Jugnu ko din ke waqt parakhne kee zid Karein
Bachey hamare Ahad ke Chalaak ho gaye

yeh shair ab mujhay 100% sahi lagnay laga hay... ajkal kay chotay chotay bachay woh woh kam ker rahay hain jo kay humnay baray hokay bhi nahi kia hongay.....

mujhay yeh bat ab jakay samajh aiee jub main nay apni niece ko daikha....

khair hum yeh janna chahtay hain kay ap apna koi mazaidar sa incident humain batain jiska main character koi bacha he ho.. us bachay nay apko kahin sharminda kerdia ho... ya hayran kerdia ho etc etc ......

main apna aik incident share kerti hon....

hoa yeh kay mainnay apni niece kay samnay kisi ko tum keh kay mukhatib kia.... or usko kuch dair pehlay he bataya tha kay "tum" nahi "aap" say bat kertay hain... us bachi nay mujhay sub kay samnay bilkul meray he andaz main dant tay hoiy kaha tum kehtay???? buri bat hay na .... kitni dafa mana kia hay.... saza doon apko???... or yeh sub bat usnay mujhay subkay samnay kahi to mujhay kafii ajeeb sa laga....

wah wah

well ................mera zaida waqat bachon mein he guzertaa hai i luv to play with them ...n also to spend time with them..................they taught me lot of things ...............dunyiaa mein aaj kal masoomyet kahin nahin milay gii siway in masoom bachon k .....jo chotti si masoom c baton se buhat kuch samjh dete hein aur seekha bhi dete hein ................per patah nahin in ki masoomyet jald jawan kuyn ho jati hai .....................yeah jhgerte hein per pal bher mein sub bhool ker phir ek ho jate hein .....yeahi buhat bari seekh hai hum sub k liey aur hum aachae khase mature ho ker jiss ranjish per aatck gaye ana/ego ka masla bana lete hein ....app in se sharing seekh sakte ho aik dujae k toys share kerte hein ....mein ne tow yeah bhi daikha hai ek dusrae ka ayyeb bhi chupana ....most of the time kuch galt kissi ne kiya i mean to say shararat n koi toy toot gaya tow woh ek dujae ka self defence kerte hein nahin ek bolay gaa mein ne tora duja nahin mein ne toraa koi manta nahin k kiss ne kam kharab kiyaa ....

aj se 5 saal pahlay main ne is topic per bohot detail main research work kiya tha...........aur wo un reasons se related tha jo bachon ki chalaaki ki waja bani jis main b se bari reason media tha.................

utha k bhaink do bahir gali main
ni tehzeeb k andy hain gandy

(chalin sab ko bahir bhaink dain)

What is the sense in this saying /?...................mein ne jab bhi iss shair ko perhaa hai hamesha ek baat zehan mein aati hai .....tehzeeb?..........what is that ?.............yeah wohi hai jo nasal-der-nasal promote hotti aai hai .............culture, a set of ....values,beliefs,traditions ,,,,jo transmit ho rahay hein generation to generation ........so y we shift blame on new generation ?................when we r also a part of them .....we r spoil them ..........so how can we say that ..................??......bacha wohi seekhta hai jo seekhaya jata hai ....tow fault lies in ourselves....hum un ko kya seekhaa rahay hein /?..........n in the light of ur words ...i must say one thing ....n u have to learn it ...."CHILDREN NEEDS MODELS RATHER THAN CRITICS."............