Asslamu alaikum
Let me introduce you to an islamic rule about marriages.
(in urdu)
agar aik larke or larki ki shadi un kay jawan hote hi kar di jaye to society say half buraiyan khatam ho sakti hain. Like as soon as some person becomes able to get married , for boys this age is normally 16 to 18 and girls 13 to 16, their parents should arrange their marriage.
In the present days we see everywhere the germs for lust and sexual frustration. It is a natural fact that a man feels attraction for a woman and vice versa. Now a days when a young man/woman , due to the laws of naturre, can't control their emotions then they indulge in sub-standard activites. BUT if a man / woman is married on their blossoming age, when controlling emotions is most difficult, then they already have some spouse to quench their thirst. So they will not try to indulge in sub-standard activites outside the home.
Yai Islam ka aik golden rule hai or is ko na apnane ki waja say society kharab hoti ja rahi hai. International media or internet kay farogh nay jalti par tail ka kaam kiya hai.. So what do you people think about it.
Full Version: Rule About Marriages
QUOTE(silenteyes @ Sep 5 2006, 09:41 PM) [snapback]2176385[/snapback]
Yai Islam ka aik golden rule hai or is ko na apnane ki waja say society kharab hoti ja rahi hai. International media or internet kay farogh nay jalti par tail ka kaam kiya hai.. So what do you people think about it.
eak hasas mozoo..
log kehtay haiN haiN kay puranay waqtooN maiN itni fahashi aur ikhlaqi gaRawaT nahi thee jitni kay aaj kal hay. agr ham ghor karaiN tu puranay waqtooN maiN almost issi agr maiN shadiyaaN ho jaya kerteeN theeN. balkay Dada aur potay key umr wohi farq hota tha ju aaj kal baap aur beTay key umr maiN hay.
dosra sab say baRa faida yeh tha kay Khandani Nizaam mazboot hi rehta tha, aur anay wali nisbatan asaani say naye gher maiN settle ho jaya kerti thee.
Let see kay iss age maiN shadiyooN kay khilaaf koun koun hay.
QUOTE(silenteyes @ Sep 5 2006, 11:41 PM) [snapback]2176385[/snapback]
Asslamu alaikum
Let me introduce you to an islamic rule about marriages.
(in urdu)
agar aik larke or larki ki shadi un kay jawan hote hi kar di jaye to society say half buraiyan khatam ho sakti hain. Like as soon as some person becomes able to get married , for boys this age is normally 16 to 18 and girls 13 to 16, their parents should arrange their marriage.
In the present days we see everywhere the germs for lust and sexual frustration. It is a natural fact that a man feels attraction for a woman and vice versa. Now a days when a young man/woman , due to the laws of naturre, can't control their emotions then they indulge in sub-standard activites. BUT if a man / woman is married on their blossoming age, when controlling emotions is most difficult, then they already have some spouse to quench their thirst. So they will not try to indulge in sub-standard activites outside the home.
Yai Islam ka aik golden rule hai or is ko na apnane ki waja say society kharab hoti ja rahi hai. International media or internet kay farogh nay jalti par tail ka kaam kiya hai.. So what do you people think about it.
teri awaaz makkay aur madeenay
islam to jawan hotay hi shadi ko encourage karta hi hai.... awaailay jawani maiN shadi k mo'aa'sharti etnay fazail haiN k iska shumaar naheeN jaisay....
1. aisee shadi bil.amoom totally parents par 'dependant' hoti hai. onki marzi aur sponsorship say hoti hai. shadi shudah joray k dounouN parents active (not retired) hotay haiN jinki sarparasti, hadayat say aisee shadi ki naa.kaami ka imkaan nah honay k barabar hota hai.
2. jin 'parents' ki shadi awaa'il jawani maiN hoti hai woh apnay bachchouN k jawaan honay tak khud booRhay aur retired naheeN hotay k jawaan aulaad haath say nikal jaye yaa bigaR jaye. aisay parents retirements say qabl hi apnay bachchouN ki jumla zimmah daariyouN say bhi esily ohda bar aa hojatay haiN. ba nisbat onn boRhay waledain k jinki aulaad jawaan aur apnay paa'ouN par khaRi ho aur parents retired houN....
