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Abu Adnan
Jul 8 2008, 12:31 PM
QUOTE(sweet_angel @ Jul 8 2008, 06:55 AM) [snapback]2962784[/snapback]
BHAI JIS TAFSEEELI SE APNA BATAYA HATS OFF BOHUT SHUKRIYAA AP KA ITNI TFSEELI REPLY KA

BOHUT KCH SAMAJ LAGI MERE:)

LEKIN BHAI MIENE BILKUL BHI ISLIYE POST NHI KI K MIE KIUN LARKI HU NAH BILKUL NHI

BAS YEH ISLIYE K KABHI KABHI YE SOCH AMUMAN HAR LARkI KO A HI JATI HAI ISLIYEE

MIENE SOCHA ..US WAQT THA BHI HYPA CHARH HA HUA PER ALLAH SE SHIKAYAT NHI KI ..

KHUSHU HUN MIEN

PER BHAI sumtyms hota haina

or ab bataen mujhe ek he baat

k agar ek mard husband... apni biwi pe shak karta ho? or usey wo apna waqt na deta ho ... masrufiyat mie he uljha ho ..or bwi phr shikayatien karien usey bhi wo husband tang ajata ho or isi tarah k roz ka mahol banjae larai nd all to tab bhi ghalti aurat ki hai kia?

agar aurat kch seekhne k liye bahir jae or usey tab bhi rokey wo??
or phr ek aurat jab kisi or ghalat tareekey mie chal parey to i knw ghalat hai per

us mie kasur to ek admi ka haina tab wo aurat kia karey??

miene bohut kuch dekha hai bro ,,,meri age to choti hai per ..ek tarah se ukt bhi gai hu kiu k lyf itna kch deti hai jo mujhse wo bojh utahaya nhi jata ,,, tab shikayat karleti hun .. k mard hoti to shayad itna kch seh sakti ... smile.gif
BHAI APNE JO BATIEN KI WAQAI BOHUT ACHI OR TOPIC PE KI TAFSEELI BOHUT SHUKRKIYA AP K TAFSEELI REPLY KA .. adb.gif


HC k saf.haat gawaah haiN k maiN nay baarhaa likha (jokes n lateefouN etc ko choR kar icon_peace.gif ) hai k it's a male oriented society jahaaN amooman mard aurtouN par zulm kartay haiN... aap k bataye howay case main bhi aisaa hi hai aur yeh iss dunyaa maiN aik aam baat hai, azal say abad tak aisaa hi hai..... sirf islam woh wahid mazhab hai jo mard ko lagaam deta hai.... lehaza jo mard islam say jetna zeyadah qareeb hoga otnaa hi achcha sabit hoga. aik hadees ka mafhoom bhi yeh hai k tum maiN say behtareen (mard) woh haiN jo apnay ahl o ayaal (biwi bachouN) k haq maiN behtar houN...... ab agar koi mard deen say hi door ho to oski kia baat ki jaye..... hum sab ko bilkhasoos mothers ko chahiyeh k woh apnay beTouN ki parwarish aisee karaiN k woh aik acha mard /shauhar banay. har mard aik aurat (mother) hi k haathouN parwaan chaRhta hai... lehaza agar mard kharaab niklay to mard k saath saath woh aurat bhi barabar ki zimmah daar hoti hai... issi liyeh to kaha jata hai k chor say pahlay chor ki mother ko maaro....

asal main mard-n-aurat dounouN samaji bandhanouN maiN aik doosray say iss tarah juray howay haiN k kissi aik ko tanhaa achchaa yaa boraa nahi kaha jasaktaa. sab aik doosray par depend kartay haiN. mard aurat k haathouN parwan charh kar jawaan hota hai to laRki ki parwarish /dekh bhaal maiN bhi mardouN (baap /shauhar) ka bara haath hota hai. aik ki kotaahi say doosray ki ikhlaqi sehat motassir hoti hai.hum sab ko apni apni jagah apnay faraiz zimmah daari say adaa karnay chahiyeh. doosra ka haq az khud adaa hojayega. BUT....

there is a BIG BUT.....

jab bhi mard vs aurat ki larayee hoti hai.... ghalat khaah mard ho yaa aurat... amooman nuqsaan aurat ko oThana parta hai, deeni etbaar say bhi aur dunyawi etbaar say bhi... jaisay maiN kahaa kartaa houn k mard ka ghussa qatal ka sabab banta hai to aurat ka ghussa khud.koshi ka sabab..... but yeh mei zaati roy hai, mera apna moshahida o motaalia hai.... is say kissi ka muttafiq hona zaroori naheeN, bilkhasoos khawateen ka E9.gif E9.gif
Abu Adnan
Jul 8 2008, 12:56 PM
QUOTE(sweet_angel @ Jul 8 2008, 04:32 AM) [snapback]2962670[/snapback]
SALAAM ...SORRI FOR LATE REP DARASAL MIEN APKI BAATU KO TAFSEEL SE OR ARAAM SE PARHNA CHAHRAHI THI ISLIYE AWAL TO BOHUT SHUKIRYA APKEY TAFSEELI REPLY KAA..APKI VIEWS adb.gif
pehli baat bhai mien bh parhi likhi hee hun 1-embaressed_smile.gif shayad::$:

bilkl ek larki badi nazuk si hoti hai ..

