Kabhi soch or alfaz apas main nahin miltay hay kion kay soch andhi hoti hay alfaz gongay hotay hay.
Wo ju bhi lekhtay hay wo khud hi samjhtay hay.

Kion kay alfaz or soch ik jasay kabhi hotay hay kabhi nahin par insaan soch kay koch bolta hay dosra kia samjh leta hay is kashmaksh main kahi ki baat kahi nikal jati hay is waja say main nay ye lekh diya hay soch andhi or alfaz goongay hotay hay.

Jo lafaz app ko bazahir lagty hay buray say wo sada say hotay hay.kahi alfaz insaan ko buray lag jatay hay par dosra insaan us ko bardash nahin kar pata hay kion kay hotay dono sahi par soch alag hoti hay dono ki .
App kia kehtay ho soch or alfaz kay bare main?.

sab baton ki aik baat dearoo u ki urdu inni achi kaise ho gai bad ka reply bad mai

very nice Q not only u hv others can also ask

tu dear 3 hour se hard work kaya hai main nay

.www.urduword.com se help li hai

from daz side u can see word in romen urdu

bus isi ki waja se per i spent much time

kisi nay kaha hay "words are not important, their meanings are important"

leikin alfaaz apni jaga ehamyat rakhtay hain..........sometimes aap kay munh say aisay alfaaz nikal jatay hain jin say dosra banda hurt ho jata hay aur ba'z waqt woh aisa hurt hota hay kay us kay dil par hamesha kay liyay woh sakht alfaaz apna asar chaur jatay hain

we should be carefull about our words ........we must talk according to our thinking and express our self in a clear and straight manner ......I think proper way of talking is also a gift of ALLAH and not every one has ability to speak perfectly

very nice ,,,"words are not important, their meanings are important"

yee such hai we should care about wording always ...aor soemtime isi waja se hum apnye expression theek se wazeha nahi kar patey k wat do we feel abt others ...

zarase alfaz idher se udher huwey to boori baat hi palad jati hai aur kahine se kahine chali jati hai

is liye bi log ketey hai k soch samjh kr bolo.... ta ke baad mm pashhtana na parey

mera sath reh ker hoi achi

serious reply

mmmm mera khayal hai sooch andhi nahi hoti aur na hi alfaz gongey hotey hain baat sirf alag alag point of view ki hai haan asal baat to yehi hai aik baat agar meri sooch k mutabiq agar sahi hai to woh same time kisi ko ghalat bhi lagsakti hai

sooch k difference ki wajah se aur kuch mujhey ghalat lagey zarori nahi woh sab ko hi ghalat lagey ... issi tarhan alfaz bhi hain k hum usko kis tarhan lena chahyen

asal cheez jo insan ki apni apni sooch ki hai na woh baat ghom phir k ajagi bar bar k jaisa hum kisi cheez ko lena chahyengay woh humien waisi hi lageygi

acha app dono sath rahtee hain

acha jee

per i explained how did i write

yes maray uncle hai

Nice topic life!

soch andhi or alfaz goongay ka tu mujhy behter nahin pata..

well mera kehna ye hay k agher insaan ki soch achi hogi tu alfaaz bhi khud ba khud achy hongy....!

thx dtz u like this tipic

right per sometimes wo apni baat ko wording main clear nahi kar pata jasi baat iss k mind main hoti hai
per ye jo communication system hai na..

is main bolnay wala aor sunnay wala do different ends hain...
zaroori nahi k bolnay wala jo bolna chah raha ho sunnay wala bhi wahi samjhay...

Nice to know jee

thanks ji

bilkul thik kaha ji
yehi to main bhi keh raha tha kay har banda aisay andaaz say baat karnay kay qabil nahin hota jo bilkul clear aur expressive ho ........yeh bhi aik slahiyat hay

aur ba'z waqt ghussay mein ya jazbaat mein hum ghalat bol jatay hian .....us ka bhi khyal rakhna chahiyay

thx

yes wellsaid ...we need to care about datz ...inn lfzo ki waja se hee soemtimes hum bhout dour ho jay hai i measn in relation hv crash bez of wording

ya but hum log agr soch lay to or kia chaiye

baz time hum jo bol dete hain wo sochty nahi jo sochtey hain wo bolty nahi

very nice,,,sahi ,,,,asal cheez jo insan ki apni apni sooch ki hai na woh baat ghom phir k ajagi bar bar k jaisa hum kisi cheez ko lena chahyengay woh humien waisi hi lageygi per asa bhout kam hota hai
...par jaha taak app ki baat hay agree hon.
par akalmant soch wala jab tak nahi bolta hai jab taak khamoshi na ho jay

yahan normal logon ke baat ho rahe hai na, aqalmand socha wala kahan say aya ??