3. naujawaan ki agar jald shadi hojaye to aik to woh ekhlaqi boraiyyouN say buch jata hai, dossray bahood jald zimmah daar hota hai. 20 baras ka naujawan agar aik adad biwi aur 2/3 bachchouN ka baap ho to iski saari tawanaayee apni family ki support aur bhalayee per sarf honay lagti hai aur aisa naujawaan society maiN kissi bhi qism k evil cause k liyeh dastyaab hi naheeN hota..... aadaad o shumar say pata chalta hai k socviety maiN manfi kaarwaayee karnay walouN ki taadaad 18 -30/35 saal tak k jawaanouN ki bharee taddad hoti hai aur jo log iss omar say zeyadah k honay k bawajood aisee sargarmiyouN maiN molawwas hotay haiN, woh bhi inhi age range maiN jaraim ki dunya maiN enter howay hotay haiN....
4. kaha jata hai k 16-18 saalaah naujawaan ki to abhi taleem hi mokammal naheeN howee hoti, kuch kamanay khanay k qaabil bhi naheeN howa iski shadi kaisay kardi jayee.... yeh aik ghalat concept hai. 16 saal maiN laRka kam az kam matric karchuka hota hai aur college life maiN dakhil hochuka hota hai... yehi woh waqt hota hai jab woh 'ghar ki mahfooz dunya' say 'bahar ki ghair-mahfooz dunya' maiN qadam rakhta hai. aisay maiN agar oski shadi kar dijaye... aur taleem mokammal honay tak yani next 4-6 saal tak oska saara kharchah (taleem +family expenditure) oskay parents oThayaiN aur beshtar gharelu zimmah daariyaaN bhi parents khushi khushi share karaiN to woh azdawaji zindagi ki mosarratouN aur fikray mo'aash ki azaadi k saath zeyadah behtar andaaz maiN taleem hasil karsakta hai. aur behtar output day sakta hai. 4/6 saal tak parents par dependent rahnay k baad jab woh rozgaar start karega to oska pahla bacha /bachi school janay k qaabil hochuka hoga aur youN aik new family apnay apnay circle maiN enjoy kar rahi hogi.
5. ab rah gaya laRkiyouN ki education ka masla jo yaqeenan ghabeer hai ... 14 - 16 saal tak ki laRki under matric hi hoti hai.. matric k baad bhi oski shadi kardi jaye to woh 2-3 saal k baad agar chaahay to apni education dobarah continue karsakti hai..... haaN jo laRkiyaaN science parh kar doctor /engnr banna chhahti haiN onka thora saa masla hai aur woh bhi inter k result say saamnay aajaataa hai. jinhaiN medicine /engineering maiN addmission mil jata hai onhaiN to laazman shadi say qabal taleem mokammal karni chahiyeh aur during education hi engagement karkay exam detay hi do bol paRha dena chahiye
..... lekin aisee laRkiyouN ki tadaad ongliyouN par gini jasakti hai ... aam soortouN maiN matric warnah inter k baad to shahroun maiN bhi easily shadi ki jasakti hai....... baad maiN woh jetna paRhna chahay paRhay... apni family aur apni sahoolat k motabiq....
I am agreed with all of you.
It is one of the core issue for our society.Ager iss masley per ser hasil behas ker li jaey to bohat se masail ki nishandahi hosakti hey.
Good Post
It is one of the core issue for our society.Ager iss masley per ser hasil behas ker li jaey to bohat se masail ki nishandahi hosakti hey.
Good Post
QUOTE(~Saraj~ @ Sep 6 2006, 08:38 AM) [snapback]2176481[/snapback]
I am agreed with all of you.
It is one of the core issue for our society.Ager iss masley per ser hasil behas ker li jaey to bohat se masail ki nishandahi hosakti hey.
Good Post
Saraj bhai, zara faal tu nikalaiN kay iss topic per reply kyoN nahi aa rahay
QUOTE(Abu Adnan @ Sep 6 2006, 08:53 AM) [snapback]2176445[/snapback]
teri awaaz makkay aur madeenay
islam to jawan hotay hi shadi ko encourage karta hi hai.... awaailay jawani maiN shadi k mo'aa'sharti etnay fazail haiN k iska shumaar naheeN jaisay....
1. aisee shadi bil.amoom totally parents par 'dependant' hoti hai. onki marzi aur sponsorship say hoti hai. shadi shudah joray k dounouN parents active (not retired) hotay haiN jinki sarparasti, hadayat say aisee shadi ki naa.kaami ka imkaan nah honay k barabar hota hai.