lein bhai larkiyaan fyt kar [b]bhi sakti hain:$

miene yeh bhi sunna hai k jahan larki/aurat jiska dil bohut narm hota hai sensitive lekin jab wo apne nafrat pe ati hai ..to uski nafrat ki shidat bohut ziada hoti hai koi taqat war mard bhi kch nhi hota us k samne ..!![/b]


jahaan par lufz bhi aajaye to iska matlab wazah hai k aisaa exceptional cases maiN hota hai, normal naheeN.... icon_peace.gif aur baat hamesha normal cases ko saamnay rakh kar ki jati hai.

aap ki 2nd baat durust hai k aurat ki doosri intehaa yeh khoobi bhi hai.... pahli intehaa yaani mohababt, caring ki tarah... aurat main dounouN intehayaiN apnay orooj par hoti haiN. krakrani.gif

net connection prob ki wajah say maiN koi marboot bhashan denay say qaasir rahaa E21.gif albattah maiN nay yeh kahnay ki koshish ki hai k..... by nature mard aur aurat same equal ya identical naheeN lehaza in dounouN say same expectations nahi karni chhaiyeh.... doosray yeh batlaya k being a insaan to dounouN baraba haiN magar apni alag alag hasiyatouN maiN aik ko doosray par wazah bartari haasil hai jaisay mother ko beTya par, bhai ko bahan par yaa shauhar ko biwi par.... in by-default bar.tariyouN ko dil say accept karkay hi ghar ki gaRi ko khush asloobi say chalaya jasakta hai. jahaan obey karnaa ho, wahaaN har soorat maiN obey karna hai khaah hamaiN yeh obey karnaa naa pasand hi kiyouN nah ho..... aur the most important k females iss universe ka naaguzeer hissa haiN. onki ahmiat /izat rutbah kissi taur bhi mard say kam naheen... khaah kam omri /ilmi ki wajah say bachiyouN ko aisaa hi kiyouN nah nazar aayee..... koi bhi paRhee likhee aur matured mother apni teen ager masoom aur bholi bhali beTi ko apnay beTouN ki tarah society maiN azaadanah movement ki IJAZAT nahi deti.... yahaaN to koi mard involve nahee.... aurat vs larki aamnay saamnay hai. aik azaadi maangti hai aur doosrinahi deti... zaahir hai yahaaN faraq ilm aur tajarbay ka hai. azaadi nah denay wali asal main laki hi ka bhalaa chaahti hai.

aap jaisee larkiyaan chouNkay matured bhi haiN, paRhee likhee bhi aur dunyaa dekhi bhi lehaza in talakh haqaaiq k jald samajh sakti haiN. dil maiN kabhi kbhaar aisaa khayaal aanaa ... k kaash maiN larka hoti... koi bora khayaal naheN... aur meri reply ka mokhatib sirf aap hargiz naheen.... balkay woh tamaam bachiyaan bhi haiN jo in mabahas main khamoshi say sharek hoti hai. onkay zehan maiN aisay khayaalaat ki koi taujeeh nahee hoti. yeh to aap jaisay logouN ka karam hai k iss qism ki sensitive issues ko discuss karkay bahoot see masoom zehnoun ko roshni bakhti haiN.... mokalmah say vision maiN mazeed izafah hota hai jo amali zindagi main bahoot kaam aataa hai. net forums iss ziman main aik behtareen medium hai. yahaaN hijab k dairay main rahtay howay, apni shakhsiyat ko open kiyeh beghair bhi bahoot asaani say har baat har waqt poochi aur batlayee jasakti hai. Allah hum sab ko hidayat day aur hidayat par amal karnay ki taufeeq day aameen duas.gif duas.gif
Abu Adnan
Jul 8 2008, 08:12 PM
Lahore say April-2008 maiN Ghazalah Arshad ka aik khoob.soorat Novel ... bay dar o deewar.... shaya howa hai jo larkiyouN aur khawateen k aisay hi zeray tabsera mauzoo par moheet hai. agar moqah milay to sab ko zaroor paRhna chahiyeh.

Abu Adnan
Jul 8 2008, 08:39 PM
novel ka pahla warq ... harfay chand .... molaahiza kijyeh.

Abu Adnan
Jul 8 2008, 08:48 PM
iss novel k publisher BATOOL k chand deger aham aur dilchasp kutub yeh haiN

Airy_Princess
Jul 9 2008, 12:09 AM
QUOTE(sweet_angel @ Jul 8 2008, 04:36 AM) [snapback]2962676[/snapback]
yaar mujhe koi moka nhi deta naa ..kehte hain xtra nhi hai :(

beshak har kaam mien koi na koi balaii hee hoti hai haina smile.gif

tum job karti hona ..tum batao i feel k jo larki job karti hai wo ziada muture soch rakhti hai? or wo kabhi ye nhi sochti k mie larka hoti ...or jo larki job karna chahey or aisa koi riwaaj na ho ,,to usko kia kahogi tum?

