair sanu ki... luggay rehay diay.. guys/girls ko vo chain naih milta.. jub tuk ik dhukka na kha liay...

bajjo.. ap ki truf say reply ka wait kur rahi ho

sweeti.. i mean it na... jo ref ap nay quote kiaye thay un ka bool rahi thi
thnx for agree

I thought its the otherway round......

waisay iimaan say aik aik baat fit kisam ki ki hay aap nay climax ki bhi... baat wohi hay k sare stories aik jaisee haain, phr bhi sab samajhtay haain k jaisee muhabbat woh kartay haain dunya main koi nahe kartaa....

1-2 dhakkay lagnay laazmi haain zindage main.... kafi samajh aa jatee hay insaan ko.....

waisay kuch exceptions bhi haain.. jaisay maira chouta bhai.................. itnee try ki k koi chouta mouta dhakka woh bhi kha lay.. laikin aisa koi adam baizaar banda hay k bas.,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

india main aisa nahe houta hu ga.....

ab ti india say niklay bhi zamaana ho gaya
next trip mein zara aankhein khuli rakhoongi

naj! jahan tak ditching ki baat hai yeh mainly ladkon ki taraf say hoti hai.
aur lakdi yahi sochti reh jaati hai pyaar tha ke naheen ya pyaar to chhoro kuchch bhi tha ya naheen
were there any emotions involved from the guy's side,kyunki ladkiyaan to apnay aap ko emotinally bankrupt kar leti hain.
hope this helps


main nay har guy ki baat naheen isliye hc male members mujhhay daar par na charhaayein

very interesting and true. read every bit. cool replies..... Naj rocked...........but its dilemma of the generation.........i m afraid this is becoming very popular these days mainly coz of rubbish indian dramas and movies like "Kabhi Alvida na kehna" .. oper se happy ending dikha k logon ko encourage kertay hain k aur kro aur kro......... Media hi sab ko bigaar raha hai.. :@ they penetrate such concepts in young minds jo unhain nay kabhi sochay bhi nahi haun gey. everything stupid, unrealistic fazoool....

anyhow, doing this is mere deception with everyone around you and with your own self as well. Jhoot aur Dhokay ki zindgi mai kia sakoon. one must Be fair Play fair whatever one doed or plans.

samjh kr chalna chahiay ........... Duniya bari jaldi Bounce Back maar deti hai

hamdardi hai mujhay aap se aur aap k bhai se

well every word is valueable on such a realistic issue of these days... infact aj kal ka tu hot issue hai... Extra Marital Affair ki vajah kiya bantii hain woh bhi hamari society sy hi derive ki hoi depression hai... like sab hi log apni zindagi ki maqaasid ko bhol kar kisi na kisi taraf apni tawajah laga letay hain aur finally once they get addicted of that particular person to talk with him/her to meet him/her or whatever....

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From Guyz Side: "You know uski shaadi bhi ho gayi hai par phir bhi hum phone par batien karte hain woh kehti hai k woh mere bina nahi reh sakti"
From Gurlz Side: "You know woh apni biwi se pyar nahi karta woh mujhse karta hai he always likes to be romantic with me....tou kya hua ager usky 2 bache b ho gaye hain par woh abhi tak mere saath hai"

jo examples ap ny diin hain yey tu bilkul bhi true love kiya koi bhi love nahi hai... this is just impossed status symbol for these days... true love hai tu yes kuch log hotay hain jo dil main kahin majood rehtay hain but true lover will never make it issue to discuss with his/her friends aur with anyone... thatz my opinion...

pplz do get addicted with these kind of relations aur is ki sirf aur sirf aik hi vajah hai woh hai hamari Deen Islam sy duurii...

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Really thats what people do so app log kya kahein ge iss baray main kya ye True Love hai ya k Extra Marital Affair ??? what do u say ???

meray nazdiik relating to this issue question yey hona chayey k aisay relations ko avoid kaisay kiya jasakta hai???

Walaikum Assalam

Once again a good topic

Bilkul sahi kaha ap ne.. aisa ho raha hai .... Mere khayal main yeh love nahi yeh apne partner ko dhoka dena hai....

nice topic AP

fuuuh yeh to itna aaammm haiii k na poochoo ofcourse dis is nt SO CALLD REAL LOVE damn!

JAB KOI SHAKS APNI BIWI BACHU KO DHOKA DERAHA HAI OR KIS ANGLE SE KISI OR SE SINCERE HOGA

ND DOSRA YEH K AGAR MUHABBAT WAQAI ITNI HAI TO USEY APNA NE MIEN USKA ISTEMAAL KARO NAKEY AGEY JAKEY APNEY BORE WAQT MIE ISTEMAAAL KARNE K LIYE ..

OR AJJ KAL LOVE WOVE KOI JANTA NHI HAI KIA..AJJ ISEY IZHAR KARDALA TO KAL US SE..

AJJ KAL LOGON NE LOVE KO MAENEY LUST KI DI HAI ...

JAHAN DEKHO BEHUDA PANAI ..

AGAR THODI SI DEENI TAWAJO MIEN DEENI TOR TAREEKEY SE CHALTA HAMARA MULK TO KABHI NA AISA HOTA ...

