Assalam Aleikum !!

BaRay Bachoo ... Khanay ke Adaab share karoo

Maine Note kya hai bachay jaisay jaisay baRay hottay jattay hain
Khanay ke Adaab bholtay jattay hain...

sab se pehla tu




* Khana khanay se pehle BISMILLAH perhna

agar bhool jain tu jab yaad ayay tu " BISMILLAH-e- Awaloo wa Akhir" perhna

khanay ke baad " AlhamuLillah-hIlla zee Attuamana Wasa Qaana Waja-alna Minal-Muslemeen" ya koi bhi khanay ke baad ki dua perhna

* Khana khatay waqat baatain na karain
khaas toor pe jab khanay ke cheez moonh meen ho tu bilkul na boolain

masha Allah ... kia khoob yaad delaya ... Jazak Allah kainat... kuch ezafah karouN kia:

1. khaanay say pahlay haath mouNh achchi tarah dholaiN ... khaas baat yeh qabl az to'aam haath mouNh dho kar nah to Towel use karaiN nah tissue ... blkay khas taur say iss baat ka khayaal rakhaiN k haath dhonay k baad, dholay howay haath say gandi ashya nah pakraiN ... jaisay bath ka darwaza / lock / handle etc. (yeh sab jaraseem say bharay hotay haiN).

2. khanay k baad hath dhonay ki soorat maiN issay towel / tissue say khushk kar saktay haiN.

3. khanay say pahlay brush karna afzal hai ... aur baad maiN bhi karlena chhaiyeh... bilkhasoos raat k khanay k baad ... sobah break fast say qabl to sab hi kartay haiN.

4. khana khanay k amal ko mokammal protocol daiN... ghar nmain agar khaa rahay houN to sab mil kar khayaiN aur itminaan say khayaiN... jaldi jaldi khana khana sehat k liyeh mozir hai.

5. khaana khanay k fauran baad pani / drinks peenay say parhaiz karaiN.... kjhana bahoot garm garm nah khayaiN... aur nah hi khanay ko phooNk kar ThanDa karaiN...

ab koi aur ezafah karay plz

Hmmm interesting post Kaninat

Ji to table manners may mudarja zail ka khiyal rakha jata hay:

1. Wash your hands
2. Your utensils should not make noise while in use
3. Keep your mouth closed while chewing food
4. Don't mess around your plate
5. Get use to using a napkin
6. Put your chair back in place once you are done with your food
7. Wash your hands again

Lo jee Adnan bhai ne aur Shokh ne itni Wazahet say sab kuch bata diya hai ke main nahi samajta aur kisi ke kuch kehnay ko bacha hai ........... Ah0o0

Haan aik baat .......... Khana khate hoye yeh koshish karni chahiye ke batain na hoon ....... Ah0o0

Shukriya AA bhai

Shukriya shohk jee

aap ke Addition ka... Yaad-dehani ho gaye




Jee abhi bhi bohat se points ho saktay hain
soochain aur aa ker share karain....

khana khatay waqat jo boltay hain un se tu muje bhi bohat uljhan aur gussa atta hai

mein 1 Add kerrahi hun. Baqi to sab ne bata hi diye

'Khana Khate waqt Television nahin dekhna chahiye kyun k phir sara di'haan T.V per hi hota he or khana thanda hojata he is lye khana khate waqt tv ko band kerdena chahiye'

khana khatay waqt akhbaar resalay bhi naheeN paRhna chahiyeh

PS: lekin 'lateefah' yeh hai k hamaray ghar maiN sab hi TV khol kar khana khatay haiN aur hamari paRhakoo beTy to khana khatay waqt bayak waqt TV bhi dekh rahi hoti hai ... aur akhbar /book bhi paRh rahi hoti hai

Tv band hona chahyee ye tu sab hi kehtay hain

Lekin aap ke beti ke terha.. maine notice kya hai dunya ke ziada Loog/ aur europe meen bi.. khana shuru hi tab kertay hain jab tak akhbar ya book khool ker na rakh lain

* Khana ( plate meen) hamesha apni taraf se khain...

* Haesha thori si bhook bacha deen, peet bhar ker na khain....

+ khane ko achi tarah se chew karein or jab 1 niwala aap k mun mein ho to roti ki taraf hath tak na barayein. woh khatam hojaye to hi dosra niwala mun mein dalein

wa alaikum salaam
accha topic hai Kainat

acche points share kiye sub ne.
kahan khaate waqt tv dekhna ya apni tawajjoh kisi aur taraf mabzool karna na jaane kyun rizq ki be adabi lagta hai.

Shukriya and thanks for participating jee..