just ganeral things k asa hota hai na sometimes

YEH TOO JOOT BOLA HA TUM NA QAMMAR

sometimes wo apni baat ko wording main clear nahi kar pata jasi baat iss k mind main hoti hai
per ye jo communication system hai na..

is main bolnay wala aor sunnay wala do different ends hain...
zaroori nahi k bolnay wala jo bolna chah raha ho sunnay wala bhi wahi samjhay...


Yes You are Right! Its Happend Sometimes.......

hmm lafz soch ka saath nahi daitey aur soch lafzon ka mujhey tou dono main hi ego lagti hai really ... inka rishta bhi kisi dost ya dushman se kamm nahi hai jab saath hain tou aik tasalsul main bolienge aur jab saath nahi tou aik dousre ki parwah nahi karien ge ... soch woh hai ju hamesha aati hai aur sumtyms jab alfaz sath chor k bhaag jate hian tou buht aati hai ... aur alfaz woh ju kabhie tou soch k dost hai aur kabhie apni anaa mian uska saath nahi detay

bara ookhaa sawal hai ......................uff ......well both r interrelated just like heer ranjha.... soch aur alfaz ka actual relation yeah hai k soch ko amlii jama humare alfaz pehnate hein .......baat soch ki ho aur alfaz ki tow .....ek basic term app ne skip ker dii ...baat lafzon ki nahin lehjae ki hotti hai thats play a pivotle role ....lehja keh lo ek channel hai in the process of communication .....2 log ya 2 se zaida ideas , views, kuch bhi message convey kerna chahein tow communicate must occurs .....lehjaa ka taluq jahan tak hai aur alfaz ka tow i give u one exmple .....kissi ko yeah keh dena keh tumhara baap buhat batmiz hai ....receiver ko hyper ker day gaa but yeah kehna k app k walid-e-muhtaram ka mizaaj garami kuch sakht yaa woh garam tabiet k hein .....uss ko bura nahin lage gaa ......

lafaz likhtaa hoon tow mafhoom badal jata hai ek naa ek khuaf bhi hai jurt-e-izhaar k sath .....but its also up to receiver/communicatee.......k woh kia response kerta hai n react .....communicate mein 6 factors basic role play kerte hein

1. the communicator: the person who intitates the communication
2. purpose: there is a purpose which usually can be stated in terms of behavior which the communicator hopes will result from the communication
3. message : or content , in sum form is necessary to express the facts or ideas which are intended to evoke desired response on the part of persons to whom the message is directed.
4. channel: or means for transmitting the message.
5. communicatee/ receiver: the person or persons to whom the message is directed.
6. the impression or responses: response on the part of the communicatee . this response will be consistent with the purpose if the communication is effective from the point of view of the communicator ......


so yeah sub factors app ki soch n alfaz ko dusron tak puhnchane mein aser andaz hote hein ....koi bhi problem occur hotti hai tow must occurs fault in these factor which i have mentioned above .............bhashan hatam huawa....

yee Qamar ka reply nahi hai

thx,,,u agree

bhout khoob..... sahi bola app nay k yee dono kahbi dost tu kahbi dushman

dost ho tu ..loving ,caring ..dushman ban jay tu ignore, hurt ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,aor in dono se hee inshaan ka pata chalta hai bez ilfaz hee inshaan ki pajaan hai

haan yehi to sochna chahiyay hum sab ko

right kia app bi soujty hia

welsaid ,,agir hum sab inn ki care kary tu kia baat hai

fir tu na koiu hurt ho aor na hee koiu sad ..everywhere bus happiness but im agree k receiver/communicatee per bi depend karta hai soemtimes hum was nahi sujm sakty jasa iss ko baat bola jah rah hai ...

the real thing is the expression of thought,,, even the making of thought,,,

soch ka panchhi jab alfaaz ki nagri se guzarta hai to apney aks ke mutabiq alfaz utha leta hai, issi liyeh kaha jata hai ke alfaaz insaan ki soch ki akaasi kartey hain.