2. jin 'parents' ki shadi awaa'il jawani maiN hoti hai woh apnay bachchouN k jawaan honay tak khud booRhay aur retired naheeN hotay k jawaan aulaad haath say nikal jaye yaa bigaR jaye. aisay parents retirements say qabl hi apnay bachchouN ki jumla zimmah daariyouN say bhi esily ohda bar aa hojatay haiN. ba nisbat onn boRhay waledain k jinki aulaad jawaan aur apnay paa'ouN par khaRi ho aur parents retired houN....
3. naujawaan ki agar jald shadi hojaye to aik to woh ekhlaqi boraiyyouN say buch jata hai, dossray bahood jald zimmah daar hota hai. 20 baras ka naujawan agar aik adad biwi aur 2/3 bachchouN ka baap ho to iski saari tawanaayee apni family ki support aur bhalayee per sarf honay lagti hai aur aisa naujawaan society maiN kissi bhi qism k evil cause k liyeh dastyaab hi naheeN hota..... aadaad o shumar say pata chalta hai k socviety maiN manfi kaarwaayee karnay walouN ki taadaad 18 -30/35 saal tak k jawaanouN ki bharee taddad hoti hai aur jo log iss omar say zeyadah k honay k bawajood aisee sargarmiyouN maiN molawwas hotay haiN, woh bhi inhi age range maiN jaraim ki dunya maiN enter howay hotay haiN....
4. kaha jata hai k 16-18 saalaah naujawaan ki to abhi taleem hi mokammal naheeN howee hoti, kuch kamanay khanay k qaabil bhi naheeN howa iski shadi kaisay kardi jayee.... yeh aik ghalat concept hai. 16 saal maiN laRka kam az kam matric karchuka hota hai aur college life maiN dakhil hochuka hota hai... yehi woh waqt hota hai jab woh 'ghar ki mahfooz dunya' say 'bahar ki ghair-mahfooz dunya' maiN qadam rakhta hai. aisay maiN agar oski shadi kar dijaye... aur taleem mokammal honay tak yani next 4-6 saal tak oska saara kharchah (taleem +family expenditure) oskay parents oThayaiN aur beshtar gharelu zimmah daariyaaN bhi parents khushi khushi share karaiN to woh azdawaji zindagi ki mosarratouN aur fikray mo'aash ki azaadi k saath zeyadah behtar andaaz maiN taleem hasil karsakta hai. aur behtar output day sakta hai. 4/6 saal tak parents par dependent rahnay k baad jab woh rozgaar start karega to oska pahla bacha /bachi school janay k qaabil hochuka hoga aur youN aik new family apnay apnay circle maiN enjoy kar rahi hogi.
5. ab rah gaya laRkiyouN ki education ka masla jo yaqeenan ghabeer hai ... 14 - 16 saal tak ki laRki under matric hi hoti hai.. matric k baad bhi oski shadi kardi jaye to woh 2-3 saal k baad agar chaahay to apni education dobarah continue karsakti hai..... haaN jo laRkiyaaN science parh kar doctor /engnr banna chhahti haiN onka thora saa masla hai aur woh bhi inter k result say saamnay aajaataa hai. jinhaiN medicine /engineering maiN addmission mil jata hai onhaiN to laazman shadi say qabal taleem mokammal karni chahiyeh aur during education hi engagement karkay exam detay hi do bol paRha dena chahiye
..... lekin aisee laRkiyouN ki tadaad ongliyouN par gini jasakti hai ... aam soortouN maiN matric warnah inter k baad to shahroun maiN bhi easily shadi ki jasakti hai....... baad maiN woh jetna paRhna chahay paRhay... apni family aur apni sahoolat k motabiq....[/color] bohat khooooooob
main is topic main ki gayi sab repl;ies ko aik article ki shakal main URDU main likhoon ga, or us main zada hissa aap ka ho ga I guess.
Your reasons are totally valid.. i luuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuv it.
QUOTE(silenteyes @ Sep 7 2006, 01:04 AM) [snapback]2176869[/snapback]
bohat khooooooob
main is topic main ki gayi sab repl;ies ko aik article ki shakal main URDU main likhoon ga, or us main zada hissa aap ka ho ga I guess.
Your reasons are totally valid.. i luuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuv it.
aap baRa naik kaam karengay bhai... Allah jaza khair day... ab hamaiN late marriage ki maujoodah rawish ko tabdeel karnay k liyeh qadam oThana hi hoga.
Jazak Allah
QUOTE(Abu Adnan @ Sep 7 2006, 08:19 AM) [snapback]2176912[/snapback]
aap baRa naik kaam karengay bhai... Allah jaza khair day... ab hamaiN late marriage ki maujoodah rawish ko tabdeel karnay k liyeh qadam oThana hi hoga.
