salam to all of u!


mein aaplogon sey yeh poochney jaa rahi hun k.....

aap logon k kheyal sey arrange marriage achi hai

ya phir love marriage...... aur views bhi bataiey

Wa Leikum salam...

Ye aisa topic hai... iss per jitni bi discussion ker lain

dono sides hi sehi lagtee hain

aur risks be dono sides meen hi hotay hain...

So i cant choose one...

so kainat aap nein choose to kar hee diya....

jabb hun confuse ho jaein aur koi faisla na kar sakein

to phir humm issey parents par hee chor detey hein

k woh jo faisla karein wohi theek hoga.....

right naaa?

Jee

ye mushkil kaam hai... parents achi terha ker sakty hain

baqi marriage meen tu risk hotay hi hain, jaisy maine pehle bi kaha tha

aaahaaaaan........Right

nahi yaar arrange marriege bouhat achi rehti hai..sab ki raza mandi bhi hoti hai aur duaen bhi..
love marriege kar to lete hain log per wo ziada tar kamyab nahin hoti kyun k pyar karna to asaan hai per use nibhana bouhat mushkil hai..is lie har kisi k bas ki bat nahin hai..
arrange marriege bouhat achi rehti hai..

FI AMANULLAH..

Arranged Marriage honi chahiye

agar LOVE ho bhi jaye to marriage ARRANGE kar leni chahiye

simple

Hmmm agar muasharay ko mad'e nazar rakha jai to arrange marriage hi honi chahiye, kio kay muashara jeenay nahi deta. Hayi na ajeeb baat, zindagi ho apki aur jeey koi aur

Aur agar deen ki baat ki jai to 'kabool hay' may kahin bhi zoar zabardasti nazar nahi atti phir bhi ho rahi hay kio kay hamari muashiat kurbani ka dars deti hay

I think there must be arranged with love marriage.

Because our religion also supports this thing that there must be arranged marriage but the persons marrying can see each others....

So, I think this is better.

Ji Shadi
Arranged is the best
Love mairage is the best

Dono Sooratoo'n mai Maa'n baap ki Marzi Shamil honi chahiyeh
Aur Dulha Dulhan ki bhi poori marzi shamil honi chahiyeh

Yani k Arranged mai love ... aur love mai arrangment zaroori haiy

Marrige always parents ki approval say hi honi chahiyay yani arrange.
Aur yay aap per khud depend kerta hai k life ko loving or relax banaain.

eemm..pata nahin

waisey..i agree with KJ....(KamlaJatt)


n kinno sis.!!

aur abhi baqiyun ka parha nahin jab parhungee to batadungee

aap nein yeh baat bohat achi boli k.......

arrange marriage mein duaein milti hein.......

yehi baat hai k love marriage successfull nahin ho patti.....

kun k duaein humari kismat ko badal detti hein....



hmmmmmm

achi baat ki aap nein.....




hmmmmm.........

waisey jahan takk parents ki marzi hai woh to theek hai

laikin yeh log kahan sey aagaey bich mein...

jinsey aapka koi rishta hai.....unn k liye sacrifice to theek hai

par logon k liye sacrifice ......




kia aap k kehney ka mtlab hai peyar ko manwa lena......




hmmmmmmmm..........


bohat acha kaha aap nein agar love marriage
parents ki marzi sey ho jaey.........to best hai


laikin agar arrange marriage ho.....to ussey peyar sey guzarein






Mujhey pata hai aap kia bataein gee

kya..!!

Assalam-o-ALaikum

Faisla.to.taqreeban.ho.hi.gaya ....Mera.vote.bhi.Arrange.Marriage.ki.taraf.hi.hai

Thanku so much....


aap sab logon nein bohat achey views diye!

Wohi jo sabb nein kaha.....

Logoon say meri muraad rishtaydar hi hain jo is nakas muasharay ka hisa hain. Waldain chah kar bhi koi kadam is liye nahi uthatay kion kay rehna to unho nay isi muashray may hain na.... the bottom line is '' LOOG KIA KAHAIN GAY''...

hmmmmmmm.......Right!

naah...mere jawab to humesha hi alag hote hein aapko to pata hi henaa

Ji theek kaha ap ne Hc per aa kar mujhey bhi buhat maloomat milti ahina ur different views bhi pata chaltey hain jis ne kaafi kuch seekhney ko milta hai

Jahan Parents kahein waha kar leni chahiye.....

hum dunya ka koi bhi new kaam start karnay say pahlay oss kaam k expert / seniors say mashwarah zaroor kartay haiN... aur aksar auqaat onkay qeemti mash.warouN / instruction k motabiq hi woh kaam kartay haiN....... aur agar oss field k expert nah bhi milaiN to apnay khair khahouN / baRouN say mashwarah zaroor kartay haiN....

kia shadi jaisay aham tareen aur zindagi bhar tak moheet rahnay wali activity k liyeh hum apnay baRouN, sab say zeyadah khair khaah, aur shadi ka zaati o moshaahdaati tajarbah rakhnay walay "parents" ki roy, tahnomayee, hadayaat ko motalaqan nazar andaaz karkay shadi ki naakaami ka bahoot baRa khatrah mol naheeN letay.........

wazah rahay k shadi bazatay khud aik bahoot risky kaam hai...... aur agar koi laRki yeh kaam apnay parents ki mansha / info k beghair oThaye to risk hazaar gona baRh jata hai. aur iss tarah woh apni qudrati parental shelter /backing / support say bhi mahroom hojati hai.

maiN yeh hargiz naheeN kah raha k parents youngsters ki shadi onki marzi k khelaaf karaiN....... nah hi laRkay / laRkiyaaN apni shadi khud karnay baiTh jayaiN.... yeh baham afhaam o tafheem / disscussion say ki jaye. har 2 groupo ki razamandi zaroori hai. albatta dounouN ki baham razamandi nah honay ki soorat maiN aik muslim family ki shaan yeh hai k parents ki baat ko bala dasti hasil ho...... iss tarahnah dunya kharaab hogi nah aakhraat....... aur maaN k qadmoun talay to jannat hai ... koi muslim laRka yaa laRki... aik ajnabi mahboob / mahbooba ki khatir apni jannat ko kaisay Thukra sakta / sakti hai.

yes........

aap ke "bhashan" .....

hamaray liye " Mashal e Raah " hain !!



Plus aap ke "bhashan" parh parh ker meri urdu bohat achi ho gayee hai

dono hee compromise pey based hotee hain.love mein apney liye compromise kerna perta hey aur arranged mein family k liye.to koyee farq naheen perta love ho ya arranged.end result aik hee hey .....compromise

Agar Yeah soch liya jaye ke arrange marriage ke baad apney life partner se hi love kerna hey tu iss main kya burai hey ???

Oh Haaan............

to phir abhi tak diya kyun nahin?



Woh to hai




hmmmmmm.............




Thank you so MuCH.......

Aap bohat Achi baatein kartey hein....

laikin bohat mushkil......

Waisey compromise to har rishtey mein hota hai

iss mein bhi hai.......to aapkia yeh soch hai hai

k yeh sab compromise pey depend karta hai......

laikin iska to koi aetbar nahin......k kab yeh hum sey na ho

to phir kia ho......




hmmmmm............yeh bhi theek hai [/font]

diya nahin yeh bhi to alag bat he na