well yara nice question smile.gif jab main ne job ki wish ki tou main ne sab se pehle apni behan se mashwara kia aur meri 2no sisters ne mujhey support kia phir baat karni thi parents k samne tou woh meri dhaal banein aur kaha k isko job karne do mene bhi masoom si shakal bana li k karne dou teaching hi tou karni hai so me k parents ne mera saath dia aur kaha lou iss main konsi bari baat hai ... haan job kar k banday main buhat confidence aata hai ... aur experiences tou buhat hi ache milte hain yakeen mano k abb meko iss baat ka andaza ho gaya hai k main ne apni practical life main apne in-laws k saath kese rehna hai just bahar job kar k n dousre logon k saath kaam kar k ... jiss main har tarhan k log shamil hain means meri age group k bhi me se chotey n baray b sab k saath deal karna n kesi aik unknown jagah par apni place banani hai ... jin logon ko parents ijjazat na dein job ki woh khair unki apni marzi hoti hai par unko aik baar convince kar k tou dekha jae wese bhi baitiyun ki shaklein aaisi masoom si hoti hain k ami aur abu g unn ki ankhon main ansoo nahi dekh sakte ... aur jahan tak hai soch ki maturity ki tou haan yeh baat buhat hadh t ak thek hai cuz meko teaching k 6 months k experience mian yakeen mano main koi almost 1000 different types different areas k logon se milli hon aur har aik ka behaviour buhat diff hai tou bande ki soch tou phir pukhtaa hoti hi hai na ... haan sahi kaha mene kabhie ye nahi socha k kaash main larka hoti ju bike k case main socha hai u ko boll dia hai ... tumhare akhri sawal ka jawab main ne pehle de dia tha ... k aik larki job karna chahe aur koi ussay karne na day tou usko mera mashwara hai k woh simple ghar main koi tuition center khol le yaar ssachi app kuch chota sa bhi kar lo na life main tou app buhat acha feel karte ho ... tensions ki tarf bhi nahi dehaan jata bande ka ... life busy ho jati hia aur teaching tou main kahongi k woh job hai jis par kisi ko aaitraaz nahi hota for girls cuz its a noble profession aur ager koi tumhari job ko bura kahe n kahe haye u teacher ho tou woh log just apni mentality hi bataein ge cuz aik teacher k haath main nation hoti hai aur as such karne main koi burai nahi hai ... I love my profession
sweet_angel
Jul 9 2008, 05:05 AM
QUOTE(Abu Adnan @ Jul 8 2008, 12:31 PM) [snapback]2963381[/snapback]
HC k saf.haat gawaah haiN k maiN nay baarhaa likha (jokes n lateefouN etc ko choR kar icon_peace.gif ) hai k it's a male oriented society jahaaN amooman mard aurtouN par zulm kartay haiN... aap k bataye howay case main bhi aisaa hi hai aur yeh iss dunyaa maiN aik aam baat hai, azal say abad tak aisaa hi hai..... sirf islam woh wahid mazhab hai jo mard ko lagaam deta hai.... lehaza jo mard islam say jetna zeyadah qareeb hoga otnaa hi achcha sabit hoga. aik hadees ka mafhoom bhi yeh hai k tum maiN say behtareen (mard) woh haiN jo apnay ahl o ayaal (biwi bachouN) k haq maiN behtar houN...... ab agar koi mard deen say hi door ho to oski kia baat ki jaye..... hum sab ko bilkhasoos mothers ko chahiyeh k woh apnay beTouN ki parwarish aisee karaiN k woh aik acha mard /shauhar banay. har mard aik aurat (mother) hi k haathouN parwaan chaRhta hai... lehaza agar mard kharaab niklay to mard k saath saath woh aurat bhi barabar ki zimmah daar hoti hai... issi liyeh to kaha jata hai k chor say pahlay chor ki mother ko maaro....

asal main mard-n-aurat dounouN samaji bandhanouN maiN aik doosray say iss tarah juray howay haiN k kissi aik ko tanhaa achchaa yaa boraa nahi kaha jasaktaa. sab aik doosray par depend kartay haiN. mard aurat k haathouN parwan charh kar jawaan hota hai to laRki ki parwarish /dekh bhaal maiN bhi mardouN (baap /shauhar) ka bara haath hota hai. aik ki kotaahi say doosray ki ikhlaqi sehat motassir hoti hai.hum sab ko apni apni jagah apnay faraiz zimmah daari say adaa karnay chahiyeh. doosra ka haq az khud adaa hojayega. BUT....

there is a BIG BUT.....

jab bhi mard vs aurat ki larayee hoti hai.... ghalat khaah mard ho yaa aurat... amooman nuqsaan aurat ko oThana parta hai, deeni etbaar say bhi aur dunyawi etbaar say bhi... jaisay maiN kahaa kartaa houn k mard ka ghussa qatal ka sabab banta hai to aurat ka ghussa khud.koshi ka sabab..... but yeh mei zaati roy hai, mera apna moshahida o motaalia hai.... is say kissi ka muttafiq hona zaroori naheeN, bilkhasoos khawateen ka E9.gif E9.gif

mien to itefaaq karti hu apki is baaat pe...wakai mard ko ghusa ae to qatal or aurat ko ae khud khushi truuu ......mien bhi aisi thi jab ghusa ata tha apna he nuksan karne chalti thi ... smile.gif

khaire ..leki jo miene apko case bataya usey mie clear nhi hui

us mie kasur kis ka ha? mard ka?? na?? or agar aurat ghalat rastey per chal pari to? wo to ghalat hai hee t us mie kia saza aurat ko he milegi??

