Dear members,
Aadaab-o-tasleemat,

Mohatarm janab-e-Abu Adnan SaaHeb ke share karda mazmoon "Walidain aur Aulad' ke ta'aluqaat " ko paRhne ke ba'ad ek khayal zehn meN aaya keh kyoN nah iss topic par ek macbat beHec kee jaanee chahiye. Keh aakhir voh kyaa vajohaat heN keh jinkee bina par aaj ke walaiden apnee aulaad aur aulaad apne walaiden se nakhush heN.

bachche apna hamdard ghar se bahar talaash karte heN aur waliden se unke ravayooN kee vajah se khafa rehte heN aur doosree taraf walaiden apnee aulaad ke nafarmaan honee kee shikayat har doosre shaks se karte hoove nazar aate heN.

maiN iss silsile meN apnee aara bhi pesh karooNgii lekin sab se pahle aap sab kee aara jaanna chahatee hooN.

iss laRee meN HiSSah zaroor leejiye gaa takeh agar koyii rah se bhaTak gaya hai tu use apna aHtsaab karne ka mauqa mil sake.

Wassalam

Zahida Raees :Raji:

Very nice topic Raji

bachon ki tawajja duniyawi khuwahishaat per ziada hojati hayn Environmental effect bhi parhta hay hay woh bachey jike parents unki khuwahishaat poori nahi kerpatey woh dosrey logon may ziada dilchaspi letey hain

Parents k barey may no comments

Very nice topic Raji

bachon ki tawajja duniyawi khuwahishaat per ziada hojati hayn Environmental effect bhi parhta hay hay woh bachey jike parents unki khuwahishaat poori nahi kerpatey woh dosrey logon may ziada dilchaspi letey hain

Parents k barey may no comments

Al-Irhab jee:

PurkhulooS tasleemaat,

aap ke khat ko daikh kar khushii hoovii. verna mujhe tu yooN meHsoos hoova tha keh iss laRee yaa iss topic meN HC ke members ko koyii dilchaspii naheeN.

aap ka mushaida bhi durusth hai keh Environmental effects ne bachooN kee tawajja duniyawii khwahishaat kee janib mabzol kara diya hai aur isee vajah se voh doosrey logoN meN ziyadah dilchaspii laite heN.

lekin agar maiN apnee analysis aur tajarbah discuss karooN tu iss kee sab se baRee vajah tarbiyat ka fuqdaan hai.

bache kee pahlee dars-ghah uss ka ghar hai. agar ghar ke logoN meN apne Haal par sabr-o-shukr karna ho gaa aur bache kee nafsiyaat ko samajhte hoove training dee jaye gii tu na-mumkin hai keh bache dunyavii dunya kee taraf maHil hooN.


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maiN yahaN par apne atraaf meN maiN maujood 3 gharanooN ko discuss karooNgii. jo ek hee khaandaan se ta'aluq rakhte heN. lekin ek doosre se mukhtalif tarz-e-zindagi guzaarte heN aur kayii saalooN se guzaar rahe heN.

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pahla khandaan mua'shee e'itbaar se bohat strong hai. bachooN kee zarooriyaat se ziyadah unheN provide kiya gaya. unkee choTee choTee ghalatiyoN ko ignore kiya gaya aur kisee kee himaat naheiN keh unke bachooN ko kuch ghalat kartaa daikh kar Tok sake. ek taraf walaiden ke social activities baRhe aur doosree taraf bachoN ke.
Halaat-e-rozgaar badle bhi tu bachooN kee fitrat nah badlee aur nateejatann un meN chiRchiRapan aur be-jaa zidd karna aa gaya.
taleem se adam dilchaspee aur mann maani kane kee a'adat ne unheN gumrah kar diya.

doosree family bhi mua'shee taur par ziyadah up & down situation meN rahe lekin unhooN ne apne bachooN ko bohat behtar Halaat meN bhi bila-zaroorat ikhraajaat karne naheeN diya. aazaadi daine ke bawajood bachooN kee time scheduling aur activities par mukamal nazar rakhe rahe.
go ke ghar se bahir ke Halaat ke acraat inke bachooN par bhi waqtann fa-waqtann aate rahe lekin walaiden ne unkee mizaaj shanasii karte hoovee uss acar ko apne oopar t^aaree kane naheeN diya.
parents kee social activies se ziyadah bachooN ko time diya gaya.


teesra khandaan bhi financilly bohat stong hai bache behtreen schools meN zer-e-taleem heN.
bachooN ko ghar se bahir jaanee kee bilkul ijaazat naheeN yeh. har sahoolat ghar pe provided hai.

school, tution, madraseh ka shedule itnaa tough hai keh bache khail khood ke liye waqt naheeN nikaal paate.

khatoon-e-khana ke bad-mizaaj hone kee vajah se ghar pe kaam karne waalooN kee chuTee kar dee gayii hai aur subha uTh kar bachoN ke liye naashtaa banane kee voh zehmat naheeN karteeN.
refrigerator meN jo milta hai kha laite heN.
walida kudh subha ke 11 baje naashtaa kartee heN so unheN eHsaas hee naheeN hai keh subha 7:00 baje nikle hoovee bache dopahr ke 2:00 baje takk bhooke hooNge.

kabhi school ke bahir khaRe Taile vaaloN se yaa school canteen se khareed kar khaa laite heN tu kabhi apnee chachii aur tahee ke ghar pouNchte heN keh "kyaa pakaya hai hameN bhook lagee hai so de deiN"
aise bache apne doust har soorat ghar se bahir dhooNdte heN aur walaiden ne chahe unke liye apnee dunya hee kyoN nah luTayii ho koii farq naheeN paRtaa.
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khandaan # 1 aur 3 aate jaate khandaan #2 ke bachooN ko sarhate heN keh voh bohat farmaNbardaar aur active heN.
aur khandaan #1 ke walaiden ko shikyat hai keh bachooN ko hazaar sahooliyaat provide karne ke bawajood bache unkee naheeN sunte aur apne career barbaad kar chuke heN.
khandaan # 3 ke bache aapas meN be-wajah laRte heN aur unmeN eitmaad kee kamii hai.

inn teen micalooN ko share karne ka maqsad sirf yeh hai keh andaaza ho sake ke agar inn 3oN khandaanooN ka mavaazna kiyaa jaye tu jis khandaan ke walaiden ne apne bachooN ke bachpan meN unheN time diya aur unkee tarbiiyat ko foqiyat dee voh aaj bohat kamyaab heN.

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chonkey meri sonch itni nahi hay k may in sab baaton ko samujh ker aik strong reply de sakon lekin jitni baatin aap ney kahin hain no doubt is kari may yahin khalal aata hay


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