salam all

kabhi zindagi mai kisi ne dhoka dia hai??
kabhi cheat kia ho bemani ki ho........haq mara ho.............tab kaisa feel hota hai??
dil pe kia guzerti hai??

nhi kisi ny kabhi nhi kiya dhoka or ALLAH na kry k koi aisa kry
or kisi k sath dhoka kurny ki koshish b nhi ki kurna chahon b to nhi kur sukti

dhoka dene k liye bhi jiGra chaye

bara emotional ho k likha hai ... khairiiat ?

ermm......apun emotional types hi hai na khair topic pe baat kero na

main ne kabhi kisi ko dhoka nahein diaa .. since there is no point in doin so - accordin to me- ( haan hurt zaroor kara ho ga .. unintentionally :$)

dhoka milaa zaroor hai .. hurt bhi hoii hoon .. kuch kafi unbelievable the .. kuch xpectedd the .. n to b honest ... these things build on to ur life xpereinces.. i hav learned to b mor strong .. n not let ppl take advantage ov me EVER ..

yeh hai meri kahani :D

Buhat baar dhouka milla hai aur kasmay aisa laga in simple words "Vaat lag gayi meri" ppl have double standards ... main itni achi na bun k kahongi k main ne kabhie kisi ko dhouka nahi dia ... buhat baar dia hai chotey moute tou buhat par baraaaaaaa dhouka k kisi ki vaat lag jaye woh nahi dia

Moral ov the story is:bure experience se bhi kuch acha seekhna chaye jaise u ne likha*

gud gud oye fatti,,,,kafi honest reply hai u ka
haq nai marna chaye bus kisi ka woh gerdan pe ata hai apne hi
aur agar koi haq mare cheat kere.........ALLAH pe chor dena chaye..........apun ki zaat nai k insaf ker saken.....us se behter koi insaf kerne wala nai

honesty nahi yar bus insan ban k rep kia hai ... I dont think k meki abhi itni age hai k main kisi ka haq waq ka koi chakar ho aur jis ne me k saath bura kia I have left it to ALLAH g ... m happy wd my lyf .... insan khud ko kitna b strong kar le n chalak samajh le ya samajhdaar jab vaat lagti hai tou pata b nahi chalta cuz ppl ju dhoka dete hain woh iss technique main master hote hain

khair yeh haq marne wali baat pe apun bohot jazbati ho jata hai isi liye baat lambi ho jayegi..........sahi kaha masterz hote hain

ohh okay ... n really I dont want to b emotional

Dhoka.....Jahan Eeeitbaar huta hey wahin Dhoka huta he....

apun ko kisi pay aitbaar hi nahi hai isi liye dhoka bhi nahi milta

Aisa koi khas dhoka ALLAH ka shuker hai abhi tak to nahi mila ........... aagay bhi na milay KHUDA karay kisi ko bhi

bohat bar mila hai dhoka kionke bharosa bohat baar kia maine logon pe
bharosa bohat jaldi tor dete hain sab, shayad main bhi tor deta hon.
per bharosa tor ke itni jaldi badal jatay hain jese kuch hua hi na ho
pichla sab kuch bhula dete hain.

kuch log dhokay kha ke sambhal jatay hain
kuch log bikher ke reh jatay hain

aur kuch ka kaam hi yahi hota hai roz dhokay khana
aesay logon ka koi hal nahin hai

per

bharosa bhi zaroori hai
magar sab ka nahin karna chahiye.

tanhai ki zabani

sahi jaraha hai bhai

apun ko koi dhoka da gaye aisa koi aya hi nahi hai

apun tu sota bhi aik ankh khol ker hai

apun tu one way road bhi dono taraf dekh ker cross kerta hai

Zindagi Maen AIk Nhai..... bht saray logoun nay yehi kaam keya.... lekin woh baat yaad a jati hay " I m Not Going Through But Growing Through the Difficulties".............. Maen Nay bht bht kuch seekha hay....Logoun say... they all have made me powerful... bcoz now i never depend on the second person for any reason........... I depend On Allah... 1 who never betrays............