PEHLEY HUMNE KABHI AISE CASES NHI DEKHEY PEHLE TO HAAN CHALO PYAR HUA SHADI NA HUI ...LARKEY NE KAHI OR SHADI KARLI LARKI NE KAHIN TO YEH EK DHOKA KEHLATA THA OR ISEY SE SAB BOHUT BADA DHOKA MANTEY THEY

LEKIN AB YE DHOKA CHOTA SA BACHA LAGTA HAI AB K DHOKU K MUAMLEY MIEN...

SO DEAR DIS IS NT LOVE SHOVE O WATEVA ...AJJ KAL TO CHOTE CHOTE BACHEY BANIYAAN MIE GHUMNE WALE AJATE HAIN ..YAAR TUMHE PATA HAI MUJHE NA WOH BOHUT PASAND HAI I LUV HIM ...ALLA MUJHE SHARAM ARAHI HAI ...lol

WAT DA HECK DIL CHAHTA HAI DO CHAAR THAPRIEN MARDU ...ZEHNIYAT HE BACHU KI KHARAB HOE JARAHI HAI AB WO LARKI HO YA LARKA CHOTEY BACHU KO BAHIR JANEY K LIYE SO HAZAAR DAFA SOCHNA PARTA HAI PHR WO SAMAJTE HAIN K HAMARE GHR WALE BURE HAIN HAME NJOY KAERNE NHI DETE MAGAR WO MASOOM KIA JANE BAHIR KIA SHETAANIYA CHALRAHI HAIN..


I TELL YOU ONE THING..

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ALLAH HER KISI KO APNE HIFZ O IMAAN MIEN RAHEY

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ALLAH HAR AURAT KO IZZAT DE ...

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Sahi kaha ap ne Sweet angel

Aur teacher ka qissa parh ke to

Khair topic hai about extra marital affairs or so called trus love.... Mere khayal main to True love woh hai jo nikah ke bandhan main bandhney ke satah hi Allah dono (Hudband/wife) ke dil main daal deta hai. Us ke baad un ki life main kisi teesrey ki gunjaish nahi rehti aur na hi hona chahiyye.

really nice topic A..P
i think jeb shadi ho jati hai to husband/wife k liye dill mai khud hi pyaar bhi paida ho jata hai ..in such cases yeh kehna k koi apne life partner se pyaar nahi kerta galat ahi ...bahir kisi se affair ager kisi ka ho to usey true love nahi haan tym pass keh sakte hoo...
as u said
From Gurlz Side: "You know woh apni biwi se pyar nahi karta woh mujhse karta hai he always likes to be romantic with me....tou kya hua ager usky 2 bache b ho gaye hain par woh abhi tak mere saath hai"
asa sochna hi bewakoofi hai ....ager aasey kisi lerke ko kaha jae k theek hai apni life partner ko chor ker apni poori life us lerki k sath pend karo jis se woh socalled pyaar kerta hai to woh kabhi nahi karey ga aasa....is ki 2 wajah hain ek yeh k shaadi Allah ka banaya howa rishta hai or is rishte k liye pyaar or izzat bhi Allah hi dillon mai dalta hai or jeb aap ki life partner aap k bachon ki mother bhi ho to yeh pyaar barh jata hai or fir wohi gher wohi life partner us ki life ban jata hai or koi bhi apne tym pas k liye apni life ko nahi chor sakta.....or ager kabhi jazbaat mai aa ker koi apne life partner se door ho bhi jae to aakhir usi ki pass loutta hai jis se us ki life Allah ne joorhi hai ....or dosri wajah k aasa her mard k mind mai jis ka pass tym affair ho yeh baat zror hoti hai k ager ek lerki us k pyaar mai parh skti hai yeh jan k ke woh married hai to kisi or mai intrest lena koi bari baat nahi true love ka dosra naam trust hai or aasi lerkion pe kabhi bhi koi trust nahi kerta

From Guyz Side: "You know uski shaadi bhi ho gayi hai par phir bhi hum phone par batien karte hain woh kehti hai k woh mere bina nahi reh sakti"

ab is mai sab se bari bewakoofi yeh sochna hi hai ....us lerki ne shadi ker li yehi sab se bara saboot hai k woh us k bager reh sakti hai

yeh bhi sach hai k yeh sab kuch aaj kel bohut common ho gaya hai ..or shayad woh waqt door nahi jeb koi bhi apne life partner pe trust nahi karey ga
Allah sab ko hidayat de or kabhi aasi nobat na aaney de...aasey logon ki life bhi hell se kam nahi hoti

abhi eyes infection hai meko thori dair k lye ayi thi app sab par comments karongi n han thankyou so much for liking my topic n pinning it thankyou people

awww chalo GET WELL SOON

U R MOST WELCOME ..

haan haan kyun nahi buss aik din bacha hai

salam
you have done so exact aspect of life its is clear with the example of the novel ( raja gith) i think in this seaseon of life any persone who is well (esthablished) wants to get more warities for time pass rather then a normal person cant do this. its my openion.

salam
you have done so exact aspect of life its is clear with the example of the novel ( raja gith) i think in this seaseon of life any persone who is well (esthablished) wants to get more warities for time pass rather then a normal person cant do this. its my openion.

salam
you have done so exact aspect of life its is clear with the example of the novel ( raja gith) i think in this seaseon of life any persone who is well (esthablished) wants to get more warities for time pass rather then a normal person cant do this. its my openion.