How to identify who"s Flirting with U & who really Luves U n care about U ................mostly observed that ... the one who is flirting talks only about luv & shows extraordinary attachment.....n say aasmaan se taray tor lana .. say things like that ...but doing zero ... when times comes .. wahin per gayeb where u needed ... .. & the one who really luves u n care 4 u ... talks about everything except flattering + luv .... in order to show actual respect he/she has 4 u in heart ...so how can u judge them ?............

hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

what do u think? being a girl? how wud u identify?

HO hye ............. aray mujhay pata ho tow post kerti yeah . ............i dont know how to identify .... so thats y searching 4 the reply .......what others suggests +opines ...........


but


yahan kissi bawafa ka milnaa talash per munhasir nahin
yeah bakht kaa hai sub mamlaa khuda jisey serfaraz ker de

larkiyan badi masoom unko kia pata
do chaar tareef ki tas se mas phans jati hain ..phr end mie pata chalta hai k hero jo tha wo hero nhin tha wo villan tha ...

ab kia karey banda isliye in cheezun se durr he achey hain hum
jahan aba ne ishara kia udher ser jhuka diya

or yahi he kahungi HAR LARKI KO HAMARE WLADAIN SE BARH KAR IS DUNIYA K BAREY OR OR DUNIYA WALUN K BAREY MIEN KOI NHI JAANTA ...ISLIYE ZINDAGI K BADEY FAISLEY UNHI PE CHORIEN..
OR APP MOUJA HE MOUJA KARO APNEY PARENTS K GHR MIEN ...

hm hm ...........app k her sawal kaa jawab app ko meri iss ek post mein milay gaa but i just want to put it here ...........

Suno aye nadan lerkiyo tum
Kisi ki janib qadam berhaao
tow soach Lena
tumharay peechay bohat si ankhain
shakista derwaza tak rahi hain
jinhain khaber kiya?
Tumhari ankhain haseen chehroon
ki uljhanoon main ulajh rahi hain,
suno aye nadan lerkiyon tumharay pichay
leraztay hathoon ki her sada main
yehi dua hay
k jis terhaa say ho ghar say nikli
isi tarah say hi lot aao
zaroratoon ka bara alao dahak raha hay
k borha baba dawa ki khatir taras raha hay
usay tumhari fiker ka lamha bhi das raha hay
zara si gaflat say sans is ki na toot jae
dua kerti wo borhi ankhain
na rooth jaeen
Suno nadan lerkiyun tum
zaroratoon kay samander main
hayya ki kashti bachaye rakhna!!



aur lerki masoom he hotti hai ..............aur her aachi lerki ko sense khuad se hotti hai what she has to do to prove her loyality towards her parents ...............waqat sabit kerta hai k kaun kiss kasutii per khara utraa ..........nahin tow yeah tow sun rakha ho gaa app ne jo garjte hein woh baraste nahin ............aur garjtae badlon mein pani bhi kam kam hota hai jii............n yeah post tow elaborating hai flertness .... tow kissi bhi rishtae mein ho sakti hai .... dosti, rishtaedari .... in any belongingness+ possession+concerning ....so on ...thanx 4 ur nice rply ........... may Allah save all of us n show the right path ....

well mera tou khayal hai ju pyar karta hoga woh direct shaadi ki baat karega affair chala k nahi rakheyga cuz these days ju halaat hain guys are so much quick in it jiss larki se unko pyar ho jaye they r like k chalo aik damm se shaadi nahi tou enagement or nikkah hi ho jaye k pakah license mill jaye really aaise hi ho raha hai ajkal aur ju apse flirt karyga usne shaadi ko hamesha talna hai aur woh hamesha typical dialouges bolayga ya bolaygi "yaar pyar ye nahi k app usko paa lou" yeh tou pakkay flirts k dialogues hain aur haan aik aur b batati hon "tum buhat ache/achi ho par m so much bad" pehla bahana jaan churane ka phir aik aur dialouges "mere ami abu nahi mann rahe" so maloom hogya difference