Jazak Allah
Lagta hey Khan Amer aur Saraj ko ab jald hi achi khaber sunana parey gi...
QUOTE(khan_amer @ Sep 6 2006, 10:36 PM) [snapback]2176831[/snapback]
Saraj bhai, zara faal tu nikalaiN kay iss topic per reply kyoN nahi aa rahay
Bulata hon Abduallah Bhai aur usuf bhai ko
Suna hey shadi shuda hazrat faal achi nikaltey heyn
Assalam o Alaikum
Hazraat o Mastoorat .. hum yahan no-waarid hain .. is forum per hamein koi welcoming topic nazar nahi aaya warna wahan apna tarruf paish kar detey ..
baher kaif .. tarrufi nashist kabhi aur sahi .. filhaal mozoo per aatey hain ..
ap hazraat k khayalaat jaan kar dili musarrat hui
yeh hamarey dil ki awaz hai jinhain ap hazraat ne alfaaz k qaalib main dhaal diya hai .. is mozoo per Abu Adnan sahab ne is qadar tafseel se roshni daali hai k ab kehney k liye kam hi batein reh gai hain ..
bahar haal hum aap sab ki raye se sad fisad ittafaq kartey hain .. [font=Georgia][color=#009900]
QUOTE(kh@lifa @ Sep 7 2006, 07:57 AM) [snapback]2176971[/snapback]
Assalam o Alaikum
Hazraat o Mastoorat .. hum yahan no-waarid hain .. is forum per hamein koi welcoming topic nazar nahi aaya warna wahan apna tarruf paish kar detey ..
baher kaif .. tarrufi nashist kabhi aur sahi .. filhaal mozoo per aatey hain ..
wa leikum salaam !!
welcome tu hum aapko ker hi chukay hain
ussi New members section meen..
aik post hai Introduce youself
uss meen apna introduction de saktay hain
ya phir jahan welcome kya gaya hai aapko wahan bhi apna tarruf kerwain
QUOTE(*Kainaat* @ Sep 8 2006, 06:52 PM) [snapback]2177434[/snapback]
wa leikum salaam !!
welcome tu hum aapko ker hi chukay hain
ussi New members section meen..
aik post hai Introduce youself
uss meen apna introduction de saktay hain
ya phir jahan welcome kya gaya hai aapko wahan bhi apna tarruf kerwain
sar-e-tasleem-e-kham hai jo mizaaj-e-yaar main aaye
if we really follow the Islam people will be responsible enough even in the age of 15-17 as we have an example of Mohammad Bin Qasim and for sure there are so many which could not be highlighted or beyond our information...
If people are not getting mature even in the age of 16-17, it’s because of their own will has nothing to do with their capabilities...
We actually keep our kids in dramatically fanaticized atmosphere till the age of 22-23 and after that at one start changing our attitudes to make them feel that they should rap up things without no time... This kind of sudden pressure push most of kids to take some short term decision which at the end result in destruction in their personalities as well their faith...
If a person knows about Islam & read Quran with Tafseer for sure will get mature & responsible in the age of 16, its because the broader vision of Islam's teachings..
If people are not getting mature even in the age of 16-17, it’s because of their own will has nothing to do with their capabilities...
We actually keep our kids in dramatically fanaticized atmosphere till the age of 22-23 and after that at one start changing our attitudes to make them feel that they should rap up things without no time... This kind of sudden pressure push most of kids to take some short term decision which at the end result in destruction in their personalities as well their faith...
If a person knows about Islam & read Quran with Tafseer for sure will get mature & responsible in the age of 16, its because the broader vision of Islam's teachings..
Well well...islam tu aik mukamil zabta-e-hayat hai........
but have a look on our society..peoples do want to marry their childerns as soon as possible..but there are lots of socio- ecnomical problem they have to face....so they get late to follow the rule of islam....
well agar app dekho tu mature honay par shadi na hona hii vulgarity ki waja nahi hai....bohat say married loog are indulge in bad habbits.....khair burai kay aur bi bohat say resons hotay hein....
in my opinion the best thing,parents can give to their children is"ACHI TARBIAT"
but have a look on our society..peoples do want to marry their childerns as soon as possible..but there are lots of socio- ecnomical problem they have to face....so they get late to follow the rule of islam....
well agar app dekho tu mature honay par shadi na hona hii vulgarity ki waja nahi hai....bohat say married loog are indulge in bad habbits.....khair burai kay aur bi bohat say resons hotay hein....