kiu k miene kaii aise cases dekhien hain bohut ziada ... to herat hoti hai kahin mard itna masoom hai or aurat k karname kahin pe koi mard ko khos key aisa hojata hai to kahin mard khud itni azadi de deta ha .....
hamare haan aisa hai larki job karegi to kafii bura mantey hain yani koi waqii tang dast hai ya karli to masla nahi baki agar koi khandani ho wo kare to bas kafi bura man jate hain jon ki khuwahish zahir karna bohut he bada riski sa hota ha ...

or job karne wali ko sahi nhi samajte

per job karne wali larki to ziada mutuure hoti hai

... kaise manaya jae ... :S

ya phr bas khuwahish ko hee phurr kardia jae
sweet_angel
Jul 9 2008, 05:10 AM
QUOTE(Abu Adnan @ Jul 8 2008, 12:56 PM) [snapback]2963391[/snapback]
jahaan par lufz bhi aajaye to iska matlab wazah hai k aisaa exceptional cases maiN hota hai, normal naheeN.... icon_peace.gif aur baat hamesha normal cases ko saamnay rakh kar ki jati hai.

aap ki 2nd baat durust hai k aurat ki doosri intehaa yeh khoobi bhi hai.... pahli intehaa yaani mohababt, caring ki tarah... aurat main dounouN intehayaiN apnay orooj par hoti haiN. krakrani.gif

net connection prob ki wajah say maiN koi marboot bhashan denay say qaasir rahaa E21.gif albattah maiN nay yeh kahnay ki koshish ki hai k..... by nature mard aur aurat same equal ya identical naheeN lehaza in dounouN say same expectations nahi karni chhaiyeh.... doosray yeh batlaya k being a insaan to dounouN baraba haiN magar apni alag alag hasiyatouN maiN aik ko doosray par wazah bartari haasil hai jaisay mother ko beTya par, bhai ko bahan par yaa shauhar ko biwi par.... in by-default bar.tariyouN ko dil say accept karkay hi ghar ki gaRi ko khush asloobi say chalaya jasakta hai. jahaan obey karnaa ho, wahaaN har soorat maiN obey karna hai khaah hamaiN yeh obey karnaa naa pasand hi kiyouN nah ho..... aur the most important k females iss universe ka naaguzeer hissa haiN. onki ahmiat /izat rutbah kissi taur bhi mard say kam naheen... khaah kam omri /ilmi ki wajah say bachiyouN ko aisaa hi kiyouN nah nazar aayee..... koi bhi paRhee likhee aur matured mother apni teen ager masoom aur bholi bhali beTi ko apnay beTouN ki tarah society maiN azaadanah movement ki IJAZAT nahi deti.... yahaaN to koi mard involve nahee.... aurat vs larki aamnay saamnay hai. aik azaadi maangti hai aur doosrinahi deti... zaahir hai yahaaN faraq ilm aur tajarbay ka hai. azaadi nah denay wali asal main laki hi ka bhalaa chaahti hai.

aap jaisee larkiyaan chouNkay matured bhi haiN, paRhee likhee bhi aur dunyaa dekhi bhi lehaza in talakh haqaaiq k jald samajh sakti haiN. dil maiN kabhi kbhaar aisaa khayaal aanaa ... k kaash maiN larka hoti... koi bora khayaal naheN... aur meri reply ka mokhatib sirf aap hargiz naheen.... balkay woh tamaam bachiyaan bhi haiN jo in mabahas main khamoshi say sharek hoti hai. onkay zehan maiN aisay khayaalaat ki koi taujeeh nahee hoti. yeh to aap jaisay logouN ka karam hai k iss qism ki sensitive issues ko discuss karkay bahoot see masoom zehnoun ko roshni bakhti haiN.... mokalmah say vision maiN mazeed izafah hota hai jo amali zindagi main bahoot kaam aataa hai. net forums iss ziman main aik behtareen medium hai. yahaaN hijab k dairay main rahtay howay, apni shakhsiyat ko open kiyeh beghair bhi bahoot asaani say har baat har waqt poochi aur batlayee jasakti hai. Allah hum sab ko hidayat day aur hidayat par amal karnay ki taufeeq day aameen duas.gif duas.gif

bilkul baja farmaya ..bhai waki itna kuch sikh jate hain ek aise he topics pe .. smile.gif

hanjo mie ssamaj gai apne deeni duniyawi dono tareekey se ek tafseelii baat samjhai ..jo mujhe samaj bhi lagi bein a girl is nthg bad its sumthng batural wen v feel dat mien larka hoti ...sumthng sumthng ..

lekin ek larki hona bohut badii baaat hai sab ki apni jaga hi or apna rutba .... yeh srf logon ki soch ki wajah se yeh baat ziada ajati hai k larki kch nhi karsakti ..