hm hm ................very well said .............agreed upon ...............jiss terhaa dark room mein ek chota saa hole roshnii ka patah detaa hai iss terhaa insaan ki chotti chotti batein uss k pata detti hein ....k woh kittne pani mein hai .........a person who is true n loyal ........ussay khabhi kuch sabit nahin kerna perta ....jahan zarorat hotti hai woh appna app sabit ker deta hai .............issi liey kaha jata hai k suchi muhabbat n ulfat means affection kaa izhar haqeeqi khidmat, sath se kiyaa jata hai n k tareefon se aur be-jaa dawaon se .................daway mostly khokhaly hotay hein ...aur jinn mein dum ho tow daway un ki khoj mein rehte hein ...... .

wah wah tussi gr8 ho ...............buhat aachae points throw kiye hein ..............yeah jo last one hai i pick that one ....keh yeah affair start kerte waqat kuyn abba jaan aur aama jaan n family bhool jati hai ............aur jab waqat para tow so called majborian ...........tow yeah pehle pucha jaye aur permission lii jaye

Thankyou ... Thankyou ... m gr8 I know haan na yaar yehi tou ... c ye hum sab ki bachpan se aadat hoti hai k jab koi kaam karne ki marzi nahi abu ami par daal di yakeen mano ajjkal parents itne ache n co-operative ho gaye hain k woh ulaad ko samajhne lag gaye hain ... main ne mostly ... majority parents ko aaise dekha hai ... ju log baat parents par daal kar unka character "Dajaal" jesa banate hain na actually unka matlab kuch aur hota hai ... Parents jahan hum khush hon wahan hi chalte hain khush rehte hain ...

hm hm ..............yeah this is happining in these days ...........parents aulad se zaida cooperative+ compromising hein ......but aulad he chupane mein lagi hai .... khuad ko zaida samjhdar samjhte hein .....her parents ki dilli khushi aulad ki khushi mein he hotti hai .... in according to ur rplies .... k ager koi interest hai tow parents ko razdar banaya jaye aur humraaz bhi .... unn se consult kiyaa jaye aur un ki salah ...........jaiz tareeka apnaya jaye k naah ultae seedhae . ...ahum ahum

How To Identify....??

jo larka 5 times namaaz perhta hoga na.... wo sacha hoga !!..... wo kabhi flirt nahin ker sakta.... isi liye zaroori nahin hai k hum larkon ki baton se andaza lagain.... or bhi batain hoti hain jo apne app nazer ajati hain....

well.. flirts hon ya lovers.. hote wordplayers hain.. ap inni asani se pehchan nai sakte.. jab tak ke ap extreme level pe na aajao.. kun ke AP ne jo lines mention kiye hian... woh pyar main parhne ke baad kaam atay hian.. lekin us se pehle bachao bahut mushkil hota hai.. dont trust anyone simply.. kun ke aj kal to 2 baar baat hui n 3rd time i love you ajata hai.. first judge the person.. if he/she is right or not.. jisne aik bar dhoka khaya hoga.. woh dubara ase bewakoofi karega nahin..

g apne sahi pehchana .... c jab 2 larka n larki pyaar main hote hain tou chahey woh kitne bhi naik bann jaein par jab saath hon gey tou attraction feel kareinge its general tou inn halaat main koi paray iss se pehlay app apne parents ko bata dein thats gud for u people ager pyar kia hai tou usko apne parents se milvane main sharam kesi

app khud hee reply kar doo
kuch be demag main nahee aya reha

lol insan woh hai ju k sirf pyar chahta hai ... kuch gurls n guys tou mene aaise dekhy hain k woh dhouka khaa b lein unho ne baaz nahi aana they keep on trying ... ju baat main ne kahi haan woh pyar k baad par pyar se pehlay b aati hai ... its simple ju apko khudh main involve honay ka hadh se zyada mouqa day ya apko apni family jesa sumjhey tou s/he in love with you aur true love wese bhi almost 1 to 2 years lega for understanding eachother aik damm jhatke se pyar nahi hota woh just crush hoti hai

Assalam-o-Alaikum,



hm hm insan woh hai ju k sirf pyar chahta hai ...........pyar k aur muhabbat k sis ji buhat se rang hein ....chalein ek aur idea throw kerti hoon ....
mein ne ek baar ek hadees ki kitaab mein perhaa thaa jiss kaa mafhoom kuch youn hai ....koi galti ho tow isslah ker sakte hein ....