in my opinion the best thing,parents can give to their children is"ACHI TARBIAT"
aap nay likha "bohat say married ppl are indulged in bad habbits"
off course they are. but not ALL. and not ALL un-married ppl are safe from bad habbit but this number can be more reduced by getting them married in early ages. (as explained above)
off course they are. but not ALL. and not ALL un-married ppl are safe from bad habbit but this number can be more reduced by getting them married in early ages. (as explained above)
I think married people are more corrupt / frustrated then unmarried. Besides, in today's advance society it's crucial that girls get educated (despite the fact that they want to work or not). In coming years developed nations are going to be even more stronger, who is going to fight and keep the pace? Ma'on say komain banti hain ! With marriage comes loads of responsibilities and continuing with education after marriage is next to immposible.
Kehtay hain poranay waktoon may ye nahi hota tha wo nahi hota tha. Politics and prostitution are world's oldest recorded professions, it's just that then it was all behind the veil; lacked exposure. With new technology and exposure every thing is out in open, like a slap on the face. forexample DNA testing was not possible in old times, authentic news channels, statistics so on and so forth were not there.
Regards,
-Shokh
Kehtay hain poranay waktoon may ye nahi hota tha wo nahi hota tha. Politics and prostitution are world's oldest recorded professions, it's just that then it was all behind the veil; lacked exposure. With new technology and exposure every thing is out in open, like a slap on the face. forexample DNA testing was not possible in old times, authentic news channels, statistics so on and so forth were not there.
Regards,
-Shokh
QUOTE(Shokh @ Sep 15 2006, 09:56 AM) [snapback]2179744[/snapback]
I think married people are more corrupt / frustrated then unmarried.
Regards,
-Shokh
saree baatien filhaal aik tarf kartay hein sab se pehlay yeh baat kay married logON ki frustration ka bayas kya chese hay?
abhi sirg itna kehna chahongi kay mein is post se 100% agree karti hon..saree batoN ki aik baat jab bhi aap deen kay khilaaf chalo gay toh aik nahi hazaar muskilein janam lein gay aur woh frustration ka bayas banay gi...
QUOTE(Abu Adnan @ Sep 6 2006, 05:53 AM) [snapback]2176445[/snapback]
4. kaha jata hai k 16-18 saalaah naujawaan ki to abhi taleem hi mokammal naheeN howee hoti, kuch kamanay khanay k qaabil bhi naheeN howa iski shadi kaisay kardi jayee.... yeh aik ghalat concept hai. 16 saal maiN laRka kam az kam matric karchuka hota hai aur college life maiN dakhil hochuka hota hai... yehi woh waqt hota hai jab woh 'ghar ki mahfooz dunya' say 'bahar ki ghair-mahfooz dunya' maiN qadam rakhta hai. aisay maiN agar oski shadi kar dijaye... aur taleem mokammal honay tak yani next 4-6 saal tak oska saara kharchah (taleem +family expenditure) oskay parents oThayaiN aur beshtar gharelu zimmah daariyaaN bhi parents khushi khushi share karaiN to woh azdawaji zindagi ki mosarratouN aur fikray mo'aash ki azaadi k saath zeyadah behtar andaaz maiN taleem hasil karsakta hai. aur behtar output day sakta hai. 4/6 saal tak parents par dependent rahnay k baad jab woh rozgaar start karega to oska pahla bacha /bachi school janay k qaabil hochuka hoga aur youN aik new family apnay apnay circle maiN enjoy kar rahi hogi.
5. ab rah gaya laRkiyouN ki education ka masla jo yaqeenan ghabeer hai ... 14 - 16 saal tak ki laRki under matric hi hoti hai.. matric k baad bhi oski shadi kardi jaye to woh 2-3 saal k baad agar chaahay to apni education dobarah continue karsakti hai..... haaN jo laRkiyaaN science parh kar doctor /engnr banna chhahti haiN onka thora saa masla hai aur woh bhi inter k result say saamnay aajaataa hai. jinhaiN medicine /engineering maiN addmission mil jata hai onhaiN to laazman shadi say qabal taleem mokammal karni chahiyeh aur during education hi engagement karkay exam detay hi do bol paRha dena chahiye
..... lekin aisee laRkiyouN ki tadaad ongliyouN par gini jasakti hai ... aam soortouN maiN matric warnah inter k baad to shahroun maiN bhi easily shadi ki jasakti hai....... baad maiN woh jetna paRhna chahay paRhay... apni family aur apni sahoolat k motabiq....[/color]Ma aik esay couple ko janti hoon. Larka 18 ka tha aur larki 16 ki jab unki shadi hoi. Wo loog join-family may rehtay hain.