ek larki bhi apne buzurg baap ka beta bansakti hai or banti bhi hai ...
so yeh sab hamari soch hai ......udaasi k baiss wali soch .. 1-think.gif

bilkul ALLAH HAMIEN HIDAYAT DEY AMEEN SUM AMEEEN ,, duas.gif

or jo yeh jis novle ka bataya i will try to BUY IT SOON INSHALLAH THNX BRO FOR SUCH DETAIL REPLIES AM SO VVERY gREATFULL TO YOU adb.gif ...
sweet_angel
Jul 9 2008, 05:14 AM
QUOTE(Airy_Princess @ Jul 9 2008, 12:09 AM) [snapback]2964836[/snapback]
well yara nice question smile.gif jab main ne job ki wish ki tou main ne sab se pehle apni behan se mashwara kia aur meri 2no sisters ne mujhey support kia phir baat karni thi parents k samne tou woh meri dhaal banein aur kaha k isko job karne do mene bhi masoom si shakal bana li k karne dou teaching hi tou karni hai so me k parents ne mera saath dia aur kaha lou iss main konsi bari baat hai ... haan job kar k banday main buhat confidence aata hai ... aur experiences tou buhat hi ache milte hain yakeen mano k abb meko iss baat ka andaza ho gaya hai k main ne apni practical life main apne in-laws k saath kese rehna hai just bahar job kar k n dousre logon k saath kaam kar k ... jiss main har tarhan k log shamil hain means meri age group k bhi me se chotey n baray b sab k saath deal karna n kesi aik unknown jagah par apni place banani hai ... jin logon ko parents ijjazat na dein job ki woh khair unki apni marzi hoti hai par unko aik baar convince kar k tou dekha jae wese bhi baitiyun ki shaklein aaisi masoom si hoti hain k ami aur abu g unn ki ankhon main ansoo nahi dekh sakte ... aur jahan tak hai soch ki maturity ki tou haan yeh baat buhat hadh t ak thek hai cuz meko teaching k 6 months k experience mian yakeen mano main koi almost 1000 different types different areas k logon se milli hon aur har aik ka behaviour buhat diff hai tou bande ki soch tou phir pukhtaa hoti hi hai na ... haan sahi kaha mene kabhie ye nahi socha k kaash main larka hoti ju bike k case main socha hai u ko boll dia hai ... tumhare akhri sawal ka jawab main ne pehle de dia tha ... k aik larki job karna chahe aur koi ussay karne na day tou usko mera mashwara hai k woh simple ghar main koi tuition center khol le yaar ssachi app kuch chota sa bhi kar lo na life main tou app buhat acha feel karte ho ... tensions ki tarf bhi nahi dehaan jata bande ka ... life busy ho jati hia aur teaching tou main kahongi k woh job hai jis par kisi ko aaitraaz nahi hota for girls cuz its a noble profession aur ager koi tumhari job ko bura kahe n kahe haye u teacher ho tou woh log just apni mentality hi bataein ge cuz aik teacher k haath main nation hoti hai aur as such karne main koi burai nahi hai ... I love my profession

sahi baat hai bhut achi baat kahi yaar teachng har larki sochti hai k wo karey

but for me its sumthng very BIG lyk a BIG ISSUE ..



per yaar ...khair

BEST OF LUCK TO YOU YAAR ,,DATS REALLY GUD HUN ,,, frndz.gif

ALLAH TUMHE KAMIYAAB KAREY ...AMEEN duas.gif
..SaNa..
Jul 11 2008, 08:47 PM
Honestly speaking mujhay kabhi ye khiyal nahi aata k main lerka hoti..

Sab say pehli baat tau ye k jo Allah nay banaya wo best hay .. ager main lerki hon tau ye meray liya best hay .. baat sirf soch ki hoti hay .. jis tarah say soch lo

haan ager lerki honay ki waja say kuch restrictions hoti hain tau wo bhi achay k liya hi hoti hain .. ya ager kuch problems face kerni perti hain tau wo is liya hoti hain k society main kuch log ghalat hain is liya nahi k aap lerki ho

seemaf
Jul 12 2008, 07:17 PM
QUOTE(madh0sh @ Jul 4 2008, 07:02 PM) [snapback]2957364[/snapback]
hmmmmmmmmmm sahi kha aap ne but yaar i cant wirte agar main kuch likhne bet gaiii tu phir page k page bhar jayeh gey aur mere dil ki baat khatam nai hogii so i hate is kinda topic kyun k its hurt me a lot ......


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barish aur gulab
Jul 24 2008, 04:47 AM

Sweet angel jee,


bohat acha topic hi

aur maein kahoon gi
k purana zamana hamesha hee bohat acha hota hi
adaat wa itwaar( human nature) hoo.n ya
rasmo rewaaj(traditions)
sab wohee behtur hei.n/thei.n


aur zahir hi k maein dosari zindagi mein
"ahyni(steel/iron) mard bunker aana chahoon gi








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jeeti rahiye
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Abu Adnan
Jul 25 2008, 10:04 AM
raat dr. zakir sb peace tv par kah rahay thay k..... khawateen k liyeh teen teen medals hai ... gold medal, silver medal & bronz medal jabkay hazraat k liyeh sirf certificate of appreciation. clapping3.gif khawateen jab maaN banti haiN to onkay qadmouN talay aulaad ki jannat rakh di jati hai... aulaad ka apni maaN par 75 % haq hota hai (with above 3 medals) jabkay baap par only 25% .... onhouN nay yeh bataiN zel ki hadees ki bunyaad par ki...

aik sahabi nay poocha yaa rasool Allah sallallaho alihay wasallam, khidmat k liyeh mujh par sab say pahlaa haq kis ka hai aap sallallaho alihay wasallam nay farmaya tumhaari maaN ka ... dobarah poocha gaya phir, jawaab mila tumhaari maaN, teesri baar poocha gaya phir... jawaab mila tumhari maaan ... chauthee martabah poochagaya k phir to jawaab milaa tumharaa baap... goyaa maaN ka haq 3/4th ... 75% hai aur baap ka haqq 1/4th i.e. 25% aur 3/4th maiN teenouN top medals aajatay haiN... baap k liyeh zeyadah say zeyadah certificate of appreciations bach jata hai .....