Assalam-o-Alaikum,

Hadeesh-e-Qudsi hai..
Jis ka mafhoom hai?
Aap (SAW) nay farmaya kay Qiyamat kay din Allah Taala fermainga, Bayshak mari muhabbat un logo kay ley Saabit (Lazim) hai jo log dunia may mari waja say apas may aik dosray say dosti kia kartay, aur mari waja say aik dosray say mohabbat kia kartay thay aur bayshak mari muhabbat un logo kay ley zaroori hai jo log mari waja say aik dosray say mulaqat kia kartay thay aur kaha hai wo log jo mari hi waja say aik dosray say dosti aur mohabbat qaim rakhtay thay aur mari waja say aik dosray per apna maal kharach kia kaertay thay?? aur phir Allah Taala aik shakhs ka Tarruf aik dosray shakhs say karay ga kay in say milo ya wo shakhs hai jab tum dunia may mashriq ki taraf rahtay thay aur ya junub ki taraf rehta tha aur tum dunia may mulaqat nahi kar sakay lakin tum mari waja say apas may muhabbat rakhta thay tu aisay logo ka Allah Rabull Izzat khud aik dosray say tarruf karay ga?.. (zara sochiay kay Allah Pak khud Ba Nafsa Nafees Tarruf karaingay, us waqat kia manzer hoga ?maray khiyal may ham tu us waqat us dunia kay dost ko bhool hi jain gey aur Allah Rabbul Ezzat hi kay noor may khojaygay?

So plz plz kisi say bhi dosti karain zaroor But only for God sake. (neat may Ekhlas hona zaroori hai).

Phir aap ki Dosti may khusboo hogi aur Muhabbat may Wafa bhi hogi.. aur na hi koi aap ko dhoka day ga aur na aap kisi ko dhoka daingay.. Inshallah
Aur ager incase aap ko dunia may wafa nahi bhi mili tu is baat ka Etminan ker lejiay kay Roz-e-Hasher Allah Tabarak-wa-Tala aap ko apnay arsh kay saye may jaga zaroor dayga Insha Allah, aur us waqat koi dosra saya Hazret-e-Insan ko maisser na hoga.. keon us waqat tu aaj say bhi ziada nafsa nafsi ka dor hoga.. aur phir Allah Rabul Ezzat apnay noor ka didar karayga.. jis kay samnay sab kay hussan-o-jamal mand padjay gey..

Allah Pak ham sab ko Ekhlas kay sath Amal ki Tofiq Ata Fermain.. ?Aameen?
Jazzak Allah

request to every body pls remember me in ur prayers...

Fatima can u tell me the reason behind this lecture ??? ya tou deenvi baatein karo ya dunyavi aik tarf app flirting ki misalein poch rahi ho aur aik tarf kahan se kahan pohanch gayi ho ... amazing

im waiting 4 that question ..........i knew it before app zaror yeah sawal karein gii ................Fatima her chiz ko her angel se daikhti aur explain kerti hai ,............ her baat k do rukh hotay hein ............ for example yahan kuch log jo hein some are members some are just read that topic ............ her bandae ki sochnae kaa andaz alag ho gaa . jiss terhaa ek glass adhaa bhara hai pani se kuch daikhnay walay kehin gey keh glass aadha bhera huawa hai ....but kuch keh sakte hein keh adha khalli hai ........aur kuch kahein gey janab just pani hai .... ha ha so what is the sense to put that example here .......... kuch log religious minded hein kuch western ... so mein ne dono ko elaborate ker diyaa keh her terhaa ki soch ka banda iss se mustafeed ho ...options r just for facilitating them ................ meri post kaa basic theme he yeahi hota hai jo knowledge mujhay patah hai just transmit..... jahan galti ho wahan wanna correction ....aur ager ek he baat ko duhrate jao tow could u imagine app uchat ho jate ho aur boring bhi .... thats it ...

