hmmm....

Impressive & Effective !!

Thanks for sharing.

bilkul sahi kaha aap nay ... waqaye aaj kal her gali muhallay ki yehi kahani hai
K abhi shadi nahi kerain gay pehlay perh likh to lain ... aur lerkay ki shadi is wajah say rokay rekhtay hain k abhi apnay paon per khara ho jaye ... set ho janay dain ... phir kerain gay shadi ... chahay umer nikal jaye

amooman parents (n brothers 2) bhi pahlay daughters ki shadi karna chaahtay haiN....... lekin agar saaray parents yehi sochengay to phir inki laRkiyouN ki shadi hogi kiss k saath.

shadiyouN k mausam maiN social studies ki class maiN aik teacher nay kaha k ajkal jidhar dekho shadiyaaN hi shadi yaaN horahi haiN... nadeem tum batayo k aajkal shadiyaaN laRkouN ki zeyadah horahi haiN yaa laRkiyouN ki ... nadeem nay apnay mohallay maiN honay wali shadiyouN ka hissab laga kar jawaab dia ... sir laRkiyouN ki ... aur poori class maiN qah.qaha gonj oTha....

shukriya AA bhai
bahot acchee post hai

bohat he achi sharing hai aap ke

thanks

Allah asay waldain ko samaj ata fermaay

ameen

hum looG hur jagha loGIC lay kar beth jatay hien jo mazhab kehta hay usay TOH DUr hi KAR DETAY HEIn....KOi yeh kehta hay jaldi ki shadi nahi honi chahiye....miyan bv kay pass aik dosaray kay lye time nahi hota frustrated life guzarti hay aur kahi maa baap ko parwa nahi hoti....

IN LOGICAL THIKING waloN se jo yeh soochtay hien kay pehlay parH leiN achi nokari dhondh lein....ghar bana lein se aik SAWAL HAY.

SUPPOSE....25 yrs toh aaram se aap ko achi education letay lag jatay hien....oper se IT ka dUR hay hur roz new TECH NEW EDU....aur phir achi joB kay lye kum az kum 3 yrs ka exp chalay 28 yrs .....phir ghar ka masalaa shadi kay akhraajaaat aur job kay baad achi position tak pohanchnay ki CHAH.....ZAYADA NAHI TOH 32-33 yrs ki age hojati hay....AB JANAB E WALA AISI larki DHONDHAY gay jo parhi likhi ho khoobsoorat bhi aur JOb bhi karti ho...chalay woh mil BHI JAYE GI.......

AUR pHIR woh frustratioN PERIOD start hojaye ga ....ab bachay hoNGAY....JIN statistics par humari qoum chalti hay...aaj KAL AVG age kya hay aik banday hardly 50 yrs..... 35 ki age mein bachay hongay.....woh bamushkil 15-20 yrs kay hongay toh walidaan ya toh ghutanoo ki beemari mein mubtala hongay ya phir is dunia se kooCH kar jaye gay........koi inse pochay KAY BACHON KO PHIR KIS KAY HUWALAY KAR KAY jaye gay? WOH WAQT JAB BACHON ki practical life mein kadam rakhnay ka hota hay....AUR ABHI TOH USNAY KHA KAR hi palna hay.....kabhi kisi nay is kay baray mein soocha hay?

ab yaHAN par aksar looG keh detay hien palNAY WALA ALLAH hay....toh yakeenan hay.....tOH JO shadi kay ehkamaaT TAB US PAR ALLAH ka hukam kahaN CHALA JATA HAY...

MAINE ITNA SEEKHA HAY jANNAT HASIL KARNA jitna asaan aurtON kay lye hay mardoN kay lye nahi.......aur yeh bhi sach hay kay dozakh aurtON se bharee hogi.......AAJ yeh khawateen daftarON ki zeenat bananay kay bajaye ghAR BETH jaye na toh sab thik hojaye.....NA PVT idaray aurtoN ko tarjeeh dein ..... aur na ITNI KUM SALARIES hoN....mARD HAZRAAT APNAY TALENT KI BUNAYAD PAR POORA POORA HAQ LAY saKTAY hien.......magar in aurtON ko kon samjhaye.....

hmm sahi kaha aap nay

Joke bohat acha aur moqay per sunaya aap nay GoOod!!

kia haibat naak manzar hai... LATE MARRIAGES ahday jadeed ka woh samaji cancer hai, jo hamaiN tabahi o barbaadi ki taraf lay jaraha hai aur hamaiN iska ehsaas tak naheeN. issi topic par qabl azeeN bhi kabhi tafseeli bahas hochuki hai. dekhiyeh:

Rule About Marriages by silenteyes

Jazak allah sahera n thanx for ur valuable comments. Allah hum sab ko aqlay saleem ata karay aur islamic taaleemaat par amal karnay ki taufeeq day. aameen.

jee bahi maine yeh post dekhi thi.....aur us mein kuch na kuch share bhi karna chaha magar loGIC par chalnay walay loGoN ki apni daleelein tHI...meri kahaN koi sunta isliye khamosh rahi.....itni se baat bhi nahi samjhtay looG rISq toh utna hi milna hay jitna naseeb mein likha hay aur risq denay ka zimay toh ALLAH ka hay...yeh baat nahi kay koi kamaye na...kamatay toh kafir bhi hien..shadiyan toh woh bhi kartay hien...bachon ko taleem toh woh bhi dilwatay hien.......toh phir hum musalmanoo aur kafiroN mein farq kya hay?

muslamaaan aur kafir mein FARK hi yeh hay kay woh apni fikarON ki bunayaad par chalta hay jis ko dosaray lafzooN mein LOGIC kahan jata hay......aur musalamaaN NABI SAW kay bataye hoye deen kay mutabik.....

sahee-ghalat ho behtar-behtareen ho yaa bad-bad.tareen .... nah sirf har 2 aqsaam ki khoobiyaaN taa qayamat iss dunya maiN maujood rahengeeN balkay inn dounouN k haami aur alambar daar bhi. hamaiN sirf yeh dekhna chahiyeh k hum har moqa mahal par kiss qataar maiN khaRay haiN, kiss baat ki hamayat kartay haiN aur kiss baat par amal kartay haiN .... yehi hamari (bil.aakhir) kaam.yaabi aur naa.kaami kaa sabab banta hai.

hamaiN apnay say motasadam views say nah to pareeshaan hona chahiyeh nah mayoos... apni jehday mosal.sal jari rakhni chiyeh....

Jazak'Allah

Very true