kaash maiN aik khaatoon hota aur saray medalz haasil karsaktaa. icon_peace.gif
sisaktey lab
Jul 26 2008, 12:27 PM
QUOTE(sweet_angel @ Jul 4 2008, 02:41 AM) [snapback]2956692[/snapback]
salam.gif
EK BAAT JO BADIIIII COMMON HAI..KISI BHI LARKI SE PUCHIEN TO WO YAHI KAHEGI K AY KAASH MIE LARKA HOTI

CHAHEY WO KHUSH HO YA UDAAS LEKIN HAR KOI KEHTI YAHI HAI K KAASH MIE LARKA HOTI ..

TO MIE YEH KARSAKTI WO KARSAKTI

OR KOI LARKA AISA NHI SOCHTA K MIEN KAASH LARKI HOTA ..

KIU EK LARKI HEE

JAB PAIDA HOTI HAI TAB HE SE SEHTI HAI

KABHI BETI K ANE SE KOI KHUSH NHIN HOTAA ...K BETI HAI???

MAANA YEH EK JAHALAT HAI MAGAR PARHEY LIKHUN K DIL MIEN BHI YEH BAAT ATI HAI MAANA WO YEH CHAHTE HAIN BETA HGA TO SUPPORT KAREGA LEKIN PHR BHI

BETI AI AFSOS LAII..

USEY PAAALNAA BILKUL EHTIYAAT SE..

LARKI HO TUM BAHIR NHI JASAKTI

TUM BETI HO TUMHE YEH KARNA PAREGA TUM BETI HO TUMHE WO KARNA PAREGA

BETA OR BETI KI KHUWAHISH SAMNE AI TOO
PEHLEY KHUWAHISH BETEY KI PURI KARNE KI SOCHTE HAIN
CHAHEY BETI KITNI LAADLI HEE KIU NA HO...

KIU JAB EK BETI APNI KHUSHI AGEY KARTI HAI ..TO USEY ITNA KUCH SUNNA SEHNA PARTA HAI??

KIU BETI HEE PARAI HOJATI HAI ..

EK BETI GHR CHOR K CHALI JAE TO USKI WAJA SE MAAN BAAP KA SER JHUK JATA HAI

OR AGAR BETI KO BIYAH DENA HO TO EK PARESHAANI AJATI HAI K ITNA KUCH DENA HAI ISE..

OR BETI K ITNA DENE K BAAD BETI KO KISI OR K HAWALEY KAR DETEY HAIN

KIU PHR WAHAN BHI EK BETI HEE SEHTI HAI

EK PINJRE MIEN BANDH HOJATI HAI

JANE KIU JANE KIU HAR LARKI AISA KIU SCHTI HAI K WOH LARKA HOTI

KIU LARKIYUN K EK GHALTI YA EK KHUWAHISH KABHI KUBHAAR BOJHAAR LE ATTI AHI

BETI KIA HAI??? EK AURAT BANNA KIA HAI ????

AISA KIU HAI K KOI BETI KHUSH NHIN ..

KHUSH TO BESHAK SAB HOTE HAIN MAGAR WO BAAT BETI MIEN KIUU NHIN ...
AISA KIU HAI ..JANE MIEN KIA KAHE JARAHI HU

PER KUCH AISA HE MIEN ARSE SE SOCHTI HUN ..K JO BHI HOTA HA TO MIE YAHI KEHTI HU RYT EK BETI HUNA

ALLHUMDULILLAH SE MUJHE JO CHAHIYE MUJHE MILJATA HAI MEIN APNE BABA KI LAADLI BHI HU ....

BETIYAAN ZIADA TER APNE WALID SE HEE ATTACH HOTI HAIN

LEKIN PHR BHI ..

BETI CHAHEY BADEY GHR SE HO YA CHOTEY GHR SE... TARAPTI ZARUR HAI...

US K PAAS MAA KA RUTBA HOTA HAII ..MAGAR MAAA BANN K BHI WO KAI ULJHANU MIE PHANS JATI HAI ...AISA KIU HAI AISA KIU HAMARE SATH HOTA HAI AISA KIUN HAMARE SOCCH MIEN ATA HAII??? K MIEN EK BETI HU ..
B.E.T.I .....





IT SEEMS THT U TRIED UR LEVEL BEST TO BE REMARKED AS "WELL SAID OR NICE POST "

BUT LET ME TELL U THT EVERY WHERE IS NOT LIKE THIS SAME AS U MENTIONED IN UR ABOVE CUT PASTED ARTICAL SWEETY
sisaktey lab
Jul 26 2008, 12:29 PM
QUOTE(Abu Adnan @ Jul 25 2008, 10:04 AM) [snapback]2992544[/snapback]
raat dr. zakir sb peace tv par kah rahay thay k..... khawateen k liyeh teen teen medals hai ... gold medal, silver medal & bronz medal jabkay hazraat k liyeh sirf certificate of appreciation. clapping3.gif khawateen jab maaN banti haiN to onkay qadmouN talay aulaad ki jannat rakh di jati hai... aulaad ka apni maaN par 75 % haq hota hai (with above 3 medals) jabkay baap par only 25% .... onhouN nay yeh bataiN zel ki hadees ki bunyaad par ki...