Shadi kay baad unki do baitiaan hain. Larka suba uth kar pehlay betioon ko school chornay jata hay, phir begham ko phir khud. Sham ko job karta hay. Begham sham ko bachay aur khanadari sambhalti hay. Raat tak un dono ka thankawat kay sath bura haal hota hay. Apkay khiyal may kia unkay pass aik dosaray kay liye koi time hay? Jo thora bohat time hota bhi hoga to wo bachoon kay sath guzartay hoon gay. Lakin itna thora time kia bachoon kay liye kafi hay? Jab apkay pass aik dosaray kay liye quality time nahi aur zindagi aik constant struggle ho to insaan khij jata hay. Rishtoon may na chahtay howay bhi tanao ah jata hay.Kia aik asa khandaan mustabil may aik khush'hal khandan baan sakta hay?
Maa baap ko baki kay bachay bhi palnay hain aur wo apnay shadi shuda bachoon ko kab tak aur kahan tak support karain gay? Ye zaroori nahi kay har khandaan ye saab afford kar sakta ho. As per statistics hamaray mulk saab say bara halka lower class aur lower middle class ka hay. Aur East may aksar mumalik underdeveloped hain.
We shouldn't underestimate financial pressure and stress !
Regards
-Shokh
QUOTE(sahera @ Sep 15 2006, 12:17 PM) [snapback]2179751[/snapback]
saree baatien filhaal aik tarf kartay hein sab se pehlay yeh baat kay married logON ki frustration ka bayas kya chese hay?
Lack of quality time, stress, financial pressure, expectations lead to frustration. When there is no time there is only misunderstanding thus leading to other attractions which are more accomodating then life at home.
QUOTE(sahera @ Sep 15 2006, 12:17 PM) [snapback]2179751[/snapback]
saree batoN ki aik baat jab bhi aap deen kay khilaaf chalo gay toh aik nahi hazaar muskilein janam lein gay aur woh frustration ka bayas banay gi...
Now here is a very extreme approach. No body is talking about going against Deen. Let me shed some light here. In Deen, somethings are 'farz' some are 'makroo' and some are there to just set an example how things were done then n there.
With respect to Deen, early marriage is neither compulsory nor marriage at later age is forbidden but yes early marriage is favourable but then again Deen kay hisab say to taleem is also favourable. So where do you strike the balance?
akhir jaldi shaadi main harjj hi kiya hai...
QUOTE(silenteyes @ Sep 16 2006, 09:22 AM) [snapback]2180089[/snapback]
akhir jaldi shaadi main harjj hi kiya hai...
ji harj to koi nahi hai.....lekin bohat si aur problems bi hoti hein jo parent ko apnay bachoo'n ki jalidi shadi mein rakawat banti hein......like achay rishtay,jahez,etc not gonna in detail...
if i am not wrong..about 70% peoples are facing these problem...so these peoplse are automatically unable to follow the rule of islam......
Yeah post ruk kuy gaye?
Although the point raised was valid, we should consider few things first...
Aajkal ladkay itnay zimadaar nahin hotay jitnay pehle hotay thay. Agar hum history mein dekhein to people like Muhammad b Qasim, jinhon ne intni thori umar mein buhut kuch kiya... Kya aajkal aisay ladkay mill saktay hein???? Agar hoon to unki shaadi bhi jaldi ho sakti hai... Hamaray dor ke ladkay baday hi nahin hotay shaadi kaise hogi????
But i still agree to early marriage... koi meri ammi ko raazi karay bhai.... ;)
Aajkal ladkay itnay zimadaar nahin hotay jitnay pehle hotay thay. Agar hum history mein dekhein to people like Muhammad b Qasim, jinhon ne intni thori umar mein buhut kuch kiya... Kya aajkal aisay ladkay mill saktay hein???? Agar hoon to unki shaadi bhi jaldi ho sakti hai... Hamaray dor ke ladkay baday hi nahin hotay shaadi kaise hogi????
But i still agree to early marriage... koi meri ammi ko raazi karay bhai.... ;)
QUOTE(KHAL NAYAK @ Sep 19 2006, 10:37 AM) [snapback]2181009[/snapback]
Yeah post ruk kuy gaye?
aap jo ruk gaye....
aagay baRho... himmatay mardaaN madaday khoda
kiya khiyal hai... kuch or discussion na ho jaye is topic par ... 
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