How to identify who"s Flirting with U & who really Luves U n care about U ................mostly observed that ... the one who is flirting talks only about luv & shows extraordinary attachment.....n say aasmaan se taray tor lana .. say things like that ...but doing zero ... when times comes .. wahin per gayeb where u needed ... .. & the one who really luves u n care 4 u ... talks about everything except flattering + luv .... in order to show actual respect he/she has 4 u in heart ...so how can u judge them ?............


app airy pricess baji ji zara again read out karein ..... yeah question bhi mein ne kissi khass point per pinned nahin kiyaa ....... flirtness tow kiss bhi rishtae mein aisa sakti hai aur luv dosti mein bhi hai .... aur relatives n parents bhi .... some times yeah bhi flert kerte hein but app just ek lerke aur lerki ki luv story k angel peh analysis ker rahi hein .... i just asked how to judge them who plays fowl ............... read again that question ....muslamaan aik surakh se do baar nahin dassa jata tow yeah jo quran'ne bola .... did u get that ............in which context ....

you can't really tell. but sometimes you just know that they really LOVE you. and sometimes you don't know if they love you or just flriting with you but sometimes you can tell, others you can't.
sometimes you can tell by when it's just overdoing flirting, it's just flirting. It they use it all the time with everyone. Be aware.
When their in love, you can tell. It's nothing you can't notice, and you will when there is love. If you can't tell the difference between the flirting and love than there isn't any love.

yehi to insan pyar or attention ka bhooka hai.. jese hi usse zara si attention milti hai wahin ka hojata hai.. lekin insan bhi kya kare.. jab dil banaya hai to jazbaat bhi ayienge hi... n yeah.. samjhne ke liye 1-2 years to necessity hai.. ab koi aik dam se kahe ke main tumse pyar karta hon to 1-2 months main pyar nai hota.. woh just crush hota hai.. time lagta hia samjhne boojhne main.. n yeh ke parents se baat n shadi.. yeh forun forun ke kaam nahin hian.. time chayie in sab ko..

Assalam-o-Alaikum,

[b]Baetii ........... App ki Daadi Jann ki terhaa hon ....app sub mere bachon ki terhaa hein ..........tow sub Daadi ki ek baat samjh lo ...k koi dhoka deta hai yaa koi mukhliss ...........tow sub umer aur tajurba seekha deta hai .... shukeryiaa[/b]

Jazzak Allah


Mashallah ...............Allah Pak beta app ko ajer dain iss Buhat pyari Hadees ko yahan manzer-e-aam per lana .................buhat se log faizyaab hon gey ...............beta app iss ko islamic section mein ek alag post se share karein ....buhat aachi hai ..... dil ko chuu jane walii .....Allah hum sub ko deen-e-khidmat ki tofeeq aata fermaye Ameen ..

flirt is game of words .. and to luv is game of deeds .. the one who can't stand by what he said is doing flirt .. ..


no matter how many times one say .. "i luv you" .. unless he don't prove it that he loves her .. he is flirt

Good post

Itna asan hota yeh farq talash karna to itney larkey/larkiyan aik doosrey ke haathon bewaqoof na bantey aur na ab tak ban rahey hotey.

Time khud prove kardeta hai ke kon kitney paani main hai.