nahi filhaal to me kahi nahi jaa rha Allah walayo

Bhai jaan aisay kaam waisay daanaye nahi kehlaatay

tu kya kehlata hain

jo kehlaana chahiye

but ap ko kya chahia?

har pakistani ko aaj kal aata or bijli chahiye

but ap tu bangali hain ap ko kya chahia

Mujhe azaadi chahiye

HMM.........is dunya mien dhokay bazo ki kami nahi hay............. ye dhokay baaz kisi ko jeenay na dien agar Allah hamara saath na day tou...............

kher jee aksar khayein hien dhokay.......... wo ek sher hay k

Kirdaar ki asmat ko ruswa na kia humnay
Dhokay tou bohat khaye magar dhoka na dia humnay


aur bohat ghussa aata hay us waqt jab koi dhoka deta hay............... dil karta hay k ussay jaan say maardu but itna ikhtyar kahan hota hay.......... so Allah par chor deta hun uska maamla

kia tumnay bhi kisi say dhoka khaya ??

Kia baat ki hai

aur haq mara ho kisi ne?

jeenda reh

tumne dia kisi ko dhoka??
aur itna bherosa ya umeden nai palni chayen na k banda chot khaye

wah kia baat ki hai seemi tumne*............

itna dhoka khaya hai tumne k yeh halat hogai

hmmm han kisi ne dhoke se hamara haq mara hai

Haq marey koi tu just yeh soch lo.... kya ham ney Allah ka Haq Ada kiya.... agar nahi tu jisney aap ka mara hey ..... usko maaf kardo...is umeed k saath Allah pak bhi aap k saath yehi mamla kareingey....

kiday kharchay tay?

w/salam

dunya mein har tarah ke log miltay hain ..........iss liyay kai baar aisa ho jata hay ke dosray log faida utha laitay hain aur hum jaisay sada-dil log nuqsan utha beth-tay haiN

jahan tak meri baat hay .....ALLAH ka shukar hay ke meri aisi nature hi nahin hay ........main kisi ke sath cheat karon yeh mera apna dil nahin maanta ........meri nazar mein waqti faiday say ziada asool aur legalities important hain ....aur mera believe hay ke humari qaum us waqt sahi hogi jab har banda apnay taur par in cheezoN ka khyal rakhay ga jo ab afsoos ke sath bohat bohat kam nazar aati hain .......har banda apnay faiday ke liyay jhoot bolna, rules ki dhajyaan urrana bilkul jaayez aur apna haq samajhta hay .......kuch jaga par majboor ho kar main nay bhi aisay kaam kiyay hain leikin woh humaray sarkari iradroN ke ghatya structure aur employees ki kameengi ki waja say huwa .....!!

beherhaal main nay hamesha yehi koshish ki hay ke kisi ki haq-talfi na ho meri waja say aur kisi ko cheat na karon kabhi .....aur rahi baat yeh ke aap ke sath ho to kya feel hota hay to yehi feel hota hay ke humein ullo bana kar kaam nikaal liya hay kisi nay aur jo ghalti ho jayay us say aagay seekhna chahiyay aur muhtaat rehna chahiyay

ye topic maine shuru kiya tha kuch maah pehle

to kya copyright hai tumharay pass is kaa

haan hai

diya bhi hoga... kahaya bhi hai.... magar yaar zindagi ko roka nahi... aaj bhi woh log miltay hain to koi gila shikwa nahi... life is too short... agay barhna hai rukna nahi

to case kar do naa topic starter per mera dimagh kyun kha rhi ho

DHOKA

Keisa feel hua ???

• Shock, disbelief and numbness

• denial (hiding away from the truth that has emerged)

• Anger and hurt

• Unhappiness and sadness

• Panic and Anxiety

• Tiredness

• Depression.

• Loss of confidence

• No self-worth

The self-esteem, self confidence and self-worth is temporarily depleted during times of betrayal. It is hard to value and love yourself when someone has betrayed you!

betrayal is inevitable... but we can only be affected by such when we expect too much...
Expect nothing. That usually avoids feeling betrayed.

I Also think you have to see the other person's perspective. If they are just evil, let them go and never look back. Otherwise, I guarantee they had some hard core self rationalization about their behavior.

I have never betrayed anyone and never would, because I know what it has done to me and I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy.