we have discussed many kinds of relationships here, usually more abt love, however this special relationship we have hardly discussed. Yes sons are always close to thier father, but its the daughters who are more close. Our fathers mean alot to us.. There is a special bond we share with them.. Moms mean alot to, but dad is like ur best friend (Atleast mine is..)

I Would love to hear your comments on this topic

kia khoob.soorat post hai. khoob.soorat rishtouN par aik fikr anaiz post.

sab say pahlay to yeh kahna chahouNga k parents aur aulad maiN respect aur obey-n-command k rishtay k saath saath (inko khatam karkay nahi) etni friendship zaroor honi chhaiyeh k apas maiN communication gap paida nah hosakay jissay ghalat taur par generation gap bhi kaha jata hai.

doosri baat yeh k beTi k saamnay 2 rishtay haiN aik maaN-beTi aur doosra baap-beTi ka rishtah. deger ghalat riwajouN ki tarah yeh ghalat riwaj /anti islamic rewaaj /soch parwaan chaRhti jarahi hai k beTy baap say aur beta maaN say zeyadah 'qareeb' hota hai. yeh asal main western 'couple system' ka fatoor hai jismaiN bahan-bhai ko bhi as a 'couple' gardanah jata hai... aur jin taqreebaat main sirf 'couples' allow hotay haiN wahaan khaas taur par yeh bhi kaha jata hai k bahan-bhai yaa baap-beTi bhi saath saath shareek hosaktay haiN bla bla....

maaN-beTi aur baap-beTa fitree aur azli taur par aik doosray k real-alllied haiN (ppp-ml-n ki tarah 'ghair-fitree naheeN ). yeh alag baat hai k beTi ka zeyadah tar waq maaN k saath guzarta hai aur zeyadah dealing bhi osi k saath hoti hai lehaza iss rishtay maiN kuch daRaraiN paR jati haiN. maaN ki sarzanish, tarbiat, hard working par zor dena etc etc k sabab beTiyaan amooman maaN say thoRi thoRi see khich jati haiN... jabkay baap ki soorat maiN ossay maaN k in behaviours say relaxation milti hai. baap apni shafqat aur beTi say zeyadah waqt door rahnay k sabab oski zeyadah bataiN maanta hai. jiss par kabhi kabhar oski maan naraaz bhi hojati hai k aap to beTi ko bigaaR rahay haiN.... youN beTi yeh 'samajhnay lagti' hai k maaN k moqaablay maiN baap oska zeyadah acha dost /khait khaah hai....... jabkay reality maiN aisaa nahi hotaa.

being a beTi u can imagine k aap apni bahoot see prob apni mom say easily share karsakti haiN. onkay experience say apnay probs ka solutions hasil karsakti haiN. maaN beTi k dukh sukh say zeyadah baakhabar hoti hai aur har qism ki support faraham karsakti hai. jab beTiyaaN maikay, susraal ya haspataal etc maiN beemaar sheemar hoti haiN to woh apnay saath rahnay k liyeh maaN ko talab karti haiN nah k baap ko. baap to mahaz osay maali /bairoonay khaanah qism k probs maiN support karta hai jahaaN tak bilamoom maaN ki rasayee nahi hoti. it doesn't mean k beTi k liyeh (as compare to) baap zeyadah aham hota hai. mujhay bhi apni beTi say 'zeyadah' mohabbat hai aur jaisee 'sakhtiyaaN' main apnay beTouN k saath karta houN waisee beTi k saath nahi karsaktaa aur maaN-beTi tanazay ki soorat maiN aksar beTi ko support karta houn... iskay bawajood beTi k liyeh maaN ki ahmiat say naawaaqif naheeN. aur mujhay sad feesad yaqeen hai k maaN jetna kuch (overall) apni beTi k liyeh behtar karsakti hai...maiN woh sab kuch karnay say qaasir houN. hosakta hai k meri beTi bhi apni kam ilmi k sabab yeh hisaab kitaab nah laga sakay mawaaznay ki soorat maiN ossay kis ka zeyadahg ehsaan manna chhaiyeh. aur woh bah dastoor mujh say 'zeyadah' mohabbat ka dawa karti rahay.

bhout bhout thx topic pasand karnay ka..

oar app ka reply bhoutttttttttttttt acha hai welsaid

but i think here is basically two type of views one is in favour that daughter is close to their parents.as mothers behaviour wd her daugher is some time like teacher they taught their daughter how they have to spend their life in their susral and in susral they can have any type of family not as per their thinking so monther tries to give training to their daughters,when father love and wht daughter says father wo poori kerta ha mothers k thinking us waqat yeh hoti ha k susral ga ker pta nahee is ko yeh sb mile ga b k nahee is liay wo koi b zid ho to wo foran poori nahee ki jati.these are of first type who love their childern a lot lakn they cant express tht and some how u can say that they feel that their childeren are not able k they can make their place in the society especially grls
2nd type of people are those who give same love and care to their child both boy & grl,they support them frm all aspects they give them confidence nd courgae to their child especially daughter aand their love and association with child creat betterment in their personalityy as well role of mother in this case also much postitive especialy for daughter and due to their attitude childenn gets a lot and ready to face all problems with courage

