Students' Dilemma

What should i do ? That's a queation that would be in every student's mind like me who has recieved his results. The first reason is that most of the students have not planned their future and second they do not have any career development institution which may help them.
Then another thing is the parents factor, which forces a student to choose field such as medicine or engineering without checking their children's ability or inclination. I'm very angry from this system really can't choice any field. now I'm getting instructions of all fields to get a way of my education.

And if students cannot obtain standard education, then we will lose the chance of shaping our future.

Thats truie adeel ..u have started a good topic here'.

I m in total agreement to u dear .. actually the problem lives there in the system .. n one more thing that plays is d kinda atmosphere that u have around which counts on family and its background, gathering of frndz.. key how well equipped are our frndz that how much are they conscious about there future bcos sometimes when u r not getting exposure wid d family it is peer group that might lead u to some kinda good way out..
but yes one more thing.. even we students today are not making ourselves aware of all d developments round d globe which u can lay ur hands via net , newspapers, periodicals, supplements...but one more thing as you said of parents.. so i would sey key where parents are not so litterate u can not expect them to play best and just! and also if they r so .. they can help u find ways sure .., and about the attitude that they force students ...aaa..i would say key i am not if full agreement here .. bcos it depends how u tackle it all.. certainly if we shine more in one field .. they wont force us then .. but yes at the same time .. there r some parents who do so.. to uskey liye there is alwayz a way out no doubt!
.... yes you have rightly given d name dilemma bcos students have hidden talents which they can not discover infact one who says key knows himself or herself very well is not so correct in saying so...
but what is needed very much is this that u sow in time n reap d best in d best way....approach should be scientific n make use of all the things that are available to u... bcos it is one's art that how well u put things in places !

i wil keep visiting this thread its very interesting .. infact i wud like ppl to share their experiences... i wud come back with mine later ...

take care
ALLAH HAFIZ
FIAMANILLAH'
tabassum'

Well main jo kehny ja rahi hon woh shayed aap k topic sy relate na hoo
But phir bhii ...
Dekha yeh gaya hai k jiss chez ka trend chal nikal,jis firld ki demand ho students andha dhun us ki taraf bhagna shoru kerdty hain . Woh yeh nahi dekhty k un main kitni ability hai k us field main Woh kya ker saktyhain bas yeh zehan main hota hai k is ki demand hai bas yehi kerna hai jesy aap ny abhi CA ki baat ki chand saal pehly jesy dekhi IT IT pukar raha tha ...
Aksr loG Job Na milny ki unempolyment ki shekayet karty hain buhat naraz nazer atyhain coz of their unempolyment Shayed is ki Waja Yeh bhi hai k hamary pass correct figures nahi hai k kis field main kitny empolyees appoint kerny Hain ...
Ab aap khud he batao k jab (for suppose ) kisi field main empolyee ki capacity 5000 Hai Aur student Us field ki demand ko dekhty hue 10000 students get education of thiz field .... Soo How can they get the job
I think reduction in unemployment it must be should that we have to collecet figures that how much student geting eduction of which field... And which possibilties of job they'll get .... Aur agr govt. already collect thiz kinda figures they should make apporach of a common people to it and guide them...

Come on yaar, there's no studentship and no system arrightt...!
plannings about anything prior to the time do not work...i can bet on it...!
and try to give your best shot at the time of action...!
instead of juss to keep on planning and planning and doin nuthin...!
the first step is to just get all the info you need about the fields you are interested in, rightt...once you've got that...just sit down for a while and think about your interest and whats your capabilities...believe me, you'll come up with a choice in the end...just knock your parents bedroom door and tell them that ive decided...its all i am going to do...thats it...! no counselor aur person knows you better then yourself...and tel you what...even its like journlism that you like or anything else maybe..juss go for it man...dont think about its scope...there's always a question mark left unanswered in every field..so for that, chances are always there...right buddy...!now you should know better on how to shape your future and its no other persons right to inflict anything on you except you...just be mature enough to just pave your own path now...instead of hanging around for help...believe me...the many are the mouths, the many are the opinions...all you'll get is confusion...!
good luck man...!

Its mEan terrOr

naam kisi ki pehchaan nahi hoti bulkey us k kirdaar sey us k pechaan hoti hay


ab jesey aap ka naam tabassum hay is per yeh zarori thori hay k aap k chahrey per humesha tabassum hi ho

aur ji aaj kal tussi konsi gunnah may involve ho

poocha zara muskil alfaaZon may tha k aap aaj kal kin kamon may masroof hain

yeah i meant sin