Very Well said

Gud that I paid back in your coin .... well app k yeh islamic n socially norms discuss karna sahi hai par plz read ur topic again ... islam tou flirting ki ijjazat nahi deta aur ager app islam ko beech main laye ho tou for ur piece of info woh unn 2 doston k lye baat hai ju k aik dousre k lye mehram hain ... na k woh ju k na mehram hain aur aik dousre ka khayal rakhein tou kamayat walle din unko buhat bara inaam dia jayega

yaar yeh foran foran k cases main ne dekhe hain tou keh rahi hon na ... dekho kuch log free honay k lye bhi aik dousre se license mangte hain simple ye wohi hai ... kuch ka abhi kuch bananh rehta hai tou woh waiting list main chalay jaate hain

well fatima baitey app ko apne parents n friends flirt nazar aatey hain kamal hai sach main kamal hai ... mujhey apne parents main sirf pyar nazar aata hai koi flirting nahi ... aur na hi apne friends main ... haan ju khud flirting karein unn k saath flirting hoti hai har case main ... apne ju topic banaya hai woh I think app ne just cut-copy-paste kia hai haina ... tabhie app ye bhool chuke ho k app ne lagaya kya hai ... na jane app k kesay life experiences hain k app ne parents k pyar k liye word Flirt use kia m totally shocked to read it ... kyunki main ne tou parents k pyar main koi chouchlay koi banawat batein kabhie nahi dekhein ... aur rahi islam ki baat tou yaad rahe muje islam ne kabhie bore nahi kia ... mera hamesha se interest raha hai Islam main ... par Islam main bhi aik baat hai k sach kaho aur apny Qoul k pakkay raho yani k flirting na karo aur ye bhi hai k Mehram aur Na mehram aik dousre se aaise baat karein k inn k dil main pyar k goushay paida na hon par najane ap k lye islam kya hai? app k lye parents ka pyar flirt hai baki kya keh sakte hain

mujha kya pata main tu khud per daisii hon

OK JI APP BILKUL SAHI FERMAA RAHI HEIN ...............aLLAH TALA KO SHYED USS K BANYE HUAWAY EK FARISHTAE NE DHOKA DE DIYAA USS KI NAA-FERMAANI KER K AUR IBLEES/SHAITAN KA ROOP DHAAR LIYAA ................THROUGHTOUT APP MERE RPLY PERHYIE WOH KAHIN BHI ISLAM AUR VALUES , PARENTS K AGAINST NAHIN EVEN K MERI AAB TAK KI HER POST MEIN MERE MAA BAAP ,AUR HER KISSI K MAA BAAPP KI RESPECT, MERA MAZHUB AUR TRADITIONS MILAIN GII ....HER KOI JO MERZI KAHAY HER INSAAN KAA APNA POINT OF VIEW HAI BUT I HAVE THE AUTHORITY TO PINNED MY POINT ..............RAHI DEEN KI BAAT TOW ISLAM NE KISS JAGHA KAHA HAI K DUNYIADARI CHOR DO ..................WOH TOW HUKAM SADIR KERTA HAI SAVE UR SELVES ......AUR YEAH POINT MEIN NE PINNED KER DITYA HOW TO JUDGE.........APP JUST APNA APP DAIKHTI HEIN HER MAA BAAP PYAR KERTE HEIN .............EK DOG WOH SUB SE GHATYAA JANWAR TASWUR HOTA HAI IN MUSLIM SOCITY ............BUT WOH BHI APNE MAA BAAP K TALWAY CHAATA NAZER AATA HAI ..........TOW HUM TOW PHIR INSAAN HEIN JI ............APP SHYED NEWS PAPER NAHIN PERHTI YA UN LOGON KAA NAHIN SUNA JIN KO KISSI QAREEBI RISHTE SE DHOKA MILA .........FLIRT MEANS CHALL BHI HOTA HAI APP ENGLISH DICTIONARY AGAIN CHECK KAREIN HER LAFAZ K KAFFI MATLAB HOTAY HEIN .........AKSER NEWS PAPER TV MEIN AATA HAI STEP PARENTS NE YEAH KER DIYA ..........KISSI BAAP NE BAETI KO MAR DIYAA KHUD BHI ZEHER KHAALIYAA ETC ......WHATEVER THE REASONS BEHIND THAT ............BUT CHALL TOW HO GAYA NAA ...............IO HAVE NO ANS ...................IN PAKISTAN CONTEXT ......................ANYWAYS LEAVING ............BYE.