mara khyaal ha parents main sy father ho ya mother

in dono main sy koi relation main explain hi nhi kr sakta

bcoz mary paas itny achy words hi nhi

mari soch wahan tak poohanchti hi nhi

chahy wo father and daughter ka ho ya koi b in k saath jura ho

ye dono hastiyaan (maan baap)pyaar hi pyaar hain
sab k liye

right ..theak bola app nay sometimes we can't say in wording measn soem relation we can't explain them ,,

main to beta hoon ji
yeh topic to father & daughter kay liyay hay

anyway
father aur daughter ka rishta bohat cute hota hay ......iss muhabbat bharay rishtay mein khaloos hi khaloos aur pyar hi pyar hota hay .....woh badqismat log hotay hain jo betyun say muhabbat nahin kartay

well nice topic Life for me merey lye Mama n Papa dono barabar hain par ye baat main abu g k samne b kehti hon k meko ami se zyada pyar hai dunno y par m like that .... mere lye bhi abu g aik friend hain pehlay ... par best friend nahi ... mujh main jitna confidence hai woh abu ne dia hai k main koi bhi kaam kar sakti hon aur Abu g ki support life mian buhat zaroori hai ... cuz Abu g hon tou lagta hai k jesa pata nahi konsi shelter hai life main ... ALLAH karay ye shelter hamesha bani rahe ameen

nice topic life..... i dont know how 2 comment....

I LOVE MY PAPA & MAMA ALOT!

nice topic ji ................. i just put a little story .................check it out ....




"Arhsad ki choti beti Alia ko kahin se aik kahaaniyun ki kitab mil gai.

Us ne bahut shok se ye kitab apnay papa ko pakra ker fermaish ki,
"Papa" mujhe ye perh ker sunao"
Arshad ne do teen din to kitab se kahani perh ker sunai phir us ko yeh kaam gair dilchasp laga to us ne kahani tape ker li aur jab Alia kahani ki fermaish kerti wo tape on ker deta.

Do teen din to Alia ne berdasht kia lekin aik din phir us ne kitab la ker apne papa ke hath mein pakra di aur kaha! "Papa! Kahani!".
to wo bola, "magar beta! ab to tumhain khud bhi tape record on kerna aa gaya hai".
Alia tezi se boli, "ji main tape record chala sakti hoon magar us ki goud mein to nahi beth sakti".


RishtoN ki kadar karna seekheiN.

Ameen

very nice bhout acha laga jaan kar

hum jo bi hoty parant ki waja se hee hoty hai

thz,,,

bhout achi story hai ,,n welsaid we should care about relation

thx that u like diz topic

u ki aik yee line hee kafi hai bez u sais diz with all true emotion aor iss se bar kar kuch nahi

thx for ur reply

per iss main kia hai if u r son jee apni feeling to share ke ja sakti hai about any relation

per welsaid k iss rishty main khaloos hi khaloos hai

aor May Allah sab k sar per yee shelter rian

exactly

thx

Another beautiful post

Baap-beti ka rishta buhat piyara rishta hota hai ... Beti ko baap ki surat main Tahaffuz aur mohabbat ka ehsas rehta hai.... Mera bhi yehi khayal hai ke beti maan se ziada close hoti hai ... Mere abboo ziada tar abroad rahey hain to bachpan main to un se closeness ho nahi saki... But ab barey hone per bhi closeness to nahi keh saktey per aik ehsaas hai aik piyar karney wali hasti ka jinhon ne apni sari life hamarey liye apno se door guzar di ... But aik baat hai ke agar koi baat abboo taal rahey hotey hain to ammi mujhey ya sab se choti sis ko agey kardeti hain ke tum kaho ... kehtey hain na ke sab se bari ya sab se choti aulad ki ziada chalti hai :D

Khoobsurat rishtey pe itna khoobsurat reply

Fully Agreed with u

per kar acha laga
bhout khoob yee tu hai beti Ma se close hoti hai,,,aor wo ehsasa hee sab se bari cheez hai jo parant k lay hota hai

aor wo lucky na jo sab se choota hota hai aor sab se bara aor inn ka kia jo middle main hoty hai

you welcome ji

haan to issi liyay to comments dey diyay hain na apnay

thanks for appreciating and Aamin @ your prayer

Achha laga to " " kyun??

Jee bilkul .. Ham lafzon main kabhi bayan hi nahi karsaktey .. kam az kam mujh se to nahi hota

Middle walon ko hamesha shikayat hi rehti hai :D .. Halaankey piyar un se bhi utna hi kartey hain parents.

acha tu bhout laga

aor wo is lay k main emotional ho gyee thi na

yes right parany love sab kay lay aik jasa hee hota hai par hum hee asa soujty hai

Achha

Life aur emotions ka to choli daman ka saath hai naa

Ab parents aur bachon main yeh farq to hota hai naa

u ko kis nay bata deiha itni raaz ki baat
k life oar emotions ka to choli daman ka saat hai

right par some main yee farq bhout hota hai jo inn k lay pro bana deita hai rest life main

Life ne hi bataya yeh

Hmm sahi kaha.. nahi karna chahiyye farq

life nay khud

right life bhout kuch bata deiti hai time k saat saat