Jee sehi keh rahi hain..
aik tu be-adbi ho jatti hai
doosrakhana sehi terha se khaya nahi jata speed teiz ,kam hotti jatti hai

exactly,yahi to be adabi mein daakhil ho gaya ke poori tawajjo khaane ko naheen de rahe hain.kabhi kabhi itni be tawajjohi ho jaati hai ke logon ka haath plate mein padne ke bajaaye table par padta hai.

khana lagtay sath hi shuroo kerdaina chahiyaya,,,khanay ko app ka intazaarnahi hona chahiyaya...
khnana khatay waqt aik taang(leg) kharee rakhnee chahiyay..is k liyaya zayada behter hay k khana neechay baith k khain ...

Shukriya gulmehak ... points add kerne ka


iss ke Ilawa khiyal rakhna chayee .. pani hamesha beth ker aur saans le ker peyain !!!

Oh.........................

hum to sabb aisa kartey hein......
jabtak TV on na ho khana masarup nahin lagta

aur khas baat jab intersting channel na ho tab to bilkul bhi nahin

aisa anhin ekrte dear

Haan dekhoo.. aap ko Appa samjha Rahee hai

acha.......... pehley kiun nahin bataya



aapaa


kabhi kabhi chotey bhi achi baat bata detey hein

haan jee bilkul

aur jo achi baat batayee wo appa hi hui na

aapne poocha kab

Oopsss.....woh to mein bhool gaee


abb kia hoga

Masha Allah .. buhat umdah topic hai ..
hum apne naqis ilm se kuch izafa karney ki koshish kartey hain ..

(*) jis qadar mumkin ho table aur spoon waghera se avoid karna chahiye aur dastarkhwan per khana chahiye k yeh hamarey Rasool-e-Maqbool Sallalahu Alaihi Wasallam ka mubarak tareeqa hai .. aur khair-o-barkat ka sabab hai ..

(*) akeley khaney ki banisbat sab k sath khaney ko foqiyat deni chahiye .. sath khaney se khaney main barkat hoti hai ..

(*) Dastarkhuwan per sab k sath khatey hoye khaney k aadaab main in baaton ka khayal rakhein k jo cheiz aap k samney ho usi per qana`at karein .. uchak uchak kar aur uchal uchal kar aagey ki chizon per hath na marein .. aur dosron ka ikraam karein .. khana kam honey ki sorat main khud kam khaein aur dosron ko ziyada khaney ka moqa dein ..

(*) khana khatey hoye bethney ki teen sortein janab-e-Rasoolullah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam se manqool hain ..
1. namaz ki haalat main jaisey betha jata hai waisey beth k khaya jaye ..
2. namaz ki haalat main jaisey betha jata hai waisey ek pair mura ho aur ek pair guthnon se morh kar khara kar liya jaye ..
3. dono pairon k talwon per betha jaye .. aisey k dono pair guthnon se murhey hoye hon ..

(*) khaney se pehley paani peena Shafa hai .. khaney k darmiyan paani peena Dawa hai .. aur khaney k baad Paani peena Waba hai .. (is se ek lateefa yaad aya sunaein ge kabhi)

[ ek baat yeh arz hai k khaney k doraan baat na karna saabit nahi hai .. waisey to theek hai baat na karein laikin isey sunnat nahi samajhna chahiye ]
Wallahu Aalam Bissawaab

SubhanAllah... Khalifa
bohat acha addition..

( aap ke HC per anay ka sehi faida aaj nazar aya )

bohat valid points hain...
aur mazay ka point hai

uchak uchak kar aur uchal uchal kar aagey ki chizon per hath na marein ..

waqee aisa hota hai

bari nawazish k aap ne aajiz ki haqeer si koshish ko siraha aur is se ittafaq kia

(hamein apni tabiyat k topics miltey rahey to Insha Allah ap ko fawaid nazar atey rahein ge)

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khaney se mutalliq hamarey bhai ne ek martaba kuch aisi batein batai thein jinhein sun kar hum angusht bindandaan reh gaye they .. ap ko un hi ki zabani bayan kartey hain ..

ek martaba ek dawat main sab log dastarkhuwan per bethey khana kha rahey they .. qareeb main kuch madaaris k taalib-e-ilm bethey hoye they .. un main se ek jo k ghaliban akhri saal (aalim banney k liye 8 saal darkaar hotey hain) k talib-e-ilm they hamarey paas aa gaye .. merey ek dost se un ki achi salam dua thi ..
baton baton main unhon ne kaha "agar khana khatey hoye hamarey dil main is baat ka yaqeen ho k yeh khana hamari bhook mitaye ga to is ka matlab hai k hum khaney ko Allah ki zaat ka shareek bana rahey hain .. aur shirk k murtakib ho rahey hain" kisi ne pocha k "yeh kaisi baat hui ? khana nahi khaein ge to bhook kaisey khatam ho gi" kehney lagey "hamara Emaan hai k Allah hi har haajat ko pura karney waley hain .. chahein to baghair asbaab (khana, pani etc.) k pora kar dein, na chahein to yeh asbaab bekaar hain" .. phir kisi ne sawal kia k "aisi soorat main kia kia jaye" .. to farmaney lagey "apna muhasba karo .. jab khaney ki talb ho to dil se pocho kia pareshani hai .. jawab miley ga bhook lagi hai .. pocho kaisey khatam ho gi .. jawab miley ga khaney se .. dil ki is baat ki sakhti se nafi (inkaar) karo .. nahi bhook khaney se nahi mitey gi .. bhook Allah k hukum se khatam ho gi .. agar dil phir kahey khaney se to phir yahi samjhao .. akhir jab dil yeh pochey k Allah ka bhook k liye kia hukum hai .. to kaho k bhook ki haajat ko pora karney k liye Allah ka hukum hai k khana khao .. is niyat k sath khana khaya jaye k yeh Allah ka hukum hai to khana bhi ibadat ban jata hai"

