Dosto iss khabar main Dilchaspi ki wajah ....

iss main posheeda aik " Talkh Haqiqat " hay , jisey hum aap aksar nazar andaz kar jatey hain
k umr k iss hissey main , jab insaan ko aik asal " JEEVAN SATHI " ki zroorat hoti hay
aksar wo Tanha reh jata hay...
wujoohat mukhtalif ho sakti hain , lekin Tanhaie sub k liey yaksaan aur takleef deh amal hota hay

agar tanhaie sey bachney , aur aik doosrey ka " SAHARA " ban ney k liey aisa kiya ja'ey tou

hum iss qadar heyrat sey kiuoon dekhtey hain ...??
Mo'ashra asaani sey iss baat ko Hazam kiuoon nahin kar laita...??
ya Darjano aulad aur auladon ki aulaad hotey huwey bhe aisey insan Tanha kiuoon hotey hain ...??

Waise parh ke to main bhi >>>> ho gayi thi

Anyways yeh sahi baat hai ke is umar main insan ko kisi sathi ki ziada zaroorat hoti hai coz aulad apni life main busy ho jati ha.

Lekin yeh bhi haqeeqat hai ke hamari society main jahan doosri shaadi ko hi muskil se accept kiya jata wahan yeh baat hairat naak hi lagey gi.

jis age mai bhi ki sahara her age mai chaye insan ko........so koi buri baat nahi hai janab

jis age mai bhi ki sahara her age mai chaye insan ko........so koi buri baat nahi hai janab

jis age mai bhi ki sahara her age mai chaye insan ko........so koi buri baat nahi hai janab

baat sahi ki hay Gohar bhai kay hum log aksar kisi par tanz kartay huway ya kisi kay amal ka mazaq urratay huway yeh nahin sochtay kay us banday nay woh kaam kis waja say kiya .......ya yun keh lein kay hum apnay aap ko us ki jaga rakh kar nahin sochtay

mujhay to jab say yeh baat samajh aayee hay main poori koshish karta hoon kay kisi ki baat par comment karnay say pehlay us ki jaga apnay aap ko rakh kar us kay amal ka jaiza loon ya us kay amal ko kisi positive angle say dekhnay ki koshish karon.....jab positive point na milay to phir tanqeed karon

shadi wali post pata nahi kiyouN khud bah khud meray saamnay aan kar khul jati hai yeh kahtya howay k... aa AA seeng maar

asal maiN insaan ko apni zindagi apni sahoolat k motabiq apnay tareeqay say jeenay ka haq hai. jab hum 'doosrouN' ko apni marzi say jeenay par 'majboor' nahi kar saktay to 'doosrouN' ki marzi k motaabiq kiyouN jiyaiN k hi dunyaa kia kahegi.

tanhaa zindagi guzaarnay say bahar.haal yeh behtar hai k kissi k saath zindagi guzaari jaye. aik aur aik giyarah jo hotay haiN. zindagi ka safar bara kaThan hota hai, bilkhsoos old age maiN... agar har tanhaa old aged mard issi tarah tanhaa khawaateen say marriage ki raah apna lay to bahoot see bay.sahaa.ra khawaateen ka maslah bhi hul hojaye. aur yeh aik islamic raah bhi hai.

Thanx 4 reply here seemaf jee.... !!

Jo line main ney hilite ki hay ... buss wohi
tana'zey ka ba'ess banti hay ... k jub hum apni masroofiyaat main gim ho kar
parents main sey jo bhee mojood ho ... usey ignore kartey hain ...
un ki zrooriyat ka khayal nahin rakh patey .. ya un k liey waqt nahin nikaal paatey
tab he un ka " Ehsaas e tanhaiee " aur shadeed ho jata hay .... !!!

kya khayal hay aap ka ...??

Jee ... koi buri baat tou nahin ... lekin agar aisa na ho tou kya zyada achhi baat nahin ???
agar hum iss age k logon ko tanhaie k ehsaas sey door rakh sakain .. unhain waqt dey sakain ... aur iss amal sey baaz rakh sakain ....!!!

Thanx 4 ur Comments Kashif bhaie ....

Bilkul baja farmaya aap ney .. k hum kisi par bhe koi comments pass karney sey pehly, ya koi Ra'ey Qayem karney sey pehley sirf aik Lamhey ko soch lain .. khud ko uss ki jaga rakh kar dekh lain tou shayed hum agar " Tanqeed " karna bhe chahin tou uss main " Taa'meer " ka koi pehlu nazar aa jaey ..
bajaey iss k , k hum mehez kisi amal par uss k manfi pehlu he samney rakh kar uss ki dil aa'zaari ka baa'ess banain ... !!