"Kisi ke jotoon mian paaon dalny se pahlay un ko achi tarah pahchan lia kareen"
Hadi

Kiya Iss Baat Ki Wazahat Karna Pasand FarmaayeN Gi Hadea Jee....... Samjh Nahi Paayi.

baRi simple see baat hai kamli g.... kissi ajnabi /new person, place or thing ko opt karnay pahlay onhaiN achi tarah chaan phaTak kar pahchaan lena chahiyeh takay baad main yeh nuqsaan dah nah saabit houN ... jaisay hum apnay jootay to bila dhaRak pahan letay haiN ... magar agar kabhi kissi k jootay pahannay paR jayaiN to achi tarah check karna paRta hai k kaheeN jootay k ander keel waghitrah to nahi, joota hamaray paouNk k liyeh fit aur comfortable to hai naa etc etc ... jabkay apna jootaa to jana pahchanaa hotaa hai... iski khoobi /khami dounouN say hum bakhoobi agaah hotay haiN......

ab pataa nahi hadeea g meri explaination say mutafiq haiN yaa naheeN, yeh to wohi aan kar bataayengi.

Usuf Bhai Aap Ki Baat Ne Mujhe Mazeed Sochne Par Majboor Kar Diyaa.....

JahaN Tak Baat Achi Tarah Chaan PhaTak Ki Hai To Zindagi To Naam Hi Musalsal Imthaan Ka Hai Aur Kisi Ki Nazar Ya Samjh Aisi Kaamil Ba-Saoor Nahi Hoti K Woh Zindagi Bhar Koyi Nuqsan Na Uthaaey.
Lakin Jootay Hi Ki Misaal KyuN Di Gayi.....

Issay Parh K Mere Zehan MeiN To Yehi Baat Aa Rahi Hai K

JUmma K DiN Masjid K Bahir Se Jootay Chori Hotay HaiN Naa... To Agar Tum Kisi Ka Joota Le Janay K Chakar MeiN Ho To Achi Tarah Pehchaan Lo K Woh KahiN Tumharay Hi Ghar MeiN Se Ya Mohallah K Kisi Fard Ka To Nahi.

Sorry Hadea Jee Lakin JOOTAY Waali Misaal Mujhe Kuch Samjhnay Nahi De Rahi.... Plz Aap Wazahat Kijiay Naa.

goya jootay aap ko hazam nahi horahay

Jootay Nahi JootoN Ki MIsaal

interesting discussion from both of u but i need few more replies after that i will explain why Jotooy
Abu Adnan 's explaination is much closer to my explaination .
ok dear i will explain after few days

Theek Hadea Jee......

Hum Muntazir HaiN Aap Ki Explaination K

wohi wohi ... mera matlab bhi wohi thaa

waiting ur explanation ... k why jootay

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kamli g ko asal maiN haal hi maiN paRay haiN naa jootay

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polish karna, apnay onkay ... iss liyeh zeyayadh hi curiosity horahi hai k .... why (only) jootay....

it means k aap nay jootouN wali baat ko Theek kah dia ... bus ab only explanation chahiyeh k why

Aap K Aik Matlab MeiN B Kam Se Kam 2-4 Matlab Chupay Hotay HaiN Usuf Bhai

Aap Usuf Ki Bajaey Zulekha Hotay To Pata Chalta Aap Ko K Aise Kaam MeiN Bhi Ek Fakhar Posheeda Hai... Aik Apna-Pan..
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Ab Yeh Nahi Kehna K Kamli Ho K Aisi Baat Kaise Keh Dii........

JotooN Wali Baat Ko Nahi... Hadea Je Ki Mazeed Kuch Members K Comments Ka Intzar Karne Wali Bat Par Majboori Ki Halat MeiN THEEK HADEA JEE Bola Hai Kionkay Mujhe Waqyi Tajasus Hai K JOOTAY Hi KyuN?

adaab arz hai ... bus g kabhi gharoor nahi kia

aur jo chopay matlab bhi bhaaNp laiN, woh sab kuch hosaktay haiN, kamli naheeN.

iss maiN kia shak hai ... jannat maiN wohi shadi shudah khawateen ki entry hogi jo imaan k saath saath apnay shauharouN ki khidmat guzaar bhi houN.... aik hadees k motaabiq agar kissi shab kissi khatoon nay shauhar ko naraaz rakhaa to sari shab farishtay aisee aurat pay laanat kartay rahtay haiN.. jab tak woh apnay shauhar ko nah manaa lay......

jaantaa houN taa'at o zohaad yaan ... par HC ki reet rewayat main Doobay rahnay k sabab .... par tabi'at idhar nahi aati

ok ....let c wot hadea says ...