aik sahabi nay poocha yaa rasool Allah sallallaho alihay wasallam, khidmat k liyeh mujh par sab say pahlaa haq kis ka hai aap sallallaho alihay wasallam nay farmaya tumhaari maaN ka ... dobarah poocha gaya phir, jawaab mila tumhaari maaN, teesri baar poocha gaya phir... jawaab mila tumhari maaan ... chauthee martabah poochagaya k phir to jawaab milaa tumharaa baap... goyaa maaN ka haq 3/4th ... 75% hai aur baap ka haqq 1/4th i.e. 25% aur 3/4th maiN teenouN top medals aajatay haiN... baap k liyeh zeyadah say zeyadah certificate of appreciations bach jata hai .....

kaash maiN aik khaatoon hota aur saray medalz haasil karsaktaa. icon_peace.gif



TO TUM ABHI KONSAY MERD HOO


LOLZ JUST KIDDIN
sweet_angel
Jul 26 2008, 03:56 PM
QUOTE(barish aur gulab @ Jul 24 2008, 04:47 AM) [snapback]2990037[/snapback]

Sweet angel jee,


bohat acha topic hi

aur maein kahoon gi
k purana zamana hamesha hee bohat acha hota hi
adaat wa itwaar( human nature) hoo.n ya
rasmo rewaaj(traditions)
sab wohee behtur hei.n/thei.n
aur zahir hi k maein dosari zindagi mein
"ahyni(steel/iron) mard bunker aana chahoon gi
[right]Bohat shokriya
jeeti rahiye
aur hamesha
muskrati rahiye duas.gif

rose.gif Barish aur Gulab rose.gif [/right]

shukriya bajooo pasand karne k adb.gif

bilkull jo pehle zamaney ki baatien thi nirali thi 0-headbang.gif

lekin app iron man kiu banna chahti ho? afrd.gif
sweet_angel
Jul 26 2008, 04:01 PM
QUOTE(sisaktey lab @ Jul 26 2008, 12:27 PM) [snapback]2994607[/snapback]
IT SEEMS THT U TRIED UR LEVEL BEST TO BE REMARKED AS "WELL SAID OR NICE POST "

BUT LET ME TELL U THT EVERY WHERE IS NOT LIKE THIS SAME AS U MENTIONED IN UR ABOVE CUT PASTED ARTICAL SWEETY

I SHARED WAT A FEEEL ...I DONT NEED TO ACTUALLY TRYYY FOR DOING BEST ..I KNW AM BEST ...ND WILL GET NO WELL SED OR NICE POST BUT YAY..


GREAT SWEET ANGEL D.gif

HOPE YOU GOT DAT smile.gif

i knw not every where but mostly ..anyays thanks for ur views ..

dat wasnt a cut pasted aryical ..u dumbhead read clearfuly thapar.gif
sweet_angel
Jul 26 2008, 04:03 PM
QUOTE(Abu Adnan @ Jul 25 2008, 10:04 AM) [snapback]2992544[/snapback]
raat dr. zakir sb peace tv par kah rahay thay k..... khawateen k liyeh teen teen medals hai ... gold medal, silver medal & bronz medal jabkay hazraat k liyeh sirf certificate of appreciation. clapping3.gif khawateen jab maaN banti haiN to onkay qadmouN talay aulaad ki jannat rakh di jati hai... aulaad ka apni maaN par 75 % haq hota hai (with above 3 medals) jabkay baap par only 25% .... onhouN nay yeh bataiN zel ki hadees ki bunyaad par ki...

aik sahabi nay poocha yaa rasool Allah sallallaho alihay wasallam, khidmat k liyeh mujh par sab say pahlaa haq kis ka hai aap sallallaho alihay wasallam nay farmaya tumhaari maaN ka ... dobarah poocha gaya phir, jawaab mila tumhaari maaN, teesri baar poocha gaya phir... jawaab mila tumhari maaan ... chauthee martabah poochagaya k phir to jawaab milaa tumharaa baap... goyaa maaN ka haq 3/4th ... 75% hai aur baap ka haqq 1/4th i.e. 25% aur 3/4th maiN teenouN top medals aajatay haiN... baap k liyeh zeyadah say zeyadah certificate of appreciations bach jata hai .....

kaash maiN aik khaatoon hota aur saray medalz haasil karsaktaa. icon_peace.gif

JAZAKALLAH BHAI ...

