Dear Princess,
You picked a nice topic.
I am also tired of these things. When I came here at US, I realize the real identity of our is being a Muslim.....not shia, not sunny. We all need to think globally & be united. Even If someone is shia or sunni then the best person among us is having faith on Allah, Prophet Muhammad & all other true messengers & then all those who were beloved friends of prophet (SAW). Aaimaan-e-mujammal & aaiman-e-mufassal is the depth of our religion.(If we know the meaning).
If we think, we are the best bacause we are sunnis, or shias, then we can never be successful in this world & life after death. We never care other Islamic laws but always are ready to criticize others. We never feed poor, say truth, sharing the happiness with poor relatives, taking care of orphans, respect our family members........BUT we are always ready to find faults in other people's small mistakes.
We kill people in the name of religion or Islam & never know the personality of Muhammad(SAW), How He (SAW) loved His special friends as all Sahaba Kiraam.......We think we are better than Ali(RAdi Allah talla Unho) or Usmaan or AbuBaker.......
People might have superiority complex in their faith......plus we dont think solution of the big problem.....we always look into our small problems & exagerate them......
We dont need enimies, we are enimy of our ownself.