main kiya kahun tum kiya suno
jo kahun ga jo sono gey sab lafz hi to hain
aur lafz to bewafa hoti hain
khayal trashtey hain
aur ehsas ki lori ko bhi adha kar daitey hain

Humans are bad at multi-tasking and multi-processing

serious reply

kahbi khabi souj liha kary ....
u ny bhoot gahre baat ke hai k every one hv thier point of views ,,,
per kaash hum sub ko apne alfazou ko soch k mutabk ata karna ata...,,,,,

nice its true ,,,

haan jab teen age mein tha to nahin sochta tha leikin ab poori koshish karta hoon kay meray alfaaz kisi ko nagwar na lagein

ahn nice..achi baat hai measn u r caring person

per some of them think like k Alfaaz sirf aik zariha (way) hain Soch ko akey phochanay ka... warna kuch nahi...

chaleen jee , we will try to do this

let see how it works

Eye kya ghar bhol aye ho

han je lafzoon say khelna bhee her kisi ka kam nahe hai na..

see see

yes yehi tu baat hoti hai ,,,for me ,,,soch ka panchhi jab alfaaz ki negri se kuzarta hai to apney ags ke mutabik alfaz udha leta hai, issi liye kah jata hai k alfaaz insaan ki soch ki akasi karty hain.

but is ka yee matlab nah k insan apni soch ko zahir karny ke liyy sirf alfaaz ka he sahara lita hai, apni soch ko convey karny
ke liyeh isharoon ka istemal bhi kia ja sakta hai, aur insaan ka wajod khud insaan ki soch ki akasi ker raha hota hai, same aisy he jesey hum jab first time kisi ko dekhhhtey hai to aik khushi c mehzoos karty hain jab ke uss se hamri abi koi baat nahi hoi hti, isi trah kisi ko first time he dekh kar gussa aa jata hai, to iss se ye zahir hota hai ke soch alfaaz ki mohtaj nahi. soch khud insaan ke wajood mei apna aks paida ker deti hai............jo ke insaano ko kud he apni traf khhaincha hai...so apji soch ko darst karney se hum apni alfaaz ko bhi darst kar saktey hai oar apni body language ko bhi....................................

this is my point of views

ahan very nice explnaation like it

thanks ...........you can say that

yes alfaaz zariya hotay hain aur express bhi kartay hain humari feelings ko , kisi kay liyay achay alfaaz use karein to aap ki sincerity zahir hoti hay aur negative alfaaz say kuch aur meanings nikaltay hain

fit topic jee

& u r right kayi baar ham jo baat sochte hein

usey sahi alfaaz nahi de paate

• ummm dhaikhain lafz ki importance apni jagha hay...we can't deny it! meri nazar main masla lafzoon ka nahi hay....and to some extent sooch ka bhi nahi hey....yeh aik tarah sey Insaani-khoobi keh lain k kkutch loogon ka izhaar karnay ka style or lafzoon ka chuna'O itna best or impressive hota hay and that person iz fully successful in what he/she wants to say,,,or want others to sense or feel!
• it also depends k app dosray banday ko kis had tak jantay ho! us ki sooch or ap ki apni sooch main kitni similarity and kitna difference hey.
• and finally what i am trying to say iz: k andhi sooch or goongey alfaz k darmian "sense of understanding" ka connection hona lazmi hay.....it iz up to person k woh sooch or alfaz k dermian kitna fasla rakhta hay.....
• ummm to some extent body language bhi matter karti hay
• problem yehi hay k ~baat kis tarah ki jati hay~ or ~sooch n alfaz~ k saath strong grip honi chahyea to better convey it.~ u have to play around wid ur thinking and words very smartly ta k ~*Asar rakhnay wali baat*~ ki ja sakaey!

here you go dear,,,thats wt i think!

thx,,,

very nice ....im agreed dear ....it also depends k app dosray banday ko kis had tak jantay ho! us ki sooch or ap ki apni sooch main kitni similarity and kitna difference hey.

i liks diz and its 100% true

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NICEEEEEEEEE

very nicely explained Aaminah

really it's very nice to read your clear and balanced thinking , you are very right about the understanding , the person who understand someone ....recognize his feelings even without telling the whole story

thx ,,,,,

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