There's a conflict in understanding the meanings of this statement.. ill try to make it more lucid..
indeed hadeea.. its a nice thought provoking quote that you have shared.. there's a small slightly different but matching quote that could help us understand the meanings of this quote.. they say...
" Put yourself in my shoes! "

putting ourselves in someone else's shoes means trying to get a feeling of what the other person feels.

kabhi hum kisi baat ko buhat mushkil ya apni halat ko buhat tough aur mushkil mein sabit kerney ke liye kehtey hein casually..
" yaar.. put yourself in my shoes and then think.. how tough it is! "

iss ka matlab urdu mein simply ye hai ke app meri jagah ho ker socho aur phir batao ke kitna mushkil hai..

your quotation is a very deep and multi subjective addition to this quote.. yani ke before you put yourself in someone else's shoes.. make sure that you know you're safe with it..

urdu mein simply ye baat hai ke kisi ki jagah letey waqt, uss ko apnatey waqt.. uss ki halat ko samajhtey waqt.. uss ka saath deney ke waqt.. uss se qurbat hasil kertey waqt.. uss ko mehsoos kertey waqt.. uss ke kaam atey waqt.. gharz uss ki zindagi mein kisi bhi aspect se kisi bhi tarah se aik hissa bantey waqt ya ban ney se pehley ye zaroor soch lein ke app uss ko jantay hein.. pehchantey hein.. sehi tarah se samajhtey hein.. kahein aisa na ho ke ghalti se app khud ko hurt ker baithain ya uss ka dil dukha baithein.. so kuch bhi aisa kerney se pehley jo ke kisi ki zindagi ko mutasir ker sakta hai kisi bhi sense mein.. app aik baat jaan lein achi tarah se ke kiya app uss shakhs ko pehchantey hein aur kahein app kuch ghalat tu nahi ker rehey ho..

iss se app ko bhi fayida hota hai.. aur uss shakhs ko bhi aur app behter tareekey se uss ki zindagi mein shamil ho saktey hein..

i hope ive made both quotes lucid and clear enough..

nice sharing..

Issay Parh K Mere Zehan MeiN To Yehi Baat Aa Rahi Hai K

JUmma K DiN Masjid K Bahir Se Jootay Chori Hotay HaiN Naa... To Agar Tum Kisi Ka Joota Le Janay K Chakar MeiN Ho To Achi Tarah Pehchaan Lo K Woh KahiN Tumharay Hi Ghar MeiN Se Ya Mohallah K Kisi Fard Ka To Nahi.


KamliJi Ap Kamli hain Itna To Pata Tha Itni Kamli hain Yeh ANdaza nahi Tha. Ap ke likhy huy yeh words perh ker main sara din hansti rahi even soty main bhi yaad agay.
thnx jo bhi ap ne socha
hadeea

Hi
S Eyes
How R U
Kahty hain 50 tak ginti (counting)her kisi ko ati hai even bachy bhi fur fur suna dety hain,asal ginti(counting )start hi 50 ke baad hoti hai.

mujhe buht khushi hui kah ap ko 50 ke baad wali ginti ati hai

ab jo kuch ap ne explain kia hai es main further enhancement ki zarurat nahi hai ap ne buht hi comprehensive reply kia hai mazeed azafa ki zaurat nahi hai.infact mujhe ap ke hi reply ka wait tha ,m sure Kamli ne detailed reply dekh lia hoga ap ka.

yeh line buht ghoor o fiker kerny ke baad likhi thii..

aur pata nahi mujhe esay way main likhna nahi ata shaaid na hi meri batain mery aas paas walon ko samajh ati hain.kher jin ko ajain wo enjoy kerty hain.
buht buht shukerya..
Hadi

Thnx Janab Adnan Sahib

AP ka reply buht acha tha.kafi close tha meri soch ke.
baat yeh thi kah kisi ko follow kerty waqt. kisi ko apnaty waqt pahly achi tarah research ker lia kareen kah baad main ap hurt nahi hoon.
regards

Hi.. am good.. Alhamdullilah.. app kaisee ho?
i appreciate your kind words.. its your sense and depth that creates such nice quotes that you share.. phir hi mujhe moka milta hai ke mein agey chaloun un pe.. so i must say its all your credit.. its a small matchstick that always ignites a fire.. u start it.. and i end it..
ermmm.. yeah.. ofcourse.. i enjoy your talks and sharing as well.. juss keep sharing and ill keep explaining and commenting..
be good aur thori larayi kum kia kero.. :P
tc..
bye!

hain main ladai kerti hoon? mager kiss se? Kamli ko to buht pyar se kamli kaha tha sach to yeh hai kah main khud us se bari kamli hoon
thnx for ur replies

right.. you're welcome!