wo tu shukar hai ke Khalifa:)-- ne hamari baaton ko mind nahi kya

waisy hamari pehle se salam dua hai
iss liye itna frankly keh diya..

aji hamari kia majaal hai k aap ki kisi baat per khafa hon

waisey to hum baron ka adab hamesha hi malhooz-e-khatir rakhtey hain .. laikin jin se talluq hota hai un ki baton per hargiz bura nahi manatey

aur hum bhi chahtay hain ke aap ke knowledge se ziada se
ziada loog seekhain

plz aap HC per share kertay rahain!!




Mujhe yaqeen tha

aur aapne jo joke share kya mazay ke baat hai

arey
main ne joke kab share kia
last post main jo baat thi k "khana ibadat ban jaye ga" woh to buhat hikmat ki baat thi .. shayad ap kisi aur joke ka zikar kar rahi thein .. chaliye ab zikar aa hi gia to hum jo share bhi kar detey hain ..

buhar arsa qabl jab hum madarsey main parhtey they .. to mufti sahab ne yeh baat batai thi "khaney se pehley pani peena shafa hai .. khaney k darmiyan paani peena dawa hai aur khaney k baad paani peena waba hai" us k baad unhon ne kaha laikin bhii yeh baat aam admiyon k liye hai .. har kisi k liye nahi .. phir yeh lateefa sunaya ..

ek gaon (village) k zameendaar ne ilaaj k silsiley main ek hakeem sahab ko bulwaya aur kuch din k liye wahan rok liya .. gaon main sab log pathan they .. ek din hakeem sahab bahar nikley to dekha ek Khan Sahab Tandoor waley apney tandoor k paas beth k khana kha rahey hain .. Hakeem sahab qareeb hi beth gaye aur un k dekhtey hi dekhtey Khan sahab das (10) rotiyan khaa gaye .. phir ek barey se piyaley main lassi bhari hui thi woh bhi ghat ghat kar k pee gaye.. hakeem sahab jaldi se Khan Sahab k paas gaye aur kaha "yeh aap ne kia kiya, khaney k baad paani pee liya .. yeh to nuqsan karta hai"

Khan Sahab ne kaha "pir (phir) kia karey ?"

Hakeem sahab ne kaha, "bhii ya to khaney se pehley pani pina chahiye .. ya khaney k beech main"

Khan Sahab ne yeh sun kar aawaz lagai "wa-laka aseera las rotai rawada zarkawa (oye Naseer 10 rotiyan lao jaldi karo)"

phir khan sahab ne 10 mazeed rotiyan khaa lein aur hakeem sahab se "pocha abi teek hai ? bich main ho gia"

aur Hakeem Sahab hawannaq ki tarha us ki shakal dekhtey reh gaye

ye bhi mazzay ka hai...

ab joke nahi kahoon gee

[font=Arial Black][size=3]I ALSO WANNA ADD SOME POINTS.

1)JAB AAP ROTY KHAIEN TO USAY APNAY RIGHTHAND SIDE PER RAKHAIN.
2)AGAR KHANA PASAND NA AY TO USKI BURAYEE HARGIZ NA KARAIN.
3)KOSHISH KARAIN K DASTERKHWAN PAR MOJOD HAR CHEAZ KHAIN KU K YEH ALLAH KA BANAYA HUA RIZQ HAY.
4)SIR DHANK KAR KHANA AUR PEENA CHAHEAY.
5)MOSTLY FRNDS NAY KAHA K KHANA KHATAY HOAY BAT NA KARAIN..I DONT AGREE WITH DIS.KHANA KHUSHGAWAR MAHOL MAY KHANA CHAHEAY HALKI PHULKY BAT CHEAT KI JASAKTY HAY HAN LEKIN JAB NIVALA MUN MAY HO TO NA BOLAIN.
6)PLATE SAF KAR K KHAIN.
7)DASTER KHWAN PER KUCH GIR JAY TO USAY UTHA KAR KHALAIN



OK GUYS BEST OF LUCK N ALLAH HAFIZ

bahoot achi baatien share ki hien sab nay.........

shukriya shukriya