THNX FOR SHARIN WID ME THNX ALOT rose.gif
sisaktey lab
Jul 26 2008, 04:59 PM
QUOTE(sweet_angel @ Jul 26 2008, 04:01 PM) [snapback]2994878[/snapback]
I SHARED WAT A FEEEL ...I DONT NEED TO ACTUALLY TRYYY FOR DOING BEST ..I KNW AM BEST ...ND WILL GET NO WELL SED OR NICE POST BUT YAY..
GREAT SWEET ANGEL D.gif

HOPE YOU GOT DAT smile.gif

i knw not every where but mostly ..anyays thanks for ur views ..

dat wasnt a cut pasted aryical ..u dumbhead read clearfuly thapar.gif




tum ho gi dumhead ki gf thapar.gif samjhi


or yeh itna baraa cut paste kon perey ga pagle hoo gaye hoo kia


khud too mantel hoo hum ko bhi samjh rekha hai kia
sweet_angel
Jul 27 2008, 04:19 AM
QUOTE(sisaktey lab @ Jul 26 2008, 04:59 PM) [snapback]2994937[/snapback]
tum ho gi dumhead ki gf thapar.gif samjhi
or yeh itna baraa cut paste kon perey ga pagle hoo gaye hoo kia
khud too mantel hoo hum ko bhi samjh rekha hai kia

OKAYY .. THIIK HAI NA PARHO ..BAKI BATIEN PHR KABHI smile.gif
seemaf
Jul 27 2008, 02:44 PM
QUOTE(sweet_angel @ Jul 8 2008, 04:00 AM) [snapback]2962636[/snapback]
siso bilkul thik kaha .......lekin kabhi kabhi jab ziada pabandiya jo kisi wajahh se kisi or ki wajah se lag jati hain ap pe...to apko jab koi sahi sila bhi deta hai wo bhi GHALAT lag jati hain

nhi siso jitna kaha apne bohut zabardust kaha smile.gif


Main ne kaha na ke pabandi ho ya azadi... balance hona must hai ....Ziada azadi bhi ghalat hai aur ziada pabandi bhi..... Kisi aur ke kiye ki waja se ap per agar koi pabandi lagti hai to yeh aik tarah ki ehtiyat bhi ho sakti hai aur pabandi laganey waley ki kam aqli bhi ... kyunke har insan ki nature alag hoti hai aur kisi aur ke kisi attitude ki saza kisi aur ko dena kisi surat sahi nahi....

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seemaf
Jul 27 2008, 02:51 PM
QUOTE(Abu Adnan @ Jul 8 2008, 12:56 PM) [snapback]2963391[/snapback]
jahaan par lufz bhi aajaye to iska matlab wazah hai k aisaa exceptional cases maiN hota hai, normal naheeN.... icon_peace.gif aur baat hamesha normal cases ko saamnay rakh kar ki jati hai.

aap ki 2nd baat durust hai k aurat ki doosri intehaa yeh khoobi bhi hai.... pahli intehaa yaani mohababt, caring ki tarah... aurat main dounouN intehayaiN apnay orooj par hoti haiN. krakrani.gif

net connection prob ki wajah say maiN koi marboot bhashan denay say qaasir rahaa E21.gif albattah maiN nay yeh kahnay ki koshish ki hai k..... by nature mard aur aurat same equal ya identical naheeN lehaza in dounouN say same expectations nahi karni chhaiyeh.... doosray yeh batlaya k being a insaan to dounouN baraba haiN magar apni alag alag hasiyatouN maiN aik ko doosray par wazah bartari haasil hai jaisay mother ko beTya par, bhai ko bahan par yaa shauhar ko biwi par.... in by-default bar.tariyouN ko dil say accept karkay hi ghar ki gaRi ko khush asloobi say chalaya jasakta hai. jahaan obey karnaa ho, wahaaN har soorat maiN obey karna hai khaah hamaiN yeh obey karnaa naa pasand hi kiyouN nah ho..... aur the most important k females iss universe ka naaguzeer hissa haiN. onki ahmiat /izat rutbah kissi taur bhi mard say kam naheen... khaah kam omri /ilmi ki wajah say bachiyouN ko aisaa hi kiyouN nah nazar aayee..... koi bhi paRhee likhee aur matured mother apni teen ager masoom aur bholi bhali beTi ko apnay beTouN ki tarah society maiN azaadanah movement ki IJAZAT nahi deti.... yahaaN to koi mard involve nahee.... aurat vs larki aamnay saamnay hai. aik azaadi maangti hai aur doosrinahi deti... zaahir hai yahaaN faraq ilm aur tajarbay ka hai. azaadi nah denay wali asal main laki hi ka bhalaa chaahti hai.

aap jaisee larkiyaan chouNkay matured bhi haiN, paRhee likhee bhi aur dunyaa dekhi bhi lehaza in talakh haqaaiq k jald samajh sakti haiN. dil maiN kabhi kbhaar aisaa khayaal aanaa ... k kaash maiN larka hoti... koi bora khayaal naheN... aur meri reply ka mokhatib sirf aap hargiz naheen.... balkay woh tamaam bachiyaan bhi haiN jo in mabahas main khamoshi say sharek hoti hai. onkay zehan maiN aisay khayaalaat ki koi taujeeh nahee hoti. yeh to aap jaisay logouN ka karam hai k iss qism ki sensitive issues ko discuss karkay bahoot see masoom zehnoun ko roshni bakhti haiN.... mokalmah say vision maiN mazeed izafah hota hai jo amali zindagi main bahoot kaam aataa hai. net forums iss ziman main aik behtareen medium hai. yahaaN hijab k dairay main rahtay howay, apni shakhsiyat ko open kiyeh beghair bhi bahoot asaani say har baat har waqt poochi aur batlayee jasakti hai. Allah hum sab ko hidayat day aur hidayat par amal karnay ki taufeeq day aameen duas.gif duas.gif


Baja farmaya ap ne yes.gif

Aur Net forums ka SAHI use un ki afadiyat ko mazeed barha deta hai smile.gif
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