yahaaN agar sirf male luver ko identify karna maqsood hai to yeh bahoot asaan hai..... asli aashiq ka maqsood laRki ko jaiz tareeqay say hasil karnaa yaani shadi k jumlah marahil ko jald az jald tay karwanaa.... aisaa bandah jald az jald matloobah larki ko apnay parents say milwanay ki oshish karta hai. dounouN gharaanoun maiN rawaabit baRhanay ki baat karta hai... laRki k ahlay khanaa ki bataiN zeyadah karta hai k kaun kaun haiN kia kia kartay haiN etc etc ... sachaa aashiq kabhi ... ungli pakraa'o to pahoncha pakaRnay ki koshish nahi kartaa.... iss baat ki poori koshish karta hai k in dounoun ki khabar (dounouN families k elawah) kissi teesray chauthay ko nah ho k iss tarah laRki naam.wari par bora asar par sakta hai... sirf baatain aur molaqataiN ki tawaqqah nahi rakhtaa..... jahaan koi teesra nah ho, wahaan milnay par israar nahi kartaa k aik hadeesay nabwi (saw) k motabiq aisee jagah teesra shaitan hotaa hai. aur aik suchaa aashiq kabhi dounouN ki beech shaitaan ko nahi aanay dena chaahta hai....sucha aashiq qurbani detaa hai, qurbaani maangta naheeN... sucha aashiq kabhi gift shift tohfay tahaaif ki baarish karkay mahboobah ko rojhanay ki koshish nahi kartaa... albatta real zaroorat paRnay par kabhi raahay faraar ikhteyaar nahi kartaa...

yaad rakhiyeh jo aashiq above qualities ki olaT khoobiyoun ka maalik nazar aaye.. samajh lijyeh k woh bhaNwraa hai... rus choos kar oR jana chaahta hai yaa zeyadah say zeyadah dair talak talluqaat rakh kar girl-frnd ki hamraahi k lutf say mostafeed hona chaahtaa hai...99% cases maiN agar luv affairs k dauran larki apna sab kuch yaa bahoot kuch laRkay par nichawar karday to aisaa luver kabhi bhi aisee larki say shadi nahee karta ... woh dil maiN aur apnay ahbaab main aisee larki ko low-character ka batlataa hai... osay apna character to nazar hi nahi aataa... go islamic point of view say character dounouN sinfouN ka kharaab yaa achcha hosakta hai magar dunyawi etbaar say character sirf larki ka KHARAAB hotaa hai aur laRkay ko koi boraa nahi kahta / samajhtaa.... i mean to say k agar aik larki k kaii laRkouN say luv-affairs rahay houN to jaan boojh kar koi aisee larki nahi apnaa taa loose character ki haamil kah kar albatta agar kissi larkay k kaii laRkiyouN say luv-affairs rahay houN to iss say larkay ki reputation par koi khaas faraq nahi parta aur sara ilzaam on larkiyouN par laga dia jata hai.... agarchay k yeh ghalat behaviour hai magar ground reality yehi hai coz it's a male oriented society.

taakhir say reply par on sab say maazrat jo iss post par meri replies k muntazir thay. kuch to masroofiat aur kuch net connection ki aThkeliyaan...

yeh asaan bhi hai aur mushkil bhi ... agar parents say chup chupa kar (dounouN paties) yeh khel khelaa jataa rahay to yeh flirt hai aur agar onhaiN shamil karkay luv kia jaye to haqeeqat.... jo apnay parent ko pahlay bataa day woh sahi hai aur jo batanaa hi nahi chahay woh ghalat...

... aur jo luv n affaris k game ki haqeeqat ko samajhnaa hi nahi chaahay, wohi ahmaq doosray k haathoun bewaqoof bantay hain balkay barbaad hotay haiN.... aur jo yeh samajhna chaahtay hai woh kabhi bewaqoof nahi ban saktay.